Here's where the story ends

[rebeccajo 14]

It's been a long time, and I mean years, since I posted here. If you remember me, you've probably been fighting these battles for too long.

But VJ was an important part of our lives for a while. We couldn't have done it without this place, really. Sadly, though, this journey is over, because my wife, Lucia (known online as Lyanthya), died in Scotland on the 2nd June this year. She was 36.

It's strange, but I just felt the urge to post here in a place that meant so much to us. I hope you are all doing well.

(F) (F) (F) (F) (F) i am sorry and yes, i remember you and your wife.....

I remember you both as well - and this post just makes me soooooooo sad.

[Heracles 417]

Sorry to hear such unfortunate news.

[Peachey 10]

I am so sad to hear this. My condolences to you and your family.

[Staashi 371]

I'm so sorry to read this. I remember you. May you find a soft place to fall and good ears to listen to you.

[Pooky 3,816]

Sorry to hear such sad news.

Our condolences to you and your family.

[chri'stina 190]

Wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. Praying for peace for you and family.

(I also remember you, my name was stina&suj most of the time)

[antone 0]

Thank you all. I hate to just show up out of the blue and post something like this, but it seemed somehow necessary. We wouldn't have had the time we had together if it wasn't for this place - or at least, it would have been a lot harder for us.

[rebeccajo 14]

Thank you all. I hate to just show up out of the blue and post something like this, but it seemed somehow necessary. We wouldn't have had the time we had together if it wasn't for this place - or at least, it would have been a lot harder for us.

Please don't be a stranger.

[antone 0]

Please don't be a stranger.

I'll hang out here. I'm a bit rusty on the whole "immigration advice" thing, though

[rebeccajo 14]

Please don't be a stranger.

I'll hang out here. I'm a bit rusty on the whole "immigration advice" thing, though

Oh, just hang out in OT.

We could use your Scottish opinion in the health care threads............

[_Simpson_ 250]

Please don't be a stranger.

I'll hang out here. I'm a bit rusty on the whole "immigration advice" thing, though

Thats ok just hang out in the OT and pretend you know what your talking about like the rest of us.

[L179 1]

[Chrissy25 0]

i remember you....i am so sorry for your loss

[newlyweds 0]

i am sorry for loss, and it's good you posted here to tell everyone that you were able to celebrate your togetherness even for just a little bit. May you have comfort from God and the strength to live on for your wife's wonderful life. God bless always.

And I give out my condolences to you and your family.

(F)

[spookyturtle 9,466]

I'm sorry for your loss. It is so devastating to lose a loved one.