plz any suggestions....i am betrayed

[Minya's wife 25]

i don't know why people are making judgment remarks about me......

if u want to give opinion then ur welcome if don't then just DON'T give comments............

thanks to those who gave suggestions.....

i am us born but my father is pakistani, and my mother is us born...

and they make a wonderful couple....still very much in love after 30yrs of their marriage.....

anyways i ve 2 questions to ask.....

1} is that possible for me to locate my husband (he must have changed his address at POE to get green card)

he must be living with someone...he cannt manage things alone...

will USCIS/immigtaion services etc will give me his address.

It is not the job of USCIS to give you the address of your husband. I realize his family wants to stay out of the situation, but it is they that have his new address. You should appeal to them to give you his address.

Unfortunately, as stated, there is not much you can do if your husband is already here in the US...he has gone through the process that you started/endorsed by with your inital i-130 application, he interviewed at the consulate, provided sufficient evidence that you're a legitimate couple, was approved for the visa and due to the length of time you were married at the time the visa was issued, he was eligible for a 10 year card...no need to remove conditions. Your choices now are either reconcile the marriage and make a go of it, or file for divorce and move on. I am sorry for your situation.

2} if he is still in pakistan, but got his visa stamped with IR1, can i revoke his visa?

If he has not left Pakistan, please contact the consulate where his visa was issued. Reference your case number and let them know of the [his] intent to defraud....and that your marriage is no longer valid. But, I thought you said your husband was already in the US?

P.S. he is a distant cousin, and i had issues with his family as well during my last visit to pakistan, so they want to stay out of this matter for now.

[Minya's wife 25]

1) If they entered the country and changed the address you should receive something in the mail at the original address about the notification of change of address.

2) I asked your second question in another thread prior and the answer I got was that if they haven't received the visa in the passport yet it can be revoked if you notify the Embassy. The timing depends on the wheels of bureaucracy.

Now if they receive it and you tell the Embassy your separated and haven't heard from him in over a month I wonder if they can still get through POE or can they be sent back then?

If you enter the USA on a Immigrant visa then at the POE you are asked to verify the address you want your Greencard to be mailed to. If the address has changed since the intial forms were completed all the immigrant has to do is note the new address on the form that you sign at POE. The greencard and SSN will then be mailed to the address given. No notification is sent to the old address.

So this would be the one example where an address change was noted correctly and the card was mailed to the new address.

How many VJ-ers have we seen who apply for change of address, and still their cards/USCIS communication gets sent tot he old address?

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

1) If they entered the country and changed the address you should receive something in the mail at the original address about the notification of change of address.

2) I asked your second question in another thread prior and the answer I got was that if they haven't received the visa in the passport yet it can be revoked if you notify the Embassy. The timing depends on the wheels of bureaucracy.

Now if they receive it and you tell the Embassy your separated and haven't heard from him in over a month I wonder if they can still get through POE or can they be sent back then?

If you enter the USA on a Immigrant visa then at the POE you are asked to verify the address you want your Greencard to be mailed to. If the address has changed since the intial forms were completed all the immigrant has to do is note the new address on the form that you sign at POE. The greencard and SSN will then be mailed to the address given. No notification is sent to the old address.

So this would be the one example where an address change was noted correctly and the card was mailed to the new address.

How many VJ-ers have we seen who apply for change of address, and still their cards/USCIS communication gets sent tot he old address?

Actually I was wrong and someone corrected me here:

1) If they entered the country and changed the address you should receive something in the mail at the original address about the notification of change of address.

2) I asked your second question in another thread prior and the answer I got was that if they haven't received the visa in the passport yet it can be revoked if you notify the Embassy. The timing depends on the wheels of bureaucracy.

Now if they receive it and you tell the Embassy your separated and haven't heard from him in over a month I wonder if they can still get through POE or can they be sent back then?

If you enter the USA on a Immigrant visa then at the POE you are asked to verify the address you want your Greencard to be mailed to. If the address has changed since the intial forms were completed all the immigrant has to do is note the new address on the form that you sign at POE. The greencard and SSN will then be mailed to the address given. No notification is sent to the old address.

Thanks for the clarification.

That is alarming.

But I hear ya on the mess ups.

[bhajishah 4]

Just divorce him and dont care, let DHS know the situation, and let cousin go free, (30 yrs ago is 30 yrs ago, your mother was modern american liberated woman of the 70s?)

[RS232 0]

I believe at least you need to report to immigration that he never came with you. They are sensitive about middle eastern people and will track him to know what he does and where he lives. Don't forget that immigration officers are allowed to gives back his green card anytime they feel he is not a right person to be in USA. So far he said lie about coming to you and it can be enough to arrest him and send him back to Pakistan.

[doodlebugg 10]

I believe at least you need to report to immigration that he never came with you. They are sensitive about middle eastern people and will track him to know what he does and where he lives. Don't forget that immigration officers are allowed to gives back his green card anytime they feel he is not a right person to be in USA. So far he said lie about coming to you and it can be enough to arrest him and send him back to Pakistan.

Pakistan is now in the Middle East?

Edited September 13, 2009 by doodlebugg

[bhajishah 4]

Pakistan is south east, and the first muslim federation(govt)

not a big difference to most.