Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[finesse 3]

any of ur kids make fun of ur hubby's accent?

i am trying to call my hubby and my son is answering his phone and saying...."yeah mon wha gwaan"....pretending like he has a deep voice...

[DaDa 1]

morning yardies..

dillon..i am having a turkey sandwich also made specially by my hubby.. LOL

we didn't have any leftover brownstew porkchop so sandwich it is..

this was first day of skool for my oldest.. she is being bussed to skool for the first time ever and I am soooooo excited.. she is going to my old skool but that was YEARS ago, i am sooo eager to hear how the day went.. she had all of her assignments that were due this week completed and ready to turn in.. looked like a diva should and was scared and excited all at the same time..

she has NO idea what her electives are, the school chose them beforehand but she will get to change if she doesn't like it..

you know i never thought that my family would be one of those where the step dad was more involved than the real dad.. the ex always did pretty good in that area.. however things seem to be sadly different now.. all the drama he put me thru.. i smiled knowing him and the kids were good, crazy i know.. but now they haven't seen him or talked to him but once in the last 2 mnths..You wold think i would be to know he is out of sight and out of mind, i thought i would too, but i don't..

okay.. im hungry and gonna eat my sandwich now, 1 hr bf lunch LOL but what am i gonna do when i am hungry in another 3 hrs

okay..

U know what Q at first you are happy because by him not calling that means less stress on you but then y our heart aches for your kids. U know that is there dad and you hate to see them being ignored. Totally normal to felt the way you are feeling. Do you think he knows your married yet?

Its amazing how these dads and some mothers can just ignore there kidz. How can you miss out on them growing up? I went to the kids little league football games this weekend and yes my soon to be one ex was there to see his kids but there were so many absent fathers. Mainly all moms. I watched my five year old out on the field with his helmet weighing more than his body looking like a bobble head and I just thought how can parents miss these moments? The ones that count. It’s so so sad.

Maybe you should send him an e-mail telling him how nice your daughter looked for her first day of school.

[PortlandAngel 0]

My family should not be clueless they are all immigrant so they know about the immigration process. In fact one of my cousin met this Girl in JA last year and they got married last month my family was out there for my grandmothers memorial service all went to the wedding and none of them had anything nice to say about the girl, I wont say too much don't know if she found VJ yet but they are all questioning her intention and my cousin is too stupid to see...

[*HeavenSent* 0]

good afternoon heaven..

Hey Quana !! ( Waving)

[dancehallquana 5]

hey portland.. i know that most of ur family is waiting on the BIG wedding in JA.. do they ever question why he is able to stay here in the States so long?? or are most clueless when it comes to details about immigraton?

Well, when we went to Philly in July one of my cousin told me he heard from his mother who is my aunt that we got married and we are going to do something in JA.. So I guest they know atleast my family cause I told two of my cousin and I guest they told their mom and you know how news spread!!!

So how is married live treating you???

oh by the way when we call up the civil surgeons one thought A need a complete medical they told us to bring $385 cash or CC, so you get get the list from USCIS and start inquiring to see how much..

GIRL!!! u should have told NO ONE lol.. u know how families are.. dang so nobody didn't bumrush u when they found out the news.. girl it would have been CHAOS over the phone lines in my family.. altho my mom SEEMS to still be in the dark about my sister who married her husband last nov.. the wedding is this coming november..

i printed out the list, but was hesitant to ask prices.. i thought they would have to see us first.. but i am reading that its normal and suggested to shop..the prices vary per CS.. $385 WOW.. i was estimating $200 or more but not that much more!!

married life is WONDERFUL.. roger is a good husband and im honored that at 31 he made me his first and HOPEFULLY only LOL.. we are so considerate to each other.. i know my absent mindedness gets on his nerves, and his last minuteness gets on mine, but we laugh about it cuz we adore each other more than we frustrate each other.. i guess its still the honeymoon LOL

[My4rmylife 0]

its possible..

my hair is not really coarse, sort of the middle.. but if i dread it it can look a knappy mess like Whoopi's LMAO..

that was my understanding of types from fotki, but it was just reading ppls comments, not from research.. let me know what u find out..

girl all this hair talk makes me think of my daughters i keep trying everything to make it more manageable and her dad peoples say relax it ... i dont want to do that

don't relax it!!! im sure her hair is not that bad.. my youngest hair is still natural and i DREAD combing her hair.. her dad's ppl used to talk about me having it in a ponytail all the time until one of them combed it.. took every bit of an hour!!!

i tried a texturizer kit for kids w/ natural hair.. it is a chemical, BUT it did not straighten her hair.. i only used it once.. cuz her hair can be tamed w/ a lil olive oil or some kind of detanlger/moisterizer..

i think that texturizer was by soft and beautiful, it has some lil girls on the box..

i actually picked that up and put it back lol .. and with flat iron it seems to not straighten very well . when she was young ponytails all over were easy now she wants to wear it out ... but it ussually wends up in one big ponytail.

my oldest however is relaxed.. i don't have the patience, she is 12 and i can't deal w/ her whining about going back natural.. plus she won't keep it detangled like she needs so perm it is..

[dancehallquana 5]

My family should not be clueless they are all immigrant so they know about the immigration process. In fact one of my cousin met this Girl in JA last year and they got married last month my family was out there for my grandmothers memorial service all went to the wedding and none of them had anything nice to say about the girl, I wont say too much don't know if she found VJ yet but they are all questioning her intention and my cousin is too stupid to see...

thats what i thought since ur family is jamaican, so when u said that u were gonna hide the marriage till the ja wedding.. i was like " how are they gonna think he got here and not able to work (work visa) and not married in 90 days (fiance visa) and not gone in 6 mnths (visitor visa) ???

how is the babygirl.. i bet he's missing her to pieces.. will the wedding be the first ja trip?? are ya'll gonna stay a while for a lil time w/ the baby? rogers daughter is starting to walk.. he misses her so..

[My4rmylife 0]

its possible..

my hair is not really coarse, sort of the middle.. but if i dread it it can look a knappy mess like Whoopi's LMAO..

that was my understanding of types from fotki, but it was just reading ppls comments, not from research.. let me know what u find out..

girl all this hair talk makes me think of my daughters i keep trying everything to make it more manageable and her dad peoples say relax it ... i dont want to do that

Your daughter doesn't need a relax..period. You can just get it braided into cute styles..or try getting it straighten. I didn't get a perm until I was in high school and I started with a kiddie perm.

thanks i agree also the problem i have found is someone who braid well and doesnt charge a arm and a leg...lol .. im learning to braid but it isnt good enough yet ..

[dancehallquana 5]

any of ur kids make fun of ur hubby's accent?

i am trying to call my hubby and my son is answering his phone and saying...."yeah mon wha gwaan"....pretending like he has a deep voice...

lol.. no not yet finesse.. my lil one is facety like ur son, so she might soon LOL.. right now she has him wrapped around her finger w/ the tears everytime she don't get her way w/ me.. he whispers, don't make her do that or why u do that?? .. i told him PUHLEASE don't let her run game on u like that..

they don't really talk to him much yet unless prompted by me..

[dancehallquana 5]

really my 2??? i can't braid a lick.. my daugh goes to a natural shop that charge $40.. but she is such a drama queen and tenderheaded.. i can't bear to embarrass myself so she is there only every couple of mnths.. lol

[finesse 3]

hey portland.. i know that most of ur family is waiting on the BIG wedding in JA.. do they ever question why he is able to stay here in the States so long?? or are most clueless when it comes to details about immigraton?

Well, when we went to Philly in July one of my cousin told me he heard from his mother who is my aunt that we got married and we are going to do something in JA.. So I guest they know atleast my family cause I told two of my cousin and I guest they told their mom and you know how news spread!!!

So how is married live treating you???

oh by the way when we call up the civil surgeons one thought A need a complete medical they told us to bring $385 cash or CC, so you get get the list from USCIS and start inquiring to see how much..

GIRL!!! u should have told NO ONE lol.. u know how families are.. dang so nobody didn't bumrush u when they found out the news.. girl it would have been CHAOS over the phone lines in my family.. altho my mom SEEMS to still be in the dark about my sister who married her husband last nov.. the wedding is this coming november..

i printed out the list, but was hesitant to ask prices.. i thought they would have to see us first.. but i am reading that its normal and suggested to shop..the prices vary per CS.. $385 WOW.. i was estimating $200 or more but not that much more!!

married life is WONDERFUL.. roger is a good husband and im honored that at 31 he made me his first and HOPEFULLY only LOL.. we are so considerate to each other.. i know my absent mindedness gets on his nerves, and his last minuteness gets on mine, but we laugh about it cuz we adore each other more than we frustrate each other.. i guess its still the honeymoon LOL

how sweet

[MRStee 19]

I wanted to ask the married folks a question...

For those who used Wedding Officiants, do you know what the average cost for one should be?

Ours was $125 & I found prices ranging from $75 to $150 for simple officiating services.

Thank you because I looked on one website so far and they want 425.00 and Im like nah it has to be a cheaper way lol

[MRStee 19]

I wanted to ask the married folks a question...

For those who used Wedding Officiants, do you know what the average cost for one should be?

When i was looking it was 100 to 150. We ended up having a family friend who is a paster marry us though she did it free of charge. Ask around mstee!

I just thought of something maybe the wedding officiant at the wedding chapel Im using will come out and do it when we renew our vows next year. Thats when I will need one...

Thanks!

[dancehallquana 5]

I wanted to ask the married folks a question...

For those who used Wedding Officiants, do you know what the average cost for one should be?

Ours was $125 & I found prices ranging from $75 to $150 for simple officiating services.

Thank you because I looked on one website so far and they want 425.00 and Im like nah it has to be a cheaper way lol

WHAT THE HECK.. girl they must provide some other service w/ it.. i can't believe that could stay in business charging that????????

[My4rmylife 0]

really my 2??? i can't braid a lick.. my daugh goes to a natural shop that charge $40.. but she is such a drama queen and tenderheaded.. i can't bear to embarrass myself so she is there only every couple of mnths.. lol

went to a shop they want to charge 65 dollar to braid her hair i will just wait till my fiance get here he can braid lol...I FLAT IRON HER HAIR BUT IT DONT LAST