My wife doesn't like to have sex or approach me for sex ?

[Peikko 1,575]

Ah, so it is GC fraud after all? I was convinced the OP was the beneficiary too. Oh well...

Brought to the light of ####### you would think if it was for GC she would be banging away no??

I was thinking more in the lines of, now she's here, the hard work is over so she's re assessing the situation, working out how little she needs to do in order to maintain the marriage until such time...

What we need to know now is, is it merely in the bedroom that she's falling down on her duties, or all the other woman's work chores as well?

[Old Dominion 26]

This is a tough situation. What does she say about this problem? Anything at all? Is she very young? Maybe frightened at her new environment, or just naive, unsure of herself.

Maybe she doesn't trust the birth control medication? If she can somehow give you a reason, then there something can be done about the problem. If the two of you are not discussing this elephant in your bedroom, then what DO you talk about together? It won't be resolved online unless the two of you are talking.

[k12009 0]

This is a tough situation. What does she say about this problem? Anything at all? Is she very young? Maybe frightened at her new environment, or just naive, unsure of herself.

Maybe she doesn't trust the birth control medication? If she can somehow give you a reason, then there something can be done about the problem. If the two of you are not discussing this elephant in your bedroom, then what DO you talk about together? It won't be resolved online unless the two of you are talking.

This pill caused Bad temper and mood swings very bad cramp and low sex drive for some women just found this out i printed it out never had this problem before she was overseas and brought the pill with her.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

A reminder to everyone that this is a legitimate question and the OP is looking for advice. Please do not resort to personal insults or speculative insults about his relationship or his motivation.

I'm moving this thread to Your New Life in America forum as a place where the OP is more likely to gain useful advice without the inappropriate and sometimes hurtful off-topic comments.

[k12009 0]

A reminder to everyone that this is a legitimate question and the OP is looking for advice. Please do not resort to personal insults or speculative insults about his relationship or his motivation.

I'm moving this thread to Your New Life in America forum as a place where the OP is more likely to gain useful advice without the inappropriate and sometimes hurtful off-topic comments.

Thank you.

[Old Dominion 26]

Having no health insurance is not a good reason for her to see a good doctor, in my humble opinion. At most, it will cost $100. With so many generics on the market, a U.S.-approved birth control medication could cost no more than $4 per month (Wal-Mart's price for most generics). Once she gets her EAD and SSN, you can add her to your employer coverage.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Having no health insurance is not a good reason for her to see a good doctor, in my humble opinion. At most, it will cost $100. With so many generics on the market, a U.S.-approved birth control medication could cost no more than $4 per month (Wal-Mart's price for most generics). Once she gets her EAD and SSN, you can add her to your employer coverage.

I agree. However, I still wonder why on earth after 90 days here she does not have a SSN,... oh, never mind. I feel for her, really. Having a husband that logs on the internet to talk about her apparent sexual shortcomings must be pretty off-putting.

[Old Dominion 26]

Again, what does SHE say about all this? Does she feel that her voice counts too?

[luckysam 0]

Having no health insurance is not a good reason for her to see a good doctor, in my humble opinion. At most, it will cost $100. With so many generics on the market, a U.S.-approved birth control medication could cost no more than $4 per month (Wal-Mart's price for most generics). Once she gets her EAD and SSN, you can add her to your employer coverage.

my wife still has not added me in her emplyer coverage.she says it will cost a lot of money.is she telling truth

[NArocks 13]

I am trying to understand your good job. My kids had insurance before they landed in JFK, with no SSN, just had to provide it once we recieved them which took less than 2 weeks. You need to have a serious talk, cause you say the pills, however it is the same pill she was taking before she got here. Maybe you need to look at what you are doing rather than what she is NOT doing.

IMHO

Having no health insurance is not a good reason for her to see a good doctor, in my humble opinion. At most, it will cost $100. With so many generics on the market, a U.S.-approved birth control medication could cost no more than $4 per month (Wal-Mart's price for most generics). Once she gets her EAD and SSN, you can add her to your employer coverage.

my wife still has not added me in her emplyer coverage.she says it will cost a lot of money.is she telling truth

OT but it depends I have my kids on my insurance and my hubby has his own, cheaper to put just the kids to add my hubby is an addtional 500 per month. However there are individual plans that are not that expensive

[k12009 0]

Having no health insurance is not a good reason for her to see a good doctor, in my humble opinion. At most, it will cost $100. With so many generics on the market, a U.S.-approved birth control medication could cost no more than $4 per month (Wal-Mart's price for most generics). Once she gets her EAD and SSN, you can add her to your employer coverage.

my wife still has not added me in her emplyer coverage.she says it will cost a lot of money.is she telling truth

My wife came to the USA on a k1 visa went to apply for SS card they told us have to wait 3 weeks to see if a card comes.

After 3 weeks went back and apply SS office said her immigration status has to be verify with us immigration and this could take up to 10 weeks. Went back after 3 weeks the told us the same thing still waiting.

[NArocks 13]

Having no health insurance is not a good reason for her to see a good doctor, in my humble opinion. At most, it will cost $100. With so many generics on the market, a U.S.-approved birth control medication could cost no more than $4 per month (Wal-Mart's price for most generics). Once she gets her EAD and SSN, you can add her to your employer coverage.

my wife still has not added me in her emplyer coverage.she says it will cost a lot of money.is she telling truth

My wife came to the USA on a k1 visa went to apply for SS card they told us have to wait 3 weeks to see if a card comes.

After 3 weeks went back and apply SS office said her immigration status has to be verify with us immigration and this could take up to 10 weeks. Went back after 3 weeks the told us the same thing still waiting.

When do you plan to file for her AOS?

[k12009 0]

Having no health insurance is not a good reason for her to see a good doctor, in my humble opinion. At most, it will cost $100. With so many generics on the market, a U.S.-approved birth control medication could cost no more than $4 per month (Wal-Mart's price for most generics). Once she gets her EAD and SSN, you can add her to your employer coverage.

my wife still has not added me in her emplyer coverage.she says it will cost a lot of money.is she telling truth

My wife came to the USA on a k1 visa went to apply for SS card they told us have to wait 3 weeks to see if a card comes.

After 3 weeks went back and apply SS office said her immigration status has to be verify with us immigration and this could take up to 10 weeks. Went back after 3 weeks the told us the same thing still waiting.

I work for a Bank in the IT department I applied for my son also they turn him down the said him coming to the US was not a life changing event.

[k12009 0]

Having no health insurance is not a good reason for her to see a good doctor, in my humble opinion. At most, it will cost $100. With so many generics on the market, a U.S.-approved birth control medication could cost no more than $4 per month (Wal-Mart's price for most generics). Once she gets her EAD and SSN, you can add her to your employer coverage.

my wife still has not added me in her emplyer coverage.she says it will cost a lot of money.is she telling truth

My wife came to the USA on a k1 visa went to apply for SS card they told us have to wait 3 weeks to see if a card comes.

After 3 weeks went back and apply SS office said her immigration status has to be verify with us immigration and this could take up to 10 weeks. Went back after 3 weeks the told us the same thing still waiting.

My sign all her form today will mail it out on 8/11/09

[Westindy 0]

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