Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[kcoyclay1 98]

Hi Jamaican Possie, Just stopping by to say hi. Have a blessed weekend.

[DaDa 1]

so glad u can share ur pregnancy struggles and joys now ja p.. and have a ticker.. LOL

Damn JAP yuh 18 weeks..... If you would have waited any longer yuh pickney would be here...

[My4rmylife 0]

lol @ Dillon & the fish

When Kimmy comes back, I am starting a Yardies at home and a farrin' who love animals thread. The rest of you fools are on your own!!!!

See. I also don't understand people who love them that much. Just don't get it.

It's something about the inbred unconditional love they give that gets me every time. I've seen some of my dogs and cats do some really amazing things in my lifetime. It's not something you can put into words though. At least, I can't. When you know, you know.

i love dogs and cats but i have developed allergies as a adult (had cats and dogs all my life) and both my kids are allergic.... so now we have reptiles my favorite

[wakeywakeup 1]

Belwin, that's awesome that he's interested in saving for the future, so you both are on one accord there.

JaP, Steven would be SOOOO EXCITED if I ever said "I'm pregnant." Meanwhile, I'd be crying.

nat..one post that we will turn into 100.. go right ahead!

Well, since you encouraged me... I'mma do like JaP did.

Did ANYONE ELSE find it a BIT strange that ___ came to the site to say hi the very day that ____ mentioned her. Now, I'm not saying that someone went & said "You'd better go check out VJ today; they're talking about you." BUT!!! I find it VERY coincidental.

I feel I need to clear up my earlier post.

I’m not mad at Jawi or anyone. I would never ruin my sister’s wedding day by not being there or forcing someone to be there she doesn’t want. Obviously, I mis- read some signals and that is my bad. I admit it was shocking to know she still feels so strongly but she feels how she feels and there is nothing I can do about that. I’m sure there are many others who feel the same.

Whether admitted or not most people encounter things that shakes their relationship to the core and it’s not always infidelity. It can be in the beginning, middle, or end but it happens and when it does, some choose to put it on the web, call folks, or take it to the Lord. I did all three and I’m listening to God and I know he is guiding my steps.

I realize I put my story on the net and for that I thank everyone for your opinions but they are just that - opinions. By the way, no one told me to come on the site today. I just wanted to come and say I was doing well and was happy.

Congratulations on all the approvals, births, and marriages I’ve missed.

I'm gonna watch Real Housewifes of ATL now. I heard it was good so I'll chat with ya'll later :-)

[My4rmylife 0]

hey ells.. i told everybody u was catching up.. LOL

well mrs.. good to see u, glad that part is over and done and on to a life of married bliss..of course i can't see the pics.. i will catch them later, sure everything went well tho

Yes, everything went good! The weather was nice in the mid-90s & the ceremony was very short but sweet at the dam. A handful of friends from the Bay Area showed up & even played drums after the ceremony for a little bit. We then went to my friend's yard where the reception was & I'm pretty sure everyone had a fun time. My aunt said that she's been to many weddings and this was the funnest ever! My parents were dancing together & I don't think I'd ever seen that before. The food was great (tri-tip, jerk chicken, rice & peas & cabbage salad), the mojitos, rum punch & champagne were flowing & we had the Jamaican music representing. It was very 'Jamerican'! I didn't know what our cake was going to be but gave ideas of what I did & didn't like....it ended up being this yummy white cake w/buttercream frosting & shredded coconut on the outside. It was all very simple but beautiful. If planning a wedding wasn't so stressful, I'd want to do it again because the party was so much fun!

thats wonderful im so happy all went well

[DaDa 1]

u know who di daddy is right?

bwaahaaaa

that's hilarious

congrats JaP!! I think i saw you alluding to it a while back but i didn't want to be mr obvious finesse and ask you

mi fix dat fi yuh!

thanks Bunz

That's too funny!!!

[DaDa 1]

Oh wow so your co-worker's doesn't look natural huh? Well at least you know what not to look for LOL. What does Roger think about the wig, what does he say at night when you take it off? Do you have a wig stand? Mr Philly was like what is that :blink: LOL then when I put the wig on it he was like :blink:

Philly your hair stories be having me bawling!!!! poor Mr. Philly. First the cats and now the hair. I tell you what next.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry3217549

help out unoo fellow yardie

[DaDa 1]

Belwin, that's awesome that he's interested in saving for the future, so you both are on one accord there.

JaP, Steven would be SOOOO EXCITED if I ever said "I'm pregnant." Meanwhile, I'd be crying.

nat..one post that we will turn into 100.. go right ahead!

Well, since you encouraged me... I'mma do like JaP did.

Did ANYONE ELSE find it a BIT strange that ___ came to the site to say hi the very day that ____ mentioned her. Now, I'm not saying that someone went & said "You'd better go check out VJ today; they're talking about you." BUT!!! I find it VERY coincidental.

Yes that did cross my mind too.

[Tosh Love 77]

Better there than here:

http://sohnio.com/files/images/dragon_penis.jpg

Too bad he could not tatoo a magnifying glass on it.

[My4rmylife 0]

Quana, I got you beat. My check was deposited into my account overnight last night. This morning I woke up, rolled over to the computer (Do you all keep your computers on your nightstand?), did some money transfers, bill payments, etc and by 8:15am, the paycheck was gone!

girl dont let me start

no, hubby doan like computa inna di bedroom. he a beat mi wid di belt if he catch mi...

Finesse...I hope it's a nasty spanking! And that he slathers you in oil first!

let me tell you girl, its wild......mi cyaan go into details bout it cuz if jaP and jawi a read it, they might a explode

I think the VJ ladies still waiting on their men need to take a collective trip to a waterpark to cool down the pums! Clearly folks are on FIYAH round yere an no likkle shower gone mek it cool aff!

lol :rofl: :rofl:

[887643again 0]

'Evenin everyone

[DaDa 1]

If dey use a shower head it will....

no it won't

Well den yuh nuh using yuh shower head right zeen.

Hi Jamaican Possie, Just stopping by to say hi. Have a blessed weekend.

Hey Kcoy (((waving))) How are you??

[DaDa 1]

Better there than here:

http://sohnio.com/files/images/dragon_penis.jpg

Too bad he could not tatoo a magnifying glass on it.

LOL!!!

[jawi876 2]

Well, since you encouraged me... I'mma do like JaP did.

Did ANYONE ELSE find it a BIT strange that ___ came to the site to say hi the very day that ____ mentioned her. Now, I'm not saying that someone went & said "You'd better go check out VJ today; they're talking about you." BUT!!! I find it VERY coincidental.

This is exactly the sh*t I was talking about that I cannot stand. We are all grown women (at least I thought we were). If you have a question about me...ask me.

My sister decided to put her business on here...I decided to post that I do not like or respect her husband...and I did not want him at my wedding. It is me and my husband's day. I thought she would think of my happiness just once since we have been family since the day she was born. But, I got tired of feeling guilty or feeling like I was breaking her heart by saying he wasn't welcome...so I conceded against my better judgement.

My sister has decided to stay friends with some women on this board that do not like me...that talk about me in PMs...she is aware of it...but decided to stay friends with them anyway. They are the same ones that I was talking about gossiping about her business off the boards...so maybe they went and said something to her...or maybe she just had some free time to look at the board and saw my comment.

I don't really care at this point. My sister knew how I felt about her husband...this was not news to her...no matter what she posted today. She has cut everyone off that doesn't agree with her marriage...including our mother...fine. I know I didn't do anything wrong and I am tired of being the one in the wrong for defending her...for supporting her...for wanting better for her. I loved her enough to try to get past my dislike of him because I wanted her at my wedding...because I didn't want to loose her. No one wants to be around him...and that is entirely his fault.

My sister was my best friend in the entire world and we used to be closer than any sisters could ever be...however, she has allowed this rift to grow between us because she wants people to accept them as a package deal. I cannot stand by and watch him treat her like he does. I am a very forgiving person...but so far he has not given me reason to feel he deserves her or my forgiveness. If I'm wrong for this, then I will deal with it with God.

I was not going to respond to her comment here because I thought it could be handled off line...but since you had to be "messy" as you put it...I'll deal with it in public. Nat, my comment was actually made yesterday...not today...but I didn't have anything to hide...and it was not anything she had not heard me say personally. So I didn't attack her.

I love my sister...but if I have to take him in order to be in her life...I will keep my distance. I tried to explain this very thing to my sister about posting all of her business. Now, it is something for you guys to talk about in hidden colors and PMs. I gave you more credit than that NatPat...I guess I was wrong. So hopefully this will answer your burning "messy" question and give all of you something else to gossip about. Truly sad.