Filipina filed for divorce

[Der Bücherwurm 1]

Thank you!!! Yep..Im Back!! it was a hell of a ride with larry.,but its over...

I am thankful im given a second chance, and this time, he's younger *wink*, real love for me is there,..and everything is good.. and yes, its gonna work.!! Thank u!!!

lol Congratulations!

[RonMay 1]

update!!!

Interview, NOv. 19. 7am,.

YOung Lady consul. She seen my CENOMAR and Divorce Decree and put OK on both docs.

Didnt ask about my past marriage, ddnt ask why it was never reported,.

She was definitely pleased that my fiance now is younger than my xhusband.

Main points of the case that she checked was

- married within 90 days

- I left the US before visa expired

- filed k1/k2 after Divorce finalized.

Very unexpected quick questions:

Name of fiance's parents.

Name and Age of his Daughter.

and she said. Your k1/k2 is approved and Welcome to America again.

Thank you all!!!

so happy for u guys!!! congrats and God bless to you both, u deserve to be happy

[Darnell 8,478]

Wow! It worked out !

Congrats!

[Pinay Wife 47]

So happy for you, nydvo!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!! :dance:

This case proves conclusively that a US divorce obtained by a Filipino spouse is accepted and recognized by the US Embassy as long as the marriage occurred in the US.

For marriages that occurred in the Philippines, however, divorce proceedings still need to be initiated by the foreign spouse to be recognized.

Congrats again, nydvo and welcome back to the US! I'm really, really happy for you!!!

[Mike's Lucy 14]

congratulations

[Ann Marie and Leo 9]

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Interview, NOv. 19. 7am,.

YOung Lady consul. She seen my CENOMAR and Divorce Decree and put OK on both docs.

and she said. Your k1/k2 is approved and Welcome to America again.

Thank you all!!!

That was the most interesting thread I have read on this board, I am sorry I did not find it earlier as it keep me entertained for a long time today. It looks like you were able to get past the (nuts) as in nutmagnet, and some of her following, (attracted by the magnet) (I understand why she uses that nick name lol) It seems they have nothing better to do in life than to criticize other people, and give out as much misinformation as I have ever read in a forum like this. What a load of C—P, that stuff was.

I wish you both the best of luck in you future together, and unlike some that posted on this thread that believe they have never done anything wrong in their life, and therefore think they are free to judge others, it is good to know that the USEM focused on the true issues, and not some morals, that others think we should be judged by. Most of us do understand things happen, and it may even be out of our control, and it is so nice to know we are allowed second chances at finding happiness in our lives.

For those passing your own moral judgments, if you have not taken the test for US citizenship, you may want to study up a bit, on what principles this country is founded on.

I also wonder in a country that does not allow Divorce, why is it having mistress seems to be ok, including the ex president, but then that is their business not mine.

[-B&T- 1]

Congrats you deserve to be happy!

[nydvo 0]

So happy for you, nydvo!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!! :dance:

This case proves conclusively that a US divorce obtained by a Filipino spouse is accepted and recognized by the US Embassy as long as the marriage occurred in the US.

For marriages that occurred in the Philippines, however, divorce proceedings still need to be initiated by the foreign spouse to be recognized.

Congrats again, nydvo and welcome back to the US! I'm really, really happy for you!!!

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you ate Cora.

The pointers u gave helped me feel so ready that whatever the question will come up, i know im ready for it.!

[nydvo 0]

Hello all.... This is Ray, nydvo's fiance. I wanted to thank all the people who tried to understand our situation. I really do appreciate the responses. You all read the post my fiancee put here and know that the interview went very well. We had prepared for it alot and knew we had all the required papers, documents, proofs, etc.... but was just nervous about the questions that might be asked. Lets just say that I didn't believe the interview went as smooth as it did. :-) It is a big relief to be past this part of the process now.

I dont imagine NutMagnet will have anything to say!! lol or if she does say anything I am sure she will think the consul was incompetent or didn't do her job properly, etc.. I guess you cant please everyone!!!

Thanks again for all the nice wishes!!!

Ray

[hellINTIM 9]

hello nakikibasa lang po ako d2 hehehe... pero ung gumawa ng thread ok lang na mag-asawa ka ulit kc dba kinasal ka sa us tapos nagdivorce ka don...? at di ba sabi mo ni minsan naman di ka nagpakasal d2... so wla record sa nso... pinapahirap pa un din namn ang suma pede pa rin ikasal sa iba kc di namn d2 nagpakasal.. eh un ngang d2 nakapagpakasal eh magdivorce lang sa ibang bansa eh pede dba hehhee... ska di mo namn nireport ung kasal mo d2 sa nso sa tin eh kya kahit di file ng anullment.. wla namn ia-annul kc wla record ng kasal..... ska di ka naman nagtnt.. ska me kakilala nga ako nagtnt eh for almost 5yrs. accountant bkit nakakuha pa rin sya ng visa jan, anjan na nga ulit kasama pa nya ung 2 nyang anak...... wag ka na alala...

oi ate jom pakisagot namn ng question ko ha.. slamat... curious lng po kc me kakilala ako na gnyan ang situation.... slamat po!!!!

Thanks happyme.. as of now, at ease na rin kami sa sitwasyon namin.. Kung meron mang masamang mangyari sa interview., dun nalng kami mag aalala.. pero cympre, kc nga ako ang nag open ng thread na ito, nde ko naman maiwasan tong mga kontrabida dito.. pero ok lang yan.. public forum eh... pero cympre., in the end, kami pa ng fiance ko ang magdedesisyon..tska, kung ma deny ba kami, yung mga kontrabida dito, maaapektuhan ba? nde naman eh..

thank u talaga...

ur welcome .. naku oo kc public forum kya intindihin mo na lang ska wg ka d2 mapipikon sa mga tao d2 kc lam mo naman ang reality sa kaso mo eh... lam nmn natin wlang magiging prob yan.. kc oo pag tayong tumingin na mga pilipino automatic kasal ka na kc dahil closed catholic country tayo pero pg pnag-usapan ay legal anong i-aanul eh di mo namn nireport ung kasal d2.. kya linis ang cenomar mo... ibig sabihin wla kang asawa.. eh ung iba nga eh toooottt.. tooottt.. tooottt..

nde naman ako napipikon., yung fiance ko lang..hhahah.. kc nde sya sanay sa mga forums na ganito. meron talgang iba na namimikon lang.. hehehe..

Bakit naman kc walang divorce dito sa Pinas.. ayan tuloy, nahihirapan yung iba.. pero cympre.. baka yung mga pinoy, basta basta nalng magpapakasal, tapos pad nde nag work out , divorce agad... baka yan din ang mangyayari..

buhay nga naman.....

kasi po religious country tyo d allow ng simbahan un iha.

Edited November 20, 2009 by .MythaG-

[Pinay Wife 47]

kasi po religious country tyo d allow ng simbahan un iha.

There are many church annulments in the Philippines. One of my friends went through one in 1999. While the Catholic Church may not call it "divorce" they allow annulment of marriage but it is a long and very tedious process. And expensive too.

http://www.americancatholic.org/newsletters/cu/ac1002.asp

The Catholic Church presumes that marriages are valid, binding spouses for life. When couples do separate and divorce, therefore, the Church examines in detail their marriage to determine if, right from the start, some essential element was missing in their relationship. If that fact has been established, it means the spouses did not have the kind of marital link that binds them together for life.

The Church then issues a declaration of nullity (an annulment) and both are free to marry again in the Catholic Church.

Edited November 20, 2009 by Pinay Wife

[srogue 0]

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Edited November 21, 2009 by srogue

[nydvo 0]

Hello everyone..

Just an update:

Arrived in the US with my son. Dec. 6, 2009

1st Christmas as a family

Got married January 15, 2010

Again, Thank you everyone for the advices and support..

Now,.. filing for AOS.

[DainandVicky 4]

Don't depend the US Embassy Manila to assist you in circumventing Philippine law. You seem to be looking for a fast and clever way out of getting a proper annulment.

For a K1 visa you must have the legal capacity to marry. You say that you filed for, and were granted a foreign divorce which you know is not recognized under Philippine law, and you think you can sneak by because, so far, your CENOMAR is clean.

You stated that your ex-husband is "Spiteful" and that also you filed for AOS. What will your ex husband say when Immigration knocks his door and asks him where you are? Also why you have not completed your AOS because they will think you went TNT.

If you are serious about your new boyfriend and are indeed serious about having a family, and not just coming to the USA for Immigration benefits. Then you need to be honest with him and tell him that you are not ready and that you need to get a honest and full annulment before wasting time and money on your plan of fraud.

Is there any wonder why Manila is one of the top 3 high fraud Embassies?

Thanks NutMagnet for your sentiments.

My k1 visa expired Aug.5, 2007.. I left Aug.3,2007

I got married on the 87th day of the 90days period...and we filed for the AOS>

The whole time i was in the US, it involved physical abuse.Everytime he has bipolar attacks, he sent me and my son 4 times to the nearest motel and let us stay there for 3-4 nights just becoz he felt like it.. I never call the police, but our neighbors did. I never show them my bruises coz i dont want my exhusband to be in trouble (POOR USC HUSBAND VICTIM HUH!).. July 27,2007,..another police thingy happened in the house, the police want me to go to the shelter coz they said im not safe anymore to be with the guy., I told them., I cannot just drag my son to the shelter and be a burden to anyone..so I said, im just gonna go back to the Philippines...

Oct. 2008 to January 2009... My exhusband "made me believe" that he will file the divorce.. so i sent him signed paperworks twice. coz he lied to me twice... he made excuses why he werent able to do it.. but eventually,. he admitted., HE WILL NEVER FILE THE DIVORCE coz he SAID he dont want me to be married again..But we were already separated since AUG>2007.

And yes,,. I do deserve a second chance... I hired a lawyer in the US to do the divorce. and I chose to just do the DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE. I do have a choice to do the DIVision of Property coz we had some acquired during the marriage, but I know that he worked hard for it.,even though some properties has my name on it., but he deserved all of it...

When he found out that i got a boyfriend.. He flew all the way to the Philippines from DEC> 2008 to May 2009, and went to our house and took back everything that he gave me and to my son., from the toys to the clothes, to everything that he knew its from his money. He atleast had lots of balikbayan boxes for all of it. he took back the engagement ring, the wedding ring, ... everything.... my family said, if its gonna make him happy., then so be it....

I'm so sorry to hear about earlier situation, and I'm so glad this time is working out for you.

You could have stayed in the US after leaving your previous marriage if the physical abuse had been reported. I know you cared about that man and didn't want him to get in trouble. But you also have to think about the next girl who will come into his life.

Report these types of things ladies, save the next woman misery and heartache.

Edited January 19, 2010 by DainandVicky

[STEPHnRIA 2]

There are many church annulments in the Philippines. One of my friends went through one in 1999. While the Catholic Church may not call it "divorce" they allow annulment of marriage but it is a long and very tedious process. And expensive too.

http://www.americancatholic.org/newsletters/cu/ac1002.asp

The Catholic Church presumes that marriages are valid, binding spouses for life. When couples do separate and divorce, therefore, the Church examines in detail their marriage to determine if, right from the start, some essential element was missing in their relationship. If that fact has been established, it means the spouses did not have the kind of marital link that binds them together for life.

The Church then issues a declaration of nullity (an annulment) and both are free to marry again in the Catholic Church.

Aha! Si Ate Cora pala ang mentor mo. Kaya naman pala. Congrats!!!

By the way, to add to my knowledge.... paano mag file ng divorce sa US kung nasa Pilipinas ka? Thanks and Congrats again!