Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

GOOO MRS P....MI HAWT A BEAT

[DaDa 1]

WE SHOULD BE HEARING SOMETHING FROM MRS P SOON I WOULD THINK......ITS AN HOUR AND A HALF PAST PER INTERVIEW TIME........I DONT EVEN WANT TO GO TO WORK TIL WE HEAR SOMETHING......COME ON TAMISHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111

what time is mrs p's interview?

730AM

WOW!! What an exciting day!!

YG remember they still have to go through the process of musical chairs and windows too. So I would say give her about 2.5 hours after the scheduled time. It is nerve-wracking...like I'm going through it all over again. :biting my nails smiley:

Umm I think I don't have to tell you that your to go back to your closet...

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

WAHH GWAAN EVERYBODY..OK SMADDY FILL ME IN...IS Q..TALKING BOUT HER OLD BREAK UP WITH RG? SMADDY BETTA SEY YES

[Savanphil 3]

GOOO MRS P....MI HAWT A BEAT

Hi Chiney....mine too. I am glued to VJ today.

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

GOOO MRS P....MI HAWT A BEAT

Hi Chiney....mine too. I am glued to VJ today.

Heya man..felt like i've know Tam...forever now..she affi get tru tidey

[jawi876 2]

DAMMNNNNN 700 US for a divorce?? Wow that's alot.

How much is it here?

Not that much I pray!!!

I thought you had already filed for the divorce. You don't know the fees you paid? I'm sorry if I got it wrong...but I could have sworn you said the ex wouldn't sign the papers. When I filed...my ex wouldn't sign either...but I had to pay the fees upfront regardless...just to start the process. Maybe it is different from State to State. You better get crack a lacking on those fees then...like I said to the judge:

GIVE US FREE! He and the entire courtroom laughed as I danced out of the courtroom with my divorce. LOL

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Jawi, I had typed a whole page responds to you, then I decided that I didn't need to explain my self to you. You think what you want, I will say to JG, that all I did in my second resonds to her, was explain what I was saying, after she asked me the question.

All I can do is sit here and shake my head at your post. Be weary of judging...........

I'm happy to see we agreed on one thing. I continue to shake my head at your posts...as do a lot of other people on the thread. Your comments are comical at best...and make absolutely no sense...notwithstanding the grammatical errors. I probably wouldn't have been able to decipher half of the page you typed anyway. C'est la vie!

Jawi, since you have designated yourself the spokeperson for those on this board, Again I say be weary of judging....

MY God bless you in your continuous journey.....

[1luv 1]

WAHH GWAAN EVERYBODY..OK SMADDY FILL ME IN...IS Q..TALKING BOUT HER OLD BREAK UP WITH RG? SMADDY BETTA SEY YES

I am so confused

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

i drove past the us embassy this morning to drop of my mother to buy her lotto

and i was looking out for mrs p (as if i would recognise her lol)

man i am praying that she gets her approval, praying praying praying!

WAHH GWAAN EVERYBODY..OK SMADDY FILL ME IN...IS Q..TALKING BOUT HER OLD BREAK UP WITH RG? SMADDY BETTA SEY YES

I am so confused

it's an old breakup

she was using it to explain a point

[DaDa 1]

Be very careful with skyauction on flights and read the fine print carefully - There are additional fees depending on where you fly from, and it is not necessarily cheaper - My friend won from Chicago - when she looked into the fees, it would have cost her $250 more to use the ticket than just to book it straight out.

Jawi - you started my day off to a great start!

Thanks for the advice. I no longer have to worry about that anymore. My soon to be hubby and I discussed it and Im not going to the interview because we decided to save the money. He will do fine. We were going over last minute details last night... Everything is fine... Interview, here comes my baby!!!

I just want to thank everyone who has good wishes for us. Im looking forward to hearing the outcome of the interview. As soon as I know, you guys will know!!!

MsTee I know how you feel. It's like you have confidence and you KNOW everything will be o.k. but it's like you just want to take a peek. But it sounds like you have all your ducks all in a row and for him to tell you he’s' got it well then he got it. Tell him to play on player… Do yuh thang!..LOL

[jawi876 2]

JG, you have said it correctly, it's later rather than sooner. Ending a relationship without legal ties is easier than ending one with legal ties.

easier technically (paperwork) but not necessarily emotionally..

my break up w/ rg was MUCH harder to deal w/ than my divorce

..its just not always true for everyone.. so now im not married to the love of my life and we are denied, i should just dust myself off and move on? at least i wasn't married to him??

i know u probably didn't mean it this way hun, but its something u say a lot, maybe not realizing it..

Q, why don't we look at the number of relationship went enter into, they break-up and we move on to the next. Compare that the number to the number of marriages we enter into. When I use the pronoun (We) I mean the universa of people. Every relationship does not turn into a marrage, therefore a marriage does have stronger emotional commitments, than a non-married relationship.

So, Q, if your break -up w rg was MUCH harder to deal w/than my divorce, why does things your ex do, get next to you so much? Just asking, since you made the statement. Please don't explain yourself, becuse you owe noone not even me, an explanation of your feelings. Again, this is my observation from your posting....

You just don't get it Roxcie. We see women entering into marriages with Jamaican men that they have known for 1 week. Are you seriously saying that because they said vows they had stronger emotional commitments? Please! Take that WEAK argument somewhere.

Sorry Q...I know you can handle this one...but I have to say it. Q is upset by things her ex does because she has children with him...and his stupidity affects the moral well being of her children. Any good mother will be upset when the father of their children is not acting in a way that uplifts and positively teaches their children.

You posted that Joel lived here with you...so why is he having such a hard time adjusting to the States now...just an observation from your postings. Do you see how ludicrous your statement to Q was? I think I better get ready for work...before I really loose my composure and all sense of decorum.

Yuh nuh easy star. Beer phuckery yuh ah chat mi gyal.

go jawi!! ding ding ding

Happy Hump Day!!!

Can't wait to hear the GREAT news Mrs. P!!!!!

Jawi, why are you speaking for Q, my comment was to her, she may think she was over her marrage breaking up, but she is still going thru some emotional part of that break-up. Q, again, I was not asking why are you upset at the actions your ex extend toward his children, my question was why does those things your ex- do toward you bother you. But again Q, forget I even post the question, it was a question I would have asked you if you were sitting or standing right here in front of me. It was not a question to say, hey look at your relationship, it was a question being asked to enable us to ask another question, so we could have gotten on the same page.

Jawi, the answer to your question, my husband just like any one who have left there family, was homesick. To be clear to YOU, my husband has adjusted just fine to being here in the US. If he had not shown signs of missing his family, I would have to wonder.....

Okay you got down on that one. Respect. I was only showing that one question didn't have a thing to do with the next. You are right I'm not Quana...but most of the stuff she posted that bothered her had to do with the kids not her. But, I'll concede on this one because I'm not in her situation, and she is the only one that knows it best.

I'm happy for you and Joel...truly. I just want you to see that you don't have to discount somebody else's struggle for us to feel empathy for your struggle too. I still don't think you will get it...the saying you can't teach old dogs new tricks definitely comes to mind. I'm NOT calling you old...just a fitting adage for our discussion today. You are convinced that you are right...I'm convinced that you are clueless and still self serving. We can agree to disagree.

Have a great day yardies...I'm late to work now! LMAO

I'm not judging you...just calling it like I see it based on your continous posts about K1s being inferior in your eyes.

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Good Morning VJ How are my ladies doing at 7:25 am.

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

i drove past the us embassy this morning to drop of my mother to buy her lotto

and i was looking out for mrs p (as if i would recognise her lol)

man i am praying that she gets her approval, praying praying praying!

WAHH GWAAN EVERYBODY..OK SMADDY FILL ME IN...IS Q..TALKING BOUT HER OLD BREAK UP WITH RG? SMADDY BETTA SEY YES

I am so confused

it's an old breakup

she was using it to explain a point

okkk..tank GOD mi hoppy again

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Good Morning VJ How are my ladies doing at 7:25 am.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

mi see 8 ah onoo in here

onoo nuh badda come dead up di vibes in here today!

cho