Filipina filed for divorce

[nydvo 0]

I wish people will stop making presumptions on what transpired betwee the OP and the ex husband. Most of us are very lucky that we didn't encounter their problem. Who are we to judge them? So what if she found another USC to sponsor her in coming back here, its none of our business.Just thank your lucky stars that you have a smooth sailing visa process and pray for our fellow Filipina who deserves a second chance.

Yea well, I know its hard to hear what I am saying, but there is something very wrong here. Its easy to see if you look at the writing on the wall. One thing we should all be fighting against is fraud. Ihave found that eople are using this sight to enable the thinking of many filipinas to actually do fruad.

The timelines dont fit. She went back to the PHilippines and file for a spousal visa and had all the time to find a new fiance? All in the span of 14 months? Huh? Remember she had to commit or agree to the spousal visa> di ba? It takes time for that visa to be approved Huh?!!!!!!! What?!!!!! Something is wrong here?

And remember she has agreed on every occasion to sign the AOS first in the USA and then the spousal visa in the PH?! And now she want sign a K1 with another guy????!!!! It looks to me this person id doing everything in her power to get back to USA. And she will do whatever it takes to do so.

And we will see a 2ndvictim again with this thing.

Another post with a person who found out they married the wrong person.

The K1 process is not McDonalds. Its for sincere people who love each other, and want o be with each other for life.

Nahhhhhhhhh!!! I smell malansa....

Ok. The i-130 is in the topic now., and everyone here knows my story anywyz, i might as well, include my timeline. for everyone.. especially to merryann's....

Feb 2007 - arrived in the US

May 9, 2007- Got married

July 17,2007-- signed AOS forms infront of the lawyer, dont know when he filed.

Aug. 3,2007-- left the US

Aug. 5 to January 2008.. -a lil talk here and there...trying to fix it..

January 11,2008--decided to file i-130 "'we're married so we tried to work it out again"

January 25,2008- Mutually agreed to end everything.. No communication since then.. never heard from him.

May 2008-- met my fiance now, Online.

sept 4,2008-- met him in person.

Oct.3 2008-- Got a call from my exhusband's secretary that HE got an approval letter from the i-130. and also the 70usd fees. (i dont know what its called)..my exhusband didnt send anything after that...

Sept.2008-i-130 approved.. didnt know and didnt care coz i havent heard from him since january.

Oct. 2008-- talked to my exhusband to file the divorce, He said he will., i sent him signed paperworks

Nov.2008--found out that he didnt file coz blah blah blah.

Nov.2008-- asked him again to file the divorce, and he said yes.. i sent him signed paperworks again..

Dec.2008-- found out again that he didnt coz blah blah blah.

March 2009-- Ray (fiance now),. visited again.. and after that decided to just file the divorce ourselves.

March 2009-- divorce filed

July 2009-- Ray visited again (this time we got engaged)

Aug.12 ,2009 -- Divorce granted.

Aug. 19 2009-- Today., I sent a cancellation letter to the NVC of my i-130 petition becoz again,My ex wont do it..

any questions and confusions about my timeline, feel free to ask..

[nydvo 0]

and if all of these are too fast for everyone to happen., I guess, we're different then..

some really takes time, some just happen quickly.

Merryann's mykul,

I understand that youve been to the UNIversity of Life and you already seen this happened many times., But please, dont generalize situations.

and Yes, I am sincere and honest, and love Ray so much. and he loves me too, showed me that what happened with my past will never happen again..

I accept your "sorry".coz i understand that if anyone you know and you love will be on my shoe right now., YOu will understand them and support them, and give them hope. But of course, u dont know me, so. thats alright..

believe me., I dont wanna go through this anymore... Filipinas here in the forum are so lucky and fortunate that they dont have to go through this. and I wil never ever wish them to experience this.. coz it really sucks..

Edited August 19, 2009 by nydvo

[NutMagnet 2]

HOW ABOUT A PERSON WHOS IS MARRIED HERE INT HE PHIL. WENT TO THE U.S DIDNT FILE A DIVORCE DECREE TO A FIL. SPOUSE HERE IN THE PHIL BUT STILL MARRIED A USC...? WHAT ABOUT THAT CASE...? ...

So a married Filipino goes to the USA and gets married again to a USA citizen? And is still married in the RP? Both of them?

That's called bigamy. 6-12 years in the RP monkey house and also a felony in most parts of the USA.

yes that the situation... married here went to us and married a usc there hehehehehehe... but i thought bigamy is teritorrial....? can someone give me learning about this matter here....

This is a reply to happyme.

By "territorial" do you mean that the person your are referring to can only be tried and convicted of bigamy within the Philippnies?

Departing the Philippines does not change the marital status of the person. Without dissolution or annulment, that person is still married under Philippine law even when traveling abroad. A parallel marriage contracted in the USA under these circumstances is considered automatically void, without the necessity of a formal divorce decree and proceedings.

Bigamy is a crime in the USA and the person is subject to the laws of the state where the void marriage was contracted regardless of their nationality (with the possible exception of specific religious considerations).

The other Filipino spouse who was left in the Philippines can petition for the extradition of their bigamous spouse back to the Philippines to face charges. This would be via an order by the Philippine Supreme Court and sent through diplomatic channels to the US Department of State who would arrest him/her and put him on a airplane and send him/her back to face court in the Philippines.

A petition for abandonment can only result in a legal separation and will not grant capacity to remarry. A filing for annulment due to presumptive death is possible after (4) years if there is good reason to believe that the spouse is dead. NOT RECOMMENDED FOR IMMIGRATION PURPOSES! I personally know of three presumptive death annulment cases who were denied visas by the US Embassy Manila's Fraud Prevention Unit.

Presumptive death annulments would appear to work OK for the purpose of re-marrying of another local Philippine national. Ask your Philippine attorney.

[Pinay Wife 47]

and if all of these are too fast for everyone to happen., I guess, we're different then..

Don't worry nydvo. Mine is faster. Hubby and I met in November 2005 and by February 2006, we were engaged. Filed the K1 in April 2006. So far, so good. I have not turned out to be a scammer/fraudster/monster Filipina wife

I like your attitude, cool ka lang. Hang in there and everything will turn out fine. I will be following your journey. Good luck and all the best!

Edited August 19, 2009 by Pinay Wife

[bulaklak 0]

Do some reading on bi-polar people also. As long as they are on their medication you probably will never know they are bi-polar. It is not that hard to trick someone and be phony before they actually get to the US. And if my fiance was "using her ex-husband for a ticket to the USA, why did she leave before the visa expired? If she was comitting fraud and just wanted to be in the USA, why didn't she just go to a shelter and report the abuse.

There is a discussion about people who are bi-polar here. bi-polar is a mental illness; and it's a hereditary.

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts10564127.aspx

Edited August 19, 2009 by bulaklak

[nydvo 0]

and if all of these are too fast for everyone to happen., I guess, we're different then..

Don't worry nydvo. Mine is faster. Hubby and I met in November 2005 and by February 2006, we were engaged. Filed the K1 in April 2006. So far, so good. I have not turned out to be a scammer/fraudster/monster Filipina wife

I like your attitude, cool ka lang. Hang in there and everything will turn out fine. I will be following your journey. Good luck and all the best!

hi Pinaywife.,

thank u..

I still remember u when you were still PatientlyWaiting.. I was even a part of your update list.,.my name before was Larrymai. that was 2006..years ago.. that list was fun.. i have the same timeline with Roy and Yaz (sunandmoon, i think)., I met Roy's wife personally coz she's from davao too... Ohh. those were the days..lol..

Thanks again!>..

Edited August 19, 2009 by nydvo

[RonMay 1]

and if all of these are too fast for everyone to happen., I guess, we're different then..

Don't worry nydvo. Mine is faster. Hubby and I met in November 2005 and by February 2006, we were engaged. Filed the K1 in April 2006. So far, so good. I have not turned out to be a scammer/fraudster/monster Filipina wife

I like your attitude, cool ka lang. Hang in there and everything will turn out fine. I will be following your journey. Good luck and all the best!

hi Pinaywife.,

thank u..

I still remember u when you were still PatientlyWaiting.. I was even a part of your update list.,.my name before was Larrymai. that was 2006..years ago.. that list was fun.. i have the same timeline with Roy and Yaz (sunandmoon, i think)., I met Roy's wife personally coz she's from davao too... Ohh. those were the days..lol..

Thanks again!>..

larrymai??? very very very familiar lol... were u a member of the old asawa forum too??? closed na sila ngayon (2006) pa ata sila closed lol

Edited August 19, 2009 by RonMay

[Merry Ann's Mykul 0]

I wish people will stop making presumptions on what transpired betwee the OP and the ex husband. Most of us are very lucky that we didn't encounter their problem. Who are we to judge them? So what if she found another USC to sponsor her in coming back here, its none of our business.Just thank your lucky stars that you have a smooth sailing visa process and pray for our fellow Filipina who deserves a second chance.

Yea well, I know its hard to hear what I am saying, but there is something very wrong here. Its easy to see if you look at the writing on the wall. One thing we should all be fighting against is fraud. Ihave found that eople are using this sight to enable the thinking of many filipinas to actually do fruad.

The timelines dont fit. She went back to the PHilippines and file for a spousal visa and had all the time to find a new fiance? All in the span of 14 months? Huh? Remember she had to commit or agree to the spousal visa> di ba? It takes time for that visa to be approved Huh?!!!!!!! What?!!!!! Something is wrong here?

And remember she has agreed on every occasion to sign the AOS first in the USA and then the spousal visa in the PH?! And now she want sign a K1 with another guy????!!!! It looks to me this person id doing everything in her power to get back to USA. And she will do whatever it takes to do so.

And we will see a 2ndvictim again with this thing.

Another post with a person who found out they married the wrong person.

The K1 process is not McDonalds. Its for sincere people who love each other, and want o be with each other for life.

Nahhhhhhhhh!!! I smell malansa....

Ok. The i-130 is in the topic now., and everyone here knows my story anywyz, i might as well, include my timeline. for everyone.. especially to merryann's....

Feb 2007 - arrived in the US

May 9, 2007- Got married

July 17,2007-- signed AOS forms infront of the lawyer, dont know when he filed.

Aug. 3,2007-- left the US

Aug. 5 to January 2008.. -a lil talk here and there...trying to fix it..

January 11,2008--decided to file i-130 "'we're married so we tried to work it out again"

January 25,2008- Mutually agreed to end everything.. No communication since then.. never heard from him.

May 2008-- met my fiance now, Online.

sept 4,2008-- met him in person.

Oct.3 2008-- Got a call from my exhusband's secretary that HE got an approval letter from the i-130. and also the 70usd fees. (i dont know what its called)..my exhusband didnt send anything after that...

Sept.2008-i-130 approved.. didnt know and didnt care coz i havent heard from him since january.

Oct. 2008-- talked to my exhusband to file the divorce, He said he will., i sent him signed paperworks

Nov.2008--found out that he didnt file coz blah blah blah.

Nov.2008-- asked him again to file the divorce, and he said yes.. i sent him signed paperworks again..

Dec.2008-- found out again that he didnt coz blah blah blah.

March 2009-- Ray (fiance now),. visited again.. and after that decided to just file the divorce ourselves.

March 2009-- divorce filed

July 2009-- Ray visited again (this time we got engaged)

Aug.12 ,2009 -- Divorce granted.

Aug. 19 2009-- Today., I sent a cancellation letter to the NVC of my i-130 petition becoz again,My ex wont do it..

any questions and confusions about my timeline, feel free to ask..

It seems to me that spousal visa should of been cancelled alot sooner than just recently. It is also fuzzy that you did not as you say "hear from him" from Jan to Oct, but it was so easily to contact him when you wanted him to file for divorce. So you had someone else do a divorce for you. In a quick turnaround you fell in love with a new man. Wow the love bug must be always around you...lol...so blessed you are.

How sure are you of the man you are with now? YOu know that first decision was not a good one by you, and it seems to me you are once again making a decision with little amount of brain cells. It seems to me, you would so much more cautious before meeting a new guy, in a foreign country and to do all of this with such a quick turnaround.

You barely know the guy, and you are already marrying him? You sure its about the marriage and just not getting out of the PH? Why not make this next guy w8, and check him out some more, and why not meet some family members...

Again, something else is going on here...

[Pinay Wife 47]

I still remember u when you were still PatientlyWaiting.. I was even a part of your update list.,.my name before was Larrymai. that was 2006..years ago.. that list was fun.. i have the same timeline with Roy and Yaz (sunandmoon, i think)., I met Roy's wife personally coz she's from davao too... Ohh. those were the days..lol..

Oh, wow, talaga? And yes, those were the days. Very supportive ang mga Pinays noon unlike ngayon na maraming mga intrigero at intrigera pero it makes the forum more interesting. I think I also read your story at WOF (ikaw ba yun?). The other Pinays were worried about you when you did not communicate for a few days. They thought the worst has happened. I'm glad you got out of that abusive relationship.

[nydvo 0]

and if all of these are too fast for everyone to happen., I guess, we're different then..

Don't worry nydvo. Mine is faster. Hubby and I met in November 2005 and by February 2006, we were engaged. Filed the K1 in April 2006. So far, so good. I have not turned out to be a scammer/fraudster/monster Filipina wife

I like your attitude, cool ka lang. Hang in there and everything will turn out fine. I will be following your journey. Good luck and all the best!

hi Pinaywife.,

thank u..

I still remember u when you were still PatientlyWaiting.. I was even a part of your update list.,.my name before was Larrymai. that was 2006..years ago.. that list was fun.. i have the same timeline with Roy and Yaz (sunandmoon, i think)., I met Roy's wife personally coz she's from davao too... Ohh. those were the days..lol..

Thanks again!>..

larrymai??? very very very familiar lol... were u a member of the old asawa forum too??? closed na sila ngayon (2006) pa ata sila closed lol

Yup..!! thats me!! larrymai it was!!.. hahhahha. member of asawa forum, member here, and presently member of TWOF too...

bilis ng panahon noh?!

[bulaklak 0]

and if all of these are too fast for everyone to happen., I guess, we're different then..

Don't worry nydvo. Mine is faster. Hubby and I met in November 2005 and by February 2006, we were engaged. Filed the K1 in April 2006. So far, so good. I have not turned out to be a scammer/fraudster/monster Filipina wife

I like your attitude, cool ka lang. Hang in there and everything will turn out fine. I will be following your journey. Good luck and all the best!

hi Pinaywife.,

thank u..

I still remember u when you were still PatientlyWaiting.. I was even a part of your update list.,.my name before was Larrymai. that was 2006..years ago.. that list was fun.. i have the same timeline with Roy and Yaz (sunandmoon, i think)., I met Roy's wife personally coz she's from davao too... Ohh. those were the days..lol..

Thanks again!>..

larrymai??? very very very familiar lol... were u a member of the old asawa forum too??? closed na sila ngayon (2006) pa ata sila closed lol

Yup..!! thats me!! larrymai it was!!.. hahhahha. member of asawa forum, member here, and presently member of TWOF too...

bilis ng panahon noh?!

I remember her too and her crazy ex-bf larry...anyway the old asawa forum now is back under a new admin. it is called now "asawainternational"

[nydvo 0]

I still remember u when you were still PatientlyWaiting.. I was even a part of your update list.,.my name before was Larrymai. that was 2006..years ago.. that list was fun.. i have the same timeline with Roy and Yaz (sunandmoon, i think)., I met Roy's wife personally coz she's from davao too... Ohh. those were the days..lol..

Oh, wow, talaga? And yes, those were the days. Very supportive ang mga Pinays noon unlike ngayon na maraming mga intrigero at intrigera pero it makes the forum more interesting. I think I also read your story at WOF (ikaw ba yun?). The other Pinays were worried about you when you did not communicate for a few days. They thought the worst has happened. I'm glad you got out of that abusive relationship.

Yup. That was me. Some members tried to contact me and wanna know whats going on at the time., coz everytime i was sent to the motel, my exhusband will disable the outgoing calls.., Blessing in disguise and very resourceful filipinas in the forum still were able to locate me.. and that was a very rough time, but felt so good when u know that someone cared , even to hear them on the phone that they want me to be ok. I still owe it all to them..

[RonMay 1]

and if all of these are too fast for everyone to happen., I guess, we're different then..

Don't worry nydvo. Mine is faster. Hubby and I met in November 2005 and by February 2006, we were engaged. Filed the K1 in April 2006. So far, so good. I have not turned out to be a scammer/fraudster/monster Filipina wife

I like your attitude, cool ka lang. Hang in there and everything will turn out fine. I will be following your journey. Good luck and all the best!

hi Pinaywife.,

thank u..

I still remember u when you were still PatientlyWaiting.. I was even a part of your update list.,.my name before was Larrymai. that was 2006..years ago.. that list was fun.. i have the same timeline with Roy and Yaz (sunandmoon, i think)., I met Roy's wife personally coz she's from davao too... Ohh. those were the days..lol..

Thanks again!>..

larrymai??? very very very familiar lol... were u a member of the old asawa forum too??? closed na sila ngayon (2006) pa ata sila closed lol

Yup..!! thats me!! larrymai it was!!.. hahhahha. member of asawa forum, member here, and presently member of TWOF too...

bilis ng panahon noh?!

wag mo nalang pansinin yung iba kasi bini-bait ka lng nyan. walang magawa sa buhay... yung asawa dati, yung id ko is weird kasi come_again lol... i remember those days na wala pang phil forum at nakikisiksik tayo sa isang thread... at is miss patientlywaiting o ate cora gumagawa ng listahan at super delay din yung process nila (am i right ate cora?) i think mas na nauna pa ako sayo dumating dito coz of your case... hindi ko na maalala tagal na nun pero nakakamiss

[nydvo 0]

and if all of these are too fast for everyone to happen., I guess, we're different then..

Don't worry nydvo. Mine is faster. Hubby and I met in November 2005 and by February 2006, we were engaged. Filed the K1 in April 2006. So far, so good. I have not turned out to be a scammer/fraudster/monster Filipina wife

I like your attitude, cool ka lang. Hang in there and everything will turn out fine. I will be following your journey. Good luck and all the best!

hi Pinaywife.,

thank u..

I still remember u when you were still PatientlyWaiting.. I was even a part of your update list.,.my name before was Larrymai. that was 2006..years ago.. that list was fun.. i have the same timeline with Roy and Yaz (sunandmoon, i think)., I met Roy's wife personally coz she's from davao too... Ohh. those were the days..lol..

Thanks again!>..

larrymai??? very very very familiar lol... were u a member of the old asawa forum too??? closed na sila ngayon (2006) pa ata sila closed lol

Yup..!! thats me!! larrymai it was!!.. hahhahha. member of asawa forum, member here, and presently member of TWOF too...

bilis ng panahon noh?!

wag mo nalang pansinin yung iba kasi bini-bait ka lng nyan. walang magawa sa buhay... yung asawa dati, yung id ko is weird kasi come_again lol... i remember those days na wala pang phil forum at nakikisiksik tayo sa isang thread... at is miss patientlywaiting o ate cora gumagawa ng listahan at super delay din yung process nila (am i right ate cora?) i think mas na nauna pa ako sayo dumating dito coz of your case... hindi ko na maalala tagal na nun pero nakakamiss

Oo nga eh.. hahayaan na nga lang iba jan.. kahit anong explanation pa gawin ko, wala din..

anywyz, oo nga. naalala ko yung wala pa tayong sariling thread, hanggang nabigyan din tayo ng sariling Philippine thread..

nakakamiss nga yung dati., kc ,. supportive talaga mga couples before.. ewan ko ngayon, bakit nagkaganito..

[Pinay Wife 47]

wag mo nalang pansinin yung iba kasi bini-bait ka lng nyan. walang magawa sa buhay... yung asawa dati, yung id ko is weird kasi come_again lol... i remember those days na wala pang phil forum at nakikisiksik tayo sa isang thread... at is miss patientlywaiting o ate cora gumagawa ng listahan at super delay din yung process nila (am i right ate cora?) i think mas na nauna pa ako sayo dumating dito coz of your case... hindi ko na maalala tagal na nun pero nakakamiss

Oo nga, nagpapapansin, wala na ngang pumapatol sa kanya. Pag kinuyog ng mga Pinay yan, yari siya.