Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[*JG* 2]

if ur spouse is job hunting would u accept the FIRST job offer if it was a night job??

roger and i have agreed that we dont' want to be apart odd hours like that..but we would try and be flexible given the outlook on employment right now..

would u keep looking and hope to find something else or snatch it up??

I would take it. And, look for something better during the day till you found the right fit. Honestly, by the time they get to where they can look for a job, they are bored sitting at home and you are ready for them to bring in some $$$$.

[phillyfashionista 8]

yuh see it!!!! i guess i should go w/ the mind frame that this won't be forever.. but i couldn't fathom not seeing my hubby but when both of us are heading out the door.. but like shemmy said, its workable.. money can heal all wounds LOL.. we would CERTAINLY keep looking for a better schedule tho..

I know that is right $$$$ Talks haaaa

[Shemmy 4]

I like reading you say..mi husband

i like saying it!!!

what do ur child/children call ur SO, what will his kids call u??

we talked about this when we first got serious and we both agreed we didn't want anything too formal so we agreed the first name would be fine.. the judge that officiated our ceremony talked w/ us at length b4 marrying us and that was one of the topics.. he said that the children if they are not callling him daddy YET (he insisted they would eventually, which ive seen kids do, but i don't think mine will)

then they should call him mr roger or mr g.. he says it is respectful and i woudn't want mykids to call me myfirst name.. HECK NO!!!

i enjoyed the judge's talk, but we still have them call him roger, i could be mama quana? but that still sound silly.. we just like the informal way. i think he get respect from his actions not his name ???

My daughter calls hubby Damien.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

my condolences HeavenSent

at least you were able to meet her before she went on

[*JG* 2]

bunz~ copy and paste, why ya ask? b/c they responded with:

"... in order for them to do they processing"

jg~ i wish i could pop over for some dinna. i hope someday we still can meet up, i feel like you're a big part of our whole visa journey. hell, you knew D before i even met him! weird huh?

You are not that far away from me. I'll bring some leftovers on a plane sometime, if nothing else. But, yeah, we are going to meet up and visit regularly.

It is wierd. I've known him something like 6 years now. LOVE him and you know it. I miss his chattering sometimes. Richard without Andre and D is going to be soooooooo lost.

[IrieCat 2]

if ur spouse is job hunting would u accept the FIRST job offer if it was a night job??

roger and i have agreed that we dont' want to be apart odd hours like that..but we would try and be flexible given the outlook on employment right now..

would u keep looking and hope to find something else or snatch it up??

Actually Louis is hoping to get a night job. My mom always had one growing up and she loved it. He would be able sleep during the day while I work and we could spend the evenings together. We would still have 2 nights a week for us.

He could hang with Tierra when she gets home from school and make the night shift differential!

[RegAl 0]

It's okay, Finesse. I'm not bitter. Lessons learned. I don't regret the whole of it, just some of the parts. I wish him the very best life has to offer him.

what finesse REALLY wanted to ask was

is she black or white?

is she Jamaican or American?

is she fat or skinny?

is she cute or ugly?

what does she look like is Finessese for the above

Ha ha.....she can ask.

She is black.

I don't know.

She is skinny except for her big pregnant belly

I saw a picture of her; but don't remember thinking anything at all about her. Monday, all I saw was the the little kid near my car really so I can't say again.

JG,

I'm sooo sorry. I didn't realize I'd been gone so long to have missed this. I think you guys were together for some time, but I'm glad you've healed. I'm sure I wouldn't be just yet

[*JG* 2]

bunz~ copy and paste, why ya ask? b/c they responded with:

"... in order for them to do they processing"

jg~ i wish i could pop over for some dinna. i hope someday we still can meet up, i feel like you're a big part of our whole visa journey. hell, you knew D before i even met him! weird huh?

oooh, ow dat one go?

Ha ha.....Finesse, you are so bad. Not like you think. Andre was best friends with Richard and Justecia's D and they worked together, same shifts. I saw and talked to them all the time. We all had some really good times in JA. I miss Richard and D a lot. 2 of the nicest guys you will ever meet. Also, 2 of the most TALKATIVE chatterboxes you will definately ever ever ever meet.

[dillon 6]

Well, I guess none of you will come over to my house for dinner anytime soon then. I just bought Mastering the Art of French Cooking and I'm on a mission to cook with my new pots and pans.

Were you inspired by "Julie & Julia"?

Yes. From the book. I want to make Beef Bourguignon like you wouldn't believe. And for some reason, calf liver.

Don't invite me that night.

[1luv 1]

I like reading you say..mi husband

i like saying it!!!

what do ur child/children call ur SO, what will his kids call u??

we talked about this when we first got serious and we both agreed we didn't want anything too formal so we agreed the first name would be fine.. the judge that officiated our ceremony talked w/ us at length b4 marrying us and that was one of the topics.. he said that the children if they are not callling him daddy YET (he insisted they would eventually, which ive seen kids do, but i don't think mine will)

then they should call him mr roger or mr g.. he says it is respectful and i woudn't want mykids to call me myfirst name.. HECK NO!!!

i enjoyed the judge's talk, but we still have them call him roger, i could be mama quana? but that still sound silly.. we just like the informal way. i think he get respect from his actions not his name ???

my daughter calls him by his first name. and my SD calls me mommy. Her mother was NOT in her life so I am mom to her.

[*JG* 2]

yuh see it!!!! i guess i should go w/ the mind frame that this won't be forever.. but i couldn't fathom not seeing my hubby but when both of us are heading out the door.. but like shemmy said, its workable.. money can heal all wounds LOL.. we would CERTAINLY keep looking for a better schedule tho..

yuh see it!!!! i guess i should go w/ the mind frame that this won't be forever.. but i couldn't fathom not seeing my hubby but when both of us are heading out the door.. but like shemmy said, its workable.. money can heal all wounds LOL.. we would CERTAINLY keep looking for a better schedule tho..

Quana, it's quality of time, not quantity. You are going from alone to having him there 24/7. A little space is always a good thing.

One car or two? If one car, it works out well.

Also, there are things that can only be done during the day cause of their office hours. He can do some of that for you. And, you can cover when he is working.

5 day work weeks mean you should always have at least 2 nights off together.

Look at the positives of ALL situations instead of freaking out about the negatives. It will be fine, girlie.

[IrieCat 2]

I like reading you say..mi husband

i like saying it!!!

what do ur child/children call ur SO, what will his kids call u??

we talked about this when we first got serious and we both agreed we didn't want anything too formal so we agreed the first name would be fine.. the judge that officiated our ceremony talked w/ us at length b4 marrying us and that was one of the topics.. he said that the children if they are not callling him daddy YET (he insisted they would eventually, which ive seen kids do, but i don't think mine will)

then they should call him mr roger or mr g.. he says it is respectful and i woudn't want mykids to call me myfirst name.. HECK NO!!!

i enjoyed the judge's talk, but we still have them call him roger, i could be mama quana? but that still sound silly.. we just like the informal way. i think he get respect from his actions not his name ???

Tierra just calls Louis... Louis. MR. Louis would make me laugh! I know its respectful, but I must say it isnt much of a Yankee thing. It sounds too formal and Tierra and Louis are family!! I think eventually she MAY call him Dad, but she is so in love with her own daddy right now it isnt going to happen right away. Maybe when she is older and realizes he is an A$$!!!! LOL

[JAPrincess 27]

Afternoon Yardies !!

I'm a bit sad today...my fiance's grandmother just died a little while ago..they took her to the hosipital this morning becuz she hasnt been eating and has been unresponsive to everything..they thought she had a stroke but the Dr. said she didn...they left the hospital went home and just a short time ago they got the news that she passed...so their on their way back to the hospital now..its a bit upsetting for me becuz i actually got a chance to meet her when i was there last month...he introduced me to her as " His wife" and she smiled and said "she"s beautiful"...i feel like i was just talking with her yesterday..but i know she's in a better place now ..

Oh Heaven

[*JG* 2]

I like reading you say..mi husband

i like saying it!!!

what do ur child/children call ur SO, what will his kids call u??

we talked about this when we first got serious and we both agreed we didn't want anything too formal so we agreed the first name would be fine.. the judge that officiated our ceremony talked w/ us at length b4 marrying us and that was one of the topics.. he said that the children if they are not callling him daddy YET (he insisted they would eventually, which ive seen kids do, but i don't think mine will)

then they should call him mr roger or mr g.. he says it is respectful and i woudn't want mykids to call me myfirst name.. HECK NO!!!

i enjoyed the judge's talk, but we still have them call him roger, i could be mama quana? but that still sound silly.. we just like the informal way. i think he get respect from his actions not his name ???

My kids call him Andre.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

my daughter calls him by his first name. and my SD calls me mommy. Her mother was NOT in her life so I am mom to her.

awwww

that is so sweet