applying for k-3 for my former fiance

[YoLa4ever 0]

My husband and i are newly wedded as of August this year. He lives in Morocco and i live in the US. We met online in October 2007 and have been together in love ever since. We are like 7 years apart in age me older. He is Moroccan I am african american cape verdean and mexican mix We chat through cam, on phone, letters (in the begining til we found out how long it takes to receive each others letter and sometimes never reciving each others letters) i also have traveled 3times to visit my love. All my family knows of our relation and most of all my kids who have watch our relationship grow for almost two years now. I love my husband and he loves me along with his family and mine. We are true and are good people. Here is our problem. I applied for him to come be with me after our first physical meeting april 2008 where we became engaged. I appllied June 2008 and UCIS approved our petition by October 2008. My husband who was my fiance at that time was granted his interview in January 2009. So i made trip #2 to Morocco November 2008 first of all because we were missing each other physically and to also prepare for his interview(each time i stayed at least two weeks) we had beautiful times with his family who always welcome me w/ so much love. My love and i had so much confidence that He would be approved for visa at his interview. All requirements we met proof of our relation, he has no criminal record ever neither do i, medically he passed everything. At his interview january 2009 he was treated so wrong by the lady who interviewed. She did not speak to him when he greated her with "good morning" she remainded cold to him rushing him with questions, and she further more did not look at my tickets and pictures we took when i was there in November. she just took some archive chats we used to show when we first met. At the end of his interview she told my fiance at that point he would not get his visa but told others to come back tomorrow hurting his spirit. She gave him that paper that says reason which she didnt have one to explain because she did not choose a section just checked off "other" which may be just her discrettional opinion to not give him approval based on her bias of interview. She made faces at our pictures that she did see as her reaction, these are somethings my he told me.I felt that she didnt like us from the begining from all the impression he gave me. and i do beleieve our case is viewed before a officer interviews. So she sent our case back which has been "adjudicating since USCIS has received it in march and no one would tell us any reason why from numerous email, info pass appointment, third parties who i have contact such as senatorand govenors office, lawyer office. So we have been suffering wondering when we can finally be together i made my third trip back to Morocco just recently July 20th 2009 and this time we married. belive me all this costs are worth it but have taken a lot out of us ifeel we have been screwed over by that officers decision to send our case back without a clear reason. As i mentioned i have kids im still raising them i cant move to Morocco at this point although this is our plan in future we spend to much money on calling cards processing etc. when all we want is to live our lives together we are so real like many and Now that we are married i know we have to file differently this k3, both of us have never been married or been in a situation like this long distance relation or any immigration processing so we need much advice from others who i know share our experience. I will be applying for my spouse with new fees now think its unfair because our first is still pending and from what i was told would take several years before they contact us so im glad we married recently August 3rd and the first petition(nightmare) is irrelavent. I just hope we will be given fair chance to be together like so many who have processed easily. If anyone can give feed back, advice or any helpful .opinions please do we will glady appreciate it. Hope all my writing is not overwhelming this is first time i find a place to seek help from others who may be going thru the same thing. I am saving to apply for my husband and will apply this month of september 2009.

God Bless All

Edited September 20, 2009 by YoLa4ever

[Dakine 26]

Be sure and send a notarized letter cancelling the K1.

Do a CR-1 instead of a K3. K3s are dinosaurs at this time.

You guys still have a uphill battle. The reason he was denied doesn't go away because you married!

[Rezak and Sharon 0]

well that is a sad story i m really sorry about that ..... throuhg my experience i wanna say that the Interview comes after they approve or deny the Visa , i mean that when you get in the consulate for the Interview they make u wait about 5 hours and at this time there is a Consulate and other emlpoys inside the Office looking at the files and checking everything and then they decid .. well the Interview is a kinda of just looking to the Evidence that they have Already ...... well i can say that there is something in your file wasn't clear.. you needed to message the consulate and ask about that or find out befor you file anything cause may they will deny your visa again for the same reason .... find out first and good luck

[YoLa4ever 0]

My husband and i are newly wedded as of August this year. He lives in Morocco and i live in the US. We met online in October 2007 and have been together in love ever since. We are like 7 years apart in age me older. He is Moroccan I am african american cape verdean and mexican mix We chat through cam, on phone, letters (in the begining til we found out how long it takes to receive each others letter and sometimes never reciving each others letters) i also have traveled 3times to visit my love. All my family knows of our relation and most of all my kids who have watch our relationship grow for almost two years now. I love my husband and he loves me along with his family and mine. We are true and are good people. Here is our problem. I applied for him to come be with me after our first physical meeting april 2008 where we became engaged. I appllied June 2008 and UCIS approved our petition by October 2008. My husband who was my fiance at that time was granted his interview in January 2009. So i made trip #2 to Morocco November 2008 first of all because we were missing each other physically and to also prepare for his interview(each time i stayed at least two weeks) we had beautiful times with his family who always welcome me w/ so much love. My love and i had so much confidence that He would be approved for visa at his interview. All requirements we met proof of our relation, he has no criminal record ever neither do i, medically he passed everything. At his interview january 2009 he was treated so wrong by the lady who interviewed. She did not speak to him when he greated her with "good morning" she remainded cold to him rushing him with questions, and she further more did not look at my tickets and pictures we took when i was there in November. she just took some archive chats we used to show when we first met. At the end of his interview she told my fiance at that point he would not get his visa but told others to come back tomorrow hurting his spirit. She gave him that paper that says reason which she didnt have one to explain because she did not choose a section just checked off "other" which may be just her discrettional opinion to not give him approval based on her bias of interview. She made faces at our pictures that she did see as her reaction, these are somethings my he told me.I felt that she didnt like us from the begining from all the impression he gave me. and i do beleieve our case is viewed before a officer interviews. So she sent our case back which has been "adjudicating since USCIS has received it in march and no one would tell us any reason why from numerous email, info pass appointment, third parties who i have contact such as senatorand govenors office, lawyer office. So we have been suffering wondering when we can finally be together i made my third trip back to Morocco just recently July 20th 2009 and this time we married. belive me all this costs are worth it but have taken a lot out of us ifeel we have been screwed over by that officers decision to send our case back without a clear reason. As i mentioned i have kids im still raising them i cant move to Morocco at this point although this is our plan in future we spend to much money on calling cards processing etc. when all we want is to live our lives together we are so real like many and Now that we are married i know we have to file differently this k3, both of us have never been married or been in a situation like this long distance relation or any immigration processing so we need much advice from others who i know share our experience. I will be applying for my spouse with new fees now think its unfair because our first is still pending and from what i was told would take several years before they contact us so im glad we married recently August 3rd and the first petition(nightmare) is irrelavent. I just hope we will be given fair chance to be together like so many who have processed easily. If anyone can give feed back, advice or any helpful .opinions please do we will glady appreciate it. Hope all my writing is not overwhelming this is first time i find a place to seek help from others who may be going thru the same thing. I am saving to apply for my husband and will apply this month of september 2009.

God Bless All

thanks Haole and Rezak and Sharon for your replies the info you have shared is very informative and helpful i will for sure do a notarized cancellation of our first petition that is a smart idea. and im not so familiar with some terms like what is a CR-1? overall thanx for your feedback

[marriedtomrg 141]

A CR1 visa is a conditional permanent resident visa. At the end of the process, your husband will receive a conditional 2-year green card, which is tons better than a K3 (we are undergoing K3 ourselves but for very different reasons). If you guys were married for 2 years or more, then you would be applying for an IR1 visa, which is also a permanent resident visa, however your husband would receive a 10-year green card.

The VJ Guides are very helpful on the subject. We highly recommend that you go over the process. Good luck with your journey!

My husband and i are newly wedded as of August this year. He lives in Morocco and i live in the US. We met online in October 2007 and have been together in love ever since. We are like 7 years apart in age me older. He is Moroccan I am african american cape verdean and mexican mix We chat through cam, on phone, letters (in the begining til we found out how long it takes to receive each others letter and sometimes never reciving each others letters) i also have traveled 3times to visit my love. All my family knows of our relation and most of all my kids who have watch our relationship grow for almost two years now. I love my husband and he loves me along with his family and mine. We are true and are good people. Here is our problem. I applied for him to come be with me after our first physical meeting april 2008 where we became engaged. I appllied June 2008 and UCIS approved our petition by October 2008. My husband who was my fiance at that time was granted his interview in January 2009. So i made trip #2 to Morocco November 2008 first of all because we were missing each other physically and to also prepare for his interview(each time i stayed at least two weeks) we had beautiful times with his family who always welcome me w/ so much love. My love and i had so much confidence that He would be approved for visa at his interview. All requirements we met proof of our relation, he has no criminal record ever neither do i, medically he passed everything. At his interview january 2009 he was treated so wrong by the lady who interviewed. She did not speak to him when he greated her with "good morning" she remainded cold to him rushing him with questions, and she further more did not look at my tickets and pictures we took when i was there in November. she just took some archive chats we used to show when we first met. At the end of his interview she told my fiance at that point he would not get his visa but told others to come back tomorrow hurting his spirit. She gave him that paper that says reason which she didnt have one to explain because she did not choose a section just checked off "other" which may be just her discrettional opinion to not give him approval based on her bias of interview. She made faces at our pictures that she did see as her reaction, these are somethings my he told me.I felt that she didnt like us from the begining from all the impression he gave me. and i do beleieve our case is viewed before a officer interviews. So she sent our case back which has been "adjudicating since USCIS has received it in march and no one would tell us any reason why from numerous email, info pass appointment, third parties who i have contact such as senatorand govenors office, lawyer office. So we have been suffering wondering when we can finally be together i made my third trip back to Morocco just recently July 20th 2009 and this time we married. belive me all this costs are worth it but have taken a lot out of us ifeel we have been screwed over by that officers decision to send our case back without a clear reason. As i mentioned i have kids im still raising them i cant move to Morocco at this point although this is our plan in future we spend to much money on calling cards processing etc. when all we want is to live our lives together we are so real like many and Now that we are married i know we have to file differently this k3, both of us have never been married or been in a situation like this long distance relation or any immigration processing so we need much advice from others who i know share our experience. I will be applying for my spouse with new fees now think its unfair because our first is still pending and from what i was told would take several years before they contact us so im glad we married recently August 3rd and the first petition(nightmare) is irrelavent. I just hope we will be given fair chance to be together like so many who have processed easily. If anyone can give feed back, advice or any helpful .opinions please do we will glady appreciate it. Hope all my writing is not overwhelming this is first time i find a place to seek help from others who may be going thru the same thing. I am saving to apply for my husband and will apply this month of september 2009.

God Bless All

thanks Haole and Rezak and Sharon for your replies the info you have shared is very informative and helpful i will for sure do a notarized cancellation of our first petition that is a smart idea. and im not so familiar with some terms like what is a CR-1? overall thanx for your feedback

[YoLa4ever 0]

ThanX marriedtomrg for letting me know what CR1 is. I really dont know what visa to apply for according to mine and my husbands circumstances but the more i learn about whats possibly available to us the more confidence i have so much thanx and best of luck for you and your spouse too.