im back needing more help *PLEASE*

[rdsey 0]

well its been a very long time since I been on here but Im back because I feel nothing has changed.

My last post I stated I was married to a man that has problems with me, my children and cheating.(Please read other post). I filed for a divorce and had 2 years to go through with it, I didnt follow through nor do I have the paper I need to file to finilaze the divorce.

My husband received his work permit moved to Dallas, there he was on single line with many females. His pic, his name and stating he was single. I was so hurt. He couldnt find work there so instead of moving back to Oklahoma he moved to New York and it was still the same. I filled complaint with Immigrations, hes back here but has been able to file for removal of conditions, work permit and visa with my knowledge. Now I expressed to Immigrations I wanted my name off his papers. What else can I do? If he gets his condition removed thats fine I just didnt want it to be with my name on it.

Wait, the Nigerian guy, your husband, filed for AOS ? You and him are still married right? Well he cant file for AOS without your signature on the form. He can only file for AOS without you if he has a divorce paper that says you and him are no longer married.

I want my name off his paper work, he just got his work permit and green card it had expired the next is removal of condition I really dont know the way it work, i dont receive anything from immugrations only him

[mankind 0]

RDSEY: Just so I can better understand the situation, here are some questions:

- Your husband is from Nigeria and you are a US resident/citizen?

- Were you the I-864 (financial supporter) when your husband applied for the green card?

- Do you have children with him?

- I am confused as to whether you did file for divorce or not, and if it was granted or not.

As other people have already mentioned, your husband can file to remove the conditions without your name. Given the situation, he is probably filing it separately but I think he needs some sort of paperwork to show he is divorced or getting the divorce, etc. If he has children with you, this may work in his favor. If he is using your name in the application (as if he is filing it jointly) then he is committing a serious fraud.

Unfortunately, there is no way you can ensure that. But if you think he engaged in a marriage with you only to acquire a Green Card, I believe you can report him to the immigration. But be prepared to prove (as I think you are doing) that the marriage was on good faith from your part. Being in good-faith doesn't only mean you didn't cheat on him, but it mostly means you truly wanted to get married to be together as a couple, it means you didn't get married just to keep someone in the country.

Also, if you were the one who signed the I-864, unfortunately you are responsible as his financial supporter until he becomes a US citizen, dies, or other options (I don't really recall all the alternatives). So, if you truly think and you can prove he got married not in good-faith, I think you should report him.

Forget all this discussion going on about countries, scams, etc. Scams happen everywhere unfortunately. And if you were caught in one (without knowing it), then you should take actions to protect yourself.

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[rdsey 0]

RDSEY: Just so I can better understand the situation, here are some questions:

- Your husband is from Nigeria and you are a US resident/citizen?

- Were you the I-864 (financial supporter) when your husband applied for the green card?

- Do you have children with him?

- I am confused as to whether you did file for divorce or not, and if it was granted or not.

As other people have already mentioned, your husband can file to remove the conditions without your name. Given the situation, he is probably filing it separately but I think he needs some sort of paperwork to show he is divorced or getting the divorce, etc. If he has children with you, this may work in his favor. If he is using your name in the application (as if he is filing it jointly) then he is committing a serious fraud.

Unfortunately, there is no way you can ensure that. But if you think he engaged in a marriage with you only to acquire a Green Card, I believe you can report him to the immigration. But be prepared to prove (as I think you are doing) that the marriage was on good faith from your part. Being in good-faith doesn't only mean you didn't cheat on him, but it mostly means you truly wanted to get married to be together as a couple, it means you didn't get married just to keep someone in the country.

Also, if you were the one who signed the I-864, unfortunately you are responsible as his financial supporter until he becomes a US citizen, dies, or other options (I don't really recall all the alternatives). So, if you truly think and you can prove he got married not in good-faith, I think you should report him.

Forget all this discussion going on about countries, scams, etc. Scams happen everywhere unfortunately. And if you were caught in one (without knowing it), then you should take actions to protect yourself.

you can read my old post to summerize how i got to where i am. My old posts are in famoly problem post or something like that. I did file for divorce didnt send in completition paper I have 2 years I thought we would work out but he still flirts with women, he and my teenage boys dont get along he said he dont look at them as his family and dont care for them. We dont have children together, and I have turned in emails from him to other females and his postings on the single lines. When he moved he has never informed USCIS about change of address, and now he lives in apartments that are 10 mins away from me, so we have been married 3years and actually lived together 8months off and on. This time I put him out because of the problems in the home.

[rdsey 0]

RDSEY: Just so I can better understand the situation, here are some questions:

- Your husband is from Nigeria and you are a US resident/citizen?

- Were you the I-864 (financial supporter) when your husband applied for the green card?

- Do you have children with him?

- I am confused as to whether you did file for divorce or not, and if it was granted or not.

As other people have already mentioned, your husband can file to remove the conditions without your name. Given the situation, he is probably filing it separately but I think he needs some sort of paperwork to show he is divorced or getting the divorce, etc. If he has children with you, this may work in his favor. If he is using your name in the application (as if he is filing it jointly) then he is committing a serious fraud.

Unfortunately, there is no way you can ensure that. But if you think he engaged in a marriage with you only to acquire a Green Card, I believe you can report him to the immigration. But be prepared to prove (as I think you are doing) that the marriage was on good faith from your part. Being in good-faith doesn't only mean you didn't cheat on him, but it mostly means you truly wanted to get married to be together as a couple, it means you didn't get married just to keep someone in the country.

Also, if you were the one who signed the I-864, unfortunately you are responsible as his financial supporter until he becomes a US citizen, dies, or other options (I don't really recall all the alternatives). So, if you truly think and you can prove he got married not in good-faith, I think you should report him.

Forget all this discussion going on about countries, scams, etc. Scams happen everywhere unfortunately. And if you were caught in one (without knowing it), then you should take actions to protect yourself.

you can read my old post to summerize how i got to where i am. My old posts are in famoly problem post or something like that. I did file for divorce didnt send in completition paper I have 2 years I thought we would work out but he still flirts with women, he and my teenage boys dont get along he said he dont look at them as his family and dont care for them. We dont have children together, and I have turned in emails from him to other females and his postings on the single lines. When he moved he has never informed USCIS about change of address, and now he lives in apartments that are 10 mins away from me, so we have been married 3years and actually lived together 8months off and on. This time I put him out because of the problems in the home.

his paper work from immugrations says his removal of condition has been extended for 1 year so now what?

[Killer_Clown_2009 0]

It sounds as if you filed the removal of conditions paperwork with him. I suppose your next step would be to send a letter to whichever USC Service Center that application is pending with and tell them that you no longer want to jointly remove conditions. I don't know what else you can do. It sounds as if you have a rocky on and off relationship. Be sure that you do not plan to get back together with this person, before you take that step.

[rdsey 0]

It sounds as if you filed the removal of conditions paperwork with him. I suppose your next step would be to send a letter to whichever USC Service Center that application is pending with and tell them that you no longer want to jointly remove conditions. I don't know what else you can do. It sounds as if you have a rocky on and off relationship. Be sure that you do not plan to get back together with this person, before you take that step.

I dont, I finally spoke with his brother and all my husband has told me was a lie, now he says I told you that. His step father did not accept him and so his mom sent him to stay with family in Nigeria, which explains the problem he has with my teenager. He say they are mean and dont resepct him which the only thing I can agree on is none of them speak to each other, I do get on to my teenagers because its out of resepct. He dont consider them family he say he wants nothing to do with them. I now know why. I will not send my kids off for him.

[FranknAiza 0]

It sounds as if you filed the removal of conditions paperwork with him. I suppose your next step would be to send a letter to whichever USC Service Center that application is pending with and tell them that you no longer want to jointly remove conditions. I don't know what else you can do. It sounds as if you have a rocky on and off relationship. Be sure that you do not plan to get back together with this person, before you take that step.

I dont, I finally spoke with his brother and all my husband has told me was a lie, now he says I told you that. His step father did not accept him and so his mom sent him to stay with family in Nigeria, which explains the problem he has with my teenager. He say they are mean and dont resepct him which the only thing I can agree on is none of them speak to each other, I do get on to my teenagers because its out of resepct. He dont consider them family he say he wants nothing to do with them. I now know why. I will not send my kids off for him.

Im kinda confused a lil hehehe. i can tell you this, if you no longer want to be a part of his life and his immigration status, you need to write a letter stating all the facts, stating you don't have a bonafide marriage and your not living together etc etc and mail it to your service center. This way if he files some papers and signs your name on them it will comeback to get him. because I know as a fact, if you and him are married, you can only file to remove conditions together. Now he can file for a waiver of this if he has solid evidence that you abused him in some way. But it better be real evidence like police reports, court documents, etc etc. Everybody cries abuse and USCIS knows 95% of those claims is all BS. If he doesn't have solid proof, they dont care. But you need to adise them on the situation because from what you said so far I keep getting the feeling that he signed your name .

[rdsey 0]

It sounds as if you filed the removal of conditions paperwork with him. I suppose your next step would be to send a letter to whichever USC Service Center that application is pending with and tell them that you no longer want to jointly remove conditions. I don't know what else you can do. It sounds as if you have a rocky on and off relationship. Be sure that you do not plan to get back together with this person, before you take that step.

I dont, I finally spoke with his brother and all my husband has told me was a lie, now he says I told you that. His step father did not accept him and so his mom sent him to stay with family in Nigeria, which explains the problem he has with my teenager. He say they are mean and dont resepct him which the only thing I can agree on is none of them speak to each other, I do get on to my teenagers because its out of resepct. He dont consider them family he say he wants nothing to do with them. I now know why. I will not send my kids off for him.

Im kinda confused a lil hehehe. i can tell you this, if you no longer want to be a part of his life and his immigration status, you need to write a letter stating all the facts, stating you don't have a bonafide marriage and your not living together etc etc and mail it to your service center. This way if he files some papers and signs your name on them it will comeback to get him. because I know as a fact, if you and him are married, you can only file to remove conditions together. Now he can file for a waiver of this if he has solid evidence that you abused him in some way. But it better be real evidence like police reports, court documents, etc etc. Everybody cries abuse and USCIS knows 95% of those claims is all BS. If he doesn't have solid proof, they dont care. But you need to adise them on the situation because from what you said so far I keep getting the feeling that he signed your name .

I plan on going back down there I have the email to the officer that took my info they have the proof it just seem to me nothing is happening so i will go again because i am being used