Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part18)

[*JG* 2]

Mornin' Chiney.. JAwi, you will be ok.... Promise! :-) I can totally feel the love in your posts.

Last night at Buju I was thiking about Quana's post too... Louis was so cute, dancin... YES DANCIN! and singing with me and was having so much fun, and so happy to be there with me. Such a great feeling.

On another note... he met another LUCIAN! Yeah, he was so happy. The guy knew his father, uncle and that side of the fam. He lives in NH but that is close enough. We will have to get together.

The only bad thing is this guys wife was at home and he was chattin' up some other girl. I hate that. Then another guy telling Louis how there are so many girls... blah blah... while I am right there! Louis just said "I am all set, I have what I need, I love my wife". He said the guy talked so much he must have swallowed a juke box! LOL

We had the same thing. In October of the year Andre came in June, we met all the VJ people who lived in St. Louis. There was one other JA guy there (and a few women waiting on their JA men). This JA guy was going on and on to Andre about how much he hated it here. How he was being held captive and she wouldn't let him drink and smoke and made him go to church and blah, blah, blah. How he was leaving her as soon as he got his green card. Oh, man, I was pissed. I said to Andre, why the hell doesn't he tell his wife that shyt and work it out.

[*JG* 2]

Happy Birthday Ms Tee! Today is my youngest son's and nephew's birthday too...they both turned 7!!!!! Yes, my brother's ex and I had our babies on the same day and they were born exactly an hour apart. My poor mother was all over the city that day because we had them at different hospitals. LOL

Good morning yardies!

I know I said earlier that I was kinda counting down to A leaving for NY for some me time. I don't know what I'm going to do. I miss him already and he leaves on Sunday.

Morning, All.

Happy Birthday, mstee!

Jawi, I could def relate to your story. Even when Steven leaves to go hang out with his friends for a few hours, at first I'm like "Yes! I get to catch up online/with tv/whatever." But then I'm SO glad to see him return. That's why I think absence is great temporarily: it gives us a chance to miss our loved ones.

I'm frustrated with DHL. The interview was Monday. They picked up the visa package on Tuesday. However, the status has been "Shipment on hold" ever since Tuesday afternoon! Stop holding the shipment & sent it to Montego Bay! I read that the MoBay DHL office (which is RIGHT by the airport) is closed on Saturdays, but the DHL phone recording said that they are open from 9 to 1 on Saturday. I plan to call back when they open today at 8:30 to see if there's any possibility of his package arriving today or tomorrow morning.

Good luck on that. Justecia had her issues with this recently.

[phillyfashionista 8]

Police have arrested a 20-year-old woman accused of throwing her 10-month-old son over a fence because of a dispute she had with the baby's

father, THE STAR has learnt.

The woman, Felicia Brookes, a labourer from Sligoville, St Catherine, has been charged with child abuse, police say. She is booked to face the Spanish Town Resident Magistrate's Court next week Tuesday to answer to the charge.

Police told THE STAR that about 6:30 p.m. on Friday, Brookes went to the home of her child's father to deal with a domestic matter. An argument developed between them, the police say, and she left in 'a huff' to her home where she picked up her 10-month-old son and returned.

Having returned to the father's home, the baby was thrown over the fence and the father told to "hold this man".

suffered head injuries

Police say the child hit the ground and suffered head injuries and had to be rushed to the Spanish Town Hospital where he received a number of stitches and was admitted in a serious condition.

Brookes, the police further say, went to the institution and reported that the child fell and hit his head, however, following investigation by Detective Corporal Kirk Roache, she was taken into custody and later charged.

Just a day before this incident, a man from Church Pen, St Catherine, was taken into custody after he was accused of throwing his three-month-old baby into a wall, resulting in the child's death. The man and the child's mother reportedly had a dispute when the incident happened.

WOW!

[dancehallquana 5]

jawi...wait deh a wah u do pon di pc?

I put him to bed right last night...so I could have time to talk with my girls while he sleeps... I'm in the middle of typing...and he opens our bedroom door looks at me on the chaise lounge staring at him like a child with her hand stuck in the cookie jar laughs and goes back to sleep. When I told him I would give y'all up if he gives up all the chatting him and his brother do...I won.

oh my gosh jawi.. i swear we are living the same life LOL.. only bad thing is Roger doesn't talk to anybody a GREAT amount of time so i have no bargaining chip... UGHHHHH

he also will not go out much on his own.. he's been once and almost broke his neck trying to get back home cuz he didn't wanna "leave me home alone" we had fun chatting bout the girls hitting on him.. we wierd like that.. i will tell him bout the guys and vice versa..

jawi, i know it will be hard.. heck i was sad and roger was gone for a few hours how long will A be gone for???

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

owwwww deh Philly, we're going to a wedding in Philly in November maybe we can link up and go shopping...really don't want to be at the reception all day...it's a morning wedding.

[MsSheka 0]

Police have arrested a 20-year-old woman accused of throwing her 10-month-old son over a fence because of a dispute she had with the baby's

father, THE STAR has learnt.

The woman, Felicia Brookes, a labourer from Sligoville, St Catherine, has been charged with child abuse, police say. She is booked to face the Spanish Town Resident Magistrate's Court next week Tuesday to answer to the charge.

Police told THE STAR that about 6:30 p.m. on Friday, Brookes went to the home of her child's father to deal with a domestic matter. An argument developed between them, the police say, and she left in 'a huff' to her home where she picked up her 10-month-old son and returned.

Having returned to the father's home, the baby was thrown over the fence and the father told to "hold this man".

suffered head injuries

Police say the child hit the ground and suffered head injuries and had to be rushed to the Spanish Town Hospital where he received a number of stitches and was admitted in a serious condition.

Brookes, the police further say, went to the institution and reported that the child fell and hit his head, however, following investigation by Detective Corporal Kirk Roache, she was taken into custody and later charged.

Just a day before this incident, a man from Church Pen, St Catherine, was taken into custody after he was accused of throwing his three-month-old baby into a wall, resulting in the child's death. The man and the child's mother reportedly had a dispute when the incident happened.

WOW!

Philly the part that got me was that she said "hold this man".

[*JG* 2]

Sorry to hear, 1Luv, get some rest and hope you feel better!

As for the red flags / sharing what's on the board -

I share some of what's on the site with DJ = I don't get into minute details, but definitely give him some of the stories - Some of which we get a good laugh over together, some that happen to my friends will anger him just as they did me - We also talk about timelines, etc... I don't however, hold things against him or base feelings towards him by what happened to someone else - Cause he is not that person.

Red Flags - there are some people that are going to do what they want, regardless of what someone tries to tell them is a red flag - If I see someone who I definitely suspect that there are issues in the relationship, I will try to hint around it - But if they don't want to see it, they aren't going to see it - If I feel that I have definite beliefs or solid proof about something, I will reach out to that person - and have - But I am not gonna put it out here on the board for all to read - that is the other person's choice of whether or not they want to do that.

I am sure there are things within my relationship that someone looking at it from the outside would see as a red flag - But having been through it first hand, experienced it, seen the scars - To me it's bad luck, not a flag -

Ha ha.....and how many times have I said....um, Sus, you think it's this......? Or think about this.....? or just plain questioned you?

I think my point with red flags is like my theory on why they put really stupid warning labels on stuff......McDonalds coffee IS freakin' HOT......Preparation H should NOT be used internally.....etc......This stuff HAS happened to someone in the past and if they had seen it before, been warned, maybe they would have done things differently. So, watch for red flags. Heed the warnings. PLEASE PAY ATTENTION. But, think it through and see what works for you. Also, KNOW that if we hint or point stuff out it is cause we care about everyone on this thread. No one wants to see your relationship crash and burn. There is no joy in that. But, What we would really rather NOT see though is you devestated beyond recovery. We care about the women on here. We love your men cause you love your men. But, YOU are the one who is really a part of our family. YOU are who we really care about.

If you see problems and control your own destiny at least you have that.

[jawi876 2]

MAWNING YARDIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

jawi what u wrote was BEAUTIFUL .. i can't wait to see what great writing ur new life will spark!

i can see every lil image.. i LOVE IT.. thank you for breaking ur long silence.. i feel a lil hesitant sometimes to post cuz Roger's adjustment has been a breeze honestly and we get along so well, things seem to be BETTER everyday..

but i don't want to make it look so easy, cuz i know it always isn't.. i don't want to make it look like im painting a perfect picture, truss me, even i question myself like why is this road not a lil more bumpy????

but everyone's journey is different... bad journeys, good journeys, bumpy journeys that found their way.. whatever it is, its YOUR journey.. im glad u posted cuz i feel more confident in sharing mine..

on the talking bout vj.. i tell roger things.. while we dated, i didn't talk about vj as much as i do now.. i did tell him stories cuz alot of u guys are my virtual friends, so i found it no different than teling him bout family or friends.. he laughs at the funny stuff and gets mad at the foolish stuff..

now EVERYDAY. after he asks how my day was..he says, whats going on on VJ

One of the main reasons I didn't post a lot about us was because I respect him, and I don't think it is fair to put another person's business out there even though we are in a relationship without them being privvy to the information too. He knows about VJ...knows that I consider some of you my closest friends and sisters. I have shared very private stories with my true sisters (Chiney...TL...Jonesie...Gill...just to name a few)...but that is no different than swapping stories over a bottle of wine sitting in each others living rooms.

Don't feel like you have to paint a negative picture if there isn't one just to "fit in"...yeah misery loves company...but who cares. I'm happy for you guys...I told you my concerns for you guys having a successful journey...so I'm just staying positive and in prayer that all goes according to His good and perfect Will.

There are some very successful LDRs out there that I look toward for positivity...Gill...Chiney...Shemmy...Yaads...they may not post as much about their happiness but its there...real and in effect. I'm sure I'll will fade back again once I get used to really being this happy.

Oh! Last night I got an extra 20 from the ATM! And it didnt get posted to my account. I actually think it was in the machine and the last person didnt take it.

Woo Hoo!

You didn't give it back? That's happen to me several times but it was way more than $20.00...I've also had tax refunds deposited into my account that didn't belong to me (LOTS) of money

Give it back?? I don't think I could have shoved it back in the ATM. LOL

There was no one at the machine, or around it... I just THINK it could have been someone who left it there by accident. If they did they were long gone.

The extra 20 was nice on our night out.

I would have been happy too...but guilt would have torn me up too. I would have wondered if a single mother needed the money to take care of a bill or something. But, I'm sure God will provide for them too.

[*JG* 2]

I'm sorry Luv..hope u feel better soon!!

Screw red flags..whateva! do u! it no work out..it no work out..oh well..move on...My thing is just not to let this be about a GC

I agree, I don't like the term "RED FLAG"...I really want to type something else but I might get another warning for violating TOS (even though what I wrote was in raw PATWAH)

What, Tre? Spit it out.

[IrieCat 2]

MAWNING YARDIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

jawi what u wrote was BEAUTIFUL .. i can't wait to see what great writing ur new life will spark!

i can see every lil image.. i LOVE IT.. thank you for breaking ur long silence.. i feel a lil hesitant sometimes to post cuz Roger's adjustment has been a breeze honestly and we get along so well, things seem to be BETTER everyday..

but i don't want to make it look so easy, cuz i know it always isn't.. i don't want to make it look like im painting a perfect picture, truss me, even i question myself like why is this road not a lil more bumpy????

but everyone's journey is different... bad journeys, good journeys, bumpy journeys that found their way.. whatever it is, its YOUR journey.. im glad u posted cuz i feel more confident in sharing mine..

on the talking bout vj.. i tell roger things.. while we dated, i didn't talk about vj as much as i do now.. i did tell him stories cuz alot of u guys are my virtual friends, so i found it no different than teling him bout family or friends.. he laughs at the funny stuff and gets mad at the foolish stuff..

now EVERYDAY. after he asks how my day was..he says, whats going on on VJ

One of the main reasons I didn't post a lot about us was because I respect him, and I don't think it is fair to put another person's business out there even though we are in a relationship without them being privvy to the information too. He knows about VJ...knows that I consider some of you my closest friends and sisters. I have shared very private stories with my true sisters (Chiney...TL...Jonesie...Gill...just to name a few)...but that is no different than swapping stories over a bottle of wine sitting in each others living rooms.

Don't feel like you have to paint a negative picture if there isn't one just to "fit in"...yeah misery loves company...but who cares. I'm happy for you guys...I told you my concerns for you guys having a successful journey...so I'm just staying positive and in prayer that all goes according to His good and perfect Will.

There are some very successful LDRs out there that I look toward for positivity...Gill...Chiney...Shemmy...Yaads...they may not post as much about their happiness but its there...real and in effect. I'm sure I'll will fade back again once I get used to really being this happy.

Oh! Last night I got an extra 20 from the ATM! And it didnt get posted to my account. I actually think it was in the machine and the last person didnt take it.

Woo Hoo!

You didn't give it back? That's happen to me several times but it was way more than $20.00...I've also had tax refunds deposited into my account that didn't belong to me (LOTS) of money

Give it back?? I don't think I could have shoved it back in the ATM. LOL

There was no one at the machine, or around it... I just THINK it could have been someone who left it there by accident. If they did they were long gone.

The extra 20 was nice on our night out.

I would have been happy too...but guilt would have torn me up too. I would have wondered if a single mother needed the money to take care of a bill or something. But, I'm sure God will provide for them too.

Considering the ATM doesnt belong to a bank and its in the middle of the Old Port which is just bars and restaurants.. I think I am safe.

[*JG* 2]

Oh! Last night I got an extra 20 from the ATM! And it didnt get posted to my account. I actually think it was in the machine and the last person didnt take it.

Woo Hoo!

You didn't give it back? That's happen to me several times but it was way more than $20.00...I've also had tax refunds deposited into my account that didn't belong to me (LOTS) of money

Give it back?? I don't think I could have shoved it back in the ATM. LOL

There was no one at the machine, or around it... I just THINK it could have been someone who left it there by accident. If they did they were long gone.

The extra 20 was nice on our night out.

And now there are signs in all the post offices with your picture on it........Have you seen this woman????????

[dancehallquana 5]

[Why? If a so it fi go...a so it fi go....next Wednesday will make 2 years I've know my husband and we don't argue my friends tell me that's strange. Don't go looking for trouble or faults in your relationship.

exactly tre, and u are not one to talk about ur relationship much on here anyway, maybe rightfully so cuz ppl do always think things are STRANGE when its going well.. i however am a chatty cathy.. i like to talk and now that i am FINALLY able to stop looking for trouble, YOU WOULD NOT BELIEVE how many others started (not on here), mi ave lost frend, but its all good, i will not feel bad about having a blessed life and testifying to that, God is no respect of persons and is ALWAYS in the blessing business.

so i mean i am just a lil uncomfy to share even tho i really want to sometimes.

i am thankful for an outlet where ppl can share the good times and be celebrated and not scrutinized..

[MsSheka 0]

What do y'all think?

[dancehallquana 5]

irie. girl i would have felt like i hit the jackpot!!!! FREE MONEY!!! YAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[jawi876 2]

Oops I didn't mean to leave off my girl Jonesie...I love to hear them talk to each other HILARIOUS!!! They have been two nuts from the day they met...and they love each others dirty drawas.

oh my gosh jawi.. i swear we are living the same life LOL.. only bad thing is Roger doesn't talk to anybody a GREAT amount of time so i have no bargaining chip... UGHHHHH

he also will not go out much on his own.. he's been once and almost broke his neck trying to get back home cuz he didn't wanna "leave me home alone" we had fun chatting bout the girls hitting on him.. we wierd like that.. i will tell him bout the guys and vice versa..

jawi, i know it will be hard.. heck i was sad and roger was gone for a few hours how long will A be gone for???

Girl I'm going to have to switch A to MetroPCS...I paid for his brother to have Digicel's International plan when he first got here...they talked through that in a matter of days...so now his brother just buys phone cards and talks them out or borrows a friends phone and talks that out too. LOL He always wants to talk to me and find out what I'm cooking for the day. He said "Sis in law mi neva knoa yuh gwaan so good...it's like Ugly Ugly neva left yaad." His brother cried on our wedding day because he couldn't be here...it was so sad and touching. He kept apologizing to me about not being here.

Ha ha.....and how many times have I said....um, Sus, you think it's this......? Or think about this.....? or just plain questioned you?

I think my point with red flags is like my theory on why they put really stupid warning labels on stuff......McDonalds coffee IS freakin' HOT......Preparation H should NOT be used internally.....etc......This stuff HAS happened to someone in the past and if they had seen it before, been warned, maybe they would have done things differently. So, watch for red flags. Heed the warnings. PLEASE PAY ATTENTION. But, think it through and see what works for you. Also, KNOW that if we hint or point stuff out it is cause we care about everyone on this thread. No one wants to see your relationship crash and burn. There is no joy in that. But, What we would really rather NOT see though is you devestated beyond recovery. We care about the women on here. We love your men cause you love your men. But, YOU are the one who is really a part of our family. YOU are who we really care about.

If you see problems and control your own destiny at least you have that.

Beautifully put JG...bravo...bravo!