Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)

[JAPrincess 27]

and there is no excuse for cheating or for blaming the husbands - if the wife isn't happy then she needs to get the hell outta the marriage before she cheats -

The "it's the husband's fault" comment got me...

I have seen marriages where the husband DID ALL HE COULD to make the woman happy and it just noh work...

I hope they can repair their marriage finesse, a year of cheating is a long time.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

and wha yuh go do fi mi?

bring yuh back some

5 pack a tambrind balls

1 black cake

2 roast breadfruit

3 dozen ackee

4 ripe east indian

3 grater cake

2 blue draws

1 potato pudding

1 bunch a guinep

4 starapple

5 neaseberry

6 oatahaiti apple

7 june plums

3 bakkle a white rum

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

i sort of understand his feelings but still don't really think they feel any way towards him about it.

i guess because my aunt and uncle have been in a relationship for so long and everyone has kind of admired their relationship. they are very cool people and always are doing things together and seem so happy. so now not only is her marraige compromised but she is losing a great friend too..

she was supposed to go next month with a few friends of hers and they have all cancelled their trip..

Ahh that is true.. That is along time to be married and so uncommon in my neck of the woods lately. I see your point my husbands aunt and uncle have bene married I think 25 years and they always look so happy. Because of them I had faith in marriage but now lately I don't know. Its like the bad is overpowering the good.

Not always...on Sunday my parents will be married for 40 years.

My parents have been married 46 years.

Mine too JG, well 47...August just went by.

[*JG* 2]

i sort of understand his feelings but still don't really think they feel any way towards him about it.

i guess because my aunt and uncle have been in a relationship for so long and everyone has kind of admired their relationship. they are very cool people and always are doing things together and seem so happy. so now not only is her marraige compromised but she is losing a great friend too..

she was supposed to go next month with a few friends of hers and they have all cancelled their trip..

Ahh that is true.. That is along time to be married and so uncommon in my neck of the woods lately. I see your point my husbands aunt and uncle have bene married I think 25 years and they always look so happy. Because of them I had faith in marriage but now lately I don't know. Its like the bad is overpowering the good.

Not always...on Sunday my parents will be married for 40 years.

My parents have been married 46 years.

and they are still speaking?

Ha ha....yes. It was iffy there for a while when I was growing up.....lots of slamming doors I remember. But, yeah, they are still very much together.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

6 bakkle a rum cream

4 bakkle a mudslide

3 bakkle a peanie wallie

[sus 70]

6 bakkle a rum cream

4 bakkle a mudslide

3 bakkle a peanie wallie

Who wan a bakkle a mudslide? Mi wan 10 bakkle a rum cream!

[DaDa 1]

That is the point I was trying to make Island. Maybe I should have just said that I guess I went into too much detail.

I got you Dada...but I think it was more about you saying you would bottle them and sell them. Since "selling" them is in the history of our country....it landed on here wrong.

Ohhhhh true that. My bad for that part.....

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

6 bakkle a rum cream

4 bakkle a mudslide

3 bakkle a peanie wallie

I love peanie wallie...lawddddddddd it's so good

[*JG* 2]

i sort of understand his feelings but still don't really think they feel any way towards him about it.

i guess because my aunt and uncle have been in a relationship for so long and everyone has kind of admired their relationship. they are very cool people and always are doing things together and seem so happy. so now not only is her marraige compromised but she is losing a great friend too..

she was supposed to go next month with a few friends of hers and they have all cancelled their trip..

Ahh that is true.. That is along time to be married and so uncommon in my neck of the woods lately. I see your point my husbands aunt and uncle have bene married I think 25 years and they always look so happy. Because of them I had faith in marriage but now lately I don't know. Its like the bad is overpowering the good.

Not always...on Sunday my parents will be married for 40 years.

My parents have been married 46 years.

Mine too JG, well 47...August just went by.

August what, Tre? My parents are August 30th. (well, really December 31st; but that's just a long story)

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

i sort of understand his feelings but still don't really think they feel any way towards him about it.

i guess because my aunt and uncle have been in a relationship for so long and everyone has kind of admired their relationship. they are very cool people and always are doing things together and seem so happy. so now not only is her marraige compromised but she is losing a great friend too..

she was supposed to go next month with a few friends of hers and they have all cancelled their trip..

Ahh that is true.. That is along time to be married and so uncommon in my neck of the woods lately. I see your point my husbands aunt and uncle have bene married I think 25 years and they always look so happy. Because of them I had faith in marriage but now lately I don't know. Its like the bad is overpowering the good.

Not always...on Sunday my parents will be married for 40 years.

My parents have been married 46 years.

Mine too JG, well 47...August just went by.

August what, Tre? My parents are August 30th. (well, really December 31st; but that's just a long story)

August 15th...they were wayyyyy to young 16

[finesse 3]

6 bakkle a rum cream

4 bakkle a mudslide

3 bakkle a peanie wallie

now we are talking...

[dillon 6]

i sort of understand his feelings but still don't really think they feel any way towards him about it.

i guess because my aunt and uncle have been in a relationship for so long and everyone has kind of admired their relationship. they are very cool people and always are doing things together and seem so happy. so now not only is her marraige compromised but she is losing a great friend too..

she was supposed to go next month with a few friends of hers and they have all cancelled their trip..

Ahh that is true.. That is along time to be married and so uncommon in my neck of the woods lately. I see your point my husbands aunt and uncle have bene married I think 25 years and they always look so happy. Because of them I had faith in marriage but now lately I don't know. Its like the bad is overpowering the good.

Not always...on Sunday my parents will be married for 40 years.

My parents have been married 46 years.

and they are still speaking?

Ha ha....yes. It was iffy there for a while when I was growing up.....lots of slamming doors I remember. But, yeah, they are still very much together.

LOL same with mine...I think my Mom even moved out for a month when I was in High School. And yes they are still talking...

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

6 bakkle a rum cream

4 bakkle a mudslide

3 bakkle a peanie wallie

now we are talking...

rum head

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

GOOD AFTERNOON LADIES,

Just checking out the conversation.

[sus 70]

LOL same with mine...I think my Mom even moved out for a month when I was in High School. And yes they are still talking...

Do we all have parents that did that? My Dad actually filed for divorce when I was about 12 - just had my mother served without any warning - we had a summer of HELL - went away to camp at the end of the summer, came back and everything was fine and dandy! They were married 42 years when my Dad passed away