Thank you GOD...is finally OVER !!!!!!

[ChuckandRhean 0]

First....

I need to thank you GOD for answering my prayer so quickly...since I have prayed to you last night...

and please forgive me any time I ever doubt your existence. Now Please give me strength to FORGET and FORGIVE others that have caused pain, since I am not a perfect person eitheir. I thank you GOD the time I was able to spend with her, bless our souls since we are not perfect and heal our hearts so we can find peace. Amen

Second....

To all VJ friends....

This will be my last post under this name.

Moderators can you please allow to change my screen name? Thank you.

This has been one of the saddest day of my life.....next to my divorce years ago....

Finally, finally, the TRUTH has finally come out and there is NO POSSIBLE way to get this her here......under any shape or form.

I will NOT go into any details for many reasons....

I just pray GOD that gives me strength to FORGIVE....I may never forget...

what a roller coaster this journey has been...

A word of advice from someone who has learned the hard way....

Hire a local private detective before engaging in any long distance relationship......

Ask for the documents required by the embassy,

have the "originals" mailed to you so you can see with your own eyes...

before you even starting any process...K1, IR/CR1 or what ever that may be.

Will save your self heartaches and money too....

God Bless you all...

May our dear Lord give you the strength to move on.. and bless u the true love and happiness u deserve. You'll be in my prayers...

[Mina76 0]

Be strong dear, things will get better for you!

GOD Bless

First....

I need to thank you GOD for answering my prayer so quickly...since I have prayed to you last night...

and please forgive me any time I ever doubt your existence. Now Please give me strength to FORGET and FORGIVE others that have caused pain, since I am not a perfect person eitheir. I thank you GOD the time I was able to spend with her, bless our souls since we are not perfect and heal our hearts so we can find peace. Amen

Second....

To all VJ friends....

This will be my last post under this name.

Moderators can you please allow to change my screen name? Thank you.

This has been one of the saddest day of my life.....next to my divorce years ago....

Finally, finally, the TRUTH has finally come out and there is NO POSSIBLE way to get this her here......under any shape or form.

I will NOT go into any details for many reasons....

I just pray GOD that gives me strength to FORGIVE....I may never forget...

what a roller coaster this journey has been...

A word of advice from someone who has learned the hard way....

Hire a local private detective before engaging in any long distance relationship......

Ask for the documents required by the embassy,

have the "originals" mailed to you so you can see with your own eyes...

before you even starting any process...K1, IR/CR1 or what ever that may be.

Will save your self heartaches and money too....

God Bless you all...

[o0pink0o 3]

May God bless you

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

:( just sad its a pinay again.. strike!!!!!

It can happen in ANY countries.......not just PINAY.... I just been around this forum since mine was from RP.

I have no HARD feeling for PINAYs or any other nationality for that matter....sadness yes....

It will be really hard for the next person to gain my trust...if i do ever meet someone else again....far in the future.

I can't blame you if you do.....but that will be a BIG Challenge for the next woman...but it would be worth the wait too!!

There is so many people praying for you EROS (im one of those)....and I know everything will all be okay......

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

so many VJ have been asking privately what happen?

You will be able to draw you own conclusions.....maybe

Relationships (of any type, not just romance !) are built on trust.

Trust is the most sacred and fundamental part of the relationship....

here are some quote;

“Trust is like a vase.. once it's broken, though you can fix it the vase will never be same again.”

“To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved.” (how true this is !!!)

My last word to the other person was;

"

I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you....anymore!!!!!!

"

If the TRUTH would have been told in the beginning of a relationship,

most of the problems could have been fixed...some would have required a little extra time, but overall i am confident that now (after 3 years) she will be doing the CFO seminar now and be on the plane to US before THANKSGIVING.....

My paperwork was perfect....following the VJ guideline, was even complimented how organized it was from the petitioner.

Even the POLICE certificate ( from the other country !!!!!) was fine too...

another lie

because could not get the courage to tell me the "right reason" for denial.

Now you have draw you own conclusions here;

How many documents does the FIANCE has to prepare in the Philippines and what they are?

to save yourselves...heartache and money

A word of advice from someone who has learned the hard way....

Hire a TRUSTED local private investigator before engaging in any long distance relationship......

Ask for the documents required by the embassy beforehand,

have the "originals" mailed to you so you can see with your own eyes...

before you even starting any process...K1, IR/CR1 or what ever that may be.

My point is that trust has been lost....

no longer matter if 2 , 10, 100 lies... sooner or later those lies will come to surface with their ugly head

[edp333 9]

I can relate to the trust issue. It is not easy to forgive once the trust has been lost. Maybe this will help:

Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Till seven times? Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, until seven times: but, until seventy times seven" (Matthew 18:21-22)

[SuperDuper! 230]

Eros, sorry for your loss, but better to find out a person's true nature sooner, rather than later in the VJ process.

You are in good company with those of us who had the woman deceive us up until the embassy interview process, and then even shortly after she makes it to the US. So try to find the positives and blessings in finding out her true colors now. Cut your losses, and seek foreign love again when your heart is ready.

[taj'samericanwife 0]

what exactly was the problem? she lied about which part?

[marklovetina 52]

what exactly was the problem? she lied about which part?

yep which part..?

[taj'samericanwife 0]

but if he doesnt want to go into detail that is his personal life and privacy too. anyway if she kept lying and lying, the iinconsistencies with the stories always turn up and people who lie always get caught

[Willow2009 0]

but if he doesnt want to go into detail that is his personal life and privacy too. anyway if she kept lying and lying, the iinconsistencies with the stories always turn up and people who lie always get caught

Surround yourself with good friends and a good inspirational book and most of all allow yourself to feel angry, dissapointed, and sad. You have the right to be!

[abbielovesjeremy 5]

i am so sad for you but keep your head up. be strong.

"Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit."

- Napoleon Hill

[Lancelotte25 1]

With your words I can tell that you found something about your fiance. This might be a personal thing and we don't have the right to ask about this thing.

I hope everything will be alright..

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

With your words I can tell that you found something about your fiance. This might be a personal thing and we don't have the right to ask about this thing.

I hope everything will be alright..

Yes.....lancelotte

It a personal thing and it cannot be shared.....unfortunately.

If it was not PERSONAL, i would have shared it already.....

I am trying to find some humor here and joke about it.....so please understand my current state of mind....below.

All I can tell you that the next person....

she will be investigated and PROBED..... in places she don't even know she had...LOL

[bowlers in MI 0]

friend,

you are in our prayers.

mike and riza