proof of relationaship....

[Free Jerusalem 0]

is a perfume box a good way to show we actually have a relationship? my husband (was my fiance at the time) sent me a bottle of perfume in the mail for my b day when i was in the states, he had written on it and dated it as well. the CO told my husband to send in documents and pictures showing our relationship. so is it silly to also send that in as well?

[canadian_wife 1,822]

I'd focus on primary evidence and what the CO asked for. Although sweet, I am not sure this is what they are looking for

good luck.

[Free Jerusalem 0]

I'd focus on primary evidence and what the CO asked for. Although sweet, I am not sure this is what they are looking for

good luck.

hey, what he asked for is "photographs and other documents showing the strength of the relationship"

....? i thought that would be something good.

[belgrade09 0]

Sounds original, if nothing else

[Bocajr27 3]

I'd focus on primary evidence and what the CO asked for. Although sweet, I am not sure this is what they are looking for

good luck.

hey, what he asked for is "photographs and other documents showing the strength of the relationship"

....? i thought that would be something good.

Is this a serious question? OK, assuming it is. What proof do you have that your husband bought you that perfume? Are there any pictures of you opening it in front of him? Is there a receipt which shows he paid for it days prior to your birthday? Does the receipt have his name on it? Those would be questions that I would be raising if I was looking at this evidence.

[trailmix 77]

Sounds original, if nothing else

Yes, original but not helpful at all, I wouldn't send it

[Dakine 26]

How about a condom?

[TayRivers 4]

How about a condom?

Haole, your comment is not helpful, if you have nothing constructive to add then please dont post.

[john_and_marlene 162]

How about a condom?

Haole, your comment is not helpful, if you have nothing constructive to add then please dont post.

Be careful making judgements about what is or is not constructive. Just because you don't "get it" you deem it as nothing constructive and run around deleting posts and tossing about warnings. I see the comment as allowing the OP an opportunity to realize the parallel of the two objects and deduce that it is just as unproductive to send in a perfume box.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

How about a condom?

Haole, your comment is not helpful, if you have nothing constructive to add then please dont post.

Be careful making judgements about what is or is not constructive. Just because you don't "get it" you deem it as nothing constructive and run around deleting posts and tossing about warnings. I see the comment as allowing the OP an opportunity to realize the parallel of the two objects and deduce that it is just as unproductive to send in a perfume box.

WORD

To the OP: sending in something other than documents is indeed not a good idea. what you can do is photograph the item in question and send the pic.

[HAL 90000 0]

How about a condom?

Haole, your comment is not helpful, if you have nothing constructive to add then please dont post.

Be careful making judgements about what is or is not constructive. Just because you don't "get it" you deem it as nothing constructive and run around deleting posts and tossing about warnings. I see the comment as allowing the OP an opportunity to realize the parallel of the two objects and deduce that it is just as unproductive to send in a perfume box.

You should not address a mod in this manner. Please give your superiors the respect they deserve.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

OMG HAL

[Malrothien 6]

How about a condom?

Haole, your comment is not helpful, if you have nothing constructive to add then please dont post.

Be careful making judgements about what is or is not constructive. Just because you don't "get it" you deem it as nothing constructive and run around deleting posts and tossing about warnings. I see the comment as allowing the OP an opportunity to realize the parallel of the two objects and deduce that it is just as unproductive to send in a perfume box.

You should not address a mod in this manner. Please give your superiors the respect they deserve.

Step in line, Comrade!

[Kathryn41 3,205]

How about a condom?

Haole, your comment is not helpful, if you have nothing constructive to add then please dont post.

Be careful making judgements about what is or is not constructive. Just because you don't "get it" you deem it as nothing constructive and run around deleting posts and tossing about warnings. I see the comment as allowing the OP an opportunity to realize the parallel of the two objects and deduce that it is just as unproductive to send in a perfume box.

I will add that Haole's comment is more appropriate to Off Topic and is not acceptable in the Upper Forums. TayRivers has issued only a warning - a 4 hour suspension as per Captain Ewok's instructions earlier this year, could also have been issued. The comment was out of line, and your public objection to a moderator ensuring that offf topic comments in an inappropriate location are addressed is also inappropriate.

[HAL 90000 0]

your public objection to a moderator ensuring that offf topic comments in an inappropriate location are addressed is also inappropriate.

Banish him to that special Hell reserved for dissenters and provocateurs.