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I send her lots of cards and letters in the postmail... :whistle:

I have filled her email box to the point that Yahoo will likely start charging her for 'space' soon... :innocent:

I left PLENTY of sweet comments on her friendster... :thumbs:

We txt so much now that she has to load her phone every 3 or 4 days! (A P500 load USED to last her for 2 months! HAA!!)

We talk on the phone daily and I actually LISTEN to her and what she has to say... :thumbs:

Here in a few hours, she will be calling because she got some roses from me... (THIS is going to be a good call I am SURE!) She does not know they are coming... :devil:

I wonder what I can do next to show my honey how much I care for her??? I tell her all the time but like to do things to show her also...

Money wont work here, She is NOT impressed this way at all. Would likely make her angry if it was something expensive...

ALL of her personal needs are met, so I can't really do anything there to help.

I am NOT willing to send her any body parts just yet. That would likely work against me here. :no:

No way I am getting any more tattoos either!!! :no:

Any suggestions here for what I could do next??? Thanks!! :star:

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try to learn and speak simple,sweet tagalog words or any dialect.im sure it will make her fall in love with u more...just like what Doug did,.ryt now he can speak a couple of tagalog sentences..

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try to learn and speak simple,sweet tagalog words or any dialect.im sure it will make her fall in love with u more...just like what Doug did,.ryt now he can speak a couple of tagalog sentences..

I actually have been 'trying' with the tagalog. She seems happy about it and has been helping me learn some... :thumbs:

I told her that I wanted to learn all the tagalog insults first so that I could tell if her or her family was saying bad stuff around me. :blink:

She explained that tagalog was her third language and that her family uses mostly Cebuano... I am now working on that some. :thumbs:

It's hard, but I am trying.

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Get on an airplane but don't tell her you are coming.

That WAS my plan at one point but it would cause her trouble at work... She does not have the same level of freedom that I do and it would mess her up.

If I thought that she could get away for a weekend, I would be there in a heartbeat. :star:

I will be VERY glad when her contract is up soon so that she has her freedom back to do as she pleases.

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I would tell you to back off a little, and get into a routine. That makes the time pass easier. If you keep pushing too hard, and fast, the stress sets in, and expectations get out of hand.

That said, have you exchanged personal intimate items? My wife, then fiancee, slept with one of my undershirts every night.

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Get rid of that doggy in your profile, bud. If I were your girl, I may be prompted to wonder that you care for your dog more than you love me! :whistle:

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Give love a chance to work it's magic..if it is truly meant to be..it will be very obvious to both of you..then the journey begins..good luck

once you find her..never let her go

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AOS bill credited 7-24-09

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AOS 864 sent to NVC 7-28-09

ds 230 & 864 recieved 8-5-09 priority/cert. mail

case completed 8-13-09

St. Lukes 10-6, 10-7 - 09' she passed :)

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additional NBI aka submitted 10-26-09

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Wife arrives USofA 11-17-09 Our journey a to z 4.6 years

Wife's SSN card arrives 11-28-09

Wife's Green card arrives 12-05-09...faster than expected

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Slow down a bit....

If you have sent her 3 million e-mails then each one is worth less.

If persue her but also allow her the space & time to persue you...

One of the hardest things for me to learn was to slow down and let it progress naturally.

The routine is good advice. Even though my wife is asleep most of my day I know that I'll get a ym when she wakes and she knows there will ba a ym waiting for her from me.

Be careful if it seems like you're trying too hard then you can lose her.


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I would tell you to back off a little, and get into a routine. That makes the time pass easier. If you keep pushing too hard, and fast, the stress sets in, and expectations get out of hand.

That said, have you exchanged personal intimate items? My wife, then fiancee, slept with one of my undershirts every night.

Not yet. I am seriously thinking about getting her some Sponge Bob boxers like mine and sending those to her... SO we could be 'twinkies'!!! :thumbs:

Part of her job involves cooking so I send her pictures of meals that I prepared so she can criticise me or 'goof' on me... I KNOW that she is better than me here so I can deal with it and respect it. I will likey learn a lot from her if she takes the time to help me learn new things in the kitchen...

Once I figured out that she had forgot more about cooking than I ever learned... I stopped trying to 'impress' her there. My efforts to impress her with my cooking skills were futile. Instead, I started to send her pics of other 'meals' that I prepared to see what she would say... :devil:

Picture below was the last one I sent her... I can't seem to really 'freak her out' yet no matter how much I try. My girl is VERY understanding and patient with me... :star:

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I send her lots of cards and letters in the postmail... :whistle:

I have filled her email box to the point that Yahoo will likely start charging her for 'space' soon... :innocent:

I left PLENTY of sweet comments on her friendster... :thumbs:

We txt so much now that she has to load her phone every 3 or 4 days! (A P500 load USED to last her for 2 months! HAA!!)

We talk on the phone daily and I actually LISTEN to her and what she has to say... :thumbs:

Here in a few hours, she will be calling because she got some roses from me... (THIS is going to be a good call I am SURE!) She does not know they are coming... :devil:

I wonder what I can do next to show my honey how much I care for her??? I tell her all the time but like to do things to show her also...

Money wont work here, She is NOT impressed this way at all. Would likely make her angry if it was something expensive...

ALL of her personal needs are met, so I can't really do anything there to help.

I am NOT willing to send her any body parts just yet. That would likely work against me here. :no:

No way I am getting any more tattoos either!!! :no:

Any suggestions here for what I could do next??? Thanks!! :star:

Have you met in person yet? I suggest you make plans to see her before the "relationship" gets any further/deeper (if you haven't seen her in person yet).

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Slow down a bit....

If you have sent her 3 million e-mails then each one is worth less.

If persue her but also allow her the space & time to persue you...

One of the hardest things for me to learn was to slow down and let it progress naturally.

The routine is good advice. Even though my wife is asleep most of my day I know that I'll get a ym when she wakes and she knows there will ba a ym waiting for her from me.

Be careful if it seems like you're trying too hard then you can lose her.

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USCIS Received : 4-4-14

NOA1 Sent : 4-8-14

Biometrics Appt Letter Sent : 4-14-14

Biometrics Appt : 5-5-14

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