Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[sus 70]

That's what I wanted to ask ya'll.

Have you ever ordered any used-like new...cds from amazon.com? MOre like software...

I have ordered used CD's, books, and DVDs from them. Never had an issue. I do read the reviews on the sellers and have sometimes gone for the 2nd cheapest, etc., cause of them.

Sus - so if it a new seller I should probably pass..huh....it's 64 dollars used...200.00 new.

LOL, didn't answer your first question, that was JG - But, I am the same as her - I usually try to find a seller with good reviews - a new one is always taking a risk - You have to decide if you can gamble the $64 - Also read Amazon's policies on returns / disputes - Paypal has a pretty good dispute policy, can you pay through them?

[dancehallquana 5]

wha oonu fi do?? tink bout ya answa??? or mi question nuh juicy nuff?? ie nuh guh stawt nice war??

alright den.. who recycles?????

BOAL!!!

I tried to answer 2 times Quana but each time I change my mind

In my mind one minute I was sleeping in separate rooms till the green card came, the next minute I was buying him a ticket back to JA

I think it really depends on the relationship and the extent of the fighting.

I would not stay in a bad environment just for his green card.

I would also hope that I would be understanding enough to think of my husbands future too.

Again it really depends on the situation... I hope to never be in!

[finesse 3]

On my first marriage I did the CR-1 and I waited to divorce until after we filed for the LOC. The rest is up to him now when it expires.

thats why i asked.. i mean on the k1 the first 90 days, its given that this MAY or MAY NOT work out and he/she COULD go back.. but after u've married OR if u do CR1.. should u feel obligated??

for me i guess it would depend on how big a jerk he was LOL

i wouldn't feel obligated...

you take a chance either way...same holds true if you marry someone who lives down the street from you...

[^KK^ 3]

Quana - you question is almost impossible to answer without being in that situation. If a person decides to stay married until LOC..it's probably an agreement betweent two of them. On one hand, it's like the USC could use the LOC as a pawn for revenge or control.

Or really want to do be official done with their spouse.

[finesse 3]

wha oonu fi do?? tink bout ya answa??? or mi question nuh juicy nuff?? ie nuh guh stawt nice war??

alright den.. who recycles?????

I've dated a couple of guys on more then one time period, does that count?

where's the fighting smiley?

[jawi876 2]

Too lazy to go back and quote other stuff, lol -

Jawi, you do more cleaning when you are in pain than I do when I am well, lol - Just don't push yourself too much, make sure you rest for A on Thurs!

Just, I hope you got the passport sorted - how frustrating!

Justie is having a problem with the passport...I missed this. He is supposed to be here in two days! EEK! I hope it's already straightened out.

I'm taking mini breaks...I took a vacation day because there is no way I could work for 6 hours and come home to do this stuff. My sis helped a lot...but there is still more I want done. I'm just so particular about my cleaning that it borders on OCD I think. Then, I get overwhelmed and say FORGET IT ALL. But, I am trying to watch what I do so I don't overdo it and end up in even worse pain. I'm hurting right now...so I clean a little then lay down. I'm waiting on my pills to kick in so I can tackle the larger projects like putting up laundry and dusting. I just finished dusting the ceiling fan the top of my mirror, the dresser, and the wood and metal canopy on my bed.

me three

i feel sleepy and disoriented

Very sleepy and disoriented - I HATE oversleeping, it just totally discombobulates my whole day!

I took my oldest nephew to Six Flags New England yesterday - we had a blast - got there right as the park opened, went on rides for a while, then around 3 headed to the waterpark - We played there until around 6 or so, then back to the rides until the park closed. I am exhausted from that and walking around - But I also woke up this am with a HUGE bruise on my shoulder, a sore back, and think I broke two toes on one of the waterslides, lol - I don't remember these rides and things HURTING me when I was young!

Still have to post about the wedding on Sat - OMG!

Oh no...how did you manage to get banged up like that? I guess I will never get to enjoy those things again. I love amusement parks...love love love them.

While waiting for your fiances/husbands to arrive, did anyone else start IMAGINING him here?

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Yesterday at church, I glanced at the empty seat on my right and thought "In one month, Steven will be in that seat." Last night at this poetry event that happens every 3rd Sunday, I was at a table with four friends. There were three empty seats at our table. I imagined that at next month's poetry event, Steven would be at the table with me. Also yesterday, one of my friends went to Marshall's with me to help pick out a dress shirt & tie for Steven. We were arguing over size. I wanted to get a small (but didn't find ANY men's smalls). She said that even if a man fits a small, he should get a medium. I was like, I don't think you know his size; a medium will be WAY too big. She suggested that I should wait until he gets here & can try it on. I thought, next time I come to this store, he will be with me.

So then I get home from everything & Steven called & mentioned that he hoped I would've called him at some point throughout the day. I was like, Even if I don't call you, please know that you've been on my mind ALL DAY.

This is so sweet. I imagine A being here too. Then, I wonder if I will get over being a loner for the most part. I like my own private time and it used to hurt the guys I was dating. I want him here...but sometimes I want to suggest he train for his CDL so he can drive his tractor out of town a little. Crazy huh...maybe it's nerves. I have bubble guts when I think about going to the airport on Thursday.

who has excitement?

kk- what's good with ya?

jawi - where are you? you are not really gonna leave us, are you?

jaP - hi miss preggo! you not still mad at me, are you?

Hey Finesse...yeah I'm pretty sure I'm done once A gets here. I'm going to focus on writing my books and trying to get them published so I can stop working.

[MrsBuggy 0]

Ok.. i'm back from lunch and all I wanna do is SLEEP! I got the -itis

wha oonu fi do?? tink bout ya answa??? or mi question nuh juicy nuff?? ie nuh guh stawt nice war??

alright den.. who recycles?????

LOL Girl hush!! That was toooo funny!!

Anyway, as for your question... Well, if my marriage should not work out w/ Derron, I think that I would go through the motions for him to stay here. Now, we wouldn't be living together and we'd be free to do as we please, but honestly, I don't think he'd want to. I believe that he would go back home, at least that's what he says. Who knows... and I pray it never gets to that point.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY

SHELLY-ANN FRASER WON!!!!!!

KERRON CAME SECOND!!!!!

u chat bout di track and field??? man did ya'll see usain yesterday... wid him brite self.. im sorry.. mi tink him brite, but hey when u got world records.. i guess u can have CONFIDENCE..

oh ya'll probably talked about that this weekend and i never got caught up LOL

yea he borders on being too cocky but him a gwaan good man

esp when him packing like dis:

[finesse 3]

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY

SHELLY-ANN FRASER WON!!!!!!

KERRON CAME SECOND!!!!!

u chat bout di track and field??? man did ya'll see usain yesterday... wid him brite self.. im sorry.. mi tink him brite, but hey when u got world records.. i guess u can have CONFIDENCE..

oh ya'll probably talked about that this weekend and i never got caught up LOL

yea he borders on being too cocky but him a gwaan good man

esp when him packing like dis:

he's cocky alright!!

[dancehallquana 5]

On my first marriage I did the CR-1 and I waited to divorce until after we filed for the LOC. The rest is up to him now when it expires.

thats why i asked.. i mean on the k1 the first 90 days, its given that this MAY or MAY NOT work out and he/she COULD go back.. but after u've married OR if u do CR1.. should u feel obligated??

for me i guess it would depend on how big a jerk he was LOL

i wouldn't feel obligated...

you take a chance either way...same holds true if you marry someone who lives down the street from you...

U right about taking a chance but i think the consequences are a bit differnt w/ a LDR and divorcing b4 the 2 year requierement, someone down the street can just go back down the street LOL in this situation, someone has left their country and all they know, i think some would feel a bit more responsibility, not that they should tho

[finesse 3]

On my first marriage I did the CR-1 and I waited to divorce until after we filed for the LOC. The rest is up to him now when it expires.

thats why i asked.. i mean on the k1 the first 90 days, its given that this MAY or MAY NOT work out and he/she COULD go back.. but after u've married OR if u do CR1.. should u feel obligated??

for me i guess it would depend on how big a jerk he was LOL

i wouldn't feel obligated...

you take a chance either way...same holds true if you marry someone who lives down the street from you...

U right about taking a chance but i think the consequences are a bit differnt w/ a LDR and divorcing b4 the 2 year requierement, someone down the street can just go back down the street LOL in this situation, someone has left their country and all they know, i think some would feel a bit more responsibility, not that they should tho

why u a tink bout break-up anyway???

[dillon 6]

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY

SHELLY-ANN FRASER WON!!!!!!

KERRON CAME SECOND!!!!!

u chat bout di track and field??? man did ya'll see usain yesterday... wid him brite self.. im sorry.. mi tink him brite, but hey when u got world records.. i guess u can have CONFIDENCE..

oh ya'll probably talked about that this weekend and i never got caught up LOL

yea he borders on being too cocky but him a gwaan good man

esp when him packing like dis:

you are something else!

[sus 70]

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY

SHELLY-ANN FRASER WON!!!!!!

KERRON CAME SECOND!!!!!

u chat bout di track and field??? man did ya'll see usain yesterday... wid him brite self.. im sorry.. mi tink him brite, but hey when u got world records.. i guess u can have CONFIDENCE..

oh ya'll probably talked about that this weekend and i never got caught up LOL

yea he borders on being too cocky but him a gwaan good man

esp when him packing like dis:

Bunz! :rofl:

I am leaving work all - chat to you later when I get home - Have to stop and by toilet paper since I am dog sitting at for my never have tp in the house cousin!

[dancehallquana 5]

Ok.. i'm back from lunch and all I wanna do is SLEEP! I got the -itis

wha oonu fi do?? tink bout ya answa??? or mi question nuh juicy nuff?? ie nuh guh stawt nice war??

alright den.. who recycles?????

LOL Girl hush!! That was toooo funny!!

Anyway, as for your question... Well, if my marriage should not work out w/ Derron, I think that I would go through the motions for him to stay here. Now, we wouldn't be living together and we'd be free to do as we please, but honestly, I don't think he'd want to. I believe that he would go back home, at least that's what he says. Who knows... :thumbs:and I pray it never gets to that point .

IT WONT!!!

[*JG* 2]

Finese I could hug you right now. lol. You make me laugh. I will be checking in from time to time just gonna watch..

MsTee - we are a crazy group that pokes fun and takes some getting used to - But believe me, this thread is a HUGE stress reliever, and all joking aside - Some really lasting friendships have been formed - there are good people in here who will be the first to have your back, no matter how much ish we talk -

Reach out whenever you need help, even through PMs -

Thank you. My issue was never with you guys..

who di issue wid?

I said exactly what her issues was.....frustration with the process and meddling MIL.