Cheating Husband

[Mimino 2]

have you told him about your divorce thoughts?

[L179 1]

If you intend to save your marriage despite his actions for staying in USA, you have already decided what you wish to do.

If you care less.....let him be...a wife is a home maker, without you his home would not last.

And the way he has stated to be divorced, he definately does not feel you exist for him

[meowmeowmeow 1]

All of your advice make sense. I truly appreciate it.

Regarding my tolerance, I believe in second chances and I was willing to give the marriage a chance although I apparently have proved myself wrong (bad influence from those politicians' wives who stood behind their husbands at all times?) *joke of course*

Does it matter if I or my husband file the divorce and on what ground? My husband has a professional life and I would consider a peaceful separation/ divorce. I love him and I will not go out there to destroy anyone even the marriage is not working out the way I/ we wanted it to. However, would immigration consider the ground for divorce in their decision of whether to approve a self-petitioned removal of conditions or not? Or proof of the marriage was entered into in good faith would suffice?

I understand I should speak to an attorney but I am curious if anyone out there has gone through similar events.

If you have no close family or familiar ground here, why not return to your country and start anew amongst your kin? might be good for you mentally.

[baron555 934]

Hope everyone is having a smooth journey.

My husband posted an ad on craigslist for sexual encounters with men and another personal ad to look for women (where he put his relationship status as "divorced"). He is not aware of I saw the ads and denied all of these. This is not the first incident that has ever happened in our relationship/ marriage. And I found myself becoming increasing intolerant towards this particular behavior. I do not know what to do anymore

What would you do if you were me?

Find a good divorce lawyer, serve him the divorce papers, and take away all of his assets.

[MsSheka 0]

Thank you all for your inputs. They are email exchanges from his account and a credit card bill of subscription service to personals service with his personal ad.

OH HECK NO!

I know someone in the same position but they both agreed to stay married and see other people

[bulaklak 0]

Thank you all for your inputs. They are email exchanges from his account and a credit card bill of subscription service to personals service with his personal ad.

OH HECK NO!

I know someone in the same position but they both agreed to stay married and see other people

Very dangerous if one of them got std. also not good for the children mentally.

[bhajishah 4]

yah once a perv, more than likely always a perv. Cant be an honest perv either. nothing worse than a thief and a liar.

He needs a miracle to change , and another one to stay on the boat. Alot of baggage for a new immigrant to deal with.

[rlogan 2,036]

Not wise of course to do any kind of set-up. It's too adversarial. Go about the business of separating as non-confrontationally as possible. Just as you seem to be.

As you said, he has a professional life and is probably going to cooperate given what you have said so far.

Take care and good luck. The field manual for the USCIS says they just have to determine if you went into the marriage in good faith.