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Hi.. This topic just came abruptly on my mind.. It is very nice to hear from anyone here who has met his/her "THE ONE or ONE GREAT LOVE". Guys, whats was the scenario how you met your partner? Do u believe them at first if they are true about their personal infos or anything about themselves? Do u also feel scary what if he/she is just playing games?

anyways, these are some lines how my partner and I met...

I met my special someone last year at overseas Filipino worker chatroom of Yahoo Messenger. Actually, I am not really personally inclined about using internet just for talking to somebody that I don't know. Then, during that time, i was having my Christmas vacation and got off from work for 1week somehow. Due to boredom, i tried to go to chat room which I really do very seldom before. Then, i have talked to somebody there. Of course, i cant talk to a lot of people that's why "Mr. Right" came when i was about ready to log off. Oh my God, I can tell you, We were talking 6pm until 3am, Phil time for our first time of meeting over the net. That was really a great feeling for me. We shared our personal information and we talked, talked and talked anything under the sun. As a result, we deeply fell in love thats why he did not mind loosing his sleeping hours just to talk to me and vice versa. Then, we met personally after a month of talking over the net and phone.

To tell you honestly, I was a bit scared when i decided to meet him up thinking what if he is not real and what if he wont contact me after leaving the Phils. But those preconceived notions were replaced of more love and trust when we spent our two weeks here. I was very happy and I must say now, I COULD NOT LIVE MY LIFE WITHOUT HIM. We have promised each other that we would love each other FOREVER NO MATTER WHAT..

God is good all the time..

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Hi.. This topic just came abruptly on my mind.. It is very nice to hear from anyone here who has met his/her "THE ONE or ONE GREAT LOVE". Guys, whats was the scenario how you met your partner? Do u believe them at first if they are true about their personal infos or anything about themselves? Do u also feel scary what if he/she is just playing games?

anyways, these are some lines how my partner and I met...

I met my special someone last year at overseas Filipino worker chatroom of Yahoo Messenger. Actually, I am not really personally inclined about using internet just for talking to somebody that I don't know. Then, during that time, i was having my Christmas vacation and got off from work for 1week somehow. Due to boredom, i tried to go to chat room which I really do very seldom before. Then, i have talked to somebody there. Of course, i cant talk to a lot of people that's why "Mr. Right" came when i was about ready to log off. Oh my God, I can tell you, We were talking 6pm until 3am, Phil time for our first time of meeting over the net. That was really a great feeling for me. We shared our personal information and we talked, talked and talked anything under the sun. As a result, we deeply fell in love thats why he did not mind loosing his sleeping hours just to talk to me and vice versa. Then, we met personally after a month of talking over the net and phone.

To tell you honestly, I was a bit scared when i decided to meet him up thinking what if he is not real and what if he wont contact me after leaving the Phils. But those preconceived notions were replaced of more love and trust when we spent our two weeks here. I was very happy and I must say now, I COULD NOT LIVE MY LIFE WITHOUT HIM. We have promised each other that we would love each other FOREVER NO MATTER WHAT..

Hi. The how-did-you-meet and how-can-you-tell-he-is-mr.-right thingy already been asked and answered many, many times. Make a search for these topics and you will get your answers in a jiffy! Good luck on your visa journey.

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I met my handsome husband Online. (craiglist.com) He was lookin for dive buddy. and i was lookin for someone to help me find a job in the US. I was a single mom back then so I need money. well instead of job, i found him, err actually he found me. :) and we started talkin,ym's phone calls. He was then talkin to somebody else back then and well "she" went obsessed and crazy over him, to the point that she even said "Im gonna steal you from ANNA!" which caught my attention. hahah :) few days after we felt the "connection" when we finally met, January 16,2009 thats when we knew that our "connection" was so damn real. So here I am now, proud to be his wife. and i so LOVE hiM! :) he is my everything =)

to my hubby/hunny/babe:

you know i love you so much :) muah!

happier than ever

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I did not fall in love with a "foreign" man as I never pimped myself in the Internet. My husband and I were sweethearts in the Philippines and the relationship started more than 10 years ago before he moved to the USA. Besides, I'll never be attracted to American men! :whistle:

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I did not fall in love with a "foreign" man as I never pimped myself in the Internet. My husband and I were sweethearts in the Philippines and the relationship started more than 10 years ago before he moved to the USA. Besides, I'll never be attracted to American men! :whistle:

Why do you hate American men? :(

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I did not fall in love with a "foreign" man as I never pimped myself in the Internet. My husband and I were sweethearts in the Philippines and the relationship started more than 10 years ago before he moved to the USA. Besides, I'll never be attracted to American men! :whistle:

Why do you hate American men? :(

I did not say that I hate them! Matter of fact, I'm happy that some of my comadres, such as Rocky, are apparently enjoying their union with American men. On the other hand, my heart bleeds for the unfortunate Pinays who did not look before they leaped. :whistle:

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Hi.. This topic just came abruptly on my mind.. It is very nice to hear from anyone here who has met his/her "THE ONE or ONE GREAT LOVE". Guys, whats was the scenario how you met your partner? Do u believe them at first if they are true about their personal infos or anything about themselves? Do u also feel scary what if he/she is just playing games?

anyways, these are some lines how my partner and I met...

I met my special someone last year at overseas Filipino worker chatroom of Yahoo Messenger. Actually, I am not really personally inclined about using internet just for talking to somebody that I don't know. Then, during that time, i was having my Christmas vacation and got off from work for 1week somehow. Due to boredom, i tried to go to chat room which I really do very seldom before. Then, i have talked to somebody there. Of course, i cant talk to a lot of people that's why "Mr. Right" came when i was about ready to log off. Oh my God, I can tell you, We were talking 6pm until 3am, Phil time for our first time of meeting over the net. That was really a great feeling for me. We shared our personal information and we talked, talked and talked anything under the sun. As a result, we deeply fell in love thats why he did not mind loosing his sleeping hours just to talk to me and vice versa. Then, we met personally after a month of talking over the net and phone.

To tell you honestly, I was a bit scared when i decided to meet him up thinking what if he is not real and what if he wont contact me after leaving the Phils. But those preconceived notions were replaced of more love and trust when we spent our two weeks here. I was very happy and I must say now, I COULD NOT LIVE MY LIFE WITHOUT HIM. We have promised each other that we would love each other FOREVER NO MATTER WHAT..

I met here in filipina heart and i was the one who message her first then the rest is history and now we are happy together living in usa, abby n sheryl

Our time line for CR1 visa took only 5 months and 1 week or 156 days; from the filing the I-130 on the 03-12-2009 to Approval of NOA2 on the 05/13/2009, then Interview on the 08/18/2009 at Manila, Philippines. We had a daughter on the 11-12-2010 named AISHA JOY means HAPPY LIFE.a1_opt-1.jpga2_opt-1.jpga3_opt-1.jpg

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We met online through an online video game. We talked for about 5-6 months before something sparked and it just felt right for both of us.

My Fiance: GuardianAngel

K-1 Visa Timeline:

Service Center: California Service Center

Consulate: Manilla, Philipines

I-129F Sent: July 23, 2009

Check Cashed: July 29, 2009

NOA1: July 28, 2009

NOA2: October 21, 2009

Left NVC: October 28, 2009

Medical Passed: December 15/16, 2009

Interview Passed: January 19th, 2010

Air21 Confirmation: January 25, 2010

Visa received: January 26, 2010

CFO Completed: January 27th, 2010

Flight to US: Febuary 3rd, 2010

MARRIED!: March 20th, 2010

AOS Timeline:

AOS, EAD, AP Filed: April 29, 2010

AOS, EAD, AP NOA1: May 6th, 2010

EAD, AP Biometrics: May 25th, 2010

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hiya...i met my fiance in one of the famous chatrooms (not a dating site..hehehe)..his first time to chat online as he is indeed a bz man..it was like a friendly chat that led to a romantic scenario...we had undergone the different stages before reaching where we are now that is from acquaintance, to friendship, to courtship to love..and we both know its true love ( u can feel that tingling sensation from within... :P lol.)...we were both skeptical at first <_< with regards to building a relationship from online chat..but look at us now..we are growing more and more in love each day and we never get tired of saying how much we love and care for each other and how much we want to be together..sounds mushy for others but this is who we are..it so happened my Romeo is also expressive and sweet like his Juliet...its all because right from the very start we didnt just say hi and bid bye that fast..we gave each other the chance to talk and express ourselves and intentions online...besides if u smell something fishy, the "ignored" button is just a click away if u sense one is a pervert or a scammer...BTW, its not the color of his skin or his cute and charming face that made me fall for him, its how he made me feel special as a person...

regarding trust, it was hard to develop trust after first few chats..coz trust is gained not said..and after experiencing few scammers online, its really that tough to decipher whether ur chatmate is a hoax or genuine...it took time before we actually trusted each other to the fullest...but his first proof of being trustworthy is the fact he told me that he will help me find a teaching job in the states and there you go, the next day, he was diligently searching online for schools in his place where teachers are needed...i couldnt think of any men can do that for me after few hours of chatting..he proved his worth as i have proven mine...and that instance was just one of the tests and up to this very moment, we are good as new and believing in each other's word...for now, since we are world's apart, our true word is the only guarantee until the day we will be together in flesh and spirit ...we learned so much from each other's incompatible ways and treated them as means to understand and improve our ways even if it means making compromises.....on the best side too, we maximize every liking traits we have to prolong the relationship's life and interest span... :dance: ..love ends where interest fades which i hope wont happen.. :crying:

gosh i surely love my fiance as much as he loves me...if not because of the existence of the new technology, we could still be like wandering souls searching for the missing piece in us...whether online meeting or in person, it doesnt matter, only one best and prevailing generalization about love---IF ITS TRUE LOVE, GO FOR IT AND NORTURE THE RELATIONSHIP & UR PARTNER LIKE UR VERY OWN SKIN...

i salute all those who are in love !~kudos!!!!

Edited by LaneAndDaisy

OUR K-1 JOURNEY TIMELINE

06-22-2009 ---- NOA1 09-18-2009 ---- NOA2

10-27-2009 ---- Medical 11-11-2009 ---- PEPS for Annulment Issue 11-18-09 ----Received PEPS Result

12-04-2009 ---- Interview 12-12-2009 ---- Visa Received

12-18-2009 ---- Flight to US via PAL ...POE - LAX

03-02-2010 ---- SSN and State ID

---AOS TIMELINE---

02-09-2010 ---- Mailed AOS( 485, 864, 131, 765, 1145)

02-12-2010 ---- AOS Package Received by DHS-USCIS

02-18-2010 ---- E-Notification, SMS and NOA Hardcopy Received

03-15-2010 ---- Biometrics Appointment in Milwaukee, WI

04-09-2010 ---- Authorization for Parole/Travel Dox Received

04-16-2010 ---- EAD Card Received

05-12-2010 ---- Interview Schedule in Milwaukee..PASSED!!! Thank You Lord!

05-17-2010 ---- Welcome Notice arrived in mail

06-01-2010 ---- Received Instruction Permit Card from DMV

06-10-2010 ---- 2-yr. GC/PRC arrived today in the mail..SALAMAT PO LORD!

12-12-2010 ---- Got my DMV License

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I did not fall in love with a "foreign" man as I never pimped myself in the Internet. My husband and I were sweethearts in the Philippines and the relationship started more than 10 years ago before he moved to the USA. Besides, I'll never be attracted to American men! :whistle:

good for you you met your husband in your homeland but i suppose searching someone in the internet does not mean pimping themselves!

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Hi.. This topic just came abruptly on my mind.. It is very nice to hear from anyone here who has met his/her "THE ONE or ONE GREAT LOVE". Guys, whats was the scenario how you met your partner? Do u believe them at first if they are true about their personal infos or anything about themselves? Do u also feel scary what if he/she is just playing games?

anyways, these are some lines how my partner and I met...

I met my special someone last year at overseas Filipino worker chatroom of Yahoo Messenger. Actually, I am not really personally inclined about using internet just for talking to somebody that I don't know. Then, during that time, i was having my Christmas vacation and got off from work for 1week somehow. Due to boredom, i tried to go to chat room which I really do very seldom before. Then, i have talked to somebody there. Of course, i cant talk to a lot of people that's why "Mr. Right" came when i was about ready to log off. Oh my God, I can tell you, We were talking 6pm until 3am, Phil time for our first time of meeting over the net. That was really a great feeling for me. We shared our personal information and we talked, talked and talked anything under the sun. As a result, we deeply fell in love thats why he did not mind loosing his sleeping hours just to talk to me and vice versa. Then, we met personally after a month of talking over the net and phone.

To tell you honestly, I was a bit scared when i decided to meet him up thinking what if he is not real and what if he wont contact me after leaving the Phils. But those preconceived notions were replaced of more love and trust when we spent our two weeks here. I was very happy and I must say now, I COULD NOT LIVE MY LIFE WITHOUT HIM. We have promised each other that we would love each other FOREVER NO MATTER WHAT..

Hi. The how-did-you-meet and how-can-you-tell-he-is-mr.-right thingy already been asked and answered many, many times. Make a search for these topics and you will get your answers in a jiffy! Good luck on your visa journey.

yup...this was asked indeed...make new and orig topic na lang ulit.

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I did not fall in love with a "foreign" man as I never pimped myself in the Internet. My husband and I were sweethearts in the Philippines and the relationship started more than 10 years ago before he moved to the USA. Besides, I'll never be attracted to American men! :whistle:

so, you think you're better off than those who married american men? not all those who were attracted and married american men pimped themselves on the internet. :no:

your stereotype of those who met their LOVE on the internet is disrespectful and naive.

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Uh my hubby is American but I certainly didn't pimp myself on the internet. Yeah we met online, and were an online couple for 3 years before taking the plunge and getting married. It's been 4 years since that day. I must be one heck of a pimp, if ever. :thumbs:

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I did not fall in love with a "foreign" man as I never pimped myself in the Internet. My husband and I were sweethearts in the Philippines and the relationship started more than 10 years ago before he moved to the USA. Besides, I'll never be attracted to American men! :whistle:

so, you think you're better off than those who married american men? not all those who were attracted and married american men pimped themselves on the internet. :no:

your stereotype of those who met their LOVE on the internet is disrespectful and naive.

i totally AGREE with you! :thumbs: in addition to that only UNEDUCATED people would say such things towards other whom she dont even know. :angry:

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