children who are spanked have lower IQ

[NickD 203]

this thread is winning momentum!!! yay!!

Say you get pissed because yoyis does not flush the toilet. EVER. Yoyis hears you scream at her "flush the fvkcing toilet yoyis, what are you? a pig?" Mind you, Yoyis has just learned from teacher that pigs are actually very clean animals. Yoyis will still not flush. Second time: "damn it yoyis, can't you be smart and flush the damn toilet?!?!" Yoyis just had her water conservation class and is following the 'it i's yellow let it mellow, if it's brown flush it down' song she learned, so she still won't flush. then you, the parent, smack her. OH SNAP.

Pretty idiotic. A conversation in the first place would have sufficed. And you might have learned a thing or two.

Nothing like a father that had a hard day at work and comes home taking it out on the wife and kids, my dad was like that, the #######, and so was my wife's ex-husband. Learned later in life they are complete cowards and the lowest form of life. Never spanked my kids, didn't have to, it's not like they robbed a bank or killed anyone, basically would fight over a toy, thought them how to compromise.

The way will train a torturer is to torture him, spanking teaches violence as the only method of control and behavior, not a good way to raise kids.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

OMG!

I would never yell at my child like that. I would simply say, "Next time do not forget." Learning is all about redundancy. That is why your professor have to explain the same thing 2 or 3 times before moving on to another topic.

Exactly right. Even with the accolade "Yoyis, don't forget next time... and do tell, why won't you flush anyway?" and maybe she'll tell you about water conservation class. and then an actual DIALOGUE might ensue! imagine that!

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Right. Spanking should be reserved for your spouse.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Nothing like a father that had a hard day at work and comes home taking it out on the wife and kids, my dad was like that, the #######, and so was my wife's ex-husband. Learned later in life they are complete cowards and the lowest form of life. Never spanked my kids, didn't have to, it's not like they robbed a bank or killed anyone, basically would fight over a toy, thought them how to compromise.

The way will train a torturer is to torture him, spanking teaches violence as the only method of control and behavior, not a good way to raise kids.

True that. And the dad might be as tired as he can be, that is certainly NOT the child's fault. The parent chose to be a parent (in most cases) and he is the damn adult.

[NArocks 13]

Right. Spanking should be reserved for your spouse.

WOOO HOOO I agree

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Right. Spanking should be reserved for your spouse.

WOOO HOOO I agree

Probably spanked as a child and raised in a conservative Christian household. That is where all those perverted fantasies stem from, no doubt.

[NArocks 13]

No just naturally sicko in the head

Edited September 25, 2009 by NArocks

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

No just naturally sicko in the head

I thought for sure you went to an all girl's high school. Catholic girls are such perverts! I love them.

(Well, just one these days.)

[NArocks 13]

No i went to Public school in Miami

[BishopMnA 0]

I wish I hadn't spanked my daughter when she was little (she's 21 now)...because judging by her current boyfriend...she is obviously stupid...

[NArocks 13]

I wish I hadn't spanked my daughter when she was little (she's 21 now)...because judging by her current boyfriend...she is obviously stupid...

Naw honey just the choice they make, they also have to learn from their own mistakes sometimes

[Mark&Steph 0]

this thread is winning momentum!!! yay!!

Say you get pissed because yoyis does not flush the toilet. EVER. Yoyis hears you scream at her "flush the fvkcing toilet yoyis, what are you? a pig?" Mind you, Yoyis has just learned from teacher that pigs are actually very clean animals. Yoyis will still not flush. Second time: "damn it yoyis, can't you be smart and flush the damn toilet?!?!" Yoyis just had her water conservation class and is following the 'it i's yellow let it mellow, if it's brown flush it down' song she learned, so she still won't flush. then you, the parent, smack her. OH SNAP.

Pretty idiotic. A conversation in the first place would have sufficed. And you might have learned a thing or two.

Who is this yoyis and why do I care whether she flushes the toilet or not?

Just messin wit ya.

In all seriousness though, I never got punished for making a honest mistake or because I misunderstood something. It was when I went out of my way to do something I knew I shouldn't. Like call my mother a bad word because she wouldn't let me stay up to watch a show I wanted to.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Who is this yoyis and why do I care whether she flushes the toilet or not?

Just messin wit ya.

In all seriousness though, I never got punished for making a honest mistake or because I misunderstood something. It was when I went out of my way to do something I knew I shouldn't. Like call my mother a bad word because she wouldn't let me stay up to watch a show I wanted to.

I hear you!!!

[Mark&Steph 0]

I hear you!!!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

I hear you!!!

I personally think yoyis will grow up to become a p0rn star and get spanked anyways... seriously, who the hell names their kid yoyis and hopes for a Varsity educated woman???