Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part18)

[sus 70]

that was hubby's last trip

and we actually enjoyed it

lots of lazy days

is he back 100% now sus?

According to him - No, lol - He's much better - but he's still learning about what he can / can't eat and drink - it's something he's gonna have to watch for the rest of his life -

Soooo...here's my question.

If you see someone whose relationship you feel is one HUGE red flag waiting to happen gets their NOA2/approval etc, what do you do??

Congratulate them even though your heart is heavy?

Or just say nothing??

Bearing in mind you have no definitive PROOF, just a gut feeling....

Without definitive proof, I would probably drop hints - but the person is going to do what they are going to do, regardless of what you say - it's there life, they have to live it.

[finesse 3]

i've been trying to post all day but my boss keeps phockin wid me...

anyway, morning all...or afternoon

how was the trip sus? when is the wedding?

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

lmao @ philly's smiley

[sus 70]

i've been trying to post all day but my boss keeps phockin wid me...

anyway, morning all...or afternoon

how was the trip sus? when is the wedding?

The trip was good, Finesse - no date for the wedding - I was wondering where di troublemaka was -

[finesse 3]

Soooo...here's my question.

If you see someone whose relationship you feel is one HUGE red flag waiting to happen gets their NOA2/approval etc, what do you do??

Congratulate them even though your heart is heavy?

Or just say nothing??

Bearing in mind you have no definitive PROOF, just a gut feeling....

smaddi pon here? who is it? send me a PM

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

that was hubby's last trip

and we actually enjoyed it

lots of lazy days

is he back 100% now sus?

According to him - No, lol - He's much better - but he's still learning about what he can / can't eat and drink - it's something he's gonna have to watch for the rest of his life -

i have a freind who something similar happened to

he had to cut out smoking and change his diet

he can hardly drink anymore and he CANNOT, under any circumstances, go hungry

Soooo...here's my question.

If you see someone whose relationship you feel is one HUGE red flag waiting to happen gets their NOA2/approval etc, what do you do??

Congratulate them even though your heart is heavy?

Or just say nothing??

Bearing in mind you have no definitive PROOF, just a gut feeling....

smaddi pon here? who is it? send me a PM

when she pm you, fwd it to me

lol, i keeeeeeeed!!

maybe not haha

[finesse 3]

Ha nice try...Aunt Flo just left the building so it can't be me!

some women spot in the beginning of their pregnancy

some have normal periods in the beginning

whapppen now....dillon preggers?

[sus 70]

i have a freind who something similar happened to

he had to cut out smoking and change his diet

he can hardly drink anymore and he CANNOT, under any circumstances, go hungry

That was our biggest fight - his stomach would be growling, and he would tell me it was the worms - Then that night his stomach was bothering him - the next day, I INSISTED we eat the second I heard the rumble - no surprise to me - no stomach problems!

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

maybe there are certain questions you can ask JaEnglish which will give you greater conviction or decrease your suspicions

[phillyfashionista 8]

Morning Yardies!

Welcome back Sus! I'm surprised it was such a short trip too. Should I check FB for pics??

Thanks, Ells - I am almost embarassed to say - No pics, lol - We were so lazy this trip and I didn't take any! Well one - but we look like a mug shot so mi nah share it, lol

All the rooksin LOL where is Finesse's smiley

[jakeswife 0]

Soooo...here's my question.

If you see someone whose relationship you feel is one HUGE red flag waiting to happen gets their NOA2/approval etc, what do you do??

Congratulate them even though your heart is heavy?

Or just say nothing??

Bearing in mind you have no definitive PROOF, just a gut feeling....

that's your answer. no definitive proof means you might be wrong so i think you should sit on this one until something jumps out at you. unfortunately even if you know it's a mess waiting to happen you will just have to let her find out by herself one way or another.that might be her growing pain or upcoming bliss.Either way your friendship will come in handy and the I TOLD YOU SO don't work so stay away from that too.This is a delicate balance,i know but this is her moment good or bad let her have it. i had to bite my tongue a few times myself so i know what you are going through.

Edited September 15, 2009 by jakeswife

[sus 70]

JAPrincess! Ya straight now?

[dancehallquana 5]

jaengy..

without proof.. what can u do.. i wouldn't say anything i don't think.. if they told me face to face.. i guess i would have to say congrats, but thats it..

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

That was our biggest fight - his stomach would be growling, and he would tell me it was the worms - Then that night his stomach was bothering him - the next day, I INSISTED we eat the second I heard the rumble - no surprise to me - no stomach problems!

yep, you have to nag the hell out of him if you have to

because stomach problems are not a joke

[dillon 6]

Ha nice try...Aunt Flo just left the building so it can't be me!

some women spot in the beginning of their pregnancy

some have normal periods in the beginning

Next you are going to tell me you can be pregnant if you are BC and are having your periods.....I think I am safe.