BLUE SLIPPED WAIVER FEES JAMAICA

[sus 70]

Like I said all of you all are entitled to your own opinions and yes I thought the same way, that this is some place where one can express their true feelings. See you ppl don't know the whole story. My husband has been back in his country for the last 4years and all that is posted on here is nothing the EMBASSY doesn't already know. They know how many times he has been to the States, how he obtain his Visa, and etc. He understands he made a mistake and he did not lie about it at his interview and it's documented in his waiver. So whatever, mi ah still go on good. Again, we all have our struggles, perhaps your SO don't have the links, even still, you learn from your mistakes and so have my husband. If it so be that he can't come to the States b/c of such and such then dats how it go. Other LEGAL arrangements can be made. These cases are been adjudicated on an individual bases so maybe you all need to look into your relationships and figure out y your case is not complete. I don't know how you all read into all of that as a serious complaint, man I became the TARGET and you all aimed, fired but, you missed. Because I am still going to keep all of you in prayer because we are all walking this journey through immigration or have walked it and it's not an easy road.

A noh every mango got maggige. You just don't get it - It's not about our SO not having the links - it's about our SO choosing to live their life the right way and not choose an illegal route.

Ah so it go - When herring mauger him bone show

[MsSheka 0]

sweetness to be quite honest with you, no one was attacking you

a couple ppl made some observations and expressed their opinions and i think you may have taken that the wrong way when you started replying with these long, unnecessarily defensive replies (the space bar and enter buttons are your freinds, lol)

beleive me, if you had posted this thread anywhere else on the board, you would have been CRUCIFIED. trust me

the yardies are some of the most open set of ppl you can ask any question to

i wish you and your spouse all the best

true but its not right for people to CRUCIFY someone because of their situation, I'm not saying you are a VICTIM sweetness because sometimes you have to take HARSH words with a SMILE and thank GOD you still have a chance,

like the bible say "but the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison" (James 3:8) also for some of the YARDIES including myself their SO,HUBBY,WIFE,BROTHER,SISTER e.c.t have been through HARD times and have STUCK it out so when someone CHEATS and gets away with it its almost like a SLAP in the FACE because people have tried LEGALLY (innocent people) and been denied with NO WAIVER. I don't mean to preach to you but in the end only GOD can JUDGE! Keep the faith, be thankful and take everything to GOD...you'll be in my prayers

Edited September 9, 2009 by MsSheka

[MRStee 19]

Sweetness, I hope everything works out for you...

One is supposed to come on this site to be able to express how you feel. Sometimes it gets misinterpreted.....

I don't think anything here was misinterpreted...Sweetness wants to complain about all the money that she has to pay out because her husband KNOWINGLY committed an illegal act to get here, and now when the government finally catches up to him, then the waiting and having to pay for his mistakes, is a problem...rahtid...dis is some rass bullshat here....I don't think anyone's SO or husband or wife that is still in Jamaica has it easy...my husband says all the time he is "trying to take a rough life easy". My husband has been without electric, without water, without food to the point that he was hospitalized and on iv's (on more than one occasion), walked the 13 miles to work (one way) whenever he ran out of cab fare, has gone without so others can have, etc etc...and never ONCE since we have been together (4 years) has he even considered or talked about doing anything illegal to get here. NOT ONCE. He is an honest man...to the point that it cost him a chance at a visa...but honest he was (and still is). Instead of complaining about the wait, he and I made the best of it. Did what we needed to do, and kept it moving. Yes, I'm sure he wants to have a better life here, and looks forward everyday to doing so, but he will not stoop to that level. I agree with what Tre and Sus said...but especially Tre...you never know who is reading this board, so she better watch out...it has been made plain on more than one occasion that those at the Embassy are quite familiar with this board She and her husband just needs to suck it up, and pray that they have a favorable outcome...because the reality of the situation is that he could very well have a permanent ban...the government nuh easy fi true...bless

I see your point Mrs. Palmer

[sweetness 0]

Sweetness, I hope everything works out for you...

One is supposed to come on this site to be able to express how you feel. Sometimes it gets misinterpreted.....

I don't think anything here was misinterpreted...Sweetness wants to complain about all the money that she has to pay out because her husband KNOWINGLY committed an illegal act to get here, and now when the government finally catches up to him, then the waiting and having to pay for his mistakes, is a problem...rahtid...dis is some rass bullshat here....I don't think anyone's SO or husband or wife that is still in Jamaica has it easy...my husband says all the time he is "trying to take a rough life easy". My husband has been without electric, without water, without food to the point that he was hospitalized and on iv's (on more than one occasion), walked the 13 miles to work (one way) whenever he ran out of cab fare, has gone without so others can have, etc etc...and never ONCE since we have been together (4 years) has he even considered or talked about doing anything illegal to get here. NOT ONCE. He is an honest man...to the point that it cost him a chance at a visa...but honest he was (and still is). Instead of complaining about the wait, he and I made the best of it. Did what we needed to do, and kept it moving. Yes, I'm sure he wants to have a better life here, and looks forward everyday to doing so, but he will not stoop to that level. I agree with what Tre and Sus said...but especially Tre...you never know who is reading this board, so she better watch out...it has been made plain on more than one occasion that those at the Embassy are quite familiar with this board She and her husband just needs to suck it up, and pray that they have a favorable outcome...because the reality of the situation is that he could very well have a permanent ban...the government nuh easy fi true...bless

I see your point Mrs. Palmer

This is all I have to say to ALL OF YOU!!!! It is hard enough dealing with this immigration process and then to come on a sight to seek useful info and to chat with some of the ppl going through the same process one would think it would be an encouraging experience and uplifting, however, some are just so miserable and have too much time on their hands and just want to lash out.. U see THE LORD IS NEAR TO THE BROKENHEARTED AND SAVES THE CRUSHED IN SPIRIT. psalms 34:18--------------------------DISAPPOINTMENT TO A NOBLE SOUL IS WHAT COLD WATER IS TO BURNING METAL; IT STRENGTHENS, TEMPERS, INTENSIFIES, BUT NEVER DESTROYS IT.............. REMEMBER THAT SUS. .............................................ONE LOVE

Edited September 9, 2009 by sweetness

[^KK^ 3]

I was sitting on my fingers... trying not to respond to what has been going on in this forum.

I'm shocked at the responses given to sweetness post. The responses mirror the foolishness that goes on in the other threads and in my opinion were totally uncalled for. There is a lot of judgement passed on this site in every way possible. I'm not saying that you can't keep it real but to the point it has to become disrespectful..it is too much.

I'm not going to speak for no one right now. This is from me. Since I didn't have any personal experience with answering her questions, I didn't.

Sweetness. I wish you the best, I believe in forgiveness and that some people change. If it is meant to be..it will be.

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

Man! KK i'm with u on this one..this was a rough one..I know many of us here know first hand how it is in JA and ppl want to get out..does it make it right the way they go about it? no! But there were alot of judgements and attackc here..i felt bad reading this..

Sweetness...wish u all the best!