Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part18)

[DaDa 1]

LMAO LMAO :rofl: I'm eating them too and dem fresh bad! Cha. He will be there for three weeks. WDB was I thinking when I made the arrangements with his sis? Oh yeah...that I would give them the first two weeks and join on the last...now I can't. Cry cry yeyewata....cry yeyewata

What you talkign bout Willis? Did you say three weeks?? U agreed to let him go for three weeks?? U had to make those arrangements before he got here didn’t you? Cha!!!! I say tell A’s sister and him that the airlines called and said that his return flight was canceled and he has to come back two weeks early or else he will be stuck there for ever….LOL

Man I wish you could join him the last week that would be so cool.

[Shemmy 4]

Ok, I'm thinking about having a New Years/1 Year Anniversary Party this year, but I want to include a theme. Any ideas?

Mi need fi start planning from now.

I like to pick a color, and go overboard with it. But really all I plan are birthday parties!

It could still work though... GOLD AND BLACK ... somthing new years evey...

Yeah Irie, I' m online looking at things now. I would love to set it up like the caribbean, but it's in February so I'm not sure that I can pull that off. The good thing is that all the stuff is on sale now. lol

what about a masquerade ball.. or mardi gras style..

I could do that... Hopefully I don't dream about people in masks and scare the living shyt outta myself.

Sounds like a good idea.

[jakeswife 0]

God forbid it doesn't work out for me and A...but I would know with everything in me that we loved each other once upon a time...had a great friendship...but our life paths changed routes at some point, and we had to part ways. I know the sacrifices he has made to be here with me...fearing that there will probably never come a time when his girls can join us. I witness his turmoil everyday wanting to be in their lives and wanting to be happy with me. He told a pastor and his family that he has never been so happy in his entire life...told his sisters (they are his best friends too) that he could marry me everyday...he doesn't have to spit game to me...when he reaches out to rub eye buggers out the corners of my eye...he silently tells me that he loves me. When he tells his little girls at night...daddy loves you...I know that he loves me too. When he wakes up to watch me shower and dress for work just so he won't miss kissing me later...he silently tells me he loves me. When he gets to the last sweetie in the bag and he bites in half and saves me the other piece...he silently tells me that he loves me. When he softly caresses the scar on the back of my neck while we lounge in bed...he silently tells me that he loves me. When he leans in to kiss me goodnight because I fell asleep as soon as I laid down (despite the drool)...he silently tells me that he loves me. When I come home late at night from working this stupid A$$ shift they gave me....to a spotless home and a STARVING man...and he tells me baby nuh fret bout cooking...I'll grab a bowl of cereal the boys are good...he silently tells me that he loves me.

That's it I'm going to go play in traffic!!!!

whaa mi do fe mek yuh gwan like duppy tek yuh?

Jakeswife...you probably feel your pelvis separating now too...that was NOT a pleasant experience. I think the pregnant walk is cute...I still do it and stick out my stomach if I take the Expecting Mothers parking spot at the grocery store. (did I just admit that in public).... Don't get me started on teachers here in Georgia...there are a lot of new teachers here that are only doing it because the state pays all of their student loans off if they teach for some specified amount of time. Makes my blood boil.

woman u dance to a different drummer. i waddle and sometimes stop in the middle to gain my composure{sp} cause for a moment i fell like me morphing into a pregnant turkey.

[*SunRay* 1]

Why? If a so it fi go...a so it fi go....next Wednesday will make 2 years I've know my husband and we don't argue my friends tell me that's strange. Don't go looking for trouble or faults in your relationship.

Ray and I have known each other for 2 years and 2 months. I can't believe this... Damn, where does the time go. That means I'm going to be old real soon. Ugh!

[dancehallquana 5]

Don't bother me one bit. Call me what you like. I don't give a flying flip. LMAO

It was funny to hear the two little girls in Jamaica call me whitey though. LMAO I was like what are they saying. They were saying whitey and hiddening behind some wodden fence. That was funny as hell.

heehee.. WHITEY!!! WHITEY!!!!!

and chiney its not just this country girl.. i remember roger told me he dated a light skinned chic and some lil jamaican kids started singing like dem sing to sunny

one is black and one is BROWN.. one is black and one is brown!!!

[DaDa 1]

1. He looks like a model, you look like Spongebob

Are Shrek.. I have seen a couple of those on this board.

Needa one no nice...

ppl nuffi dash stone who live inna class house..oonuh betta mek sure none a oonuh no fava nuttin nice...cause sponge bob and shrek no cute or look any kinda good....

Exactly. As the older people say...sweep around your own front door.

Not sure what you all are saying but I know one thing for certain two things for sure I damn sure don’t look like Sponge Bob or Shrek. Might be built a little like Sponge Bob though no I take that back I’m bottom heavy Sponge Bob is top heavy but anyway I don’t look like neither one of them so I’m cool.

[*SunRay* 1]

LMAO LMAO :rofl: I'm eating them too and dem fresh bad! Cha. He will be there for three weeks. WDB was I thinking when I made the arrangements with his sis? Oh yeah...that I would give them the first two weeks and join on the last...now I can't. Cry cry yeyewata....cry yeyewata

3 WEEKS??????????????????? ya mad ooman .. oh lawd.. i will pray for u

u will make it

Jawi,

I booked Ray a ticket to Florida to visit his brother for 3 weeks and I was good with it. By week two, I was like you should come home. LOL I was missing him like crazy. Seemed like he was back in Jamaica except for the calls were free. Hang in there while A is gone.

Ok, I'm thinking about having a New Years/1 Year Anniversary Party this year, but I want to include a theme. Any ideas?

Mi need fi start planning from now.

I like to pick a color, and go overboard with it. But really all I plan are birthday parties!

It could still work though... GOLD AND BLACK ... somthing new years evey...

Yeah Irie, I' m online looking at things now. I would love to set it up like the caribbean, but it's in February so I'm not sure that I can pull that off. The good thing is that all the stuff is on sale now. lol

what about a masquerade ball.. or mardi gras style..

I could do that... Hopefully I don't dream about people in masks and scare the living shyt outta myself.

Sounds like a good idea.

yeah, so you can help me plan this gathering... lol

[dancehallquana 5]

i look like spongebob a likkle, except for that bump in the back.. i will find my waist one day LOL

[Shemmy 4]

1. He looks like a model, you look like Spongebob

Are Shrek.. I have seen a couple of those on this board.

Needa one no nice...

ppl nuffi dash stone who live inna class house..oonuh betta mek sure none a oonuh no fava nuttin nice...cause sponge bob and shrek no cute or look any kinda good....

Exactly. As the older people say...sweep around your own front door.

Not sure what you all are saying but I know one thing for certain two things for sure I damn sure don’t look like Sponge Bob or Shrek. Might be built a little like Sponge Bob though no I take that back I’m bottom heavy Sponge Bob is top heavy but anyway I don’t look like neither one of them so I’m cool.

It was not directed to you...it's to everyone. I mean people need to sweep around their own fron door instead of worrying about other relationships/marriages.

[jawi876 2]

ppl nuffi dash stone who live inna class house..oonuh betta mek sure none a oonuh no fava nuttin nice...cause sponge bob and shrek no cute or look any kinda good....

Ah so mi sey...beauty is in the eye of the beholder....whaa look good tuh mi nuh look too right tuh somebaddy else...so ie go.

Ah, Jawi - you would be loving my friends then:

Yes, me too :rofl: :rofl:

dem gwaan good...but mi need to see more detail of dem locs...close ups please yuh missus...

Don't bother me one bit. Call me what you like. I don't give a flying flip. LMAO

It was funny to hear the two little girls in Jamaica call me whitey though. LMAO I was like what are they saying. They were saying whitey and hiddening behind some wodden fence. That was funny as hell.

*snickering* If you and my mother weren't the same color...I would tend to agree. LOL

WOW...took me forever to catch up from this morning.

I would like to add Darlene, BelwinMills , Brownskinn and Minfry to the list of successful marriages.

Thanks for the shoutouts and the support over the years.

Oh I know that there are others...I just don't know them as well as you guys.

GIRL.. omg.. i love to see a man w/ locs.. old man, young man..white man, no im kidding lol.. i don't know what it is about them???????????? its so exotic i guess, i fell in love w/ ur characters in stella cuz of their locs, i could tell u were a loc lover w/ the way u described ever loc detail, even how he put them under his scarf..

Was I that transparent in the story? LOL Girl King Shango can get it; married or not....I can't remember what they call it...but the taller the turban the sexier it gets...except maybe on my man Khilonji...big up to de big man and nuff respect and tings...but turban and all he cannot possibly be 5 feet tall.

I'm ready to go buy my Empress frock and tie down my 'hawk to get with Capleton...I will be all like "all hail Selaisse I...JAH rasta FARI!!!" LMAO You ever notice that you don't ever hear any slackness or suss about him? Whew I'm getting hot just talking about him.

I wonder if hubby would get mad if I wrap a pillowcase around his head today. hmmmmm

[phillyfashionista 8]

Happy Birthday Ms Tee! Today is my youngest son's and nephew's birthday too...they both turned 7!!!!! Yes, my brother's ex and I had our babies on the same day and they were born exactly an hour apart. My poor mother was all over the city that day because we had them at different hospitals. LOL

Good morning yardies!

I know I said earlier that I was kinda counting down to A leaving for NY for some me time. I don't know what I'm going to do. I miss him already and he leaves on Sunday. I'm trying to be a big girl. His sister asked me if he could come to celebrate her birthday on the 21st. I couldn't get off work...and I feel like all of sudden we are back in Jamaica and I only have two days left to be with him. I'm anxious...my stomach is queasy and I keep tearing up. I need somebody to convince me that this time is different...that he will be back before I know it. Sunny how did you handle this when Ray went out of town?

How did he get to become so engrained in my daily routine so quickly...that I can't seem to remember what it was like when he wasn't here? I am a basketcase...I can't even sleep right now.

On a good note, we really enjoyed my off day yesterday (yep those changed too)...we went to SSA to get our SSCs updated. The guy called him first...looked at me strangely when I answered all the questions...then smiled when I told him I was his new wife. He made me wait to be called by number and told me if I wasn't called by the time he came off break, he would take care of me too. Well, he ended up working two people ahead of me and me too...he must be the most productive employee they had at that office by far. He asked when did we get married...and thought our date was way cool. LOL He told me to get used to signing my new name since the new card would arrive in about 2 weeks. I hadn't signed my new name up to that point. At work, I have still been signing using my ex's last name. We were laughing and talking and tickling each other sitting outside waiting in the long long long line just to get a chance to sit inside the office. People kept smiling at us. Then, we got home and cooked ackee and saltfish, dumplings and irish potatoes together. He sang to me...djed to me...then we sat in our garage and exchanged funny stories about Jamaica...listened to some music and chilled. Later, we snuggled in bed and watched my show SYTUCD and HHI...then we watched his show Standford and Son...

Quana you made me smile so hard about you guys pumping gas. I love it. I'm with you...this feels so good.

Jawi I am wishing your son and nephew a Happy B day

Awee Jawi I can truly appreciate your feelings and can only imagine what you are going through right

now and you are right he will be back before you know it.

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

Don't bother me one bit. Call me what you like. I don't give a flying flip. LMAO

It was funny to hear the two little girls in Jamaica call me whitey though. LMAO I was like what are they saying. They were saying whitey and hiddening behind some wodden fence. That was funny as hell.

heehee.. WHITEY!!! WHITEY!!!!!

and chiney its not just this country girl.. i remember roger told me he dated a light skinned chic and some lil jamaican kids started singing like dem sing to sunny

one is black and one is BROWN.. one is black and one is brown!!!

oo mi know...but dat difference from sayign u WHITE AND ME BLACK

[Shemmy 4]

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Edited September 18, 2009 by Shemmy

[jakeswife 0]

hey jawi good looking out. you sister took care of it .thanks.

[*SunRay* 1]

Don't bother me one bit. Call me what you like. I don't give a flying flip. LMAO

It was funny to hear the two little girls in Jamaica call me whitey though. LMAO I was like what are they saying. They were saying whitey and hiddening behind some wodden fence. That was funny as hell.

heehee.. WHITEY!!! WHITEY!!!!!

and chiney its not just this country girl.. i remember roger told me he dated a light skinned chic and some lil jamaican kids started singing like dem sing to sunny

one is black and one is BROWN.. one is black and one is brown!!!

Quana, I thought it was cute actually. I wanted to run after then, but I was afriad they would really get scared. lol