Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[dancehallquana 5]

speaking of jamaicans.. let me tell u the latest on the futbol phockery LOL

okay the futbol team that plays, have asked roger to play in their league that started last week.. so we go to the game on sunday just to watch, cuz we are CLUELESS to any details.. i don't get that.. he called and nobody tell him nothing nor do he ask.. whatever

so the game is getting kind of ruff. 2 times a yardman got pushed down and no call was made, but when the other team got pushed they got free kick (one the yardman pushed hard as hell on purpose revenge ) so im cringing in my seat cuz this not looking good.

the best player on the team is a girl and she getting all kinds of calls, even when she barely getting touched and im being honest.. so the yardman chat bout "she don't need to be in the game.. if she wanna play wid men.. play her like a man" she is the best and they have to defend against her.. so i kind of understood, esp when she was getting all these bs calls..

but then they started making comments.. bout her body and such.. i don't roger that wasn't right, she could hear and her team as well.. they were laughing and then one had the nerve to touch har.. she felt it was all in fun and she touched him back..

well of course the guys on her team didn't like that.. they charge afta di one who touch, chat bout rape and the yardmen take up for him.. and one big fight a stawt.. yardmen were up but the game stopped, i don't know if it was counted as a win or DQ or what..

bwoy, these guys are gonna keep me entertained..

[phillyfashionista 8]

Philly - don't stress out...you know your boss will have enough projects to accomplish that goal of stressing you out.

I understand everyone is different. I'm only speaking my opinion and from my experiences. It's just my opinion and not facts. I don't intend to offend anyone..but I felt like I could not fake this out. I have my own weight issues and I found that when I was like oh..I like myself and this and that...it usually was me trying to cover up that I failed on reaching my weight goal. I'm taking a better approach. I'm not losing weight because others want me but because I know I need to. I was shocked when the doctor classifed me as overweight. I fought it..like who are they talking to...umm..hmm I'm sexy so forget them. I'm from the South and everyone is my size 12/14. And you got picked on for being skinny. My skinny friends want to gain weight.

What's interesting is how the Plus Size women after they lose weight go on and on how miserable they were being heavy. But you would've never knew..cause they were Big and Beautiful.

That's my 2 cents.

KK according to the BMI index everyone is overweight no matter what you look like these days. I understand that is your opinion I just don't appreciate the generalization regarding this issue because everyone is different. We all personally recognize what we need to do to be happy with ourselves and I am keeping it real on this subject. Like Quanna says its about proportion as well, if I didn't have the CocaCola Bokkle shape like I do I would be one of those miserable Big and Beautiful folks you chat bout, but dats nuh mi! No matter what talking about doesn't change anything only taking action and that is what I do so more power to me the thick Diva!

[DaDa 1]

I'm sorry but I really think that statement of I love being Big and beautiful is BS. Go ahead..cuss me out. But it's pure BS. Everyone is beautiful..big small, thin. Being BIG doesn't equal being Ugly? No thin or "normal" size women have to go around saying I'm thin and beautiful. I'm just beautful. Okay maybe they do say I'm "thick"...lol. I think it's a confidence builder to say..hey I'm big and beautiful and I love it. Even Monique was cussing the skinny itches out and look she was working on losing weight herself. I'm not evening looking at it from a how you look stand point. I'm looking at it from a feeling miserable stand point. I know when I gained weight I was miserable..it was hard to walk up stairs and I didn't have a lot of energy.

i have to agree with KK

some women do feel beautiful and love themselves

but i beleive most live in denial

You know weight issues are a touchy subject for most people especially when you have been dealing with it for years. I don't usually talk about it I internalize it and work on it on my own, with that said it takes a lot for me to speak openly about it and you people are stressing me out! Everyone has their opinion, we all have said its not easy but for people who don't have weight issues always trying to tell others how THEY feel about themselves is BS. I for one am thick in the waist and cute in the face, no let me get it right I am beautiful plain and simple and I am happiest when I am a size 18 yeah I said it and that is plus size! I have a thick frame I have a big batty and big breast that's just how God Made me curvalicious and , no matter how much weight I lose they aren't going anywhere! Now if I go over over a 18-20 yes I am miserable but its still plus size. Everyone is different and you really can't generalize.

Look at Queen Latifah she is on the campaign one size healthy which is the great way to start the journey and I applaud her for that!

What if everyone was Plus size and the skinny folks were outcasts then what?

Thanks Philly couldn’t have said it better myself. If get so tired of thinner people telling me how I feel. O.k. YOU didn’t like being big and that is o.k. I don’t knock you for losing the weight I actually applaud you because you had the courage, energy, and drive to do it where as I do not. But just because you chose to lose it and I didn’t doesn’t mean I feel any less about myself. Maybe your self esteem couldn’t handle you being big because that is not what you wanted to be. U didn’t want to be big. I’m not saying I don’t want to be skinny well yeah I am bcuz I don’t but just because I don’t want the same appearance for myself as u doesn’t mean I have low self esteem. Why cant u accept the facet that I am fine with who I am. My brother is PAID he is willing to buy my a gym membership my doc is willing to fib to get me to get me surgery and I know how to exercise and eat better but I don’t why u ask bcuz I’m FINE with me. Woman come in all shapers and sizes and I’m fine with the size I am. Maybe you don’t like it just like some men don’t like it but there are plenty of men and woman who do. So just because your not o.k. with being big don’t try and push your likes and dislikes on me or tell me I’m fake or lying. I am just telling you I’m o.k. with being me.

[dancehallquana 5]

we have jamaican flag on the house...

but hubby wouldn't wear a jamaica shirt or shoes....

hmmmmmmmmmmmm, maybe that's why we have so many neighbors come ova..........

You need to take down that flag and get one of these:

these bag a eediats doan knoa wha di flag mean anyway....people dem always aks wha kinda flag it is..

see wha mi a seh!

[dancehallquana 5]

coca cola bottle shape..

[DaDa 1]

yeah thats the one difference in us my sista.. i am so not bougeois.. i don't think i take it TOO far to where i am ghetto.. but i do get a lil hood rich sometimes LOL

i was just seeing what he would say.. i wouldlove to put a flag up in my car, hopefully we'll go get one, its a small stick up one for the window.. i just think ppl would think i was trying to be a jafakan

i overheard some jamericans talking about that in the airport once

one of them was saying how proud he was to be jamaican and he wanted to get a jamaican flag plate for his car

and another stopped him in his tracks and said that would be begging police to stop him

I must admit when was in Dallas I seen a Jamaican flag plate in the window and if that store was open I was buying it. I thought it would have looked so good on my black car. I'm still guilty if I get my hands on that plate I'm still buying it so call me a Jafaken now.

well here, most likely the police seh.. what country dat flag come from on that car that black man driving??? LOL.. very small community of jamaicans, but i wouldn't care anyway, mek dem come, "how can i help u offica? "

LOL Quanna I heard that, I don't care about that either dem cyaa tell what I am anyway everyone always speaks espanol to me they think I'm Latina!

LOL U do look Latina Philly.....

[finesse 3]

I'm sorry but I really think that statement of I love being Big and beautiful is BS. Go ahead..cuss me out. But it's pure BS. Everyone is beautiful..big small, thin. Being BIG doesn't equal being Ugly? No thin or "normal" size women have to go around saying I'm thin and beautiful. I'm just beautful. Okay maybe they do say I'm "thick"...lol. I think it's a confidence builder to say..hey I'm big and beautiful and I love it. Even Monique was cussing the skinny itches out and look she was working on losing weight herself. I'm not evening looking at it from a how you look stand point. I'm looking at it from a feeling miserable stand point. I know when I gained weight I was miserable..it was hard to walk up stairs and I didn't have a lot of energy.

i have to agree with KK

some women do feel beautiful and love themselves

but i beleive most live in denial

You know weight issues are a touchy subject for most people especially when you have been dealing with it for years. I don't usually talk about it I internalize it and work on it on my own, with that said it takes a lot for me to speak openly about it and you people are stressing me out! Everyone has their opinion, we all have said its not easy but for people who don't have weight issues always trying to tell others how THEY feel about themselves is BS. I for one am thick in the waist and cute in the face, no let me get it right I am beautiful plain and simple and I am happiest when I am a size 18 yeah I said it and that is plus size! I have a thick frame I have a big batty and big breast that's just how God Made me curvalicious and , no matter how much weight I lose they aren't going anywhere! Now if I go over over a 18-20 yes I am miserable but its still plus size. Everyone is different and you really can't generalize.

Look at Queen Latifah she is on the campaign one size healthy which is the great way to start the journey and I applaud her for that!

What if everyone was Plus size and the skinny folks were outcasts then what?

Thanks Philly couldn’t have said it better myself. If get so tired of thinner people telling me how I feel. O.k. YOU didn’t like being big and that is o.k. I don’t knock you for losing the weight I actually applaud you because you had the courage, energy, and drive to do it where as I do not. But just because you chose to lose it and I didn’t doesn’t mean I feel any less about myself. Maybe your self esteem couldn’t handle you being big because that is not what you wanted to be. U didn’t want to be big. I’m not saying I don’t want to be skinny well yeah I am bcuz I don’t but just because I don’t want the same appearance for myself as u doesn’t mean I have low self esteem. Why cant u accept the facet that I am fine with who I am. My brother is PAID he is willing to buy my a gym membership my doc is willing to fib to get me to get me surgery and I know how to exercise and eat better but I don’t why u ask bcuz I’m FINE with me. Woman come in all shapers and sizes and I’m fine with the size I am. Maybe you don’t like it just like some men don’t like it but there are plenty of men and woman who do. So just because your not o.k. with being big don’t try and push your likes and dislikes on me or tell me I’m fake or lying. I am just telling you I’m o.k. with being me.

wha size ur breasts dem?

[phillyfashionista 8]

Philly - You got me thinking I should visit a doctor now. Does you insurance cover it..shoot?

Yup it sure does its just a specialist depending on your coverage you may need a referall

I'm just not a fussy person when it come to some stuff. Like I think it is so ugly to put Rims on a BMW or Benz. They already come with factory rims...other rims just take away from the classiness{sp} of the car.

it's the accountant in you KK lol

I guess.

Sometimes you get the wrong attention with certain things.

I know I have a problem when I had even the thought to pay $500 for a weave. (hair and put in). And my co-worker who pays that much..but makes double my salary (she's a director) was trying to persuade me yesterday. It's look good. But damn...$500. That's a lot of money.

500$ yuh need fi come see mi I'll hook u up right quick! I'll give you the Yardie discount

[finesse 3]

Philly - don't stress out...you know your boss will have enough projects to accomplish that goal of stressing you out.

I understand everyone is different. I'm only speaking my opinion and from my experiences. It's just my opinion and not facts. I don't intend to offend anyone..but I felt like I could not fake this out. I have my own weight issues and I found that when I was like oh..I like myself and this and that...it usually was me trying to cover up that I failed on reaching my weight goal. I'm taking a better approach. I'm not losing weight because others want me but because I know I need to. I was shocked when the doctor classifed me as overweight. I fought it..like who are they talking to...umm..hmm I'm sexy so forget them. I'm from the South and everyone is my size 12/14. And you got picked on for being skinny. My skinny friends want to gain weight.

What's interesting is how the Plus Size women after they lose weight go on and on how miserable they were being heavy. But you would've never knew..cause they were Big and Beautiful.

That's my 2 cents.

KK according to the BMI index everyone is overweight no matter what you look like these days. I understand that is your opinion I just don't appreciate the generalization regarding this issue because everyone is different. We all personally recognize what we need to do to be happy with ourselves and I am keeping it real on this subject. Like Quanna says its about proportion as well, if I didn't have the CocaCola Bokkle shape like I do I would be one of those miserable Big and Beautiful folks you chat bout, but dats nuh mi! No matter what talking about doesn't change anything only taking action and that is what I do so more power to me the thick Diva!

wha dis?

[dancehallquana 5]

well its w/ the hair??? so i don't know.. if its some good hair it might have cost like $50 a bag.. i think 350 or a weave and hair would be my limit..

[phillyfashionista 8]

speaking of jamaicans.. let me tell u the latest on the futbol phockery LOL

okay the futbol team that plays, have asked roger to play in their league that started last week.. so we go to the game on sunday just to watch, cuz we are CLUELESS to any details.. i don't get that.. he called and nobody tell him nothing nor do he ask.. whatever

so the game is getting kind of ruff. 2 times a yardman got pushed down and no call was made, but when the other team got pushed they got free kick (one the yardman pushed hard as hell on purpose revenge ) so im cringing in my seat cuz this not looking good.

the best player on the team is a girl and she getting all kinds of calls, even when she barely getting touched and im being honest.. so the yardman chat bout "she don't need to be in the game.. if she wanna play wid men.. play her like a man" she is the best and they have to defend against her.. so i kind of understood, esp when she was getting all these bs calls..

but then they started making comments.. bout her body and such.. i don't roger that wasn't right, she could hear and her team as well.. they were laughing and then one had the nerve to touch har.. she felt it was all in fun and she touched him back..

well of course the guys on her team didn't like that.. they charge afta di one who touch, chat bout rape and the yardmen take up for him.. and one big fight a stawt.. yardmen were up but the game stopped, i don't know if it was counted as a win or DQ or what..

bwoy, these guys are gonna keep me entertained..

that is too much drama we need a weekly play by play!

[finesse 3]

speaking of jamaicans.. let me tell u the latest on the futbol phockery LOL

okay the futbol team that plays, have asked roger to play in their league that started last week.. so we go to the game on sunday just to watch, cuz we are CLUELESS to any details.. i don't get that.. he called and nobody tell him nothing nor do he ask.. whatever

so the game is getting kind of ruff. 2 times a yardman got pushed down and no call was made, but when the other team got pushed they got free kick (one the yardman pushed hard as hell on purpose revenge ) so im cringing in my seat cuz this not looking good.

the best player on the team is a girl and she getting all kinds of calls, even when she barely getting touched and im being honest.. so the yardman chat bout "she don't need to be in the game.. if she wanna play wid men.. play her like a man" she is the best and they have to defend against her.. so i kind of understood, esp when she was getting all these bs calls..

but then they started making comments.. bout her body and such.. i don't roger that wasn't right, she could hear and her team as well.. they were laughing and then one had the nerve to touch har.. she felt it was all in fun and she touched him back..

well of course the guys on her team didn't like that.. they charge afta di one who touch, chat bout rape and the yardmen take up for him.. and one big fight a stawt.. yardmen were up but the game stopped, i don't know if it was counted as a win or DQ or what..

bwoy, these guys are gonna keep me entertained..

sounds like fun

ding ding ding

[DaDa 1]

[quote name='DaDa' post='3253428' date='Aug

wha size ur breasts dem?

Mi nuh ave big boobs mi ave big rass. Mi wish mi could cut some rass off and place it up der. I'm only a D cup.

Edited August 26, 2009 by DaDa

[finesse 3]

well its w/ the hair??? so i don't know.. if its some good hair it might have cost like $50 a bag.. i think 350 or a weave and hair would be my limit..

and ow long dis last fa?

[phillyfashionista 8]

Thanks Philly couldn’t have said it better myself. If get so tired of thinner people telling me how I feel. O.k. YOU didn’t like being big and that is o.k. I don’t knock you for losing the weight I actually applaud you because you had the courage, energy, and drive to do it where as I do not. But just because you chose to lose it and I didn’t doesn’t mean I feel any less about myself. Maybe your self esteem couldn’t handle you being big because that is not what you wanted to be. U didn’t want to be big. I’m not saying I don’t want to be skinny well yeah I am bcuz I don’t but just because I don’t want the same appearance for myself as u doesn’t mean I have low self esteem. Why cant u accept the facet that I am fine with who I am. My brother is PAID he is willing to buy my a gym membership my doc is willing to fib to get me to get me surgery and I know how to exercise and eat better but I don’t why u ask bcuz I’m FINE with me. Woman come in all shapers and sizes and I’m fine with the size I am. Maybe you don’t like it just like some men don’t like it but there are plenty of men and woman who do. So just because your not o.k. with being big don’t try and push your likes and dislikes on me or tell me I’m fake or lying. I am just telling you I’m o.k. with being me.

My sister in the struggle!