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Abdulinlove Apprentice

Abdulinlove   1

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My wife and i have been married for a few years now and it is time for me to lift conditions on my greencard. our marriage has always been rocky from day 1. my interview is soon coming and she refuses to go with me. we have been separated on and off but we are not divorced. what shud i do?

thanks.

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SuperDuper!   230

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My wife and i have been married for a few years now and it is time for me to lift conditions on my greencard. our marriage has always been rocky from day 1. my interview is soon coming and she refuses to go with me. we have been separated on and off but we are not divorced. what shud i do?

thanks.

I respectfully submit that, only YOU can answer this question. Good luck.

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CountryBoy   0

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My wife and i have been married for a few years now and it is time for me to lift conditions on my greencard. our marriage has always been rocky from day 1. my interview is soon coming and she refuses to go with me. we have been separated on and off but we are not divorced. what shud i do?

thanks.

I personally feel that your marital problems "from day one" and "on and off" separations are definite indications that your marriage will not last. When you entered my country under a fiancée or spousal visa, you made a sworn statement that you were entering into the United States (and your relationship) in good faith, yada, yada.

I have to respectfully say that an honorable individual in your position would return to his home country and not attempt to deceive the DHS for the sole purpose of staying in the U.S. There are already way too many immigrants coming in to the United States that do not live up to the conditions of their agreement/visa and every one that files anything (AOS, lifting of conditions, goes to interviews, or whatever) slows the progress of the honest people that are truly in love with their fiancée, husband, or wife and are in OUR country for all the right reasons... those people deserve to be here.

my thoughts to you is this.. file for divorce (or annulment) and go back to your home country, if someday you are as blessed as I have been to find a kind, understanding, loving, and beautiful wife and she happens to live in the U.S. then enter for all the right reasons.

JMHO

CountryBoy

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Brother Hesekiel   2,236

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What interview are you referring to??

There is no room in this country for hyphenated Americanism. When I refer to hyphenated Americans, I do not refer to naturalized Americans. Some of the very best Americans I have ever known were naturalized Americans, Americans born abroad. But a hyphenated American is not an American at all . . . . The one absolutely certain way of bringing this nation to ruin, of preventing all possibility of its continuing to be a nation at all, would be to permit it to become a tangle of squabbling nationalities, an intricate knot of German-Americans, Irish-Americans, English-Americans, French-Americans, Scandinavian-Americans or Italian-Americans, each preserving its separate nationality, each at heart feeling more sympathy with Europeans of that nationality, than with the other citizens of the American Republic . . . . There is no such thing as a hyphenated American who is a good American. The only man who is a good American is the man who is an American and nothing else.

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Abdulinlove Apprentice

Abdulinlove   1

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most people don't have interview for ROC did you get noa1 and noa2 already? how do you know you have interview? as long as enter the marriage in good faith you're ok.

No interview still but we will be called for one?what happens if we are not divorced by that time.

NArocks Mentor

NArocks   13

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How do you know you will be called for an interview? Are you lifting conditions or are you applying for your AOS??

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Why is it that the only one who can stop the crying is the one who started it in the first place?



More Complete Story here
My Saga includes 2 step sons
USC Married 4/2007 Colombian on overstay since 2001 of B1/B2 visa
Applied 5/2007 Approved GC in Hand 10/2007
I-751 mailed 6/30/09 aapproved 11/7/09 The BOYS I-751 Mailed 12/29/09 3/23/10 Email approval for 17 CR 3/27/10
4/14/10 Email approval for 13 yr Old CR 4/23/10

Oldest son now 21 I-130 filed by LPR dad ( as per NVC CSPA is applying here )
I-130 approved 2/24
Priority date 12/6/2007
4/6/2010 letter from NVC arrives to son dated 3/4/2010
5/4/10 received AOS and DS3032 via email
9/22/10 Interview BOG Passed
10/3/10 POE JFK all went well
11/11/10 GC Received smile.png


NArocks Mentor

NArocks   13

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If things are that Bad file for divorce and then file a waiver. Do you have joint things together? Why live in this situation?

Why is it that the only one who can stop the crying is the one who started it in the first place?



More Complete Story here
My Saga includes 2 step sons
USC Married 4/2007 Colombian on overstay since 2001 of B1/B2 visa
Applied 5/2007 Approved GC in Hand 10/2007
I-751 mailed 6/30/09 aapproved 11/7/09 The BOYS I-751 Mailed 12/29/09 3/23/10 Email approval for 17 CR 3/27/10
4/14/10 Email approval for 13 yr Old CR 4/23/10

Oldest son now 21 I-130 filed by LPR dad ( as per NVC CSPA is applying here )
I-130 approved 2/24
Priority date 12/6/2007
4/6/2010 letter from NVC arrives to son dated 3/4/2010
5/4/10 received AOS and DS3032 via email
9/22/10 Interview BOG Passed
10/3/10 POE JFK all went well
11/11/10 GC Received smile.png


mozplay Proficient

mozplay   29

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You should ask this question in the "Effects of Major Family Changes" forum but make sure and give specific info if you do.

As many people have said, MOST people do not get called for an interview. IF you should happen to be one of those people, I would go to the interview anyway, even if your wife is not present, and then explain your situation. If you are divorced or legally separated by then, take those documents to show them. If you get divorced, you will have to file again with a waiver. Don't just not show up for an interview though .. that's bad news.

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Full timeline can be seen in my profile

 

CURRENT STATE OF AFFAIRS - I-130 petition for married sibling
2016

Jul 5 - Receipt date for I-130 petition for my over 21 brother and his wife (both in the UK)

2024

Feb 23 - Sent USCIS a message asking for a processing update

May 6 - Received an email response saying things were progressing normally but that waiting times might be longer

 

*********************************************
THE OG STORY - From K-1 to Citizenship (a love story)
K-1: Aug 12, 2006 to Jan 17, 2007 - mailed I-129F
AOS: Feb 26, 2007 - Jul 26, 2007
REMOVING CONDITIONS: May 4, 2009 - Oct 3, 2009
CITIZENSHIP: Nov 27, 2012 - May 9, 2013
Note: I immigrated from Canada, not T&T - the timeline is reflective of this.


THE SAGA CONTINUES - IR-5 Story
I-130 for Parents - 2013
Aug ?? - mailed I-130 packages for both mother and father
Sept 10 - NOA1 date
Sept 16 - NOA1s received

2014

Feb 25, 26 & 28 - got emails saying that the cases had been transferred to another office, then to my local office, and then just transferred and are being processed

Mar 17 - got email, attached to one case number only, saying that my A number was changed relating to the I-130 filing

Mar 18 - got emails saying that the petitions are approved http://static-forums.visajourney.com/public/style_emoticons/default/smile.png

2020

Mar 20 - N-400 receipt date for my father
2021
Apr 21 - Biometrics appt.

2022
May 2 - Interview

May 20 - Naturalization ceremony
 



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usaborn1111 Apprentice

usaborn1111   0

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My wife and i have been married for a few years now and it is time for me to lift conditions on my greencard. our marriage has always been rocky from day 1. my interview is soon coming and she refuses to go with me. we have been separated on and off but we are not divorced. what shud i do?

thanks.

GOOD LUCK But it does not look good :wacko:

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NickD Grand Master

NickD   203

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My wife and i have been married for a few years now and it is time for me to lift conditions on my greencard. our marriage has always been rocky from day 1. my interview is soon coming and she refuses to go with me. we have been separated on and off but we are not divorced. what shud i do?

thanks.

21 months is more like lifting conditions, if you already waited a few years, you are already illegal. Go back to your home country, would be much easier.

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tibortt   0

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My wife and i have been married for a few years now and it is time for me to lift conditions on my greencard. our marriage has always been rocky from day 1. my interview is soon coming and she refuses to go with me. we have been separated on and off but we are not divorced. what shud i do?

thanks.

I personally feel that your marital problems "from day one" and "on and off" separations are definite indications that your marriage will not last. When you entered my country under a fiancée or spousal visa, you made a sworn statement that you were entering into the United States (and your relationship) in good faith, yada, yada.

I have to respectfully say that an honorable individual in your position would return to his home country and not attempt to deceive the DHS for the sole purpose of staying in the U.S. There are already way too many immigrants coming in to the United States that do not live up to the conditions of their agreement/visa and every one that files anything (AOS, lifting of conditions, goes to interviews, or whatever) slows the progress of the honest people that are truly in love with their fiancée, husband, or wife and are in OUR country for all the right reasons... those people deserve to be here.

my thoughts to you is this.. file for divorce (or annulment) and go back to your home country, if someday you are as blessed as I have been to find a kind, understanding, loving, and beautiful wife and she happens to live in the U.S. then enter for all the right reasons.

JMHO

CountryBoy

Well said CountryBoy! :thumbs:

mozplay Proficient

mozplay   29

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I don't see any reason to suspect that this OP is a troll. He is in the same situation that many people are in. Many people marry ... whether it be a case of an international relationship or not ... and discover that the marriage is not what was expected. USCIS makes provisions for folks who get divorced. The OP is in a grey area.

Take my advice OP... post on the Effects of Major Changes forum. You will find others there in your situation.

Oh.. and if you think someone is a troll ... posting to a topic is an easy way to fan the flames. It's better to say nothing and just let a thread die.

Edited by mozplay

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Full timeline can be seen in my profile

 

CURRENT STATE OF AFFAIRS - I-130 petition for married sibling
2016

Jul 5 - Receipt date for I-130 petition for my over 21 brother and his wife (both in the UK)

2024

Feb 23 - Sent USCIS a message asking for a processing update

May 6 - Received an email response saying things were progressing normally but that waiting times might be longer

 

*********************************************
THE OG STORY - From K-1 to Citizenship (a love story)
K-1: Aug 12, 2006 to Jan 17, 2007 - mailed I-129F
AOS: Feb 26, 2007 - Jul 26, 2007
REMOVING CONDITIONS: May 4, 2009 - Oct 3, 2009
CITIZENSHIP: Nov 27, 2012 - May 9, 2013
Note: I immigrated from Canada, not T&T - the timeline is reflective of this.


THE SAGA CONTINUES - IR-5 Story
I-130 for Parents - 2013
Aug ?? - mailed I-130 packages for both mother and father
Sept 10 - NOA1 date
Sept 16 - NOA1s received

2014

Feb 25, 26 & 28 - got emails saying that the cases had been transferred to another office, then to my local office, and then just transferred and are being processed

Mar 17 - got email, attached to one case number only, saying that my A number was changed relating to the I-130 filing

Mar 18 - got emails saying that the petitions are approved http://static-forums.visajourney.com/public/style_emoticons/default/smile.png

2020

Mar 20 - N-400 receipt date for my father
2021
Apr 21 - Biometrics appt.

2022
May 2 - Interview

May 20 - Naturalization ceremony
 



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