Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[DaDa 1]

I like reading you say..mi husband

i like saying it!!!

what do ur child/children call ur SO, what will his kids call u??

we talked about this when we first got serious and we both agreed we didn't want anything too formal so we agreed the first name would be fine.. the judge that officiated our ceremony talked w/ us at length b4 marrying us and that was one of the topics.. he said that the children if they are not callling him daddy YET (he insisted they would eventually, which ive seen kids do, but i don't think mine will)

then they should call him mr roger or mr g.. he says it is respectful and i woudn't want mykids to call me myfirst name.. HECK NO!!!

i enjoyed the judge's talk, but we still have them call him roger, i could be mama quana? but that still sound silly.. we just like the informal way. i think he get respect from his actions not his name ???

Hmm I think my kidz would put the Mr. first but its funny my godkidz call me by my first name.

[JAPrincess 27]

MY2 Just wanted you to know I am also getting a busy signal at NVC \o/

And now I would like you to know that I got through and they laughed at me

Bout mi just get approval last week

Dem tell me to call back in a MONTH

I need

[DaDa 1]

yuh see it!!!! i guess i should go w/ the mind frame that this won't be forever.. but i couldn't fathom not seeing my hubby but when both of us are heading out the door.. but like shemmy said, its workable.. money can heal all wounds LOL.. we would CERTAINLY keep looking for a better schedule tho..

yuh see it!!!! i guess i should go w/ the mind frame that this won't be forever.. but i couldn't fathom not seeing my hubby but when both of us are heading out the door.. but like shemmy said, its workable.. money can heal all wounds LOL.. we would CERTAINLY keep looking for a better schedule tho..

Quana, it's quality of time, not quantity. You are going from alone to having him there 24/7. A little space is always a good thing.

One car or two? If one car, it works out well.

Also, there are things that can only be done during the day cause of their office hours. He can do some of that for you. And, you can cover when he is working.

5 day work weeks mean you should always have at least 2 nights off together.

Look at the positives of ALL situations instead of freaking out about the negatives. It will be fine, girlie.

I was thinking that too JG like damn do they want to be joined at the hip?? Quana its nice now you two are in honeymoon mood but damn after a while you will want a little space. Memba some space makes the heart grow fonder....

[finesse 3]

MY2 Just wanted you to know I am also getting a busy signal at NVC \o/

And now I would like you to know that I got through and they laughed at me

Bout mi just get approval last week

Dem tell me to call back in a MONTH

I need

what were you calling for?

now they gonna put urs at the bottom of the pile...

[JAPrincess 27]

what were you calling for?

now they gonna put urs at the bottom of the pile...

Because Nat told me to

No, seriously...

To get my KNG# so that I can send Packet 3 to Mr. so he can DHL it to the Embassy.

That way we can request an interview date before I can't fly due to being too far along in my pregnancy

[Ellsinlove 2]

we have jamaican flag on the house...

but hubby wouldn't wear a jamaica shirt or shoes....

hmmmmmmmmmmmm, maybe that's why we have so many neighbors come ova..........

You need to take down that flag and get one of these:

Finesse's neighbors would just think they were helping & turn it back to 'Come in'!

speaking of jamaicans.. let me tell u the latest on the futbol phockery LOL

okay the futbol team that plays, have asked roger to play in their league that started last week.. so we go to the game on sunday just to watch, cuz we are CLUELESS to any details.. i don't get that.. he called and nobody tell him nothing nor do he ask.. whatever

so the game is getting kind of ruff. 2 times a yardman got pushed down and no call was made, but when the other team got pushed they got free kick (one the yardman pushed hard as hell on purpose revenge ) so im cringing in my seat cuz this not looking good.

the best player on the team is a girl and she getting all kinds of calls, even when she barely getting touched and im being honest.. so the yardman chat bout "she don't need to be in the game.. if she wanna play wid men.. play her like a man" she is the best and they have to defend against her.. so i kind of understood, esp when she was getting all these bs calls..

but then they started making comments.. bout her body and such.. i don't roger that wasn't right, she could hear and her team as well.. they were laughing and then one had the nerve to touch har.. she felt it was all in fun and she touched him back..

well of course the guys on her team didn't like that.. they charge afta di one who touch, chat bout rape and the yardmen take up for him.. and one big fight a stawt.. yardmen were up but the game stopped, i don't know if it was counted as a win or DQ or what..

bwoy, these guys are gonna keep me entertained..

First, WHY is detailed communication such an issue?? That is one thing that gets me with mister....NO, I don't know what the 'sintin' is so can you please be a little more precise with what you're asking about???

Anyway, quite a story there! Can't wait for the next episode. But like the others say, it's probably a real good thing Roger isn't getting involved. Don't want no police involvement when it comes to anything immigration-wise.

coca cola bottle shape..

PEAR-SHAPED SISTERS UNITE!!

How many people begged me for a fat pic, I post it, and not ONE comment??

Sus, I'd be THRILLED to look as fat now as you did then!

[phillyfashionista 8]

I guess it sounds easy to just eat less and work out more....lol!!!!

Some women at work are doing weight watcher...but when I have a lot of work I like to eat whatever I have a taste for.

Afternoon Everyone,

KK, that's what I LOVE about WW...you can eat whatever you have a taste for...just in moderation. I started a WW@ work program in June 2009. I am proud to say I've lost 20lbs since I started. (That's even with my vacation to JA!!) I did WW about 20 years ago and it didn't work for me...so up until this June I just kept writing it off! However, my co-workers kept raving...so I tried it and it actually works! I pretty much killed my poor thyroid from years of fad diets and yo-yoing weight. I can see myself sticking to WW b/c I never really feel deprived of having something I'm craving. Anyway just my $.02...but for anyone looking for a healthy way to lose weight...I would HIGHLY recommend it!

You go Forever Young! Keep up the good work

One of my BFs uses WW and it works for her. One of these days I think I will try it with her. She does the points thing.. and when she stays on track.. she loses. She had lost 40lbs... then quit smoking... BOOM 40lbs are back!

Irie that is so scary you give up one vice in exchange for another and you can't win for losing

[phillyfashionista 8]

Quana, it's quality of time, not quantity. You are going from alone to having him there 24/7. A little space is always a good thing.

One car or two? If one car, it works out well.

Also, there are things that can only be done during the day cause of their office hours. He can do some of that for you. And, you can cover when he is working.

5 day work weeks mean you should always have at least 2 nights off together.

Look at the positives of ALL situations instead of freaking out about the negatives. It will be fine, girlie.

I was thinking that too JG like damn do they want to be joined at the hip?? Quana its nice now you two are in honeymoon mood but damn after a while you will want a little space. Memba some space makes the heart grow fonder....

Mi wan be joined at the hip

what were you calling for?

now they gonna put urs at the bottom of the pile...

Because Nat told me to

No, seriously...

To get my KNG# so that I can send Packet 3 to Mr. so he can DHL it to the Embassy.

That way we can request an interview date before I can't fly due to being too far along in my pregnancy

I am DWL JA P

Seriously I did call them after a few days and was able to get my KNG # too try back on Friday

[finesse 3]

what were you calling for?

now they gonna put urs at the bottom of the pile...

Because Nat told me to

No, seriously...

To get my KNG# so that I can send Packet 3 to Mr. so he can DHL it to the Embassy.

That way we can request an interview date before I can't fly due to being too far along in my pregnancy

oh, ok....well keep calling those fockers then...

[finesse 3]

ells - can you imagine how nat is gonna deal with the 'sintin'???

[dancehallquana 5]

I was thinking that too JG like damn do they want to be joined at the hip?? Quana its nice now you two are in honeymoon mood but damn after a while you will want a little space. Memba some space makes the heart grow fonder....

mami.. we not joined at the hip come now.. i do lots of things by myself or w/ my kids and so does he..

my ex husband worked at night and i also did for a lil while when he worked in days.. so i know how it go and we dealt w/ it cuz we didn't have a choice.. but i didn't like it at all..the few hrs between him going to work and me coming from work wasn't my idea of good quality time and i would PREFER to sleep w/ my SO at night .. why is that so crazy

but i do understand and appreciate what ya'll say that we gotta do what we gotta do until we don't have to no more... ya'll give some good benefits...thats WAY down the line anyway.. i was just chatting..

[Ellsinlove 2]

its sewn in heffa!! lol.. u cornrow ur own hair and the tracks are sewn into the holes of the braids.. altho at my local beauty supply, they do have a new clip on weave.. the video showed the hair being clipped on in seconds and she moved it arond to show how natural and stable it looked.. thats my kinda weave!!!

Oh lawd, now you got Quana on the offense with the heffa business. Look out now!

Irie - those pics were not at my heaviest - those were on the way up there, lol -

I did a bunch of stuff - Weight watchers, slimfast, fad diets, etc.... - honestly, what worked the most was cutting back on sweets / portion control / healthier eating and adding exercise -

i will girl.. today is the weekday game.. remember they were told to get off the field last week. mi nuh knoa wha dem a do tidey probably go back to the field.. these group of guys nuh easy at all.. there women was right along w/ them calling out the other team in patois.. mek di ooman guh play wid oomen!!! im glad roger stay neutral.. he is just tooo easy.. even when the guys stawt fight, he just sit there.. i say, ya'll need to go get the guys thats fightin and pull them away, .. he was like

I don't blame him for being neutral he don't need no drama at all! You know how it goes one small thing can escalate into something major! You don't want anything to jeopardize his status, that is always in the back of mind now.

i know right, thats why i haven't gotten one yet.. i wish ur were closer.. finesse a sewn can last a couple of mnths, good thing is u can reuse the hair if u want

so u will flat iron a bigger portion or ur hair now?? girl do ur ting..

ow it stay on? velcro?

Thought u hung with black people??

u tink mi really tink it stay on by velcro?? even white girls wear weave dummy...

my girl i am a 18/20 now

and my clothes have started getting tight

and because i REFUSE to buy a size bigger i'm walk around in the same old clothes and i need new work clothes but i REFUSE to buy a larger size

i just refuse to accept that i am going to have to buy bigger clothes, eff dat

only problem is even though i don't want to go a size up, i can't seem to get everything right so i can lose this $hit but yunno but i'm working on it

i don't watch numbers on the scale anymore

as long as i can fit into a 14/16 (ideally 14) i'll be good

i'm very tall and i have a large frame so there will never be a skinny gyal here

I have the same situation with the clothing & I too REFUSE to buy anything bigger. I'll wear rags before I have to spend any more money on more frumpy clothes!

Well, I guess none of you will come over to my house for dinner anytime soon then. I just bought Mastering the Art of French Cooking and I'm on a mission to cook with my new pots and pans.

I will! Mi still love fi nyam!

[finesse 3]

I was thinking that too JG like damn do they want to be joined at the hip?? Quana its nice now you two are in honeymoon mood but damn after a while you will want a little space. Memba some space makes the heart grow fonder....

mami.. we not joined at the hip come now.. i do lots of things by myself or w/ my kids and so does he..

my ex husband worked at night and i also did for a lil while when he worked in days.. so i know how it go and we dealt w/ it cuz we didn't have a choice.. but i didn't like it at all..the few hrs between him going to work and me coming from work wasn't my idea of good quality time and i would PREFER to sleep w/ my SO at night .. why is that so crazy

but i do understand and appreciate what ya'll say that we gotta do what we gotta do until we don't have to no more... ya'll give some good benefits...thats WAY down the line anyway.. i was just chatting..

mi husband neva let mi outta im sight.....or dis wha mi get

[dancehallquana 5]

and ur right dada.. absence does make the heart grow fonder..it makes a healthy relationship to be apart "every once and a while"

smaddi find me a smiley attached at the hip.. mi tink mi need ie!!!

[dancehallquana 5]

LOL at ells.. i didn't mean anything by heffa.. its a "bad" habit i have.. my aces i call heffa sometimes.. its really jus as bad as women calling each other the "B" word which I HATE!! i really should stop..

but its a term of endearment, only for those i am REAL cool with..cuz anybody else would cuss my rass out.. LMAO

I was thinking that too JG like damn do they want to be joined at the hip?? Quana its nice now you two are in honeymoon mood but damn after a while you will want a little space. Memba some space makes the heart grow fonder....

mami.. we not joined at the hip come now.. i do lots of things by myself or w/ my kids and so does he..

my ex husband worked at night and i also did for a lil while when he worked in days.. so i know how it go and we dealt w/ it cuz we didn't have a choice.. but i didn't like it at all..the few hrs between him going to work and me coming from work wasn't my idea of good quality time and i would PREFER to sleep w/ my SO at night .. why is that so crazy

but i do understand and appreciate what ya'll say that we gotta do what we gotta do until we don't have to no more... ya'll give some good benefits...thats WAY down the line anyway.. i was just chatting..

mi husband neva let mi outta im sight.....or dis wha mi get

dat stick should not be coming out of his hand!!