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Hey everyone, i forgot to share the part that upset me the most! obviously you know what happened with my husband , but i forgot to share that when the CO was asking him questions, one of the questions was "what does your wife plan to study?" ... I have been in college for 3 semesters, that means i have ONE semester before i have to decide what i want to major in. I know i want something in the nursing field for sure (God willing) but i am just not sure what type of nurse exactly. I told my husband that i am undecided, and he had been trying to help me figure out what i want to major in for a while now. so when the CO asked him what i plan to study, my husband told him i am undecided. the CO then began to judge and bag on my husband, saying that my husband does not care and is uninterested in my college career. what never do they think they have? am i being too emotional? if the answer is yes, then i dont care. I am so upset that they have the never the assume my husband does not care, when in reality, he cares about my educations more than i even care about it ! and believe me, my educations is EVERYTHING to me! I feel offended and want to cry that my husband had such rude harsh words said to him. I swear, that is the part that makes him the most heartbroken, not even the fact that he does not have a visa!

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Hey everyone, i forgot to share the part that upset me the most! obviously you know what happened with my husband , but i forgot to share that when the CO was asking him questions, one of the questions was "what does your wife plan to study?" ... I have been in college for 3 semesters, that means i have ONE semester before i have to decide what i want to major in. I know i want something in the nursing field for sure (God willing) but i am just not sure what type of nurse exactly. I told my husband that i am undecided, and he had been trying to help me figure out what i want to major in for a while now. so when the CO asked him what i plan to study, my husband told him i am undecided. the CO then began to judge and bag on my husband, saying that my husband does not care and is uninterested in my college career. what never do they think they have? am i being too emotional? if the answer is yes, then i dont care. I am so upset that they have the never the assume my husband does not care, when in reality, he cares about my educations more than i even care about it ! and believe me, my educations is EVERYTHING to me! I feel offended and want to cry that my husband had such rude harsh words said to him. I swear, that is the part that makes him the most heartbroken, not even the fact that he does not have a visa!

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in case i was not clear enough, the CO asked for more evidence of our relationship and proof of domicile in the USA. they gave us a 212 g which is administrative processing, everyone is saying they do this process very slowly... i am so nervous and tired of it all. since they only asked for more proof, and i can provide that i dont think it should take that long.... right ??? am i pushing the FALSE HOPE button ??? wishful thinking ?!

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Hey everyone, i forgot to share the part that upset me the most! obviously you know what happened with my husband , but i forgot to share that when the CO was asking him questions, one of the questions was "what does your wife plan to study?" ... I have been in college for 3 semesters, that means i have ONE semester before i have to decide what i want to major in. I know i want something in the nursing field for sure (God willing) but i am just not sure what type of nurse exactly. I told my husband that i am undecided, and he had been trying to help me figure out what i want to major in for a while now. so when the CO asked him what i plan to study, my husband told him i am undecided. the CO then began to judge and bag on my husband, saying that my husband does not care and is uninterested in my college career. what never do they think they have? am i being too emotional? if the answer is yes, then i dont care. I am so upset that they have the never the assume my husband does not care, when in reality, he cares about my educations more than i even care about it ! and believe me, my educations is EVERYTHING to me! I feel offended and want to cry that my husband had such rude harsh words said to him. I swear, that is the part that makes him the most heartbroken, not even the fact that he does not have a visa!

:unsure:

in case i was not clear enough, the CO asked for more evidence of our relationship and proof of domicile in the USA. they gave us a 212 g which is administrative processing, everyone is saying they do this process very slowly... i am so nervous and tired of it all. since they only asked for more proof, and i can provide that i dont think it should take that long.... right ??? am i pushing the FALSE HOPE button ??? wishful thinking ?!

you give them every darn thing, picures, letters, cards, emails, chats, I gave all mentioned plus other things to some folks dont mean anything, pics of me with flowers he sent me, the ribbon from one bouquet I carry with me everyday. Just gather everything from day one to the present. For a time line of how long, Im sorry Sweetie, these people are not in a hurry to see us with our loved ones. Keep your faith, it will all end soon. Best wishes for a quick joyful end to your nightmare.

Beth

Truly happy!!!

New life, new adventures, and a new attitude.

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