Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[sus 70]

I don't know about unrealistic...I have male friends, but none that I hang out with alone. Honestly, I can be the jealous type so I like that I don't have to be jealous of any close girlfriends of his. He is close to his sisters, and he has a few female friends from work, but he doesnt hang out with them outside of work, same as me.

It works for us, anyway.

When I say sex is always an issue, I mean to say that deep down we are always aware of our sexuality...It is simply the truth that any male friend we might have as women at least thinks of us sexually unless he is gay. It is an inescapable part of our biology. We are wired for it!

By no means am I saying this should go for everyone. Just our shared opinion...

I have plenty of male friends...1 Kimora's godfather we were 15 when we "dated" and he remained one of my VERY best friends no matter what. Kashi is VERY i mean VERY trusting..I guess he knows i would never

it is nice to not have to be questioned and quizzed, and polled, and interrogated bout every rass ting u do.....

One of my best male friends (in my FB pictures) - DJ picked out the Tshirt that I brought him back to Jamaica - DJ has had to listen to them yelling sexual remarks when I was on the phone - and then one of the guys would grab the phone from me and lecture him about how he betta treat me right and "nah vex mi" - I honestly think he is happier if I go out to see the band then when I am going somewhere else, cause he knows those guys watch me like a hawk -

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who else doan like dem MIL?

and who brought lunch today? mi hungry like whoah!

wah bout fi yuh MIL

[JAPrincess 27]

where is my heart??

JaPrincess, was that you who celebrated getting a heart a few weeks ago, but didn't get it?

No that was the Platinum embarrassment...

Today is the heart embarrassment

[dancehallquana 5]

If some hot girl were to come onto him hard, though, he might have a little trouble resisting. Out of respect for me, though, he has only male friends. He is of the belief that men and women can not be close friends...sex is always an issue.

really..isn't that a bit unrealistic?

I don't know about unrealistic...I have male friends, but none that I hang out with alone. Honestly, I can be the jealous type so I like that I don't have to be jealous of any close girlfriends of his. He is close to his sisters, and he has a few female friends from work, but he doesnt hang out with them outside of work, same as me.

It works for us, anyway.

When I say sex is always an issue, I mean to say that deep down we are always aware of our sexuality...It is simply the truth that any male friend we might have as women at least thinks of us sexually unless he is gay. It is an inescapable part of our biology. We are wired for it!

By no means am I saying this should go for everyone. Just our shared opinion...

acrow this is actually something i decided to do recently.. i have alot of male friends and honestly alot of them came from some sort of attraction and then i just told them plain and simple, im taken and they stuck around a bit.. and dancing partners and such.. maybe a few that are friends of my girlfriends but not many

i do not feel comfortable talking to this ppl on the phone w/ roger around, we not gonna have no pillow talk or nothing but its wierd to me..i mean a hug and small chat when i see u out is fine, but other than that.. it just don't feel right ESP when roger doesn't have ANY women call him except his sisters..he has never told me not to have guyfriends, in fact he persuades me to talk to them but mi cyaan do ie and when i ignore the calls OMG.. that makes him even mad, so im telling them to chill on the phone calls a bit..

[finesse 3]

who else doan like dem MIL?

and who brought lunch today? mi hungry like whoah!

wah bout fi yuh MIL

she's ok. hubby and ar not really close so mi no really haffi deal wid har...

[sus 70]

acrow this is actually something i decided to do recently.. i have alot of male friends and honestly alot of them came from some sort of attraction and then i just told them plain and simple, im taken and they stuck around a bit.. and dancing partners and such.. maybe a few that are friends of my girlfriends but not many

i do not feel comfortable talking to this ppl on the phone w/ roger around, we not gonna have no pillow talk or nothing but its wierd to me..i mean a hug and small chat when i see u out is fine, but other than that.. it just don't feel right ESP when roger doesn't have ANY women call him except his sisters..he has never told me not to have guyfriends, in fact he persuades me to talk to them but mi cyaan do ie and when i ignore the calls OMG.. that makes him even mad, so im telling them to chill on the phone calls a bit..

For me, I can understand why that would make Roger mad - Cause I have no problem with my man having female friends - I would have a problem with him having female friends and not answering their calls / talking to them when he is around me - Because I would expect him to act the same with them whether I am there or not - the same as I would do for him.

[dancehallquana 5]

either you are a cheater or you are not....either you are a faithful person or you are not.....just have to know who you are dealing with.

not sure what being jamaican has to do with it.....maybe mi miss something

i only say jamaican cuz thats the context jae put it cuz she doesn't know much about any other man.. only jamaican.. now for everybody else i guess who doesn't think its possible for men (of any background) to abstain.. would u say THEY CAN in an LDR cuz they have been intimate w/ u and they know they will be again so they can hold out 6 mths or more???

and i don't mean have a girlfriend or another woman.. a hook up basically???

im just saying cuz in a way all our guys are practicing abstinence if we believe they are being true till they see us again...

and sus.. i could ask the same question about the women, some of us can't hold out either, but mi nuh wan get into ppl business too bad..

yes yuh do...

[dancehallquana 5]

acrow this is actually something i decided to do recently.. i have alot of male friends and honestly alot of them came from some sort of attraction and then i just told them plain and simple, im taken and they stuck around a bit.. and dancing partners and such.. maybe a few that are friends of my girlfriends but not many

i do not feel comfortable talking to this ppl on the phone w/ roger around, we not gonna have no pillow talk or nothing but its wierd to me..i mean a hug and small chat when i see u out is fine, but other than that.. it just don't feel right ESP when roger doesn't have ANY women call him except his sisters..he has never told me not to have guyfriends, in fact he persuades me to talk to them but mi cyaan do ie and when i ignore the calls OMG.. that makes him even mad, so im telling them to chill on the phone calls a bit..

For me, I can understand why that would make Roger mad - Cause I have no problem with my man having female friends - I would have a problem with him having female friends and not answering their calls / talking to them when he is around me - Because I would expect him to act the same with them whether I am there or not - the same as I would do for him.

oh yeah.. i def understand why he would be upset.. even tho he's seen me ignore my mama's, sisters, brothers calls too.. mi nuh like di phone!! ..so thats why i had to opt on not talking to them.. cuz given the origin of many of these relationships, i just don't think its respectful and i don't want him to be upset by me ignoring calls. id rather not have any convos w/ males..dem nuh chat bout nutting noway.. just text me...

[phillyfashionista 8]

Hey everyone! I added some pictures to my profile from my last trip down to Jamaica if you are interested in taking a look!

The pics are fabulous thanks for sharing

ok, who have a new topic?

anybody else have MIL problem, marraige problem, pickney problem, adjustment problem?

who ave birthday, vacation, promotion, anniversary, divorce, wedding coming up?

who's feeling good, bad, happy, or sad?

oh yeah, where is ells?

Hey Finesse,

MI always wid deh pickney problems LOL but it's getting easier

I am so ready for a vacation i just saw 198.00 RT to Kingston I am searching for flights now. I have to use a week at my Timeshsare before the end of September or I will need to extend it but I have no clue what I am gonna do just yet.

I am going to a wedding in February in JA and we are also renewing our vows on our 2 year wedding anniversary on that trip as well.

Yeah where is Ells? Honeymooning I suppose she is M.I.A. on FB as well

where is my heart??

LOL Ja Princess yuh heart soon come

Lawd I got busy at work again so I have alot to catch up on.......

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Acrow.i get what ur saying..I'm just saying i cannot imagine for ME..so in MY eyes it seems unrealistic.

I would rather know my husband's female friends than to not..then i would have to worry..and thats for ME

[finesse 3]

mi bout to nyam on dis pencil...

mi coworker went to go get di food.....hurry up ooman!

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acrow this is actually something i decided to do recently.. i have alot of male friends and honestly alot of them came from some sort of attraction and then i just told them plain and simple, im taken and they stuck around a bit.. and dancing partners and such.. maybe a few that are friends of my girlfriends but not many

i do not feel comfortable talking to this ppl on the phone w/ roger around, we not gonna have no pillow talk or nothing but its wierd to me..i mean a hug and small chat when i see u out is fine, but other than that.. it just don't feel right ESP when roger doesn't have ANY women call him except his sisters..he has never told me not to have guyfriends, in fact he persuades me to talk to them but mi cyaan do ie and when i ignore the calls OMG.. that makes him even mad, so im telling them to chill on the phone calls a bit..

For me, I can understand why that would make Roger mad - Cause I have no problem with my man having female friends - I would have a problem with him having female friends and not answering their calls / talking to them when he is around me - Because I would expect him to act the same with them whether I am there or not - the same as I would do for him.

me too Sus..feel the same..if kaashi doesn't answer a call i would probably mark date and time ..hahahaha

Q..i think u feel funny casue u know they r not just "friends" they have something "nasty" to say..just my 2cents

mi bout to nyam on dis pencil...

mi coworker went to go get di food.....hurry up ooman!

lawd mi hunrgy to..mi belly a role..mi waan go get food..but hubby get off work early..so mi a wait fi him so wi can get something together plus kimora deh yah wid me

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Wagwan yardies! How was everyone's weekend? I'm going to catch up on the last 5 pages...

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hey T..mi deya a look..wah yuh up to? nutti yet?

[dancehallquana 5]

oh there are def some of those but i believe like acrow said.. men/women relationships either started out (even if never acted on) or will eventually get to a physical attraction so i'd rather just be safe than sorry and just leave my communication to texting, and quick chat when i see u out and about...

that way i got verified proof nuttin a go so!!!