Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[*JG* 2]

Since I worked through lunch, I planned to leave 45 min early which would be now minutes. But WHY did it JUST start storming. Now I'm thinking to wait out the storm.

I'm feeling a big sad yesterday & today.... which isn't an emotion I feel often.

It's due to the $ in the bank compared with the cost of my upcoming trip to JA compared with the cost of AOS and the cost of supporting two people instead of one. I hope I get a raise next month!

We have all been there Nat. You will figure it out.

[dillon 6]

Anyone know anyone in St. Ann's Bay who wants to earn some extra money cooking / cleaning for DJ this week?

I can ask...my mil if one of her sisters would like to. Did you find anyone yet before I call her?

[*JG* 2]

Nat what I have been going through what I have with my daughter I can give you about another 1000 reasons not to have kids. It is 5:10 here and I am still at work because I don't want to go home and deal with her tonight. GOD GIVE ME STRENGTH!!!!!!

Hey Dillon! Anything your STL yardies can do? Let us know. PM or text anytime. I know my little angel can do no wrong, she is a saint. Look at that avatar!!!

We can take Dillon out and get her drunk NIGHTLY!!!!

[MRStee 19]

I already have packet 3. Everything on my part is done. Im done... the rest is up to his yardie family. Just gonna wait until THEY tell me interview.. then I will fly out. Not emailing, calling nothing.. his yardie momma can help his yardie azz now all she wants. Im just gonna be a good little girl and just arrange my flight when told to.

Im not coming back to this site for a while you guys take care and im appreciative of all the help info and things that was given to me. If I sound bitter yeah I am but I will pray and get over it. Good luck to everyone who is close to being able to be with their loved ones.

[*JG* 2]

Nite All! and don't forget to buy a lottery ticket if you are a believer (in gambling). I know I am!

I did. No one won. Dammit!

[finesse 3]

I already have packet 3. Everything on my part is done. Im done... the rest is up to his yardie family. Just gonna wait until THEY tell me interview.. then I will fly out. Not emailing, calling nothing.. his yardie momma can help his yardie azz now all she wants. Im just gonna be a good little girl and just arrange my flight when told to.

Im not coming back to this site for a while you guys take care and im appreciative of all the help info and things that was given to me. If I sound bitter yeah I am but I will pray and get over it. Good luck to everyone who is close to being able to be with their loved ones.

what? where u going? what happened? don't leave us!

[*JG* 2]

Wha gwaan, yaadies! It's DTunda again, but everyone can call me Dee.

Most of you are probably still sleeping, but it is already noon here where I am! I'm trying to keep up with the thread but it evolves so fast!

So catch me up, who and who filing from yaad?

I miss Ja so much! Farrin may be nice, but there's no place like home!

Hey D. Where are you? England?

[finesse 3]

Islandwoman, I was not telling her that she would not have any glickes, but this process is hard enough without the petitioner not knowing every detail of the process, as to what to expect and what to do when things are going wrong.

One wrong statement or incorrrect information can de-rail someone's interview. So yes, I am saying to everyone YOU should read and know all you can about this process. There is so much that has been documented here on VJ, that if people would spend time re-searching they wouldn't be stressing themselves out so much. But hey who am I to tell someone not to stress.

wha dis mean?

Finesse.... .....glitches...problems...mess ups...

mi know wha dis mean....mi jussa mek joke pon di spelling error

[dillon 6]

Anyone know anyone in St. Ann's Bay who wants to earn some extra money cooking / cleaning for DJ this week?

I can ask...my mil if one of her sisters would like to. Did you find anyone yet before I call her?

I just saw that you did.

[*JG* 2]

Waving at everyone.

Our daughters case was approved. She's been here almost a week now. I got a welcome home cake the night she arrived. I went looking for balloons to match; but couldn't find anything to fit the bill, so I got a "It's a girl" balloon. She didn't get it or eat any of the cake

We've enrolled her in school. Decided to have her repeat the 9th grade because her grades were so poor. She was okay with it, knowing she stopped trying in school once her dad left. She and her sister are doing volleyball try outs this week. It was the funniest thing I've ever seen. In fact, Im making them both run laps latter this morning.They were complaining about how tired they were. It will be a miracle if either one of them makes it.

Hope all is well.

later

Oh ...Not really sure what to do about how she dresses. Shorts are way to short for a girl who has as much back as she. The short shorts wouldn't be so bad if they weren't so tight. She seems very mature for a 15 year old, I have to constantly tell her to button up her blouse so that her bra/ breast are not hanging out. I think her clothes are fit too tight. I make suggestions but don't want to seem like I'm belittling. I want her to look like a young lady. I decided to just leave it alone, for now. I know for sure that I'm buyn the next size up, next time. She said she's lost seven pounds since arrival. We had Jamaica fare the first few days in a row, So I said we are having spaghetti tonight, she said "what am I going to eat"...I said of course spaghetti.she basically refused to eat it. I told- her like I tell mine when we eat Jamaican food...you are one your own; cause I'm not making anything else- she descided to eat the salad...mine you she's refused to eat veggies since she's arrived...

lata.

Hang in there, B.

[*JG* 2]

Anyone know anyone in St. Ann's Bay who wants to earn some extra money cooking / cleaning for DJ this week?

You're such a gem to him. Did he make it out of hosp Sus?

He's being discharged today - We found someone - The first person he tried told him she wanted 45K for the week - paid upfront! I called her and went off on her - What country is she living in? Domestic jobs in the Gleaner run around $15K a week - Talked to his landlord and found someone who will cook / run errands / clean / laundry for the week -

Ha ha......the nerve of some people!

[BelwinMills 0]

Waving at everyone.

Our daughters case was approved. She's been here almost a week now. I got a welcome home cake the night she arrived. I went looking for balloons to match; but couldn't find anything to fit the bill, so I got a "It's a girl" balloon. She didn't get it or eat any of the cake

We've enrolled her in school. Decided to have her repeat the 9th grade because her grades were so poor. She was okay with it, knowing she stopped trying in school once her dad left. She and her sister are doing volleyball try outs this week. It was the funniest thing I've ever seen. In fact, Im making them both run laps latter this morning.They were complaining about how tired they were. It will be a miracle if either one of them makes it.

Hope all is well.

later

Oh ...Not really sure what to do about how she dresses. Shorts are way to short for a girl who has as much back as she. The short shorts wouldn't be so bad if they weren't so tight. She seems very mature for a 15 year old, I have to constantly tell her to button up her blouse so that her bra/ breast are not hanging out. I think her clothes are fit too tight. I make suggestions but don't want to seem like I'm belittling. I want her to look like a young lady. I decided to just leave it alone, for now. I know for sure that I'm buyn the next size up, next time. She said she's lost seven pounds since arrival. We had Jamaica fare the first few days in a row, So I said we are having spaghetti tonight, she said "what am I going to eat"...I said of course spaghetti.she basically refused to eat it. I told- her like I tell mine when we eat Jamaican food...you are one your own; cause I'm not making anything else- she decided to eat the salad...mine you she's refused to eat veggies since she's arrived...

lata.

Congratulations all the best with raising a teenager.

[*JG* 2]

Islandwoman, I was not telling her that she would not have any glickes, but this process is hard enough without the petitioner not knowing every detail of the process, as to what to expect and what to do when things are going wrong.

One wrong statement or incorrrect information can de-rail someone's interview. So yes, I am saying to everyone YOU should read and know all you can about this process. There is so much that has been documented here on VJ, that if people would spend time re-searching they wouldn't be stressing themselves out so much. But hey who am I to tell someone not to stress.

I agree, Rox.

There are so many questions that YOU need to know the answer to. I can't imagine letting someone else take charge of paperwork so important.

[phillyfashionista 8]

For those whose fiances/husbands have already arrived, where was the first place you took him?

If you can believe it or not since we got home so late at night and we were starving we went to the 24/7 McDonalds. He wanted a big Mac because of all the commercials, but when we got there he was in for a shock.# 1 the chick was soooooo ghetto he had no idea what she was saying and of course they were out of everything except the # 1 and # 11. When we got the food he inspected it inhaled it and said Big Mac, that wasn't Big LOL. So that is our very 1st place we visited together in Philly in the middle of the night........ hot mess

Sometimes we all have to step back and take a break from VJ from time to time.

Just yesterday, when you started posting, I thought "Jawi might disappear for a bit, but she'll come back just like Islandwoman."

LOL - that's true Nat!! But I had to take breaks for other reasons... now I just miss my gals, the great chit-chat and wonderful knowledge that flows on this site.

Hey Island Woman ( Waving)

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

I already have packet 3. Everything on my part is done. Im done... the rest is up to his yardie family. Just gonna wait until THEY tell me interview.. then I will fly out. Not emailing, calling nothing.. his yardie momma can help his yardie azz now all she wants. Im just gonna be a good little girl and just arrange my flight when told to.

Im not coming back to this site for a while you guys take care and im appreciative of all the help info and things that was given to me. If I sound bitter yeah I am but I will pray and get over it. Good luck to everyone who is close to being able to be with their loved ones.

please don't go, don't gooooooooooooooo

don't goooo awaaaaaaaay

i'm begging you to staaaaaaaaaay hay hay hay

i'm sorry i have a bad habit of associating songs with certain phrases and words

mstee seriously though don't go

you are very steamed right now, and its understandable

but the yardie thread is here to help you and for you to vent your frustrations

so when you are done feeling annoyed, come right back here

and perhaps you should talk to him and tell him to put down his foot

he's a grown a$$ man and this filing is between the two of you

thanks for the help from his family but its really between the two of you

you not marrying his family you're marrying him