Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

I can't wait til I'm able to do that...although even our quickies have me too worn out to do anything for the next couple of hours, so I don't know if I would be heading back to work...

quickie?? wha dis..yardman do dem tings??? i told ya'll phone sex wasn't even short!

good plan nat!!! "later" is not NO..

Quana...when mi wan quickie mi haffi give im a specific amount of time (i.e. 15 min, 20 min, 30 min) or else him nah knoa wha mi mean han mi back be bruk and body swole from all di love mi man wan share wid me

You know the hubby and I had this "problem" on my last trip. I didn't feel like giving up the goods one night, and of course since he didn't get it that night, he tried the next am. This may be TMI but I don't like having sex before I pee in the am because it hurts, so I told him no again. Well, he was all salty and his face was long most of the day. When we talked later he was very angry at the fact that I was telling him no. And it wasn't so much my saying no--he felt it as a rejection of his wanting to connect with me on another level. All I'm thinking is that I don't want to have sex before I pee, and for him it was the refusal of a much deeper connection between us. Well after he explained all that, he got some right then...and again...and again... I think for alot of men, being connected sexually is more than just physical to them, especially if they put alot of time and effort into it. And that's what it was for him. He just wanted to feel closer to his wife (and get "the best he's ever had" ) Seriously though, I think its important for us to remember as wives to be in tune and considerate of their feelings as well.

There is a whole chapter in the "Intimate Issues: 21 Questions Christian Women Ask About Sex" dedicated to the topic we've been discussing yesterday & today. The chapter/question is about when he wants to do it but the woman doesn't. They make that very point, Mrs P, on how it means A LOT to the husband & his connection to wife & how saying no is such a harsh blow. They even give you 3 ways to say later/no that won't hurt him.

The book also talks about how women want it more or less depending on where in their cycle they are. The suggestion was that whenever you're at the point in your cycle where you feel ready, to go all out.

I blow that whole theory out of the water.....I have NO cycle!

So wha u sey JG--yuh wan fi do it ALL DI TIME!

[MRStee 19]

thats why we've lost some users.. either ya'll are offending ppl or they are taking early lunches LOL

You know Quana lol

[*JG* 2]

I can't wait til I'm able to do that...although even our quickies have me too worn out to do anything for the next couple of hours, so I don't know if I would be heading back to work...

quickie?? wha dis..yardman do dem tings??? i told ya'll phone sex wasn't even short!

good plan nat!!! "later" is not NO..

Quana...when mi wan quickie mi haffi give im a specific amount of time (i.e. 15 min, 20 min, 30 min) or else him nah knoa wha mi mean han mi back be bruk and body swole from all di love mi man wan share wid me

You know the hubby and I had this "problem" on my last trip. I didn't feel like giving up the goods one night, and of course since he didn't get it that night, he tried the next am. This may be TMI but I don't like having sex before I pee in the am because it hurts, so I told him no again. Well, he was all salty and his face was long most of the day. When we talked later he was very angry at the fact that I was telling him no. And it wasn't so much my saying no--he felt it as a rejection of his wanting to connect with me on another level. All I'm thinking is that I don't want to have sex before I pee, and for him it was the refusal of a much deeper connection between us. Well after he explained all that, he got some right then...and again...and again... I think for alot of men, being connected sexually is more than just physical to them, especially if they put alot of time and effort into it. And that's what it was for him. He just wanted to feel closer to his wife (and get "the best he's ever had" ) Seriously though, I think its important for us to remember as wives to be in tune and considerate of their feelings as well.

There is a whole chapter in the "Intimate Issues: 21 Questions Christian Women Ask About Sex" dedicated to the topic we've been discussing yesterday & today. The chapter/question is about when he wants to do it but the woman doesn't. They make that very point, Mrs P, on how it means A LOT to the husband & his connection to wife & how saying no is such a harsh blow. They even give you 3 ways to say later/no that won't hurt him.

The book also talks about how women want it more or less depending on where in their cycle they are. The suggestion was that whenever you're at the point in your cycle where you feel ready, to go all out.

I blow that whole theory out of the water.....I have NO cycle!

So wha u sey JG--yuh wan fi do it ALL DI TIME!

You obviously did not read yesterday's posts or you would know the answer to this questions.

[dillon 6]

Dang with all this sex talk you all are going to make me want to go home at lunch time!!!!

Go girl just go home and jump on his rass!!! Don't even call him and tell em yuh coming just walk through the door and start taking off your clothes.

Then when you come back to work and your hair is all messed up. Be like "Whew it sure is windy out there!!!" LOL

Hahah I crack myself up!

But Dillion yuh know I'm serious right??

Dillon if you did that and even thought about coming back to work on this BEAUTIFUL perfect day, I would kick your butt. If I left now, I would not come back to work for any reason.

I'm not going anywhere I am locked in this prison!

[*JG* 2]

Maybe I will get TMI here; but............MRS. P...........that time you said no. Did you give it up every other night there? I am going somewhere with this. Really, not just nosy.

[dancehallquana 5]

You know the hubby and I had this "problem" on my last trip. I didn't feel like giving up the goods one night, and of course since he didn't get it that night, he tried the next am. This may be TMI but I don't like having sex before I pee in the am because it hurts, so I told him no again. Well, he was all salty and his face was long most of the day. When we talked later he was very angry at the fact that I was telling him no. And it wasn't so much my saying no--he felt it as a rejection of his wanting to connect with me on another level. All I'm thinking is that I don't want to have sex before I pee, and for him it was the refusal of a much deeper connection between us. Well after he explained all that, he got some right then...and again...and again... I think for alot of men, being connected sexually is more than just physical to them, especially if they put alot of time and effort into it. And that's what it was for him. He just wanted to feel closer to his wife (and get "the best he's ever had" ) Seriously though, I think its important for us to remember as wives to be in tune and considerate of their feelings as well.

Dat's right Mrs. palmer Lock em down Clank Clank!!!

That was nice that he told you how he honestly felt. See communication is key. Something so small as that was resolved by talking about it instead if ignoring the problem and letting it fester..But I'm with you I do need to go before we "go.."

sooooo right..

[*JG* 2]

Dang with all this sex talk you all are going to make me want to go home at lunch time!!!!

Go girl just go home and jump on his rass!!! Don't even call him and tell em yuh coming just walk through the door and start taking off your clothes.

Then when you come back to work and your hair is all messed up. Be like "Whew it sure is windy out there!!!" LOL

Hahah I crack myself up!

But Dillion yuh know I'm serious right??

Dillon if you did that and even thought about coming back to work on this BEAUTIFUL perfect day, I would kick your butt. If I left now, I would not come back to work for any reason.

I'm not going anywhere I am locked in this prison!

This will probably go down as the most perfect day of the year.....I do not want to be here today!!!

[dancehallquana 5]

mrs p.. u made me laugh OUT LOUD wid ur hubby and him quickie LOL.. what are u doing today.. i never get to see ya sweet face in di daytime!!

[dancehallquana 5]

So, update on the wedding saga - She came back a day early from her honeymoon - He refused to leave the room, do anything with her, unless it involved gambling and spending more of her money - Not only did he cash the checks, he opened credit cards in her grandma's name, and cleaned out the woman's bank account -

She's filing for divorce -

oh my! thats so sad.. can u imagine this roller coaster of emotions she must be on.. i feel so sorry for her..

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Maybe I will get TMI here; but............MRS. P...........that time you said no. Did you give it up every other night there? I am going somewhere with this. Really, not just nosy.

Nope...without being too graphic, there has to be a period of rest in between our sessions. Sometimes that's only a few hours, sometimes it has to be a day. But he has NEVER expected to get it everyday of a visit, given our experience with that the first time we made our relationship physical. Let's just say rags, tons of ice, soaking in warm water, and whatever other remedy we could come up with was needed in order to get through our trip!

[dancehallquana 5]

MrsP - I am gonna stay on her, and hope I can convince her to follow through -

Irie, this is the friend whose wedding I went to last weekend - the night before, she found out he had stolen $$ from her grandma's account -

oh heck.. i missed the part that she had found out BEFORE the wedding.. what in the WORLD would make u continue to marry this man???

Dang with all this sex talk you all are going to make me want to go home at lunch time!!!!

Go girl just go home and jump on his rass!!! Don't even call him and tell em yuh coming just walk through the door and start taking off your clothes.

Then when you come back to work and your hair is all messed up. Be like "Whew it sure is windy out there!!!" LOL

Hahah I crack myself up!

But Dillion yuh know I'm serious right??

I can't wait til I'm able to do that...although even our quickies have me too worn out to do anything for the next couple of hours, so I don't know if I would be heading back to work...

I tried it once or maybe twice and I loved it. When I went back to work I felt so naughty. Fools were like hey how was lunch? Good was all I replied with my devilish grin.

WHA..u skettle u...

[finesse 3]

going home for lunch...

see you all monday...

[DaDa 1]

Dang with all this sex talk you all are going to make me want to go home at lunch time!!!!

Go girl just go home and jump on his rass!!! Don't even call him and tell em yuh coming just walk through the door and start taking off your clothes.

Then when you come back to work and your hair is all messed up. Be like "Whew it sure is windy out there!!!" LOL

Hahah I crack myself up!

But Dillion yuh know I'm serious right??

Dillon if you did that and even thought about coming back to work on this BEAUTIFUL perfect day, I would kick your butt. If I left now, I would not come back to work for any reason.

Well then yeah don't do it today. The whole part of it being fun is dropping in and dropping out. Not staying. U got to show him you can multi task....lol

Oh yeah you said he's not home anyway.

[dancehallquana 5]

Maybe I will get TMI here; but............MRS. P...........that time you said no. Did you give it up every other night there? I am going somewhere with this. Really, not just nosy.

Nope...without being too graphic, there has to be a period of rest in between our sessions. Sometimes that's only a few hours, sometimes it has to be a day. But he has NEVER expected to get it everyday of a visit, given our experience with that the first time we made our relationship physical. Let's just say rags, tons of ice, soaking in warm water, and whatever other remedy we could come up with was needed in order to get through our trip!

lol.. i miss u soo mrs p!!!!!!!!!

easy Belly my yout!!!!

HA..

[dillon 6]

Dang with all this sex talk you all are going to make me want to go home at lunch time!!!!

Go girl just go home and jump on his rass!!! Don't even call him and tell em yuh coming just walk through the door and start taking off your clothes.

Then when you come back to work and your hair is all messed up. Be like "Whew it sure is windy out there!!!" LOL

Hahah I crack myself up!

But Dillion yuh know I'm serious right??

Dillon if you did that and even thought about coming back to work on this BEAUTIFUL perfect day, I would kick your butt. If I left now, I would not come back to work for any reason.

Well then yeah don't do it today. The whole part of it being fun is dropping in and dropping out. Not staying. U got to show him you can multi task....lol

Oh yeah you said he's not home anyway.

I wish he was! I am going to do it next week...I will keep you all posted.