Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[My4rmylife 0]

Well good news finally happened although its crazy news. I called the Dept of State and they said that our "Packet 3" was mailed out yesterday, however the Embassy called Steve and told him to come get "Packet 3" on Sept *????

The Embassy also responded to me by email saying they didn't have our file (this came before the Packet 3 info came) but low and behold we have packet 3???? Go figure. I emailed our DS-230 pt 1 and his mom is mailing a hard copy to the Embassy... I feel we should be getting an interview either late Sept/ Early October? Is this correct?

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Jamaica

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02-18-2009: Filed I-129F and Sent I-129 via USPS

02-24-2009: VSC received I-129F

02-26-2009: NOA1 received

06-30-2009: NOA2 received

07-10-2009: NVC Received

07-15-2009: Case number assigned, Yay!

07-16 to 08-03: Additional Processing, #######????

08-04-2009: Case left NVC

08-07-2009: Case Arrived at Embassy, Yay!!!

08-07-2009: Emailed DS-230, Part I

08-11-2009: Embassy responded via email that they didn't receive our case (bs)

08-12-2009: Embassy sent out Packet 3 , Yay!!!!

08-12-2009: Emailed DS-230, Part I, again

Comments : Received NO2A the same day we got engaged, 06-30-09

Estimates/Stats : Your I-129f was approved in 126 days from your NOA1 date

Well good news finally happened although its crazy news. I called the Dept of State and they said that our "Packet 3" was mailed out yesterday, however the Embassy called Steve and told him to come get "Packet 3" on Sept *????

The Embassy also responded to me by email saying they didn't have our file (this came before the Packet 3 info came) but low and behold we have packet 3???? Go figure. I emailed our DS-230 pt 1 and his mom is mailing a hard copy to the Embassy... I feel we should be getting an interview either late Sept/ Early October? Is this correct?

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Jamaica

******************************

02-18-2009: Filed I-129F and Sent I-129 via USPS

02-24-2009: VSC received I-129F

02-26-2009: NOA1 received

06-30-2009: NOA2 received

07-10-2009: NVC Received

07-15-2009: Case number assigned, Yay!

07-16 to 08-03: Additional Processing, #######????

08-04-2009: Case left NVC

08-07-2009: Case Arrived at Embassy, Yay!!!

08-07-2009: Emailed DS-230, Part I

08-11-2009: Embassy responded via email that they didn't receive our case (bs)

08-12-2009: Embassy sent out Packet 3 , Yay!!!!

08-12-2009: Emailed DS-230, Part I, again

Comments : Received NO2A the same day we got engaged, 06-30-09

Estimates/Stats : Your I-129f was approved in 126 days from your NOA1 date

Sorry to get packet on Sept 8th

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[MRStee 19]

thank u

[My4rmylife 0]

thank u

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[NatPatBen 3]

mstee, when the embassy said they hadn't received your file, they probably hadn't processed it yet. It took them about 5 days to enter mine in the system after they received it from DHL (Wednesday to Monday).

I TOLD MY FIANCE I HOPE SOME OF YOU LADIES ARE THERE AT THE SAME TIME .. HE SAID FOR WHAT YOUR NOT GOING TO HAVE TIME FOR THEM LOL ...

HEY NAT WHEN DOES DIGICEL RISING STARS CONE ON

Performance show comes on Sunday nights

Results show comes on Friday nights

[My4rmylife 0]

mstee, when the embassy said they hadn't received your file, they probably hadn't processed it yet. It took them about 5 days to enter mine in the system after they received it from DHL (Wednesday to Monday).

I TOLD MY FIANCE I HOPE SOME OF YOU LADIES ARE THERE AT THE SAME TIME .. HE SAID FOR WHAT YOUR NOT GOING TO HAVE TIME FOR THEM LOL ...

HEY NAT WHEN DOES DIGICEL RISING STARS CONE ON

Performance show comes on Sunday nights

Results show comes on Friday nights

THANKS I COULDNT REMEMBER LOL ...

[Tosh Love 77]

Nat what I have been going through what I have with my daughter I can give you about another 1000 reasons not to have kids. It is 5:10 here and I am still at work because I don't want to go home and deal with her tonight. GOD GIVE ME STRENGTH!!!!!!

Hey Dillon! Anything your STL yardies can do? Let us know. PM or text anytime. I know my little angel can do no wrong, she is a saint. Look at that avatar!!!

Edited August 13, 2009 by Shaunsgal

[MRStee 19]

mstee, when the embassy said they hadn't received your file, they probably hadn't processed it yet. It took them about 5 days to enter mine in the system after they received it from DHL (Wednesday to Monday).

I figured as much. Thanx

[Tosh Love 77]

i am trying to hang in there. i haven't spoken to her tonight and she knows to stay away. i have been crying a lot tonightg and have just been in my room thinking about what i can do to change her behavior.

Take time out for just you and her to go see a movie or shopping or doing your nails or anything that just is geared towards her and make it a point to do this weekly or as often as possible. Regardless of your intentions right now she is seeing her MAIN support system being shared by others and she will find different ways to get your attention--Good and bad. Just be patient and don't try to rationalize it. I am here if you need to talk anytime. You have my numbers

Edited August 13, 2009 by Shaunsgal

[MRStee 19]

i am trying to hang in there. i haven't spoken to her tonight and she knows to stay away. i have been crying a lot tonightg and have just been in my room thinking about what i can do to change her behavior.

Take time out for just you and her to go see a movie or shopping or doing your nails or anything that just is geared towards her and make it a point to do this weekly or as often as possible. Regardless of your intentions right now she is seeing her MAIN support system being shared by others and she will find different ways to get your attention--Good and bad. Just be patient and don't try to rationalize it. I am here if you need to talk anytime. You have my numbers

I agree my son was the same way. He was jealous of my daughter.

[MRStee 19]

i am trying to hang in there. i haven't spoken to her tonight and she knows to stay away. i have been crying a lot tonightg and have just been in my room thinking about what i can do to change her behavior.

Take time out for just you and her to go see a movie or shopping or doing your nails or anything that just is geared towards her and make it a point to do this weekly or as often as possible. Regardless of your intentions right now she is seeing her MAIN support system being shared by others and she will find different ways to get your attention--Good and bad. Just be patient and don't try to rationalize it. I am here if you need to talk anytime. You have my numbers

I agree my son was the same way. He was jealous of my daughter.

Sorry to say its hard to "change" their behavior. All you can do is spend time with them, communicate to them how you feel and pray reaaaaaaaaaal hard. I could tell you some stories. My son and I actually had a fist fight out in the middle of the street!!! He broke my finger and everything. Im only 5ft 3 and at the time he was about 5ft 10! So you can imagine. I can't go into details about what I did to him when he did that to me, but it wasn't pretty so I know how you feel.

[Tosh Love 77]

I have never felt so much in a partnership with any other man I have dated before A. I know I worried a lot of you when I made the statement about taking more than the recommended dosage of meds to stop the pain. I appreciate the prayers, and I am starting to feel more like my happy jubilant self again because of all of your love and support.

I am still in pain...but now I'm about to cry out in prayer. You guys gave me back the strength to pray, and I love each of you for it.

Back to A. I told him what I posted when he called and I just started crying and told him that I was so tired...just tired. He got angry at first and started preaching at me...then it hit him and he started crying. He told me baby just hold on...I'm coming home...we will fight this together. You are not alone...this is our fight together until one of us gets called home the right way...by God. He told me that he will get as many jobs as he has to if I have to take disability...he just doesn't want me to think about leaving him and our kids.

He asked me not to ever say something like that again because it was selfish...and I wasn't thinking about how much pain those people that love me would be in if something happened to me. He cried so hard that he ended up getting a headache.

I called him back last night and told him thank you for letting me know that we truly are a team and it is not a one-sided relationship where the woman is responsible for holding things together. He told me that love doesn't require a thank you.

I also wanted to apologize to JaPrincess publicly. I could have done this through PM, but I wanted to let all of you know that I am capable of admitting my mistakes. I think that you are a wonderful person, full of joy and optimism. I pray that your relationship is ordained and blessed by the most High. I have to be mindful of my friends' feelings, even in my truth. I wasn't trying to question your relationship, but in hindsight I realized that I basically called you a liar. For that, I am sorry.

When I thought about what Mr. JaP told you...I found it unbelievable...but I didn't consider that not everyone is going to be the best poet. What matters is what feelings he was expressing to you. Most of my friends are males, and most are not eloquent in their normal conversations...so that's why I thought the poet in you cleaned it up to reflect what he was trying to express to you.

I myself am guilty of being a person that is in love with being in love...until I get bored. I am a hopeless romantic realist. My self discovery allowed me to see that in my past relationships, I wasn't truly in love with the man I was with...but more in love with the newness of the love relationship...the untapped possibilities. It explained why it was always so easy for me to walk away unscathed. Yeah, I shed a few tears...but nothing that would cause me to loose myself in another person. I have managed to stay friends with several of the guys I dated. I feel blessed that my eldest son's father respects me enough to alter his entire life to take care of me and my boys since October 2008.

All this to say, I am still a work in progress. I strongly believe in "to thine ownself be true"...but I could have approached this situation between me and JaP another way if I had questions about certain things. I hope that you can forgive me.

Jawi

Now you have me over hear bawling That is so sweet and sincere! I love you all and hang in there Jawi. you ARE a survivor!

[MRStee 19]

I have never felt so much in a partnership with any other man I have dated before A. I know I worried a lot of you when I made the statement about taking more than the recommended dosage of meds to stop the pain. I appreciate the prayers, and I am starting to feel more like my happy jubilant self again because of all of your love and support.

I am still in pain...but now I'm about to cry out in prayer. You guys gave me back the strength to pray, and I love each of you for it.

Back to A. I told him what I posted when he called and I just started crying and told him that I was so tired...just tired. He got angry at first and started preaching at me...then it hit him and he started crying. He told me baby just hold on...I'm coming home...we will fight this together. You are not alone...this is our fight together until one of us gets called home the right way...by God. He told me that he will get as many jobs as he has to if I have to take disability...he just doesn't want me to think about leaving him and our kids.

He asked me not to ever say something like that again because it was selfish...and I wasn't thinking about how much pain those people that love me would be in if something happened to me. He cried so hard that he ended up getting a headache.

I called him back last night and told him thank you for letting me know that we truly are a team and it is not a one-sided relationship where the woman is responsible for holding things together. He told me that love doesn't require a thank you.

I also wanted to apologize to JaPrincess publicly. I could have done this through PM, but I wanted to let all of you know that I am capable of admitting my mistakes. I think that you are a wonderful person, full of joy and optimism. I pray that your relationship is ordained and blessed by the most High. I have to be mindful of my friends' feelings, even in my truth. I wasn't trying to question your relationship, but in hindsight I realized that I basically called you a liar. For that, I am sorry.

When I thought about what Mr. JaP told you...I found it unbelievable...but I didn't consider that not everyone is going to be the best poet. What matters is what feelings he was expressing to you. Most of my friends are males, and most are not eloquent in their normal conversations...so that's why I thought the poet in you cleaned it up to reflect what he was trying to express to you.

I myself am guilty of being a person that is in love with being in love...until I get bored. I am a hopeless romantic realist. My self discovery allowed me to see that in my past relationships, I wasn't truly in love with the man I was with...but more in love with the newness of the love relationship...the untapped possibilities. It explained why it was always so easy for me to walk away unscathed. Yeah, I shed a few tears...but nothing that would cause me to loose myself in another person. I have managed to stay friends with several of the guys I dated. I feel blessed that my eldest son's father respects me enough to alter his entire life to take care of me and my boys since October 2008.

All this to say, I am still a work in progress. I strongly believe in "to thine ownself be true"...but I could have approached this situation between me and JaP another way if I had questions about certain things. I hope that you can forgive me.

Jawi

Now you have me over hear bawling That is so sweet and sincere! I love you all and hang in there Jawi. you ARE a survivor!

Well put... You are going to be fine watch! God has a purpose for you!!! I wish you and your family a boundless endless amount of blessings!

[MRStee 19]

sus how is dj doing?

[DaDa 1]

Still I found it a bit funny that you correct dillon's punctuation in one post and then put your own typo in the next

Maybe I meant that my sad was big instead of little.

I know it'll work out. I will definitely have to spend more responsibly, though. But then again, I bet $$ won't be quite as tight since I won't be going on these every-other-month trips to Jamaica anymore.

Ur bank account will thank you but your heart will be like I miss it. ...

I miss JA so much.

[Tosh Love 77]

i am very tired and miserable today

((((((((((Bunz)))))))))))