so mad about hubby

[Siham 0]

i always ask him to send me some papers : photocopy of his passport to show the CO how many entries he did , asking him when ill call dr to get an appointement letter , he said until november ( my interview is on november 16 ) , i scream , why does he have a cold blood !!!! its me who"s always stressing , always asking , always starting a subject ...

he's sure about himself that the interview wont be failed because having a son together is the best approvel of our relation !!!

dont know what to do

[Jamaican JNR 2]

i always ask him to send me some papers : photocopy of his passport to show the CO how many entries he did , asking him when ill call dr to get an appointement letter , he said until november ( my interview is on november 16 ) , i scream , why does he have a cold blood !!!! its me who"s always stressing , always asking , always starting a subject ...

he's sure about himself that the interview wont be failed because having a son together is the best approvel of our relation !!!

dont know what to do

Tell him that you would like the following documents before the interview date ASAP. Let him know that even tho you have a child with him, they are still going to look at other documents.

[Kalina D 0]

sounds sooo much like my husband but all we can do is keep getting stressed, yell at them, cry, beg until it's all over and done

[Siham 0]

Jamaican NR , im done with this subject , i promised myself that'll never talk about , i dont care about interview anymore , if i fail its gonna be his problem !!!

hehe Kelina , already done that , but i cant understand him , i even told him that he doesnt love me anymore and he started laughing !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

[VN10 0]

Hi, dont be mad, trust your husband, he just laugh but he will send to you soon. Take care yourself....and relax before interview, ok. Good luck !

[Siham 0]

i do trust him,but he taking everthing easily !! why im worried ? God will do what he wants !

please pray for me and myson!!

[brnidokiegurl 0]

having a child has no influence at interview

[Siham 0]

what do u mean

[MsSheka 0]

a child is evidence of bona fide marriage but you still need the required docs or they will BLUE SLIP you, do not worry my hubby gets all layed back sometimes i just want to set off some fireworks under his butt so he can pick up some speed

[brnidokiegurl 0]

a child is evidence of bona fide marriage but you still need the required docs or they will BLUE SLIP you, do not worry my hubby gets all layed back sometimes i just want to set off some fireworks under his butt so he can pick up some speed

sorry a child to them is evidence two people had relations (now which two) that might be a question to some and has been seen on here in the past..dont get me wrong not saying this is your case by no means or way, just saying it has happened.

[Rezak and Sharon 0]

u dont need a photocopy of his passport coz they will have it already .. they will have all the evidence he sent to The Immigration office whe he filed ... u need to have ur Medical exams 2weeks befor the Interview that is what they say ... calm down and dont be soo stress out coz that may wont be good for you.. take the evidence that u have and be Brave .. and if you snooze u lose..

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

what do u mean

What she measn is you better have a lot more than a child together to prove a bonafide relationship. Having had sex doesn't prove anything.

[MsSheka 0]

what do u mean

What she measn is you better have a lot more than a child together to prove a bonafide relationship. Having had sex doesn't prove anything.

Guys come on give her some positive advice...sinad just be sure you have all the required info my dear do not worry most people get nervous and they choke up at the interveiw and have sudden amnesia just stay positive and you know that your relationship is true just be sure you prove that to the CO you are in my prayers my dear keep the faith and OMIT all negative comments

[ao_cons 1]

If you mean entry stamps on his passport to show often he visited you, yes it's a good idea to have that in case they ask. Can't he just scan and email you a copy if it's faster than mailing it?

Other thing you can do is show other proofs of the visits, like pictures taken in different times.

You can get the medical exam even without appointment letter. Ask the hospital. Make sure it's the one approved by the embassy. They never asked us for a letter. Med exam is a breeze, no worries.

Stay cool. Even if what you bring is insuifficient evidence, they won't reject you outright. They might just ask you to come back with the needed docs, if any. So then you can stuff it in your hubby's face and still have another shot at it.

Cheer up, it will be okay!

[Anh map 2,098]

The VJ Guides recommend having a complete copy of all documents at the interview in case something gets lost in transit or at the consulate. Preparing for any foreseeable RFE problem just makes sense. Why have a delay because something that the petitioner or beneficiary already possess is missing from their file?

In my opinion the OP is wanting to be well prepared for her interview and the USC spouse is relying on the "we have a child" defense when things don't go well and RFE's are issued. Research on VJ will prove that well prepared cases are likely to be successful.