HCMC VN feedback needed

[ScottThuy 140]

Wasn't trying to argue and apologize if it sounds that way Scott. I feel for you and will say a prayer. It will be tough road to go and am sure that it all can be worked out. At least you know the red flags and are being as proactive as possible to get them worked out. It sounds like you both are able to go the long distance needed for this visa so that is good. Good luck and God bless.

Thanks..

I think Jim has identified a way to address the red flags that will make it a smaller issue that I thought.. The divorce paperwork will have everything explained in it...

[luckytxn 2,264]

Wasn't trying to argue and apologize if it sounds that way Scott. I feel for you and will say a prayer. It will be tough road to go and am sure that it all can be worked out. At least you know the red flags and are being as proactive as possible to get them worked out. It sounds like you both are able to go the long distance needed for this visa so that is good. Good luck and God bless.

Thanks..

I think Jim has identified a way to address the red flags that will make it a smaller issue that I thought.. The divorce paperwork will have everything explained in it...

It should help a lot but of course as you know it will still be checked out and all but you are being very proactive and that is what will help.

[bryonm4 0]

Ok I brought this up before, but I want to be sure that I address it further if I can.

My SO was married on paper, but never lived with him and never actually went through with the marriage ceremony. He refused to divorce on paper and she was stuck.... She has lived with her mother since birth and never lived with him. After she signed marriage papers and before the wedding that never happened she became pregnant and later had a son... Ho Khau shows son after birth 2001 and all the way to present. When Son had to go to school they had to add fathers name to Ho Khau for some reason having to do with son enrolling in school. Even though the Ex never lived in the house his name was in the book from 2007 to 2009. She fought and got divorce (early 2009) and removed his name from Ho Khau when she learned it was an issue. It is a clear red flag if they see his name in the book and I am looking for some way to address it ahead of time if they bring it up... I can easily get affidavits from family that say he never lived there, but they obviously contradict the ho khau. The ex will never sign anything to help her in any way... what do you think? neighbors statements?

I think worst case scenario, they will blue slip us and have a cop come to ask around about it similar to as was discussed in a topic earlier today. In that case they will find he was never there and it wont be an issue after that.. I dont want blue.. pink only!!!!

The relationship is real so there is nothing they can do to stop it only delay it if you read that link I posted from a CO he even admitted that. Just be honest and tell the trueth. If for some reason they deny because they know it will expire you can simply mary and file for a cr1 that doesn't expire. You will be fine because you found this board and you have all your bases covered.

[Krikit 1,164]

Issue resolved and thread closed at the request of the OP.