Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[*JG* 2]

I agree with you all here...don't deny the Mister ELLS!!!!! You can sleep when you are dead!

I said I'll sleep when I'm dead just the other day. Quoted Wade from "Roadhouse."

[dancehallquana 5]

dyam philly.. ya dash him way ca di tongue pierceing LOL.. i dunno what i would have thought heehee.. maybe him METRO SEXUAL..

Ooh I loved that scene too. The one when they were in the appliance store after getting soaked in the rain or when they did it by the water?? Dang Philly yuh got me ready to rent it again on my Netflix..LOL

Damn Philly u couldn’t let him nyam de pums first b4 sending em away? That might have been the best send off ever!!!

Ladies why was I watching Daddy’s Girls last night and the seen where she goes on the blind date with the rapper Had ME ROLLLLING!!! I was laughing so hard my kids had to come and check on me. I forgot how funny that scene is.

Yeah Dada the appliance store then the outta door by the lake scene LUVS IT!!!

Quanna & Dada he did try and all that twirling and mess what not hot!!!! The use of the instrument wasn't pleasuring me because all I could think of was how can I go out with this man and he is twirling this thing around in his mouth looking like one Batty fish! He even started acting different, like he was enjoying flicking it around I just kept giving him the side eye and was very blunt you have to roll that is too much tang fi mi!

I have to see this episode, I haven't been watching it this season it kind of fell off for me but now you have me intrigued again

oohhh the lake.. wasn't he washing her feet or her hair something.. WHEW.. i have always loved allen payne..

philly u a straight fool chat bout ya man and his piercing.. he thought he was being sexy LOL NOT!!!

[dillon 6]

Dang with all this sex talk you all are going to make me want to go home at lunch time!!!!

[dancehallquana 5]

episode of what philly .. i missed this

[*JG* 2]

What's going on this weekend, ladies?

I'm going to a "How to Date Holy" panel discussion at church tonight. This is part 2. I wasn't at part 1, but heard it was VERY interesting, so I'm going to be nosy.

Tomorrow is a focus on my car: oil change, state inspection, car wash & vacuum

(Did y'all notice me changing the subject so Ells doesn't feel ganged up on?)

Well, personally, I think it depends on what is going on in life, Ells. If you are sitting around and he's sleeping or watching TV or something and then decides he wants it at like 1 a.m. and you are getting up early......Well, all kinds of other scenarios. If the timing is off, it's off. You have to find a way for the timing to be fairly compatible. I don't agree with the give it up whenever he asks theory. It's a joint effort and the time has to be right for both. It takes some time to work that out at first in the adjustment process. You'll figure it out. Just hang in there.

As far as planning and him not wanting to........Plan something and just dont' tell him. Spring it on him like it was the last minute. You see where I am going with that?

Nat: Tonight from 6-7 I am supposed to be learning country line dancing. Tomorrow, I am hopefully having a tattoo, um, changed, and taking the daughter shopping for some intimate appareal. That should be a real joy....eye rolling all day I am sure. Sunday is softball and I think I am getting a new screen door installed.

[dancehallquana 5]

thats why we've lost some users.. either ya'll are offending ppl or they are taking early lunches LOL

[phillyfashionista 8]

hmmm best love scene.. i dunno which i would pick.. i like in jason's lyric when they went on the first date to the museum.. that was just beautiful.. i like the love and basketball scene, even tho they didn't do much.. maxwell singing while they were kissing for the first time was perfect..

YESSSS now I have to whip the movie out this weekend, or better yet tonight!

[*JG* 2]

dyam philly.. ya dash him way ca di tongue pierceing LOL.. i dunno what i would have thought heehee.. maybe him METRO SEXUAL..

Ooh I loved that scene too. The one when they were in the appliance store after getting soaked in the rain or when they did it by the water?? Dang Philly yuh got me ready to rent it again on my Netflix..LOL

Damn Philly u couldn't let him nyam de pums first b4 sending em away? That might have been the best send off ever!!!

Ladies why was I watching Daddy's Girls last night and the seen where she goes on the blind date with the rapper Had ME ROLLLLING!!! I was laughing so hard my kids had to come and check on me. I forgot how funny that scene is.

Yeah Dada the appliance store then the outta door by the lake scene LUVS IT!!!

Quanna & Dada he did try and all that twirling and mess what not hot!!!! The use of the instrument wasn't pleasuring me because all I could think of was how can I go out with this man and he is twirling this thing around in his mouth looking like one Batty fish! He even started acting different, like he was enjoying flicking it around I just kept giving him the side eye and was very blunt you have to roll that is too much tang fi mi!

I have to see this episode, I haven't been watching it this season it kind of fell off for me but now you have me intrigued again

oohhh the lake.. wasn't he washing her feet or her hair something.. WHEW.. i have always loved allen payne..

philly u a straight fool chat bout ya man and his piercing.. he thought he was being sexy LOL NOT!!!

I don't watch.....but I have to ask.....was it her feet? or her hair? How could you mix them up???????

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

While we're on the topic of sex, something just came to mind that hubby & I were discussing last night after I got home from school. He was feeling frisky & all I wanted to do was brush my teeth, start reading my book for class that we have to have 3 chapters read by next week & then go to bed. He asked when was the last time so I thought about it & said that it had been one week to the day exactly. (We had a busy weekend & too tired when we got home from everything.) He kept trying to work his charms until I finally said 'lef me!'. He asked what about tomorrow night & I said probably not because class goes even later & I'll be home even later & tired when I get home. So I said, "let's make a date for Friday night" & he tells me "no" & that it should just happen instead of us planning it. I told him that MANY people have to plan it due to busy schedules. So, how many of you have had to plan rendezvous??

Ells...having been married and divorced...my suggestion is to ALWAYS make time for it, even if it's just a quickie. Your relationship (especially now because it's new) needs it to stay strong...no matter how tired you are.

i was just gonna say that too island, but thought it would be seen as too much.. I AGREE.. a marriage depends on it..

its physical, but also mental.. im telling u.. if i was denied too much it would start to mess w/ my confidence, my connection w/ my spouse would be affected.. and other women are hitting on him.. u said some of ur friends.. alot times men stray not only for physical, but for a confidence boost.. its worth it to try every other day maybe honey..

MY TWO CENTS.. NO FACT!!!!!!!

You know the hubby and I had this "problem" on my last trip. I didn't feel like giving up the goods one night, and of course since he didn't get it that night, he tried the next am. This may be TMI but I don't like having sex before I pee in the am because it hurts, so I told him no again. Well, he was all salty and his face was long most of the day. When we talked later he was very angry at the fact that I was telling him no. And it wasn't so much my saying no--he felt it as a rejection of his wanting to connect with me on another level. All I'm thinking is that I don't want to have sex before I pee, and for him it was the refusal of a much deeper connection between us. Well after he explained all that, he got some right then...and again...and again... I think for alot of men, being connected sexually is more than just physical to them, especially if they put alot of time and effort into it. And that's what it was for him. He just wanted to feel closer to his wife (and get "the best he's ever had" ) Seriously though, I think its important for us to remember as wives to be in tune and considerate of their feelings as well.

[NatPatBen 3]

As far as planning and him not wanting to........Plan something and just dont' tell him. Spring it on him like it was the last minute. You see where I am going with that?

Nat: Tonight from 6-7 I am supposed to be learning country line dancing. Tomorrow, I am hopefully having a tattoo, um, changed, and taking the daughter shopping for some intimate appareal. That should be a real joy....eye rolling all day I am sure. Sunday is softball and I think I am getting a new screen door installed.

I think that a "secret" plan is a win-win. Spontaneous for him, Planned for her.

Learning country line dancing sounds fun.

[phillyfashionista 8]

Dang with all this sex talk you all are going to make me want to go home at lunch time!!!!

LOL Dillon that's what I am taking about I wish I could do that too but I work across state lines

episode of what philly .. i missed this

Oh sorry, Dada was talking about Daddy's little girls the Rev Run spinoff show.

What are yall gonna do about playing football, are there any public parks or fields they can go and play or its all done by permits and reservations?

[dancehallquana 5]

oohhh the lake.. wasn't he washing her feet or her hair something.. WHEW.. i have always loved allen payne..

I don't watch.....but I have to ask.....was it her feet? or her hair? How could you mix them up???????

girl..i haven't seen that movie in YEARS.. i just remember he was doing someting very intimate w/ one end of her body while they were on the boat.. LOL. .sombody tell me so i dont look like a nut LOL

[DaDa 1]

What's going on this weekend, ladies?

I'm going to a "How to Date Holy" panel discussion at church tonight. This is part 2. I wasn't at part 1, but heard it was VERY interesting, so I'm going to be nosy.

Tomorrow is a focus on my car: oil change, state inspection, car wash & vacuum

(Did y'all notice me changing the subject so Ells doesn't feel ganged up on?)

Yes we all noticed your BORING post about your car.lol

We're not ganging up on Ells we are just stating our opinions which by the way you haven’t gave urs Ms Nat. We all have different opinions some ladies agreed and some didn't no biggie....

[My4rmylife 0]

well ladies chat later i have to go to work ...12 to 9 is the worst but i gotta do what i gotta do . hope everyone has a great day

oohhh the lake.. wasn't he washing her feet or her hair something.. WHEW.. i have always loved allen payne..

I don't watch.....but I have to ask.....was it her feet? or her hair? How could you mix them up???????

girl..i haven't seen that movie in YEARS.. i just remember he was doing someting very intimate w/ one end of her body while they were on the boat.. LOL. .sombody tell me so i dont look like a nut LOL

he washed her feet at the bayou

[NatPatBen 3]

You know the hubby and I had this "problem" on my last trip. I didn't feel like giving up the goods one night, and of course since he didn't get it that night, he tried the next am. This may be TMI but I don't like having sex before I pee in the am because it hurts, so I told him no again. Well, he was all salty and his face was long most of the day. When we talked later he was very angry at the fact that I was telling him no. And it wasn't so much my saying no--he felt it as a rejection of his wanting to connect with me on another level. All I'm thinking is that I don't want to have sex before I pee, and for him it was the refusal of a much deeper connection between us. Well after he explained all that, he got some right then...and again...and again... I think for alot of men, being connected sexually is more than just physical to them, especially if they put alot of time and effort into it. And that's what it was for him. He just wanted to feel closer to his wife (and get "the best he's ever had" ) Seriously though, I think its important for us to remember as wives to be in tune and considerate of their feelings as well.

There is a whole chapter in the "Intimate Issues: 21 Questions Christian Women Ask About Sex" dedicated to the topic we've been discussing yesterday & today. The chapter/question is about when he wants to do it but the woman doesn't. They make that very point, Mrs P, on how it means A LOT to the husband & his connection to wife & how saying no is such a harsh blow. They even give you 3 ways to say later/no that won't hurt him.

The book also talks about how women want it more or less depending on where in their cycle they are. The suggestion was that whenever you're at the point in your cycle where you feel ready, to go all out.