Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part18)

[RegAl 0]

Morning everyone!

[MRStee 19]

Morning, All!

I had a great dream that it was Steven's first night then morning here. The happy vibes from that dream should carry me through the day.

Was the dream steamy??

Cuz we all know what happens on the first night....

What happens on the first night? *giggles*

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

how about you make him earn that $20 a week

meet him halfway by saying if he steps it up with his responsibilities he can get $20 a week to take the city bus to school

[My4rmylife 0]

Morning everyone!

good morning

[MRStee 19]

Well all I know is if fockery presents itself with Steve, yall gone be reading about your "yardie sista" on msnbc, yahoo and aol! Just have bail fund monies ready to bail a sista out! lol

mi gone go look some porrige

brb

I have YET to taste cornmeal porridge.. I want some. If I go for the interview, Steve's mom said she would make me some.. I did have plantain porridge and it was yummmmy!

Well if the relationship between you and your future MIL isn’t better mi sey naa nyam nuthin she cook.

Lol Dada, good looking out but we okay now. I think it was all this immigration stuff... Plus I shut it down. I don't talk about it anymore. I let dem do their ting....he is the one trying to get the dayum visa. I did my part!

[sus 70]

city bus is $2 each way....that is $4 a day....waste of money when the school bus picks him up for free right at our doorstep

am i being a cruel mother by making him ride the short bus?

Nope - Slap that helmet on his head and put him on the bus!!

On a serious note = Does he get an allowance? Maybe giving him the option to earn a certain amount of money each week, and then his choice of how he spends it - and not paying for things when he doesn't have the money.

[MsSheka 0]

how come my2?

a lot of things going on ...missing my fiance and then the everyday emotions that happen.... i just feel drained today..

trust me i understand (pardon me for jumping in )

that why i come cause you all understand...

My2 trust me this is the strongest I've ever been in my life these past "FOUR YEARS" especially dealing with the kids alone sometimes I sit on the phone with my hubby until we fall asleep, just pray honey keep you energy level up and be "POSITIVE" , you have VJ & your Yardies to support you

thank you .. i have had some trouble with my kids father lately ..and i pray everyday and i am grateful for all that i have and can do .... some day things get difficult... and i am thankful to have met such a wonderful group of women to help me through these days ..

your welcome anytime!

[RegAl 0]

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Congratulations and Praise Jah!! So happy for you I wish you all the best sista and much happiness ALWAYS!

Congrats Bunz!!!

[MRStee 19]

Morning everyone!

Mornin Regal

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

mi ave mi fut kick up n a dead wid laugh...mi is terrible...soon tell unu wah mi a laugh bout

[DaDa 1]

KK

WAIT....sumtin is wrong FINESSE naw chat

i am pissed off right now..

my son is the most difficult child in the world...

he rides the bus to school and discovered that his bus this year is one of those short busses (you know the one that everyone calls the retard bus) so now he is refusing to ride it...

yesterday he took his money and took the city bus to school..

today he wanted me to give him a ride and i said no because his school is out of the way and i would be late for work..

i told him he better take that short bus to school and shut up about it....i am not giving him any money to take the city bus either

as i was leaving he told me he hated me....

No he didn't!!! Did you turn around and sock him in the kisser???

Edited September 3, 2009 by DaDa

[MsSheka 0]

Ok y'all I can't catch up for sh!t so here i go GOOD MORNING!

finesse, RegAl, TRELAWNY PARISH, IrieCat, Bunzarelli, *SunRay*, my2rmylife, sus, 1luv, DaDa

[phillyfashionista 8]

Good Morning All.....

Well today I was able to do my cheer that my kids look forward to hearing every year (they hate it)...

Give me a S--C--H---O---O----L. What does that spell Scholl School WE LOVE SCHOOL!!!

See every year on the first day of school the hell with the alarm clock I stand between my kids rooms and at the top of m lungs I do my cheer. I scare them shytless every time where they either jump or fall out of bed.

So I have two down and two to go My baby went to 8th grade today and my middle went to third. They both looked so adorable. I’ll have to post pics. Next week the twins going to Kindergarten.

Man I'm still shaking I can't believe 2morrow my baby turns a teenager. Ugh where did the time go I now yesterday when we went to orientation my son has regular voice but every time he spoke to the ladies his voice dropped down 2 levels. I looked at him like WTH?? He looked at me like mom please don't say anything.

I think I'm going to like his new school it gears to technology. I really hope he likes it but the curriculum looks harder so I have to get ready to stay on his butt. I noticed I really need to be involved in there studies more.

LOL Dada I hear you on the yelling between the kids room :rofl: I do a similar routine! I know you are so excited about the twins going to the Kindergarten, are they excited? My Oldest son also attends a HS for media and technology and they are so advanced in their curriculum and technology projects I am so excited about the opportunities this year!

[*JG* 2]

Morning again all - I am at work now

I think part of why I was up so early was the conversation I had with my future SIL last night - Pissed me off - She has a beautiful little boy - he's two, or just turned 3 -

A few months back, her Boyfriend came to the US for "work" - Apparently he recently called her and told her that he married an American, that he is ending the relationship with her, and she's shyt outta luck when it comes to any support for her beautiful little boy - I am assuming that he probably came up here on a K1, and has been lying to her the whole time - cause he was calling regularly until recently - Pisses me off, cause the focker played both of these women - The American who he married, and my SIL - he deserves to be castrated

U know what really pisses me off about this is the child. Now granted what he is doing to both women is wrong but at the end of the day what the PHOCK does your son have to do with all of this?? So just cuz u married the American you can't support your child anymore so the hell with him?? Like are you serious?? This really made my blood boil. I'm so sick of these damn men treating there kids who didn't ask to be here like ####### for no reason!!!! Ugh!!!! I hope his life here in the states is pure hell!!!!

That is exactly what pisses me off, Dada - My SIL is strong and will get over it - But how can you just turn your back on such a beautiful little boy?

how do you know he is not going to help with his son? i'm sure he doesn't have a job here yet...

From what he said to her - He basically told her he has a new life and isn't dealing with what was left behind inna yaad -

damn, that is crazy. and the american woman is ok with him just saying phock off with his son?

she may not know

My bets are on she doesn't know.

[finesse 3]

thanks for the suggestions guys...

i always am caving in to him and giving him his way which makes me want to really put my foot down on this one and say too bad, life isn't fair get used to it...

but then again i don't want him to be traumatized for life...and then when he is 40 and lonely he will blame me and say he has low self esteem because i made him ride the retard bus when he was 12..

earning the money is a good idea...that way he can decide if it is really that serious cuz i'm sure he will want to spend that money on something else...