NVC October 2009 edition

[hindocha 0]

I appreciate your "trying" humour. I think people on this topic as just anxious about receiving a interview date. Not having a dig at you, no offence, but I don't think we'll find anything funny, until that interview date, hopefully it will be scheduled very soon, imminent date please!

[david'sgirl 134]

I appreciate your "trying" humour. I think people on this topic as just anxious about receiving a interview date. Not having a dig at you, no offence, but I don't think we'll find anything funny, until that interview date, hopefully it will be scheduled very soon, imminent date please!

We are waiting too and I am not a patient woman. My husband had made a joke and I was playing along trying to lighten the mood.

I had been finding it helpful to come on here and share a laugh and get some support from people in the same boat.

Since Ms.Sheka left the tone of the group is all doom and gloom and stress. Some days I am more stressed after reading all the posts than I was when I started. I've ended up answering most of my own questions since they are often ignored.

I did not think being humorous was inappropriate and I didnt realise everyone wanted to keep things somber and serious.

Sorry

[scotinmass 588]

Still for Interview Date, c'mon, please!

Still waiting for Interview Date, c'mon, please!

It seems that London is one of the slowest consulates so our wait might be a long one!

[scotinmass 588]

I appreciate your "trying" humour. I think people on this topic as just anxious about receiving a interview date. Not having a dig at you, no offence, but I don't think we'll find anything funny, until that interview date, hopefully it will be scheduled very soon, imminent date please!

We are waiting too and I am not a patient woman. My husband had made a joke and I was playing along trying to lighten the mood.

I had been finding it helpful to come on here and share a laugh and get some support from people in the same boat.

Since Ms.Sheka left the tone of the group is all doom and gloom and stress. Some days I am more stressed after reading all the posts than I was when I started. I've ended up answering most of my own questions since they are often ignored.

I did not think being humorous was inappropriate and I didnt realise everyone wanted to keep things somber and serious.

Sorry

Yeah some people really need to lighten up. It used to be good coming here and sharing a joke and keeping each other's spirits up but not anymore. You may not think you are having a dig at my wife but it sure seems like it to me. If you are a misery guts and don't like people posting light hearted comments then don't read them and keep your opinion to yourself!

[hindocha 0]

scotinmass - mate don't be so damn sensitive.

"Not having a dig at you, no offence, "

Pardon me!? I'm not being a misery guts, pal! Like everyone on this forum, we are all trying to reunite with loved ones. Maybe the joke just wasn't funny! Have you ever thought that. I think you need to re-read my reply. You will soon read: humour was appropriated, mate!

If you are un-happy with the forum, I suggest you buy a domain name and set up a site that satisfies your needs.

There#s nothing in my reply that states being humours is in appropriate again, read again

[hindocha 0]

Apologies - IF I offended anyone.

This is a anxious time.

[scotinmass 588]

scotinmass - mate don't be so damn sensitive.

"Not having a dig at you, no offence, "

Pardon me!? I'm not being a misery guts, pal! Like everyone on this forum, we are all trying to reunite with loved ones. Maybe the joke just wasn't funny! Have you ever thought that. I think you need to re-read my reply. You will soon read: humour was appropriated, mate!

If you are un-happy with the forum, I suggest you buy a domain name and set up a site that satisfies your needs.

There#s nothing in my reply that states being humours is in appropriate again, read again

I've read a lot of stuff that I didn't find funny "mate" but I didn't feel the urge to tell people that they shouldn't have written it. I just don't laugh "pal" and move on! So if I don't like your rules (who the f*** made you God?) I've to leave this forum and start my own? #######?!!!

[Twisted K 2]

can't we all just get along? sounds like the tensions are high. we are all in the same boat together. no need for bickering, especially in the upper forums. cap'n ewok has specifically said to leave those to the off topic discussions.

[bquillera30 0]

i have a question my iv bill shows paid already but in my bank there still 400 dollars ,has this happened to anyone ?

[hindocha 0]

scotinmass - talk about escalation. But, I have apologised for any offence. It's finished from my end. I agree we are all in the same boat

Apologies - IF I offended anyone.

This is a anxious time.

[Twisted K 2]

i have a question my iv bill shows paid already but in my bank there still 400 dollars ,has this happened to anyone ?

have you tried contacting your customer service at the bank? maybe they just are lagging behind in entering the payment. i know my bank shows "pending" then a day or two, it goes through.

[bquillera30 0]

it doesnt show pending

[hindocha 0]

Payment is showing up as paid, sent in all documents and AOS

[bquillera30 0]

theres transactions i did over the weekend and that shows pending but not my 400 which is strange

[david'sgirl 134]

scotinmass - talk about escalation. But, I have apologised for any offence. It's finished from my end. I agree we are all in the same boat

Apologies - IF I offended anyone.

This is a anxious time.

I was not going to say anything else but I feel like I must step back in at this point.

Since I joined in May most of the people we have posted with have been nice and a lot seemed to enjoy the banter and joking.

As I said, I was responding to my huisband's earlier post and joking with him. Maybe it should have been a pm but I didnt know saying cheerleeders would get my wrist slapped.

You said you were not having a dig at me which is not true. Usually when a person feels the need to say I am not having a go or a dig at you it is because they intend to do just that.

This was a supportive, informative forum and I really liked it. I was on here every day. I thought it was a great group of people. I am upset. I feel like you owe me an apology. Not a generic "If you offended anyone". Duh, of course I am ioffended. I have so much steress in my life now and this was a place I went for some support and a bit of respite from it. Waiting to be with my husband is hell. My hubby was trying to defend me cos he could see how you spoke to me. I do not see where he escalated it anymore than you did.

If I am not liked or wanted then I will just go away. I thought we had made friends here. I dont know you. I've never spoken to you. So why make your initial contact with me a negative one? It says a lot to me about the kind of person you are inside. I am cconvinced what goes around comes around. So I try to be nice. I wish you would do the same.

theres transactions i did over the weekend and that shows pending but not my 400 which is strange

Do you have online banking? I confirmed my payments on banks site.

can't we all just get along? sounds like the tensions are high. we are all in the same boat together. no need for bickering, especially in the upper forums. cap'n ewok has specifically said to leave those to the off topic discussions.

I dont know what uppe forums means.

Read my post. I was not bickering. I had been replying to my husband and got told off. he then came to my defense. I've never had a problem with anyone. ERead anything I have ever posted.