Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)

[NatPatBen 3]

We used to use Sametime - we just switched to Outlook communicator - I can't stand it - with Sametime, only key people had it - with Communicator everyone does - people just pop up all the time, makes me NUTS!

Do you mean that uninvited people wander into your meetings??

That's actually somewhat funny because I was JUST thinking yesterday that a person COULD look at the list of meetings going on each day & join ones that interest them, even if they weren't invited. That could be a good way to know what other teams in the company are doing.

[DaDa 1]

That was a internet joke... You mean to tell me someone did that for real..... I don't believe someone would be that stupid. Well then again yes I do.

U know what maybe the one that started it is a friend or family member of hers. My best friend of 30 years said the girl attends the school. She was there when the mom got mad because all this time they have been calling the girl LA.

i tried to get into the realhousewives show but just couldn't. that tardy for the party song was too corny....and that blonde biyatch just doesn't look right to me....she sort of looks like a man or she had some plastic surgery that didn't turn out just right....and she wears way too much lipstick....i don't know somethings just not right about her

OMG I love tardy for the party song!!! I do agree with your comments on Kim though.

[sus 70]

Do you mean that uninvited people wander into your meetings??

That's actually somewhat funny because I was JUST thinking yesterday that a person COULD look at the list of meetings going on each day & join ones that interest them, even if they weren't invited. That could be a good way to know what other teams in the company are doing.

No - We'll be on a conference call, and people on the call will pop up with side comments - it's very distracting -

[1luv 1]

Good morning Yardies!!

Sending positives vibes to Mr and Mrs. Palmer!! I cannot wait for the good news!! This reminded me of when Jawis hubby went for his interview. I was glued on VJ ALL DAY!!

Edited October 7, 2009 by 1luv

[DaDa 1]

Dwight Eubanks Outs Usher, TI & Ludacris As Gay

did he say my line 2 tears in a bucket ....... LMAO

Usher is suspect with his fine behind but TI and Ludi?? I seriously doubt it....

Edited October 7, 2009 by DaDa

[DaDa 1]

english please Sus, what is 60L yo 80 K?

in american dollars, both spouses are jamaican

LMAO - Sorry that was supposed to be $60K to $80K jamaican - around $700 US

DAMMNNNNN 700 US for a divorce?? Wow that's alot.

Edited October 7, 2009 by DaDa

[yankeesgirl79 0]

Hey Yankee,

How is the wedding planning coming along?

hey portland...its coming along.....this day is gonna be here before i know it! been a little tied up with me and the babes being sick but i will be back on track and in wedding mode soon!

[MRStee 19]

Good morning, gonna catch up....

[MRStee 19]

Do you think i will be ok if i have my brother type's up a letter stating that he works at XYZ company but they are unble to provide him with an employment letter due to company policy and just attach his pay check stubs to it ??

Maybe you can type up a letter for him and maybe he can get a supervisor to sign it? I don't think you need to stress. For instance, Im not sending any bank infomation. Im just making sure the tax returns are there (I do have a letter of employment), but I don't think its absolutely necessary. Don't worry Heaven you should be okay

[NatPatBen 3]

DAMMNNNNN 700 US for a divorce?? Wow that's alot.

How much is it here?

[jawi876 2]

Good morning Yardies!!

Sending positives vibes to Mr and Mrs. Palmer!! I cannot wait for the good news!! This reminded me of when Jawis hubby went for his interview. I was glued on VJ ALL DAY!!

Awwwww...I you too 1Luv!!!

Do you think i will be ok if i have my brother type's up a letter stating that he works at XYZ company but they are unble to provide him with an employment letter due to company policy and just attach his pay check stubs to it ??

Maybe you can type up a letter for him and maybe he can get a supervisor to sign it? I don't think you need to stress. For instance, Im not sending any bank infomation. Im just making sure the tax returns are there (I do have a letter of employment), but I don't think its absolutely necessary. Don't worry Heaven you should be okay

You don't have to have bank information if you are not proving the poverty guidelines with assets...if your income is sufficient the bank statements were never required.

Heavensent...you should be fine without the employment letter as long as you have the tax transcripts, W2s and most recent paystubs for your brother.

[MRStee 19]

Be very careful with skyauction on flights and read the fine print carefully - There are additional fees depending on where you fly from, and it is not necessarily cheaper - My friend won from Chicago - when she looked into the fees, it would have cost her $250 more to use the ticket than just to book it straight out.

Jawi - you started my day off to a great start!

Thanks for the advice. I no longer have to worry about that anymore. My soon to be hubby and I discussed it and Im not going to the interview because we decided to save the money. He will do fine. We were going over last minute details last night... Everything is fine... Interview, here comes my baby!!!

I just want to thank everyone who has good wishes for us. Im looking forward to hearing the outcome of the interview. As soon as I know, you guys will know!!!

[sus 70]

DAMMNNNNN 700 US for a divorce?? Wow that's alot.

How much is it here?

Depends on state by state - in CT the filing fee is $300 - service fee for the Marshal is around $80 - That is doing it yourself without an attorney - An attorney in CT for a simple straightforward divorce would probably charge around $2500 - A more complex one, my friend spent over $70K in legal fees

[MRStee 19]

Sending lots of prayers and positive vibes to MrsP! I KNOW you are gonna triumph today!

Ditto!!!! Im so excited for the Palmer's

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

JG, you have said it correctly, it's later rather than sooner. Ending a relationship without legal ties is easier than ending one with legal ties.

easier technically (paperwork) but not necessarily emotionally..

my break up w/ rg was MUCH harder to deal w/ than my divorce

..its just not always true for everyone.. so now im not married to the love of my life and we are denied, i should just dust myself off and move on? at least i wasn't married to him??

i know u probably didn't mean it this way hun, but its something u say a lot, maybe not realizing it..

Q, why don't we look at the number of relationship went enter into, they break-up and we move on to the next. Compare that the number to the number of marriages we enter into. When I use the pronoun (We) I mean the universa of people. Every relationship does not turn into a marrage, therefore a marriage does have stronger emotional commitments, than a non-married relationship.

So, Q, if your break -up w rg was MUCH harder to deal w/than my divorce, why does things your ex do, get next to you so much? Just asking, since you made the statement. Please don't explain yourself, becuse you owe noone not even me, an explanation of your feelings. Again, this is my observation from your posting....