Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)

[DaDa 1]

[quote name='*SunRay*' post='3334945'

I agree...But the point I guess I am trying to make is that there are some things that should NEVER be done. You don't date a friend's ex man, or a co-worker's ex man or a relative's ex man etc etc......

There are TOO MANY darn fish in the pool!!

My point EXACTLY!!! Those are just don't do's.... I love my friends even more now for never having to go through this.

Edited September 22, 2009 by DaDa

[IrieCat 2]

On another topic (maybe this will lighten the mood a little?), I now know how it feels to be a parent (or wife) & having to hide presents from someone. Never had to do that before. While mister was playing socc....ahem, football, Sunday morning, I snuck off to Target to get him the Spongebob cuddle pillow he eyeballed a couple months ago. I also got him a remote-controlled helicopter. He never had toys as a kid so I'm spoiling him a little. Those 'toys' & the Beenie Man show will be his b-day presents. Of course, now I have to hide these things in the car until I get a chance to sneak them into our tiny apartment where it's nearly impossible to hide anything! He never looks in the overhead storage in the bathroom though.

aww so cute! I have never been good at keeping gifts till the day I am supposed to give... I have to buy them like the day before and even then its hard.

I am LMAO at Irie trying her best to change the topic!!!

Sorry mi gyal its not working.

Ells and I gave it our best shot!

[dancehallquana 5]

Luv you have to feel so hurt from your husband and Classy because I would be so hurt if I found out one of my Vj sisters would do something so cold. As women we can really be so sneaky and conniving. I used to see Classy on here I’m trying to think if she was on VJ doesn’t that mean she had a man? What happened to him? See I’m scared of jail but times like this makes me want to punch someone in the FACE!!!

I am so speechless!!!

absolutly!!! I have spent time with all these people...and i am in total shock as to what happend....Craig...well there is nothing more to say about him that has not already been said...but renee...just completly blows my mind that she of all people would do this...Kelly you know how I feel....I am hurting for you because someone you thought was a friend would go behind your back and do this for no reason and then post it....just completly sucks!

i can't believe it either.. i was just msging w/ her today.. she is such a sweet girl..

LIFE can make and mold us into something ugly if we let it..

[NatPatBen 3]

Irie, I also want to see how the spider hair will look. Def take a picture or two!

On another topic (maybe this will lighten the mood a little?), I now know how it feels to be a parent (or wife) & having to hide presents from someone. Never had to do that before. While mister was playing socc....ahem, football, Sunday morning, I snuck off to Target to get him the Spongebob cuddle pillow he eyeballed a couple months ago. I also got him a remote-controlled helicopter. He never had toys as a kid so I'm spoiling him a little. Those 'toys' & the Beenie Man show will be his b-day presents. Of course, now I have to hide these things in the car until I get a chance to sneak them into our tiny apartment where it's nearly impossible to hide anything! He never looks in the overhead storage in the bathroom though.

That's precious. When Steven was in Jamaica, I made photo books (at WalMart/Walgreens) that captured our relationship. That way, he could look at the pics when I wasn't there. I'm thinking for his next special occasion, I'll give him photo books showing his family & familiar hang-out spots, so he can look at those until we got visit.

But, I didn't end up hanging out with him because deep down I just felt it was somehow disrespectful to be hanging round with SOMEONE ELSE'S husband.

I agree. I never feel comfortable having a one-on-one outing with a married man, no matter how innocent. I know this one couple from college. The husband came to town a few months ago and asked me to have dinner with him. 100% innocent... but I still felt uncomfortable.

[DaDa 1]

I agree...But the point I guess I am trying to make is that there are some things that should NEVER be done. You don't date a friend's ex man, or a co-worker's ex man or a relative's ex man etc etc......

There are TOO MANY darn fish in the pool!!

hmmm.. i never done it, but im thinking?? what if u didn't know it was their man when u met him.. (NOT THIS SITUTAION) but what if??? do u stop the relationship??

If your not in to deep yes but I'm thinking if they are a close friend wouldn't you know that was their man.

[JAPrincess 27]

fi Lawny

mi gawn go mind mi own...

my sister's jaw is swollen 2x the size and I have to take her to county hospital

[dancehallquana 5]

fi Lawny

mi gawn go mind mi own...

my sister's jaw is swollen 2x the size and I have to take her to county hospital

i hope everything is ok..

[sus 70]

the fact that so many of your ladies are getting these calls must mean there are ppl in the hotels who are selling these ppl your personal info

I don't think it's the hotels - although there are definite spots in Negril that I know people have used their card and then had false charges - I really think it's linked to Western Union, and it's people working there selling your name and number -

[dancehallquana 5]

I agree...But the point I guess I am trying to make is that there are some things that should NEVER be done. You don't date a friend's ex man, or a co-worker's ex man or a relative's ex man etc etc......

There are TOO MANY darn fish in the pool!!

hmmm.. i never done it, but im thinking?? what if u didn't know it was their man when u met him.. (NOT THIS SITUTAION) but what if??? do u stop the relationship??

If your not in to deep yes but I'm thinking if they are a close friend wouldn't you know that was their man.

lets say u come to the dfw to visit me and meet a man.. at the airport, the club.. and whatever reason u don't mention it at first.. u don't think nothing of it, cuz heck guys always tryna holla..

u talking to him, hitting it off so then u tell me bout this dude u met while visiting me that u kinda liking now.. and i'm like."WHAT?? thats my ex from 5 yrs ago girl"..

u would put the brakes on it? i guess like ya'll said.. its other fish in the sea, just throw that one back .. THANK God ive never been in that situation tho..

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

the fact that so many of your ladies are getting these calls must mean there are ppl in the hotels who are selling these ppl your personal info

I don't think it's the hotels - although there are definite spots in Negril that I know people have used their card and then had false charges - I really think it's linked to Western Union, and it's people working there selling your name and number -

true

that is a factor too

[DaDa 1]

the fact that so many of your ladies are getting these calls must mean there are ppl in the hotels who are selling these ppl your personal info

I don't think it's the hotels - although there are definite spots in Negril that I know people have used their card and then had false charges - I really think it's linked to Western Union, and it's people working there selling your name and number -

Me too. I have never used my CC at a hotel I think it did happen after I sent Roc money for the calling plan b4 my yardies told me I could do it myself on line.

[dancehallquana 5]

alright ladies..wow, almost as many guests and anony as there is membrs..

hate i can't get on the yardie thread on my phone

night..

[1luv 1]

All I have to say is . I cannot even comment

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

WOW...I just finished catching up....wow

[Lovesponge 0]

Evening Yardies