Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part18)

[JAPrincess 27]

JaPrincess!! I remember you! So yuh drank di wata eh? Wha yuh ave?

Yay, I'm remembered!!

Is a girl

And mi man deh a yard, an mi noh know when mi interview is, an mi due in January, and mi stress

But other than that mi good

Really do miss your vibes around here

[Marlita 0]

Hello Everyone,

Oh man, I have no idea what is going on here in VJ Yardie land. Not sure if many of the folks here even remember me. I wanted to come in an say hello....and catch up on the gossip of course, haha!!

Well here's my gossip. Evan and I are doing great. He's been here almost a YEAR this coming October. I CANNOT believe ho fast time flies. We are also expecting....twins!! We celebrated our first anniversary here last month and now we are preparing to be new parents. Not sure who else is in the VJ yardie wata but would love to hear about it.

I've been relaxing at home since being laid off back in Feb. Got a GREAT job offer last week, but had to decline it due to the twins on the way and not wanting to take up more than I can handle right now. So i am just looking for part time work. Evan's been working since Jan and is also looking for something better so thats helped us out alot. Other than that, I am usually home and BORED OUT OF MY MIND!!! How are you ladies!!??

This is so crazy. I just read your blog today and I just told the ladies you were expecting twins and you were excited. I have twins myself a boy and girl and to see you so happy I was like umm am I the only one who cried when she heard she was having twins? I see they are a blessing now (sort of ) but when I first got the news I told there dr to get another dr because she didn't know what she was looking at.

I followed your journey whether you knew it or not didn't we Quana? We used to stalk her blog site.. It's so nice to see your journey worked out GREAT for you!!!

Oh my gosh were the twins hard for you? I am seriously calm about it, and I guess I am odd in that way cus I hear alot of people do freak out. But for some reason having twins seems more normal for me than if I was to have only 1. My grandmother told me I was going to have twins over a year ago....like she had a prophecy and so from then on I was like "OK". And like a week before I knew I was pregnant my mom was praying for me and said that God told her I would have twins. I was like "OK". So when I had the ultrasound at like 7 weeks and they saw 2 sacs instantly I was like...."well there's the twins!!" It wasnt even a surprise, but like a confirmation.

[JAPrincess 27]

my youngest was a csection..

Quana, did you have any trouble delivering vaginally after the c-section??

I am fraid of V-Back and almost want to just schedule another c-section although I was SO UNHAPPY they took my son that way...

My honey is afraid of the "knife" an want me to try the v-back...

[finesse 3]

my youngest was a csection..

Quana, did you have any trouble delivering vaginally after the c-section??

I am fraid of V-Back and almost want to just schedule another c-section although I was SO UNHAPPY they took my son that way...

My honey is afraid of the "knife" an want me to try the v-back...

v-back? wha dis?

sound like a sex position...

[dancehallquana 5]

i didn't have any other kids afterwards... do they say its risky to do it vaginally after a c section???

[JAPrincess 27]

Oh my gosh were the twins hard for you? I am seriously calm about it, and I guess I am odd in that way cus I hear alot of people do freak out. But for some reason having twins seems more normal for me than if I was to have only 1. My grandmother told me I was going to have twins over a year ago....like she had a prophecy and so from then on I was like "OK". And like a week before I knew I was pregnant my mom was praying for me and said that God told her I would have twins. I was like "OK". So when I had the ultrasound at like 7 weeks and they saw 2 sacs instantly I was like...."well there's the twins!!" It wasnt even a surprise, but like a confirmation.

What a blessing I say...

I had a small amount of spotting about week 6 and I read that it is possible when carrying twins to spot when the second embryo implants, so we talked about it... he said "I bathe one, you bathe the other"

But alas, is just one baby in there

How is Evan doing adjusting??

Do you have any info on the marriage counseling you two went to? Maybe they have an affiliate in N.Cal??

[Marlita 0]

jgay; how his they baby n wah mek u so quiet?

Hey....the baby is good...oh i should state this...one of my wayyyyy earlier post i said my baby was breeched...had a doctor's appointment this pass saturday and happy to announce that she is in position....yayyyy.....hubby was with me and he was happy too....even though he doesn't really see anything wrong with having a c-section...i had family members and friends who had c-section and they say the aftermath is very painful...so i really don't want to go through that...i had my son naturally and was up and about within the week...with a c-section i don't think that will be possible...

Hey Marlita...this is jgay80...changed my screen name....so glad to hear from you....so happy you are having twins too...as you can see I'm having a little girl...glad things are going good between you and Evan...Me and hubby are good...still have our ups and downs...but we get through them...would love to be home and bored.... ...i can't wait to start my maternity leave...I stop working Sept 25th....Our anniversary is coming up this Sept 30th....hubby said he had a surprise for me... ....

Jgay!!! Girl I was like ho in the heck is this, til you said u changed ur name. I came on here long ago and saw u were expecting. It was before I was. Congrats to you and your husband. I didnt know u had a son. As far as the C-Section thing.....lawd dont get me started. I have been searching high and low for a doc that wont try to force that on me. If I could home birth I would....trust me. But alas, not with the twins. So I am hoping my experience will be safe and well. Gotta keep praying about that one. Oh and as far as the ups and downs.....oh me and Evan have ours too. I should let him post in the blog about how I drive him literally insane sometimes and the cussing and fussing that we can do. Its all about of marriage, haha.

[dancehallquana 5]

i didn't have a bad experience w/ my csection.. just the recovery LOL

i was actually relieved.. steph took the whole day and still wouldn't crown!!!.. i was MISERABLE, crying, blubbering, frustrated.. had 2 epi's and i managed to go w/out any epi w/ my first child.. i was just ready to get it over with.. i didn't think twice about i was getting my STOMACH cut!!

[Marlita 0]

Hi Marlita. Good to hear from you and hear things are going well.

Congrats!

Thanks JG!

[DaDa 1]

hey.. ya'll wanna see something FUNNY!!! on w/ the contact lense saga.. remember ex said he would get the rx filled but did not meet me to get the rx.. BUT he told my daughter that he gave me the money i found out last week..YES.. CRAZY..

so anyway.. i emailed him and told him that i did go ahead and fill her rx, as well as paid some medical bills from LAST YEARS appendectomy.. and would appreciate him doing his part any paying at least half of those bills..PERIOD.. THAT WAS THE ENTIRETY of the message

this is what i got back....

If you like I can help get your man a job? And I have a car for sell if you want to buy it for him I'll give it to you for $700.00 And I'll deposit $100 to your account on Friday for med bills and also contact. But do to the fact Taylor having allergies she really don't need to have contact in her eyes just an thought.

i

Q mi sorry but again dis had me rooooolllinnnn. Ur ex is not right.. Now you know when he reads your e-mail you betta watch crossing the street.

[Marlita 0]

my youngest was a csection..

Quana, did you have any trouble delivering vaginally after the c-section??

I am fraid of V-Back and almost want to just schedule another c-section although I was SO UNHAPPY they took my son that way...

My honey is afraid of the "knife" an want me to try the v-back...

Girl you have to try the VBAC. If anything, the doc will stop you and then do C-Section if there is a problem. But I read that the problem rate with VBAC is like 4% or less. Those are great odds. It also depends on your Csect cut. If its the low horizontal then you are all good to VBAC.

[NatPatBen 3]

Is it just my computer or is the time flipping all around on the quoted posts, depending on what time zone people are in? Look at those who are quoted with lots of different quotes in them.

In case this wasn't answered... The quote has the time zone of the quoter, not the poster.

Speaking of Tyler Perry anyone going to see his movie this weekend?

we are! hubby already asked me out on a date...

That's precious. I love seeing married couples doing stuff together, especially old ones. Yesterday I passed this old couple at my apt complex. They were in the pool tossing a frisbee back & forth. They had to be in their 60s or later.

[Marlita 0]

my youngest was a csection..

Quana, did you have any trouble delivering vaginally after the c-section??

I am fraid of V-Back and almost want to just schedule another c-section although I was SO UNHAPPY they took my son that way...

My honey is afraid of the "knife" an want me to try the v-back...

v-back? wha dis?

sound like a sex position...

ahahahaha!! I almost snorted a Corn Pop outta my nose.

[*JG* 2]

i didn't have any other kids afterwards... do they say its risky to do it vaginally after a c section???

No. I used to work in a gyno office. Women do it all the time.

[DaDa 1]

my2 your kids are so cute

jawi, your story touched me

you need to write a book/play/script about your own struggles, you'd put tyler perry's plays/movies to shame

ppl i feel like i am going to scream. let's just say i went to the ministry of national security on monday......to end up at the trn office today but I give God thanks that i started doing all this before the time it really becomes necessary.

Speaking of Tyler Perry anyone going to see his movie this weekend?

we are! hubby already asked me out on a date...

Dammmmnn u must have put it on him. Now he wants to date you. Don’t get freaky in the damn movie theater.