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I was just curious how often, and how much the couples here talk. Me and my girl talk on skype and google talk. We have logged over 1,500 hours of talk time in 1 year. She speaks great english and our topics cover everything from theology to quantum mechanics to what we did that day.

It's so nice having a mate that has the EXACT same core belief system that i do. I really believe that couple's that can keep each other interested through mutual, good conversation will always have a good sex life and a long relationship.

So how often do yall talk?

:thumbs: As usual, I agree with ya one hundred percent John. Communication is the key to building a strong foundation for the rest of the relationship.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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EVERY DAY without fail since March. Whether its webcam, or the phone, we usually talk for hours. IN the morning on my way to work we talk for about 30 minutes there, and maybe 3 times a week I call her to tell her goodnight while I'm at work. Sometimes its not possible while at work, but any chance I get, I am calling her. Either way, we talk after I get home from work. Sometimes I hope I am not annoying her, but she assures me i'm not, and she always answers. So i guess its ok.

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I think it's a testament to the sweetness of a good Filipina. I just don't get tired of talking with her. Every little thing she says and does is like magic.....wait, that's a police song!

Lol.

Well, it's good to hear so many here have good communication with their mate. I really can't wait for her to get here because it will be SOOO nice not to have to sit in front of this computer so much!

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We chat every day.

When we first met we chatted every day, every few days as just friends and nothing more. After we started to feel something more, we chatted 12-24 hours a day. (Yes, 24 hours once or twice in the first month). After that usually 6-8 hours a day. When I visited there, all day every day 24/7. :P Now we chat anywhere between 8+ hours per day depending on the activity.

Her dad gave me money to buy her a laptop here in the US before I went, and I decided to buy her Skype which gives her a US phone number to call my cell phone any time she wants. I bought her a $100 Skype phone that connects to wifi so she can call me when she's out and about, but she also buys herself Globe cards for international calls.

Her laptop has a built in webcam, and I bought one as well but we don't use it too often.

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Hubby and I used to talk all the time everyday - be it chat, email, and phone. We worked for the same company too so that was a huge advantage. To all those who were successful - I SALUTE YOU!

This was a great thing for our relationship and a real blessing. I have the kind of personality who is visual-kinesthethic and I need a "touch all the time". I can't honestly imagine how it would have worked without the constant communication.

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I was just curious how often, and how much the couples here talk. Me and my girl talk on skype and google talk. We have logged over 1,500 hours of talk time in 1 year. She speaks great english and our topics cover everything from theology to quantum mechanics to what we did that day.

It's so nice having a mate that has the EXACT same core belief system that i do. I really believe that couple's that can keep each other interested through mutual, good conversation will always have a good sex life and a long relationship.

So how often do yall talk?

well we talked almost everyday tru ym (vioce chat, chat)... everyweek i call him once using an iddcard.... we sent e-mail everday, i sent him post card/card every month and vice versa...

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We almost talk everyday, yahoo, exchange emails but most of the time he call me through MAGIC JACK..

For me communication is a very important :-)

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my husband and i talk on YM about 3-4 hours in the morning ( which is night time in the usa) and about 1 hour at night ( morning in the usa) . most of the time we have to be quiet since he would be watching tv :blush: but as long as i can hear his breathing , that is more than enough for me :rolleyes:

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We talk everyday. :)

Before we got MagicJack, we talked during my lunch break (12 noon to 1:00 p.m.) The rest of the time was e-mail and Yahoo Messenger.

Rick also called me using a call card and Yahoo, but later that got really expensive...since he was texting my cell phone using his Sprint service too! lol

Since we got MagicJack, we talk longer. I get to call him during his lunch breaks (in Florida), and on the weekends, we talk 9 hours without getting bored! Plus we have added Google chat to our arsenal of communication tools. But you know...sending cards and letters through the mail are even more romantic and thoughtful. :)

Take note however that we could talk duing 5 hour blocks at a time because the battery of my phone (Panasonic wireless landline) would die, and so we would stop for a couple of hours to let the phone recharge.

My mother-in-law often jokes that we will run our of things to do or talk about...but I don't know...we just find different things to talk about. :D

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we talk twice a day,he used to wake me up every morning to go to work,and when i got home weve talk before i go to sleep on msn and yahoo,we talk 5 to 7 hours a day!and when im off from work we talk a lot the whole day,even if my fiancee in the Philippines was at work,she can still talk to me cos she do have computer and internet connection at work.

Wow! She's at YM chatting with her boy friend while at work? She's lucky I'm not her boss! :angry:

haha! used to be a supervisor and a team leader. if she was under me, she's lucky if she would last one day. LOL! :bonk:

haha,yea,shes the boss at work!she works as a supervisor!as well as the company Nurse

i love you my little baby,see you soon

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we talk everyday. thru Ym, thru calls. Emails.For Several hours everyday. haha we cant just get enough of each other. we use magicjack. and i use sun cell to for calling him on my phone :] and for sms too. :)

happier than ever

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we talk everyday. thru Ym, thru calls. Emails.For Several hours everyday. haha we cant just get enough of each other. we use magicjack. and i use sun cell to for calling him on my phone :] and for sms too. :)

If only my employer knew how many hours of "on the clock" time I've spent talking to my Wifie in the PH!

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This is so interesting! Great topic. If you see my timeline below, my husband and I met a LONG time ago. When we reconnected last year, we spent so much time talking on the phone for a month before I flew off to see him. He got a sweet deal with his phone company, then he got a US number thru Skype. Sometimes we'd talk for five hours straight! And we aren't super young (40s) so we feel like teenagers. We spent a month getting to know each other again before meeting after 21 years of not seeing each other. That's why we had not a single second of awkardness when we saw each other for our "second" first time! We didn't know at the beginning that each of us were saving each other's emails in a special folder! We've done that for 10 months now-we each have maybe 7,000 emails saved from each other. Pathetic, I know...anyway, we've never gone a day without hours on the phone (of course with the time difference he's up late and I'm getting off work), and many times we call each other if we can't sleep. Included in this are dozens of emails each day when we're both at work. I could never go a day without hearing his sweet Finnish voice!

Wow, this makes me miss him so much!

Our timeline:

2/88: We met in Sydney, Australia at a youth hostel! He's Finnish, I'm American-both were in our early 20s at the time and fresh out of college (so couldn't afford to visit each other's countries after that!). We had a three-day romance, then went our separate ways. He actually was going to Sydney a week later, but decided at the last minute to cut his trip short in another country and go early. Wow.

1988-1998: Wrote "snail mail" letters/sent Xmas cards, but lived our separate lives. I married someone else, divorced in 2006...he lived with someone for years and then that ended.

10/08: Because of a series of random life events, I Googled my Finn Man and found him (but no link to his email, and the website his name was on was in Estonian so I couldn't even read it!). It took me two weeks to find a link to someone else, who forwarded my email to him (we were both single at the time thankfully!!!!). The email went to his spam folder but he happened to check it that day and responded back to me immediately! This was after 10 years of no contact and almost 21 years of not seeing each other after we first met.

11/08-5/09: We traveled back and forth to visit each other. Love at first (second?) sight!

7/09: Married in Helsinki, Finland...after meeting randomly 21 1/2 years ago and finding each other again!!!!!

8/13/09: I-130 sent!!!!!!!!!

Rest is on my timeline!

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we talk twice a day,he used to wake me up every morning to go to work,and when i got home weve talk before i go to sleep on msn and yahoo,we talk 5 to 7 hours a day!and when im off from work we talk a lot the whole day,even if my fiancee in the Philippines was at work,she can still talk to me cos she do have computer and internet connection at work.

Wow! She's at YM chatting with her boy friend while at work? She's lucky I'm not her boss! :angry:

haha! used to be a supervisor and a team leader. if she was under me, she's lucky if she would last one day. LOL! :bonk:

haha,yea,shes the boss at work!she works as a supervisor!as well as the company Nurse

She's not a raw model as a supervisor, is she? :devil:

we talk everyday. thru Ym, thru calls. Emails.For Several hours everyday. haha we cant just get enough of each other. we use magicjack. and i use sun cell to for calling him on my phone :] and for sms too. :)

If only my employer knew how many hours of "on the clock" time I've spent talking to my Wifie in the PH!

Don't worry, mister. Your employer will know it soon and your head will be on the chopping block! :whistle:

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my husband and i talk on apple ichat everyday after work!.. he's from NC, thus a 12 hour time difference.. he works at the lab on 3rd shift from 11pm-8am (NC time) and i'm at work from 8am-5pm(PI time).. so we somewhat share the same schedule of work.. when i'm at work he's also at work.. and after a hard day's work, ichat is on and we talk about almost anything under the sun.. i even had him sign up on FB so we could play farmtown together.. :D

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04/17/2013 - sent N400
05/06/2013 - biometrics letter notice date
05/17/2013 - biometrics appointment

05/21/2013 - in line for interview

07/08/2013 - actual interview date

07/19/2013 - oath ceremony

Mom's IR5

10/15/2013 - sent I130

10/16/2013 - receipt date on NOA1 (Overland Park, Kansas)

11/22/2013 - received notice, case transferred to TSC

12/13/2013 - Email update, Petition approved!

01/23/2014 - case transferred to NVC

03/04/2014 - case number assigned

03/06/2014 - submitted DS-261

03/07/2014 - paid AOS Fee

03/19/2014 - sent AOS package

03/25/2014 - paid IV Fee

03/29/2014 - submitted DS260

03/31/2014 - sent DS-260(IV) civil documents

04/08/2014 - IV and AOS Checklist (I864A - incomplete information (place of residence))

04/09/2014 - sent AOS checklist

04/21/2014 - false AOS checklist

05/07/2014 - email notification for case complete

05/14/2014 - received appointment interview letter via email

05/15/2014 - CEAC status "In Transit" to consulate (US Embassy, Manila)

06/11/2014 - interview @ 6:15am (PASSED)

06/11/2014 - CEAC status "ISSUED" (visa is authorized for printing)

07/??/2014 - flight to US POE Detroit

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