Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part18)

[dancehallquana 5]

Ok, I'm thinking about having a New Years/1 Year Anniversary Party this year, but I want to include a theme. Any ideas?

Mi need fi start planning from now.

I like to pick a color, and go overboard with it. But really all I plan are birthday parties!

It could still work though... GOLD AND BLACK ... somthing new years evey...

Yeah Irie, I' m online looking at things now. I would love to set it up like the caribbean, but it's in February so I'm not sure that I can pull that off. The good thing is that all the stuff is on sale now. lol

what about a masquerade ball.. or mardi gras style..

[DaDa 1]

DaDa, why yuh so quiet? got some good sex last night?

No girl I’m reading all these damn mushy love stories and ready to throw myself out the damn window..

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Why thank you Jawi.... I have been doing his locs for a couple months now. VERY proud of myself! He does get many complements on them. I love to see white woman my moms age lovin' him!! LOL

Tre... You are such a great mom! I cannot beleive that teacher... how dare these people. And they put thought in kids heads that were never there and will never go away. So bad!

Pidgeon is the slang/accent in Hawaii... could be other places too but I have a friend that grew up in HI.

Thanks Tre...he's my blessing; I think it was Shrew who defined it for me because I never heard of it.

[DaDa 1]

Evening Yardies i'm just checking in going to take a shower BRB

Umm Sheka this isn’t twitter you don’t have to tell is your every move.

[dillon 6]

Quana I got hubby's A# off of the NOA2. They don't have it on his passport either. In your case he wouldn't have an A# because he just had a tourist visa.

thanks dills, i thought not.. i was about to have to redo ALL this paperwork lol.. making my copies today!!!

When are you sending it in. I think we will be sending ours in on October 2nd. His son still needs to get another shot and has an appointment on the 2nd. Wish I could send it in today. LOL

[jawi876 2]

i wasn't referring to in the visa process only...i was probably even talking bout African Americans..since it was JAwi that mentioned it...u can't say ppl crazy for what THEY have experienced

As an African American woman...I KNOW that I can be a handful. I don't disrespect but you won't disrespect me either. I won't cause war but I won't run from it either. I tell A all the time...don't take my kindness and love for weakness...he knows all too well that I can be a pure fool if need be. I have left many a Jamaican man staring at me in open mouth silence after they came at me with slackness and I gave it back to them tenfold. A and Jonesie laugh about it because I'm quick witted and it just comes out like second nature...one minute I'm sweet and funny...possibly quiet if I'm trying to read you...then I'm a beast just like that *snapping fingers*

Jawi........

U made me thing of something...does it bother ya'll when people call you "YANKEE" -- I know some American women are offended by it, but didn't know why.

dont bother me at all..i guess only if its given in a negative connotation..

dem dyam yankees! LOL..

Jawi, Mich, Irie, Shem, JAP, finesse (does it bother you)

Only bothers me when it comes from some prejudiced goat that doesn't have the good sense God gave them. Like I said I laughed so loud when my father in law said it...I guess I really started believing I was a yaadie...LMAO

[DaDa 1]

1. He looks like a model, you look like Spongebob

Are Shrek.. I have seen a couple of those on this board.

[dancehallquana 5]

What did she say to you when you went back? WHY is any of that her business... nosey people. UGH!

let me tell you how some ppl are..

u know roger and i was getting his name on the lease for AOS.. well the manager had me thinking it would be a no brainer, but now, they don't know what to do cuz he has no ssn, which i told them in the beginning..

so he go ahead and fill out the app as he was told, and the lady ask him how long he been in dallas..

he says 3 mnths.. and she said

AND YA"LL ALREADY GOT MARRIED??????????????????

roger said he looked at her and was quiet for a min like he wouldnt acknowledge her w/ an answer ca she too fass, but thought he didn't want anyone to have an bad thougths toward me, so he told her

"ive known my wife for a VERY long time ma'am"

uggh.. PEOPLE!!! this process really is making me transparent, i don't like sharing my business w/ everybody well, except ya'll LOL

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

exactly wah mi asey Jaws..i have seen women in action..and bwoy..HAHAHA

[DaDa 1]

I know I said earlier that I was kinda counting down to A leaving for NY for some me time. I don't know what I'm going to do. I miss him already and he leaves on Sunday. I'm trying to be a big girl. His sister asked me if he could come to celebrate her birthday on the 21st. I couldn't get off work...and I feel like all of sudden we are back in Jamaica and I only have two days left to be with him. I'm anxious...my stomach is queasy and I keep tearing up. I need somebody to convince me that this time is different...that he will be back before I know it. Sunny how did you handle this when Ray went out of town?

How did he get to become so engrained in my daily routine so quickly...that I can't seem to remember what it was like when he wasn't here? I am a basketcase...I can't even sleep right now.

Uh huh looks whose eating their words. I knew it was only a matter of time. U come on here chat bout mi need some mi time I can’t wait for A to go away for a minute and now that reality has hit you, your like “Umm wait let’s rethink this shall we”.. When you first sent that response I was like o.k. either its going to hit her when he leaves or when she goes home and gets in the bed and goes to snuggle up with.. what?? The pillow?? Child as good as you have it for the last few weeks I knew it was going to hit you. Ur on cloud nine right now and loving it. But after all you been through you soooooo deserve it. .

Anyway now that I’m done teasing you how long will he be gone for? I won’t front all the ladies are telling you it will be o.k. (while they are snuggling up with there men) but I know they are right in a way and it will be alright in the end. But the one good thing about it all is that he will be in the states not way across the water in JA so if you really start to miss him girl you betta do like that lady put on a diaper jump in your car and say next stop New York City!!!!!LOL

[dancehallquana 5]

1. He looks like a model, you look like Spongebob

Are Shrek.. I have seen a couple of those on this board.

u and jaeng..nuh easy chat bout shrek..LMAO

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

1. He looks like a model, you look like Spongebob

Are Shrek.. I have seen a couple of those on this board.

Needa one no nice...

[sus 70]

show dem irie LOL..

i always laugh when i hear the stories bout what american women will do to men when they come here??? are u serious??? are these things really happening or just some man exaggerating cuz he don't like that he doesn't have as much freedom as he would like???

I know a Jamaican man whose wife pulled ova on the highway and kicked him out of the car - In the middle of winter, no phone, no money in his pocket, and in a different state from the one that they lived.

lol.. oh no.. what did he do to deserve that??? man.. she went FED.. i dont think i would do that even if he did something jacked up.. we can handle it different ways.. like how she did in 'i can do bad all by myself" sus

She was psycho - that's just one story - No coat, and the man spent two nights in jail cause they arrested him for vagrancy -

I LOVED what she did in I can do bad, lol - Or the other one, forget the movie, where she baby oiled the bathroom floor then beat him with a belt -

Jawi........

U made me thing of something...does it bother ya'll when people call you "YANKEE" -- I know some American women are offended by it, but didn't know why.

dont bother me at all..i guess only if its given in a negative connotation..

dem dyam yankees! LOL..

Jawi, Mich, Irie, Shem, JAP, finesse (does it bother you)

Some people take Yankee as offensive cause it goes back to the Civil war days and the division between the states - I think a southerner would be more inclined to get offended at being called Yankee than a true Yankee -

[jawi876 2]

God forbid it doesn't work out for me and A...but I would know with everything in me that we loved each other once upon a time...had a great friendship...but our life paths changed routes at some point, and we had to part ways. I know the sacrifices he has made to be here with me...fearing that there will probably never come a time when his girls can join us. I witness his turmoil everyday wanting to be in their lives and wanting to be happy with me. He told a pastor and his family that he has never been so happy in his entire life...told his sisters (they are his best friends too) that he could marry me everyday...he doesn't have to spit game to me...when he reaches out to rub eye buggers out the corners of my eye...he silently tells me that he loves me. When he tells his little girls at night...daddy loves you...I know that he loves me too. When he wakes up to watch me shower and dress for work just so he won't miss kissing me later...he silently tells me he loves me. When he gets to the last sweetie in the bag and he bites in half and saves me the other piece...he silently tells me that he loves me. When he softly caresses the scar on the back of my neck while we lounge in bed...he silently tells me that he loves me. When he leans in to kiss me goodnight because I fell asleep as soon as I laid down (despite the drool)...he silently tells me that he loves me. When I come home late at night from working this stupid A$$ shift they gave me....to a spotless home and a STARVING man...and he tells me baby nuh fret bout cooking...I'll grab a bowl of cereal the boys are good...he silently tells me that he loves me.

That's it I'm going to go play in traffic!!!!

whaa mi do fe mek yuh gwan like duppy tek yuh?

Jakeswife...you probably feel your pelvis separating now too...that was NOT a pleasant experience. I think the pregnant walk is cute...I still do it and stick out my stomach if I take the Expecting Mothers parking spot at the grocery store. (did I just admit that in public)....

Don't get me started on teachers here in Georgia...there are a lot of new teachers here that are only doing it because the state pays all of their student loans off if they teach for some specified amount of time. Makes my blood boil.

[dancehallquana 5]

Quana I got hubby's A# off of the NOA2. They don't have it on his passport either. In your case he wouldn't have an A# because he just had a tourist visa.

thanks dills, i thought not.. i was about to have to redo ALL this paperwork lol.. making my copies today!!!

When are you sending it in. I think we will be sending ours in on October 2nd. His son still needs to get another shot and has an appointment on the 2nd. Wish I could send it in today. LOL

girl im trying to do it monday .. just gotta get all the passport pictures now..

we should be right there w/ each other!!!