***HELP MEE*** I HAD A BABY OUT OF WEDLOCK..I´M WAITING IR1 IN MY COUNTRY

[anamyle777 0]

I'm in a serious problem, my hubby is USC, I'm waiting for waiver for having lived illegally in U.S., I am living in Peru 4 years but these years I had a baby out of wedlock, my question is: Can I hope request for my baby or my husband can testify him as his son. He has forgiven me and is willing to do it for love of me and blame for having let alone all these years, help me please, `I can provide proof that my husband was in my country before become pregnant and have declared my son with his surname for to get his birth certificate, Can I derive my residence to my baby or my husband can do it??, I think that maybe Embassy request me DNA ??? ...my baby has 3 years old.

thanks a lot

Anamyle

[Bobby+Umit 161]

They will most likely request DNA tests.

So don't lie to them, as you will not get any help after that happens.

[domegirl1978 1]

Anamyle, no le digas mentiras a la immigracion porque casi seguro van a preguntarte de hacer los examenes de DNA.

Y si dices que el es el padre de tu hijo y no es, vas a tener MUCHOS problemas que no quieres.

Mejor decir la verdad en todos los momentos que estas haciendo cosas con el govierno. La ultima cosa que quieres es que te metan un "ban" para que nunca mas puedas entrar a los Estados Unidos.

[NArocks 13]

Duplicate post

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry3346275

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry3346081

Edited September 25, 2009 by NArocks

[NArocks 13]

You stated you wanted your husband to claim a child that was not his as it was born out of wedlock which means the child is not your husbands. He needs to apply for the I-130 for the child do not LIE at any cost

Edited September 25, 2009 by NArocks

[aaron2020 11,651]

Do not lie. I don't know what the effect is when a married woman has a child that is not biologically her husband's but is his legally under local law. In many places, the child born to a married woman is presumed to be the husband's unless established otherwise in court. You may want to consult an immigration attorney here in the US.

To petition for you and your child, your husband needs to file one I-130 for you and a second I-130 for your child. He petitions for you as his spouse. He petitions for the child as either his child (as established by local law) or as his step-child.

The US embassy may require DNA testing.

[anamyle777 0]

Do not lie. I don't know what the effect is when a married woman has a child that is not biologically her husband's but is his legally under local law. In many places, the child born to a married woman is presumed to be the husband's unless established otherwise in court. You may want to consult an immigration attorney here in the US.

To petition for you and your child, your husband needs to file one I-130 for you and a second I-130 for your child. He petitions for you as his spouse. He petitions for the child as either his child (as established by local law) or as his step-child.

The US embassy may require DNA testing.

thanks Aaron my husband did (I-130) for me and my older son, but my question is IF MY BABY CAN APPLY FOR I-130 BECAUSE HE WAS BORN INSIDE MY MARRIAGE BUT HE DOESN´T SON FROM MY HUSBAND ??? IN MY COUNTRY A CHILD TO A MARRIED WOMAN IS PRESUMED TO BE THE HUSBAND.

REGARDS,

ANA

[Summer75 16]

Do not lie. I don't know what the effect is when a married woman has a child that is not biologically her husband's but is his legally under local law. In many places, the child born to a married woman is presumed to be the husband's unless established otherwise in court. You may want to consult an immigration attorney here in the US.

To petition for you and your child, your husband needs to file one I-130 for you and a second I-130 for your child. He petitions for you as his spouse. He petitions for the child as either his child (as established by local law) or as his step-child.

The US embassy may require DNA testing.

thanks Aaron my husband did (I-130) for me and my older son, but my question is IF MY BABY CAN APPLY FOR I-130 BECAUSE HE WAS BORN INSIDE MY MARRIAGE BUT HE DOESN´T SON FROM MY HUSBAND ??? IN MY COUNTRY A CHILD TO A MARRIED WOMAN IS PRESUMED TO BE THE HUSBAND.

REGARDS,

ANA

Pero que tonteria hiciste mujer! No soy quien para juzgarte pero como se te ocurre tener un hijo para otro hombre mientras tu esposo esta trabajando por ti y tus hijos en su pais? y si cometiste semejante estupidez porque no te cuidaste? Mucho amor tiene q tenerte ese pobre hombre para perdonarte e intentar llevarte a ti ya sus no hijos a USA.

Por nada del mundo se te ocurra mentir a la embajada, pues NUNCA podras ir a los Estados Unidos si ellos lo descubren, por cosas incluso simples deniegan visados.. y lo tuyo ... es de fabula...

Diles la verdad, ellos saben cuando mientes con solo mirarte.

Espero q tengas mucha suerte pues la vas a necesitar...

Karina Pogue.

[Mononoke28 135]

thanks Aaron my husband did (I-130) for me and my older son, but my question is IF MY BABY CAN APPLY FOR I-130 BECAUSE HE WAS BORN INSIDE MY MARRIAGE BUT HE DOESN´T SON FROM MY HUSBAND ??? IN MY COUNTRY A CHILD TO A MARRIED WOMAN IS PRESUMED TO BE THE HUSBAND.

REGARDS,

ANA

Ana,

It doesn't matter if you had another man's child while you were married to the petitioner. Your husband can file a separate I-130 for your 3 year-old as his step father. The embassy will probably ask you about the situation to make sure you're not using your husband to get back in legally to the US. Tell the truth and you'll probably be ok.

Good luck.

Diana

Edited September 30, 2009 by Mononoke28

[Mononoke28 135]

Do not lie. I don't know what the effect is when a married woman has a child that is not biologically her husband's but is his legally under local law. In many places, the child born to a married woman is presumed to be the husband's unless established otherwise in court. You may want to consult an immigration attorney here in the US.

To petition for you and your child, your husband needs to file one I-130 for you and a second I-130 for your child. He petitions for you as his spouse. He petitions for the child as either his child (as established by local law) or as his step-child.

The US embassy may require DNA testing.

thanks Aaron my husband did (I-130) for me and my older son, but my question is IF MY BABY CAN APPLY FOR I-130 BECAUSE HE WAS BORN INSIDE MY MARRIAGE BUT HE DOESN´T SON FROM MY HUSBAND ??? IN MY COUNTRY A CHILD TO A MARRIED WOMAN IS PRESUMED TO BE THE HUSBAND.

REGARDS,

ANA

Pero que tonteria hiciste mujer! No soy quien para juzgarte pero como se te ocurre tener un hijo para otro hombre mientras tu esposo esta trabajando por ti y tus hijos en su pais? y si cometiste semejante estupidez porque no te cuidaste? Mucho amor tiene q tenerte ese pobre hombre para perdonarte e intentar llevarte a ti ya sus no hijos a USA.

Por nada del mundo se te ocurra mentir a la embajada, pues NUNCA podras ir a los Estados Unidos si ellos lo descubren, por cosas incluso simples deniegan visados.. y lo tuyo ... es de fabula...

Diles la verdad, ellos saben cuando mientes con solo mirarte.

Espero q tengas mucha suerte pues la vas a necesitar...

Karina Pogue.

¿Qué se gana uno con regañar a la gente, sobre todo a alguien que no conoce? Nada. Este foro se hizo para ayudarnos mutuamente.

Diana

[anamyle777 0]

Do not lie. I don't know what the effect is when a married woman has a child that is not biologically her husband's but is his legally under local law. In many places, the child born to a married woman is presumed to be the husband's unless established otherwise in court. You may want to consult an immigration attorney here in the US.

To petition for you and your child, your husband needs to file one I-130 for you and a second I-130 for your child. He petitions for you as his spouse. He petitions for the child as either his child (as established by local law) or as his step-child.

The US embassy may require DNA testing.

thanks Aaron my husband did (I-130) for me and my older son, but my question is IF MY BABY CAN APPLY FOR I-130 BECAUSE HE WAS BORN INSIDE MY MARRIAGE BUT HE DOESN´T SON FROM MY HUSBAND ??? IN MY COUNTRY A CHILD TO A MARRIED WOMAN IS PRESUMED TO BE THE HUSBAND.

REGARDS,

ANA

Pero que tonteria hiciste mujer! No soy quien para juzgarte pero como se te ocurre tener un hijo para otro hombre mientras tu esposo esta trabajando por ti y tus hijos en su pais? y si cometiste semejante estupidez porque no te cuidaste? Mucho amor tiene q tenerte ese pobre hombre para perdonarte e intentar llevarte a ti ya sus no hijos a USA.

Por nada del mundo se te ocurra mentir a la embajada, pues NUNCA podras ir a los Estados Unidos si ellos lo descubren, por cosas incluso simples deniegan visados.. y lo tuyo ... es de fabula...

Diles la verdad, ellos saben cuando mientes con solo mirarte.

Espero q tengas mucha suerte pues la vas a necesitar...

Karina Pogue.

¿Qué se gana uno con regañar a la gente, sobre todo a alguien que no conoce? Nada. Este foro se hizo para ayudarnos mutuamente.

Diana

Gracias Diana:

YA pague por lo que cometí, pero a veces uno no sabe como fueron las cosas, mi esposo solo vino una vez en estos años y antes que tenga a mi bebe, el tuvo una relacion de casi 3 años con una americana de su edad, el me duplica la edad, yo soy joven, yo sufri mucho porque me descuido como esposa y lo del bb se me escapo de las manos ya que no me cuidaba por serle "FIEL", pero ya arreglamos todo no hay mentira q dure 100 años yo descubri su engaño y el descubrio q tuve un hijo asimismo yo misma lo inscribi con su apellido por estar casada con el, pero bueno muchas gracias por sus comentarios y por su ayuda, sobre el padre biologico fue solo un desliz, ahora mi preocupacion es regresar a USA con mis hijos., pero mi duda es que mi bb no puede aplicar o me nieguen la aplicacion por haber tenido un hijo fuera del matrimonio porque lo he tenido dentro del tiempo de espera del tramite para residencia. tengo mucho miedo por mi bb y no quiero dejarlo en caso me aprueben mi waiver.

[Mononoke28 135]

Gracias Diana:

YA pague por lo que cometí, pero a veces uno no sabe como fueron las cosas, mi esposo solo vino una vez en estos años y antes que tenga a mi bebe, el tuvo una relacion de casi 3 años con una americana de su edad, el me duplica la edad, yo soy joven, yo sufri mucho porque me descuido como esposa y lo del bb se me escapo de las manos ya que no me cuidaba por serle "FIEL", pero ya arreglamos todo no hay mentira q dure 100 años yo descubri su engaño y el descubrio q tuve un hijo asimismo yo misma lo inscribi con su apellido por estar casada con el, pero bueno muchas gracias por sus comentarios y por su ayuda, sobre el padre biologico fue solo un desliz, ahora mi preocupacion es regresar a USA con mis hijos., pero mi duda es que mi bb no puede aplicar o me nieguen la aplicacion por haber tenido un hijo fuera del matrimonio porque lo he tenido dentro del tiempo de espera del tramite para residencia. tengo mucho miedo por mi bb y no quiero dejarlo en caso me aprueben mi waiver.

Como dice ud. un desliz le puede pasar a cualquier persona. Con eso en mente, si yo estuviera en su lugar no cambiaría nada, diría la verdad en la embajada y me armaba con todo tipo de evidencia que demuestre que uds. se perdonaron y que todavía se quieren. Lo más probable es que la embajada le haga todo tipo de preguntas y ud. debe ser firme con sus respuestas. Su esposo también debe planer ir a la entrevista con ud. para que él mismo conteste cualquire pregunta que tengan en la embajada.

En cuanto a su niño, su esposo debe de mandar el I-130 como su hijastro ya que no es hijo de él.

Fuera de eso tenga mucha fé y piense positivo. Las buenas energías ayudan mucho.

Diana

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