Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[Tosh Love 77]

If I had a stay at home husband, I'd like to come home to a spotless house, clean, well-behaved kids at a friend or neighbors house, him in the kitchen naked except for an apron, a glass of chilled wine on the counter, my delicious smelling dinner simmering on the stove, my favorite music coming from the stereo, and a nice massage before dinner!

A girl can dream, right?

Sus is there anything you do not have a picture for?

[phillyfashionista 8]

yeah philly.. its the process i guess.. we have to TRY mediation, then he don't agree, we go to court..

apart of me thought i should hve asked for less in order to reach an agreement to keep from having another day in court, whats $100?? but u know what.. he could have showed up.. he just blew it off like whatever and let him face the consequences you know..

Exactly! Quanna I always say actions speak louder than words and he just spoke a mouthful by not showing up so like you say no he has to face the consequences and I hope you get every penny requested and more$$$$

girl, who are you telling. i just spoke to one of the neighbors and the ish was like knee deep.....piss, shyt and garbage evrywhere

i always knew something was not right over there....it is the one house on the block that is always dark and the lawn is always overgrown

the kids on the block are now calling it ' the poop house'

Oh hell naw :rofl:

[My4rmylife 0]

If I had a stay at home husband, I'd like to come home to a spotless house, clean, well-behaved kids at a friend or neighbors house, him in the kitchen naked except for an apron, a glass of chilled wine on the counter, my delicious smelling dinner simmering on the stove, my favorite music coming from the stereo, and a nice massage before dinner!

A girl can dream, right?

Sus is there anything you do not have a picture for?

i think sus has pic for everything

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

So I know ya'll don't comment on my poetry much

But I had to share this story after talking about it this morning...

One of my co-workers was raped when she was 14 years old

Out of that horrible experience she became pregnant. Now, this was back in the early 50's and she was sent away to have the baby and give it up for adoption. I have worked with her for 11 years and she has ALWAYS searched for her daughter. Well this year she found her! I heard her bawling in her office one day and when I went in she told me she just got a call from the PI who gave her the name and the phone number of her daughter.

Well the daughter was shocked, she had a loving family and had never even searched for her birth mom even tho she knew she had been adopted. They planned to meet and my co-worker was so excited...

She asked if I would write a poem for her daughter and I told her to send me some thoughts and feelings she wanted to convey...

She sent me this:

So glad I finally found you after looking all these years not knowing if you were dead or alive. Glad that you are healthy and happy. And glad that you are accepting of all this. I want to thank your adopted parents for loving you and taking care of you. I never want to come between you. Even though I haven’t known you all these years I can’t help but love you.

This is the poem I wrote:

So many years ago

When I was still so young

I went through an experience

Not easy for anyone

The choice was made for me

Being a child, I had no say

And so a child gave birth

Then watched her daughter be taken away

As time passed by I realized

The extent of what I lost

And so I vowed to search for you

To find you at any cost

I’m so thankful to have found you

And see you’ve grown up well

I must give thanks to your family

They’ve raised you good, I can tell

To know you have your health

And that you’ve found happiness

Fills me with such joy

I cannot fully express

I realize it must be hard

Like I came out of the blue

I thank you for accepting me

I have long searched for you

I would never want to come

Between you and your mother

Yet I hope you can be thankful

That you Kim, have another

My little girl of long ago

Is a woman now today

And I can’t help but love you

No matter how long I’ve been away

So please accept my offer

Of love where love is due

So long ago I let you go

But I never stopped loving you

this is beautiful and a wonderful gesture

i like the poem

it conveys what her thoughts are

[JAPrincess 27]

Ells is that you?

[phillyfashionista 8]

Hey ladies wah gwaan... I'm back on thread 16 trying to catch up on what i missed. Yes I can't help it I'm nosey and I want to see what i missed but can someone help me out. I was looking at the photos on Suncoast or gold what ever its called and I seen that Joseph and his girl washed each others feet. Can anyone tell me what that symbolizes??

humility..

they did this alot in the bible to show service to someone.. like elders.

OR respect.. somtimes when u had company u washed their feet as to welcome them into ur home..

there may be some other symbolism.. those are the ones i know..

and wha ie mean when u suck each odda toes?

:bonk:

he showed up for my sons custody hearing and before we went inside he told the mediator she can have it all>>> at child support hearing he showed and gave a sobb story Judge said what does that have to do with your kids need for things like clothes and food.

Exactly! How they think they can get away with this foolishness is beyond me!

This is the poem I wrote:

So many years ago

When I was still so young

I went through an experience

Not easy for anyone

The choice was made for me

Being a child, I had no say

And so a child gave birth

Then watched her daughter be taken away

As time passed by I realized

The extent of what I lost

And so I vowed to search for you

To find you at any cost

I’m so thankful to have found you

And see you’ve grown up well

I must give thanks to your family

They’ve raised you good, I can tell

To know you have your health

And that you’ve found happiness

Fills me with such joy

I cannot fully express

I realize it must be hard

Like I came out of the blue

I thank you for accepting me

I have long searched for you

I would never want to come

Between you and your mother

Yet I hope you can be thankful

That you Kim, have another

My little girl of long ago

Is a woman now today

And I can’t help but love you

No matter how long I’ve been away

So please accept my offer

Of love where love is due

So long ago I let you go

But I never stopped loving you

(F) This is so thoughtful JA Princess you have captured her emotions and put them into words. Well done Bravo, I truly hope the daughter loves it!

[MrsBuggy 0]

Ok ladies... I am back. I'm gonna look back a few pages to see what I've missed.

As for me, all is well over here. Derron still working, thankfully... I'm still working. Bills are getting paid. Adjustments, well, they come and go. (Oh, FYI, Derron is now thinking of getting himself a "refurbished" iphone!! I'm proud of him for considering that.) But for the most part, we are doing well.

Had a great time this weekend!! Quana... tell Roger THANKS for convincing Derron to go out on Saturday. Even though we weren't there very long, we had a great time!!! Are you goin to the the concert on Saturday??? AND, I was thinking of making it to Lover's Rock on Thursday, since Derron don't have to work on Friday... what you think?

OK.. i'm off to read... brb

JaP... beautiful words!!

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

yeah philly.. its the process i guess.. we have to TRY mediation, then he don't agree, we go to court..

apart of me thought i should hve asked for less in order to reach an agreement to keep from having another day in court, whats $100?? but u know what.. he could have showed up.. he just blew it off like whatever and let him face the consequences you know..

Exactly! Quanna I always say actions speak louder than words and he just spoke a mouthful by not showing up so like you say no he has to face the consequences and I hope you get every penny requested and more$$$$

its a shame when a court has to tell a man to man up

i hate that

why do they have to make it so hard?

its not like she's withholding the children from him

sheesh!

[JAPrincess 27]

this is beautiful and a wonderful gesture

i like the poem

it conveys what her thoughts are

Thank Bunz

She had it engraved on a plaque and gave it to her daughter.

For days she would come and tell me I made another person cry who read it.

She said I should start a business writing custom poetry...

But I think it was because I felt deeply about her situation that I was able to write it...

I can see someone wanting me to write a poem about their dog fido not sure it would go over so well

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Hey Bunzarelli, we got our visia back in 3 days. So Sunday is on...

Roxcie and Joel

[JAPrincess 27]

yeah philly.. its the process i guess.. we have to TRY mediation, then he don't agree, we go to court..

apart of me thought i should hve asked for less in order to reach an agreement to keep from having another day in court, whats $100?? but u know what.. he could have showed up.. he just blew it off like whatever and let him face the consequences you know..

Exactly! Quanna I always say actions speak louder than words and he just spoke a mouthful by not showing up so like you say no he has to face the consequences and I hope you get every penny requested and more$$$$

its a shame when a court has to tell a man to man up

i hate that

why do they have to make it so hard?

its not like she's withholding the children from him

sheesh!

Amen!

Hey Bunzarelli, we got our visia back in 3 days. So Sunday is on...

Roxcie and Joel

Congrats Roxie!

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Thanks JAPrincess, and good luck to you on your journey.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Hey Bunzarelli, we got our visia back in 3 days. So Sunday is on...

Roxcie and Joel

yaaaaaaaaaaay!!!

Roxcie I'm so happy for you

I remember your petition took a long time to approve, but the worst is now over

I guess we won't be seeing you on in a while but i would like to hear your point of entry review so when u come up for air, post it

which POE will he be coming through btw?

[dancehallquana 5]

Quana in my case the judge look at both of our income and of course the order is low because i made way more money then he did. the only good thing about my order is since its not separated by child i get the same amount until my youngest is 18 (it wont change when my daughter turns 18).

Im so proud i finally got my heart :dance: lol

yay u got ur heart my girl

[dillon 6]

Congrats Roxie!!!!! He really did get his passport back really fast!