Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[^KK^ 3]

I'm just not a fussy person when it come to some stuff. Like I think it is so ugly to put Rims on a BMW or Benz. They already come with factory rims...other rims just take away from the classiness{sp} of the car.

it's the accountant in you KK lol

I guess.

Sometimes you get the wrong attention with certain things.

I know I have a problem when I had even the thought to pay $500 for a weave. (hair and put in). And my co-worker who pays that much..but makes double my salary (she's a director) was trying to persuade me yesterday. It's look good. But damn...$500. That's a lot of money.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

yeah thats the one difference in us my sista.. i am so not bougeois.. i don't think i take it TOO far to where i am ghetto.. but i do get a lil hood rich sometimes LOL

i was just seeing what he would say.. i wouldlove to put a flag up in my car, hopefully we'll go get one, its a small stick up one for the window.. i just think ppl would think i was trying to be a jafakan

i overheard some jamericans talking about that in the airport once

one of them was saying how proud he was to be jamaican and he wanted to get a jamaican flag plate for his car

and another stopped him in his tracks and said that would be begging police to stop him

[finesse 3]

KK vs DaDa

ding ding ding

u wanna box today ehhhhnnnn?

Maybe I'll get my 5th heart!! kikikikikiki

[dancehallquana 5]

i can HONESTLY say..if i was this same plus size, but better proportioned.. i would be HAPPY..

[phillyfashionista 8]

roger would agree w/ u philly, he is very proud of ja.. he wanted to put a flag in my car... i told him what if i didn't want to, im not jamaican.. he said.. u HAVE to rep ja now baby.. u married to a yardman, ya know knoa?????

LOL Quanna

I have JA plate on my truck and the Haiti Flag on my mirror I rep all day

[DaDa 1]

Yeah but at the end of the day KK u cant save the world. U have to remember we’re all different and where as others don’t like the extra weight some of us do. For instance me (knocking on wood) as I say this I am healthy as a horse I shock my doc every time cuz by looking at my medical records there is nothing wrong with me. I have no signs of diabetes, no high blood pressure my cholesterol is fantastic. That is why she can’t recommend me for surgery she said you have to have some medical problems and I have none. Now is she worried some will occur down the line as I get older YES so she is really encouraging me to lose the weight so later in life all these things I just told you I don’t have I might end up having. But I also know people who were heavy and no health problems and then they lost the weight through surgery or what ever and now she is a mess. Also diabetes doesn’t only strike those obese its strikes you if your thin too it’s all in your eating habit s. It’s like different strokes for different folks so if you know someone such as myself who is satisfied leave me alone with all your health talks and such. It’s has to be my decision to lose the weight it has to be me who has had enough but just because you don’t like the way I look doesn’t mean I need to change a thing so if I like being BIG and beautiful just like some of you like being thin cool.

I'm sorry but I really think that statement of I love being Big and beautiful is BS. Go ahead..cuss me out. But it's pure BS. Everyone is beautiful..big small, thin. Being BIG doesn't equal being Ugly? No thin or "normal" size women have to go around saying I'm thin and beautiful. I'm just beautful. Okay maybe they do say I'm "thick"...lol. I think it's a confidence builder to say..hey I'm big and beautiful and I love it. Even Monique was cussing the skinny itches out and look she was working on losing weight herself. I'm not evening looking at it from a how you look stand point. I'm looking at it from a feeling miserable stand point. I know when I gained weight I was miserable..it was hard to walk up stairs and I didn't have a lot of energy.

But see KK that is you!!! U don’t like being big and a WHOLE bunch of woman don’t like being big. Its true but you know what besides health issues a lot of woman don’t like being big because of society. Society says its not cool to be big so you go with it. I’m not going to sit on here and debate how I feel about myself cuz I don’t have to I don’t have to prove anything to any one but there is not a thing wrong with me I’m an healthy BEAUTIFUL black woman and I’m cool with myself. I came out my moms pums big I have never been what society would call thin in my whole entire life. Big is all I know and I’m cool. Maybe it’s because I can dress my azz off or the facet at that I have never an I mean ever went anywhere and not had a g y try to hit on me. Now granted the men I have chose to hit on back haven’t been the best choices but still I as Philly would say is FABLOUS. Now don’t get me wrong there are times when I see an outfit and I say man I wish I was smaller so I can wear that or if I do buy something and it doesn’t look right yes I will say man I need to lose a few pounds to make this look better but I go right back to putting on something that does look nice on me and out the door I go.

I guess I have just accepted that I am big and that is all too it and I really am comfortable. Now I must admit I am worried about having health issues in the future where part of me is like ok Dada maybe it is time to work on your weight so you can live to see your grandkids but it would a health choice not for appearance. Sorry u tink mi chat phockery weh mi say mi criss wid who I am but just like the rest of society der u go thinking your way is the correct way. Such is life u have ur opinion and I have mine.

Oh and by the way if you get winded taking the steps next time use the elevator.

[finesse 3]

I'm just not a fussy person when it come to some stuff. Like I think it is so ugly to put Rims on a BMW or Benz. They already come with factory rims...other rims just take away from the classiness{sp} of the car.

it's the accountant in you KK lol

I guess.

Sometimes you get the wrong attention with certain things.

I know I have a problem when I had even the thought to pay $500 for a weave. (hair and put in). And my co-worker who pays that much..but makes double my salary (she's a director) was trying to persuade me yesterday. It's look good. But damn...$500. That's a lot of money.

a problem with what exactly?

[dancehallquana 5]

yeah thats the one difference in us my sista.. i am so not bougeois.. i don't think i take it TOO far to where i am ghetto.. but i do get a lil hood rich sometimes LOL

i was just seeing what he would say.. i wouldlove to put a flag up in my car, hopefully we'll go get one, its a small stick up one for the window.. i just think ppl would think i was trying to be a jafakan

i overheard some jamericans talking about that in the airport once

one of them was saying how proud he was to be jamaican and he wanted to get a jamaican flag plate for his car

and another stopped him in his tracks and said that would be begging police to stop him

well here, most likely the police seh.. what country dat flag come from on that car that black man driving??? LOL.. very small community of jamaicans, but i wouldn't care anyway, mek dem come, "how can i help u offica? "

[phillyfashionista 8]

well here, most likely the police seh.. what country dat flag come from on that car that black man driving??? LOL.. very small community of jamaicans, but i wouldn't care anyway, mek dem come, "how can i help u offica? "

LOL Quanna I heard that, I don't care about that either dem cyaa tell what I am anyway everyone always speaks espanol to me they think I'm Latina!

[finesse 3]

I'm sorry but I really think that statement of I love being Big and beautiful is BS. Go ahead..cuss me out. But it's pure BS. Everyone is beautiful..big small, thin. Being BIG doesn't equal being Ugly? No thin or "normal" size women have to go around saying I'm thin and beautiful. I'm just beautful. Okay maybe they do say I'm "thick"...lol. I think it's a confidence builder to say..hey I'm big and beautiful and I love it. Even Monique was cussing the skinny itches out and look she was working on losing weight herself. I'm not evening looking at it from a how you look stand point. I'm looking at it from a feeling miserable stand point. I know when I gained weight I was miserable..it was hard to walk up stairs and I didn't have a lot of energy.

i have to agree with KK

some women do feel beautiful and love themselves

but i beleive most live in denial

You know weight issues are a touchy subject for most people especially when you have been dealing with it for years. I don't usually talk about it I internalize it and work on it on my own, with that said it takes a lot for me to speak openly about it and you people are stressing me out! Everyone has their opinion, we all have said its not easy but for people who don't have weight issues always trying to tell others how THEY feel about themselves is BS. I for one am thick in the waist and cute in the face, no let me get it right I am beautiful plain and simple and I am happiest when I am a size 18 yeah I said it and that is plus size! I have a thick frame I have a big batty and big breast that's just how God Made me curvalicious and , no matter how much weight I lose they aren't going anywhere! Now if I go over over a 18-20 yes I am miserable but its still plus size. Everyone is different and you really can't generalize.

Look at Queen Latifah she is on the campaign one size healthy which is the great way to start the journey and I applaud her for that!

What if everyone was Plus size and the skinny folks were outcasts then what?

[^KK^ 3]

I'm sorry but I really think that statement of I love being Big and beautiful is BS. Go ahead..cuss me out. But it's pure BS. Everyone is beautiful..big small, thin. Being BIG doesn't equal being Ugly? No thin or "normal" size women have to go around saying I'm thin and beautiful. I'm just beautful. Okay maybe they do say I'm "thick"...lol. I think it's a confidence builder to say..hey I'm big and beautiful and I love it. Even Monique was cussing the skinny itches out and look she was working on losing weight herself. I'm not evening looking at it from a how you look stand point. I'm looking at it from a feeling miserable stand point. I know when I gained weight I was miserable..it was hard to walk up stairs and I didn't have a lot of energy.

i have to agree with KK

some women do feel beautiful and love themselves

but i beleive most live in denial

You know weight issues are a touchy subject for most people especially when you have been dealing with it for years. I don't usually talk about it I internalize it and work on it on my own, with that said it takes a lot for me to speak openly about it and you people are stressing me out! Everyone has their opinion, we all have said its not easy but for people who don't have weight issues always trying to tell others how THEY feel about themselves is BS. I for one am thick in the waist and cute in the face, no let me get it right I am beautiful plain and simple and I am happiest when I am a size 18 yeah I said it and that is plus size! I have a thick frame I have a big batty and big breast that's just how God Made me curvalicious and , no matter how much weight I lose they aren't going anywhere! Now if I go over over a 18-20 yes I am miserable but its still plus size. Everyone is different and you really can't generalize.

Look at Queen Latifah she is on the campaign one size healthy which is the great way to start the journey and I applaud her for that!

What if everyone was Plus size and the skinny folks were outcasts then what?

Philly - don't stress out...you know your boss will have enough projects to accomplish that goal of stressing you out.

I understand everyone is different. I'm only speaking my opinion and from my experiences. It's just my opinion and not facts. I don't intend to offend anyone..but I felt like I could not fake this out. I have my own weight issues and I found that when I was like oh..I like myself and this and that...it usually was me trying to cover up that I failed on reaching my weight goal. I'm taking a better approach. I'm not losing weight because others want me but because I know I need to. I was shocked when the doctor classifed me as overweight. I fought it..like who are they talking to...umm..hmm I'm sexy so forget them. I'm from the South and everyone is my size 12/14. And you got picked on for being skinny. My skinny friends want to gain weight.

What's interesting is how the Plus Size women after they lose weight go on and on how miserable they were being heavy. But you would've never knew..cause they were Big and Beautiful.

That's my 2 cents.

[phillyfashionista 8]

Finesse you and that smiley are killing me softly I swear

[finesse 3]

well here, most likely the police seh.. what country dat flag come from on that car that black man driving??? LOL.. very small community of jamaicans, but i wouldn't care anyway, mek dem come, "how can i help u offica? "

LOL Quanna I heard that, I don't care about that either dem cyaa tell what I am anyway everyone always speaks espanol to me they think I'm Latina!

we have jamaican flag on the house...

but hubby wouldn't wear a jamaica shirt or shoes....

hmmmmmmmmmmmm, maybe that's why we have so many neighbors come ova..........

[sus 70]

we have jamaican flag on the house...

but hubby wouldn't wear a jamaica shirt or shoes....

hmmmmmmmmmmmm, maybe that's why we have so many neighbors come ova..........

You need to take down that flag and get one of these:

[finesse 3]

we have jamaican flag on the house...

but hubby wouldn't wear a jamaica shirt or shoes....

hmmmmmmmmmmmm, maybe that's why we have so many neighbors come ova..........

You need to take down that flag and get one of these:

these bag a eediats doan knoa wha di flag mean anyway....people dem always aks wha kinda flag it is..