Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)

[finesse 3]

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here u go finesse

whoah!!! dat one even too much for me!! whatever happened to mrs smith?

[*SunRay* 1]

Next time some drama starts on here this is all folks are going to get. This is really between the two of them and we shouldn't jump on Classy because Kelly posted this ####### in here. Let them work it out. With that being said, please don't feel a way when you get the Sorry I mean well. lol

Sorry

And in the defensive mode......Classy started the "#######" by posting the picture. Kelly did not know.

man..the same thing with liliwhite and nikki someting a nedda...

yep Kimmy, it's similiar....

JG: True she did...

[Shemmy 4]

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here u go finesse

whoah!!! dat one even too much for me!! whatever happened to mrs smith?

Guess we'll never know.

[luvtravlin 0]

These are my thoughts

It seems to be agreed that Renee and Kelly were friends, enough to stay with Kelly and come down here.

It seems to be agree that Renee met Craig through Kelly.

Renee knows that Craig is or was married to Kelly.

Let's say Kelly was a racist btch who was highly abusive to Craig who was indeed a loving caring man who had been deeply wronged.

Let's say Renee found out that Kelly was the 'bad' one and Craig was the victim in all of this.

And for argument's sake, let's say Renee found out Kelly was a two faced hypocrite etc etc and not a real friend.

Why put the pic on FB? I looked and looked at it, and it doesn't seem to be two good friends hanging out. (I could be WRONG!)

Why not tell your friend or ex friend that BTW, I am now dating your soon to be ex?

Now, if I have jumped to any conclusions, I apologize to Renee from the bottom of my heart.

For all I know, they could be friends and nothing going on.

Okay, guys.....Renee and I became instant friends from the time she joined on VJ. I've been a member from day one (or soon thereafter). Yes she lives in Michigan and I live in Maryland. She's been my "friend" through thick and thin. We share ALL our stories with each other. We talked ALL the time...by phone and instant message and facebook. She came to visit me and my son in July ....on MY Southwest credits ...she stayed here for 4 days and we did a ton of stuff. We NEVER ran into Craig, we were drunk that Sat night, he had called me and I was ignoring his calls all day, but.....made the drunk call back to him and I was chatting with him and she took the phone from me and talked to him and I heard her give her telephone number to him.....and I asked WHY she did that........and her response was, I don't know I would NEVER do anything and I still said, but WHY do you need to give him YOUR phone number.

I've asked her SEVERAL times whether or not she's heard from him..........and she's lied to me, because obviously they have been chatting for the past 2 months. Now they are "in a relationship" per her facebook and she posted a picture of THEM on there. The last time I heard from her was on Sept 9th...till this date, I KNEW something was up because he told me he was in Mississipi and Mississippi told me he had left. He text me yesterday and said he was in Baltimore. He lies....and she's never responded....put 2 and 2 together and I went with my gut feeling just didn't have the PROOF until today when someone sent me THEIR picture from her facebook page.

Now, I'm not pissed at Craig, because it's expected and he goes from woman to woman to woman to woman and when he's WITH a woman, he has several still on the side. Renee knows this. I have a protective order on him ..and it expires June of next year....Renee knows this too. Renee has 2 small children, you would THINK you wouldn't want that type of man in your life..........she knows EVERYTHING he's done to me and my son !!!!

If SHE was never friends with MY HUSBAND and never knew him personally WHY would she think it's okay to be with him now ???? Just like you're saying Tara, "I" would never in a trillion years go out with one of my friends husbands or have his number especially if I didn't know him personally.

I don't think she needs to defend herself, what's there to defend, that's she's a....can't use those words on here.

I don't care about putting peoples business on this site, I've put MY BUSINESS on this site for many many maaany years and some of my stuff has really opened the eyes of others. Others don't like it, but they don't have to read the posts posted.

"I" am HURTING BIGTIME because this was MY FRIEND...........I THOUGHT !!! I've never been betrayed by a friend like this before and it SUCKS especially in the emotional time I'm going through with my dad and his cancer, I NEED **true** friends around me, but now I do know she's not one of them or ever has been. She's fake and wanted MY MAN !!

Anyway, hope that clears up some questions. Feel free to PM me or email me....

P.S. The BS that I've gone through with him does NOT affect how I feel about Jamaica. I fell in love with the country, people, etc waaaaay long before I met Craig. I'm going there to visit the end of October with 2 of my TRUE friends !!

Kelly

[phillyfashionista 8]

While we were there, he said that he's never coming shopping with me again since instead of 20 minutes, it took 2 hours. I was like, Um... we've only been here 30 minutes.

Other than how long we were there, he took it in stride.

One thing he noticed when looking at pictures before coming, and during our walk around the neighborhood: no one hangs out outside.

Something I'm happy about is his changing desires. He wanted a car, but considering the cost of that, he decided upon a motorcycle. But after being here a day & some hours, he's decided that he wants a bicycle. I'm like, that's GREAT! Quite affordable.

LOL Nat I am rolling at your post that sounds like my Hubby he wanted a Dodge Ram truck now he has a bike too LOL :rofl:

Things aren't looking harder really, it's just more apparent now how REALLY important it is. Things we take for granted like a driver's license is going to take him a while until he's able to take the written exam. That's just the tip of the iceberg too....in 3 years he can take his citizenship test & hopefully he'll be ready for it by then. In the meantime, he'll also need his GED but first (baby) steps first. He is really enjoying school & I can see him steadily improving as he goes along. I know there is a learning curve but I keep praying that once he gets over that initial hump, things will really start racing along. Sometimes I think that my estimate of us trying to get pregnant in two years was a little short. I think it's going to take us a bit longer to get established & secure. We will see what is in God's plan as it happens so I'm really trying not to sweat anything too much. As long as my income can keep us somewhat comfortable & out of debt, we'll manage. It isn't going to be easy but I have no doubts we'll get by. He is already making both of us proud with the strides he's made already!

Ells that is so great he is doing good in school and he will work hard and it will all come together for Lehi! I'm team Lehi, I owe you a PM too you know I'm slow LOL.

Hey Ladies, looks like I have some catching up to do. I have been sick all day and working from home

Dada and Q get ready to check your PM

No ur not tricking me again. I heard all this before.

LMAO Dada you get it, I know your gonna take those words back

[DaDa 1]

sus, talking about wrong spelling, when I was taking care of some legal things for my grandmother and looking for attorney, we stopped at a place in Ochi and on the wall behind the "FAKE" attorney I saw is degree from Huwered University, Washington, D.C. so I asked him where he got his law degree he said in the states and a university in Washington, DC...so, I asked is it a HBC and he said yes, I got up and was about to walk out, then I said...you need to learn how to spell...it's H.O.W.A.R.D. University

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Now, I'm not pissed at Craig, because it's expected and he goes from woman to woman to woman to woman and when he's WITH a woman, he has several still on the side. Renee knows this. I have a protective order on him ..and it expires June of next year....Renee knows this too. Renee has 2 small children, you would THINK you wouldn't want that type of man in your life..........she knows EVERYTHING he's done to me and my son !!!!

Awwe Bunz I can truly understand where you are coming from and girl its only natural. Change is coming and now its hitting you, months ago it seemed like so far away and now its only a few months away from a reality! To be honest I went through the same issue when we got our approval I was so happy I could Kingpupalic down the hallway but after a few days I was scared. Why I love my Husband's dirty bathwater but its not only a change for me but for my children ( and we all know how that turned out) So girl I say this to say that the anxiety is NATURAL! You are leaving Yard to come to a new country and start a new life its sounds easy enough but its not simple at all and all the emotions you are feeling are warranted. Just continue to pray and put your faith in the Creator everything will fall into place.

Remember when you get here you will be in NYC only 1 hour 45 minutes away from Philly just call me and I am there meet me on Canal St and we will shop all that anxiety away

woo hooo!

thanks for the kind words though philly

[DaDa 1]

You feel like the dude, why? Cause you are agressive? I find guys like it when you tell them exactly what you want. Leaves the guessing to a minimum.

i am usually the one that wants to do special things, but Roger is always coming up w/ something..

"lets go to the lake, , he's getting flowers, cards, calling to say he love me.." i am getting the treatment ive prayed for.. but i feel like i need to step up my game LOL.. cyaan let him be outdoing me!!

his bday is coming up.. i gotta BRING IT!!!!

no its not a comptetition i just wanna show him how much i apprciate his appreciation

i don't understand how this lottery scam is so out of control

there has to be somethign bigger behind it

i agree.. i can't believe ppl keep falling for stuff like that CRAZY!!!

I know I got a call saying I won the lottery and i needed to send money to pay for the taxes. I just told him GREAT take the money I owe out of my winnigns and send me the rest. He told me he couldn't cash the check it was made out to me. SO I told him to send me the check I'll cash it and send him the money. He hung up.

What he didn't trust me?

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

I know I got a call saying I won the lottery and i needed to send money to pay for the taxes. I just told him GREAT take the money I owe out of my winnigns and send me the rest. He told me he couldn't cash the check it was made out to me. SO I told him to send me the check I'll cash it and send him the money. He hung up.

What he didn't trust me?

[dillon 6]

you are too funny DaDa

[*SunRay* 1]

I know I got a call saying I won the lottery and i needed to send money to pay for the taxes. I just told him GREAT take the money I owe out of my winnigns and send me the rest. He told me he couldn't cash the check it was made out to me. SO I told him to send me the check I'll cash it and send him the money. He hung up.

What he didn't trust me?

That's a good one DaDa.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

the fact that so many of your ladies are getting these calls must mean there are ppl in the hotels who are selling these ppl your personal info

[dillon 6]

I feel a little left out that I am not getting those calls.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

I feel a little left out that I am not getting those calls.

yes dem need to get a ringyard calling card and call me too!

[dancehallquana 5]

the fact that so many of your ladies are getting these calls must mean there are ppl in the hotels who are selling these ppl your personal info

wow..thats not good

I feel a little left out that I am not getting those calls.

not me.. lol.. i don't wanna get the calls i get here... i screen calls like its my occupation LOL

i guess if it was an 876 number, my curiousity MIGHT get me