Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[JAPrincess 27]

Morning Peeps...

I had a stay at home Baby Daddy. I would rather be the one to stay home. I think my ex was not nurturing enough and I believe kids need that nurturing early in life.

Not to mention I would come home from a 50 hour work week to be told I was not doing enough for his music career, and that watching the baby was cramping his practice schedule

nah man... you bring home the money... give me a couple kids and a soap opera

BUT

If I have to work to support my family I am gonna do what I gotta do.

I would love to be able to spend my time writing poetry. Custom poems.

I did it for the accountant, I wrote a poem for her daughter and she BAWLED when she read it...

I could take care of kids and write poetry

yes JG a girl can dream

[phillyfashionista 8]

Good morning all!

Morning Sis weh yuh deh?

If I had a stay at home husband, I'd like to come home to a spotless house, clean, well-behaved kids at a friend or neighbors house, him in the kitchen naked except for an apron, a glass of chilled wine on the counter, my delicious smelling dinner simmering on the stove, my favorite music coming from the stereo, and a nice massage before dinner!

A girl can dream, right?

a batty boy dat

LOL yuh see it

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

d@mnit!

[sus 70]

Not sure if I like those, Bunz

[finesse 3]

d@mnit!

now mi can see....those are different.....but hot and sexy same way

[sus 70]

nah man... you bring home the money... give me a couple kids and a soap opera

This I agree with - I would love to be able to stay at home - but if I were the one with the better job (which in reality, is going to be the situation for a while), I wouldn't have a problem with him being home taking care of the kids - Now, if he wasn't doing that - nah suh!

My cousin's husband doesn't work - yet she has to get a babysitter for their son cause he is playing golf, shopping, etc... - Not for me!

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Not sure if I like those, Bunz

i was iffy on them first but the more i look on them the more i like them and now i'm loving them

[JAPrincess 27]

Another thing is that single and stay at home Dad's don't have the same resources

A friend of ours came out for my best friends funeral last Feb. and he brought his 6 mo. old daughter.

No changing tables in the mens bathroom... and other issues he had, I can't remember now.

But bwoy did that man get a LOT of attention with that beautiful baby girl

I guess it really depends on the man and if he is up for the challenge.

I definitely think it is harder for men. Society makes it harder.

[phillyfashionista 8]

If I had a stay at home husband, I'd like to come home to a spotless house, clean, well-behaved kids at a friend or neighbors house, him in the kitchen naked except for an apron, a glass of chilled wine on the counter, my delicious smelling dinner simmering on the stove, my favorite music coming from the stereo, and a nice massage before dinner!

A girl can dream, right?

That sounds awesome. If I had kids, I definitely wouldn't want to stay home with them all day (so I say now, having no kids). So having a husband at home who handled the kids, cooking, cleaning, etc, to where I just worked & relaxed sounds good.

But if there are no kids in the picture, I need him to get to school or work!

LOL @ Sus finding a pic.

i had to read that twice to make sure i read it right......i thought i was the only one

LOL @ NAT and JG

as much as i hate my feet, i love shoes. that's not a very good combination. anyway i saw these shoes and fell in love:

(L) (L)

I love unique shoes these are definitely Runway material!

nah man... you bring home the money... give me a couple kids and a soap opera

JA Princess you are cracking me up over here!

[My4rmylife 0]

d@mnit!

i like those

[JAPrincess 27]

Sus I sent you something on your board

[finesse 3]

nah man... you bring home the money... give me a couple kids and a soap opera

This I agree with - I would love to be able to stay at home - but if I were the one with the better job (which in reality, is going to be the situation for a while), I wouldn't have a problem with him being home taking care of the kids - Now, if he wasn't doing that - nah suh!

My cousin's husband doesn't work - yet she has to get a babysitter for their son cause he is playing golf, shopping, etc... - Not for me!

honestly, i don't know if i would be ok with it. i think regardles of the circumstances, I would still be salty having to get up and go to work while looking at hubby sleeping away in the bed. but i couldn't stay home either....i love kids but they drive me CRAZY!!

[JAPrincess 27]

I think the shoes are cute, but I would never wear them...

my hippie feet don't do heals

Add flip flops to my kids and a soap opera dream

anyone else having trouble with facebook this morning?

[MRStee 19]

d@mnit!

Im not big into shoes but I like them

[MRStee 19]

nah man... you bring home the money... give me a couple kids and a soap opera

This I agree with - I would love to be able to stay at home - but if I were the one with the better job (which in reality, is going to be the situation for a while), I wouldn't have a problem with him being home taking care of the kids - Now, if he wasn't doing that - nah suh!

My cousin's husband doesn't work - yet she has to get a babysitter for their son cause he is playing golf, shopping, etc... - Not for me!

honestly, i don't know if i would be ok with it. i think regardles of the circumstances, I would still be salty having to get up and go to work while looking at hubby sleeping away in the bed. but i couldn't stay home either....i love kids but they drive me CRAZY!!

Im kinda with you on this! I can deal with other peoples children, I think because I know I can give them back, but dealing with my own... whew