Young couple seeking some help ;o

[VanessaTony 3,567]

Please shorten your signature

I no longer have "viewing signatures" enabled because I was sick of one line posts taking up my WHOLE 17" widescreen because of huge pics/notes/timelines etc.

/sigh

[Muhammad n Maryam 1]

If you read the guides, like multiple people suggested, you'd know about the fees. Or you can go to the USCIS website. If you're going to go through any of this you're going to have to learn how to read the guides and instructions.

Your very rude !

[Stephen + Elisha 92]

If you read the guides, like multiple people suggested, you'd know about the fees. Or you can go to the USCIS website. If you're going to go through any of this you're going to have to learn how to read the guides and instructions.

Your very rude !

Not rude, realistic.

Seriously, fiance/spousal immigration is a very complex, detail-oriented process. If you are unable or unwilling to read detailed instructions and follow them precisely, you will encounter delays if not outright failure. People here at VJ are very helpful, but there's a minimum expectation that you've read the guides and FAQs and your question is either one of clarification or something not addressed by the guides. If you require handholding through the entire process, expect to pay a lawyer for the privilege.

kba0717's advice was brusque but valuable.

[Muhammad n Maryam 1]

If you read the guides, like multiple people suggested, you'd know about the fees. Or you can go to the USCIS website. If you're going to go through any of this you're going to have to learn how to read the guides and instructions.

Your very rude !

Not rude, realistic.

Seriously, fiance/spousal immigration is a very complex, detail-oriented process. If you are unable or unwilling to read detailed instructions and follow them precisely, you will encounter delays if not outright failure. People here at VJ are very helpful, but there's a minimum expectation that you've read the guides and FAQs and your question is either one of clarification or something not addressed by the guides. If you require handholding through the entire process, expect to pay a lawyer for the privilege.

kba0717's advice was brusque but valuable.

I can understand your point , but as you said immigration is a very complex process. And maybe it helps a person abit to hear from another. Also ... If you noticed the guy is new, just joined the other day !!

[brightskte 18]

He might have joined the other day, but he also says that he's been researching for a while. Doesn't look like it to me. I'm just saying. I might be brutal, and I'll fully admit that, but I see no reason not to be when someone completely refuses to read and understand things for themselves. We might sit here all day and tell this guy everything he needs to know, but at the end of the day we're just making it harder for him because he wont learn to look through things for himself and fully comprehend. I've been engaged since Feb. and have been reading, reading, reading and have looked through more immigration websites, and topics on this forum than you can imagine. I might have only joined in June, but I've been around for a while.

Bottom line, we all have to depend on ourselves at some point or another. Especially when it comes to the hard icky stuff. If that makes me rude that I want someone to learn instead of depend on others 100%, then I'll wear my rude crown proudly.

[meowmeowmeow 1]

besides what everyone else said....start saving all your chats, phone records, letters, emails, bla bla bla...