Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[DaDa 1]

DaDa it was on another thread on this board

yea quanna, and she's saying he's JUST 34 like its something to brag about, that's just an indication that there are alot more babies to come

she did say though that they are on break, apparently the show started too many rumors

so what did he do.. i didn't really pay attention when ya'll was talking cuz i had never seen it..and still wouldn't have if my daughter hadn't been looking at kourtney and khloe.. lol.. she should have been philly's daughter, all the reality tv she watch..

i guess u can't help who u fall in love with..

what would ya'll do??

i feel so bad for her.. her mama must HATE that man..

if this is her FIRST marriage after all this time, he must have really swept her off her feet

Well my X has three kids and three babies momma's. To make matters worse he did this right after we broke up. So far it doesn’t bother me but maybe that is because I have a classroom myself I cant judge but I don't have a panel of babies fat hers either

[dancehallquana 5]

ok, who ave exciting weekend plans?

who ave a hot date?

Sat I have to go to the wedding of a co-worker - Her soon to be husband is an unemployed, recovering addict with 5 baby Mommas - Should be interesting.........

I ave a hot date on Sunday...............

does dj know?

Yup!

you little devil, you

LOL - my hot date is 11 - been promising my nephew all summer that I would take him to Six Flags New England -

i knew there had to be a catch.. ur a good girl..

[NatPatBen 3]

Quana, I got you beat. My check was deposited into my account overnight last night. This morning I woke up, rolled over to the computer (Do you all keep your computers on your nightstand?), did some money transfers, bill payments, etc and by 8:15am, the paycheck was gone!

[JAPrincess 27]

As for everyone on here I've prayed about my decision and I'm letting God guide me. So judge all you want I'm not a battered woman not mentally or phyically and I don't owe anyone an explantion for my life.

Wakey

NOBODY here lives your life or knows your heart.

I wish you all the best and I want to believe the best.

[dancehallquana 5]

Quana - You MUST go to Beres - Just don't feed the kids for a week - you'll have funds, lol! Even though you are not a roots girl, I think you would be so impressed with Kenyatta Hill too - he really is coming into his own, throwing some dancehall in there, even some soca -

i agree w/ u sus. LOL.. mi affi mek a way fi go see beres.. i love him!!!!!!!! just not liking the seats that are left at my concert hall.. i waited too long, but i hear no seat in this place is a bad one.. we'll see..

[dancehallquana 5]

Quana, I got you beat. My check was deposited into my account overnight last night. This morning I woke up, rolled over to the computer (Do you all keep your computers on your nightstand?), did some money transfers, bill payments, etc and by 8:15am, the paycheck was gone!

yeah u definately beat me.. i be trying to LOOK at it for a lil while . its crazy some of my bills end up late just cuz i didn't pay it.. i had the money.STUPID

[dancehallquana 5]

DaDa it was on another thread on this board

yea quanna, and she's saying he's JUST 34 like its something to brag about, that's just an indication that there are alot more babies to come

she did say though that they are on break, apparently the show started too many rumors

so what did he do.. i didn't really pay attention when ya'll was talking cuz i had never seen it..and still wouldn't have if my daughter hadn't been looking at kourtney and khloe.. lol.. she should have been philly's daughter, all the reality tv she watch..

i guess u can't help who u fall in love with..

what would ya'll do??

i feel so bad for her.. her mama must HATE that man..

if this is her FIRST marriage after all this time, he must have really swept her off her feet

Well my X has three kids and three babies momma's. To make matters worse he did this right after we broke up. So far it doesn’t bother me but maybe that is because I have a classroom myself I cant judge but I don't have a panel of babies fat hers either

thats just it.. i don't know..there may be no difference at all but to me alot of kids by fewer baby mamas or baby daddy's is alright

alot of women in ur life (or men) makes u look kind of unreliable, no foundation, but maybe he was just young and stupid

[DaDa 1]

Thanks JaE...I agreed to let him come to the wedding because she was more important to me than proving that I still can't stand the sight of him. As far as A...he has already made up his mind. He doesn't like him at all, or what he has done to my sister. He sid bab you know I don't deal with phockery...your sister deserves so much more than he is giving her. I could let everything go if he wasn't still doing things to tear her down...and she continues to make excuses for his behavior like a battered woman. That is the ONLY thing he hasn't put her through. It makes me sick to my stomach...and I feel so responsible.

Well I'm glad to know how you really feel sis. I'm so glad you and A have this magnificant relationships (NOW). You and he are truly blessed.

As for your feeling for D and us coming to the wedding. I definitely don't want to spoil your day but I do want to be there for you. I also feel it's important for my husband and myself to be around other happy and powerful couples so that we can continue to improve our marriage. If you don't want us to come, I understand.

As for everyone on here I've prayed about my decision and I'm letting God guide me. So judge all you want I'm not a battered woman not mentally or phyically and I don't owe anyone an explantion for my life.

No my dear you do not. It’s your life and you do as you want.

I will say that no matter what happens you two are sisters and I'm hoping you attend Jawi's wedding. My sis didn’t attend mines and well I regret it everyday and I hope she does too. For this one day no matter what your differences are I hope the two of you put them to the side and enjoy!!!!

[finesse 3]

Thanks JaE...I agreed to let him come to the wedding because she was more important to me than proving that I still can't stand the sight of him. As far as A...he has already made up his mind. He doesn't like him at all, or what he has done to my sister. He sid bab you know I don't deal with phockery...your sister deserves so much more than he is giving her. I could let everything go if he wasn't still doing things to tear her down...and she continues to make excuses for his behavior like a battered woman. That is the ONLY thing he hasn't put her through. It makes me sick to my stomach...and I feel so responsible.

Well I'm glad to know how you really feel sis. I'm so glad you and A have this magnificant relationships (NOW). You and he are truly blessed.

As for your feeling for D and us coming to the wedding. I definitely don't want to spoil your day but I do want to be there for you. I also feel it's important for my husband and myself to be around other happy and powerful couples so that we can continue to improve our marriage. If you don't want us to come, I understand.

As for everyone on here I've prayed about my decision and I'm letting God guide me. So judge all you want I'm not a battered woman not mentally or phyically and I don't owe anyone an explantion for my life.

you sure don't...and i truly don't believe anyone expects one either

however, i think when you (not u specifically, just everyone in general) put ur business out there...whether it is good, bad, sad, happy, or ugly, you have to be prepared for judgement and criticism....it is just what people do...people like to give their 2 cents. and in a way you are sort of asking for it by telling your story

you just have to know how to process the feedback you are given....look at it with open eyes and open ears and if the advice fits, then you may learn something but if someone is just being nasty or inappropriate, just disregard and move along

[phillyfashionista 8]

Yes, everything went good! The weather was nice in the mid-90s & the ceremony was very short but sweet at the dam. A handful of friends from the Bay Area showed up & even played drums after the ceremony for a little bit. We then went to my friend's yard where the reception was & I'm pretty sure everyone had a fun time. My aunt said that she's been to many weddings and this was the funnest ever! My parents were dancing together & I don't think I'd ever seen that before. The food was great (tri-tip, jerk chicken, rice & peas & cabbage salad), the mojitos, rum punch & champagne were flowing & we had the Jamaican music representing. It was very 'Jamerican'! I didn't know what our cake was going to be but gave ideas of what I did & didn't like....it ended up being this yummy white cake w/buttercream frosting & shredded coconut on the outside. It was all very simple but beautiful. If planning a wedding wasn't so stressful, I'd want to do it again because the party was so much fun!

Ells I love the pics you look fabulous congrats again. May the creator bless your union!

Girl I was laughing so hard I was crying, Steve is crazy!!! When the cop said "Step of the lawnmower you bout to get sprayed" I was done LMAO :rofl:

[Islandwoman 0]

don't u hate when all ur money is gone by monday.. man that happens to me EVERY weekend.. i need to do better..

beres will be here on the 30th.. i hope i am able to go.. my money is looking a bit funny to try and catch freddie macgregor 2moro, we'll see.. if not.. i have an African party i was invited to so we know that will be off the chain till 6am or so LOL

2night try to hit up my fav spot, they have moved and i havn't checked out the new location yet.. BAD VIP BAD VIP, maybe a movie??

sunday roger said he is going to church w/ me AGAIN.. yes AGAIN.. i think i forgot to tell ya'll that he went last sunday!!!!!!!!!!.. he did some odd jobs and had some pocket change and bought a nice lil outfit.. MY MAN CLEANS UP WELL!!!!!!!!!!! so he felt more comfy going to church, he said he liked it.. YAYYYYYYYYYY

Quana - You MUST go to Beres - Just don't feed the kids for a week - you'll have funds, lol! Even though you are not a roots girl, I think you would be so impressed with Kenyatta Hill too - he really is coming into his own, throwing some dancehall in there, even some soca -

I agree with Sus - I'm not a roots girl either but I LOVED LOVED Culture. And you can never go wrong with Beres.

[1luv 1]

Quana, I got you beat. My check was deposited into my account overnight last night. This morning I woke up, rolled over to the computer (Do you all keep your computers on your nightstand?), did some money transfers, bill payments, etc and by 8:15am, the paycheck was gone!

girl dont let me start

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

I wanted to go see Freddie McGregor who will be here on the 26th I believe, but with everything else going on I'm not going to be able to. Taurus is my splurge this month!

Wakey, please know that noone here is judging you or your relationship. You have to do whatever works for YOU and your husband, and whatever gives you peace of mind. Just be glad that you have the love of your sister and family to be there for you through all of what you may be going through (good and bad). Noone ever said that this journey, or any journey that we may take in life would be easy or cut and dry. Lord knows myself, and probably plenty of other people here and your life back home, know this. We just have to keep our faith steadfast in God (or whoever you may believe in), and use all of our experiences as teachable moments. Stay blessed, and don't be a stranger!

Edited August 14, 2009 by Mrs. Palmer

[finesse 3]

DaDa it was on another thread on this board

yea quanna, and she's saying he's JUST 34 like its something to brag about, that's just an indication that there are alot more babies to come

she did say though that they are on break, apparently the show started too many rumors

so what did he do.. i didn't really pay attention when ya'll was talking cuz i had never seen it..and still wouldn't have if my daughter hadn't been looking at kourtney and khloe.. lol.. she should have been philly's daughter, all the reality tv she watch..

i guess u can't help who u fall in love with..

what would ya'll do??

i feel so bad for her.. her mama must HATE that man..

if this is her FIRST marriage after all this time, he must have really swept her off her feet

Well my X has three kids and three babies momma's. To make matters worse he did this right after we broke up. So far it doesn’t bother me but maybe that is because I have a classroom myself I cant judge but I don't have a panel of babies fat hers either

the one with the big bamboo?

[NatPatBen 3]

you sure don't...and i truly don't believe anyone expects one either

however, i think when you (not u specifically, just everyone in general) put ur business out there...whether it is good, bad, sad, happy, or ugly, you have to be prepared for judgement and criticism....it is just what people do...people like to give their 2 cents. and in a way you are sort of asking for it by telling your story

you just have to know how to process the feedback you are given....look at it with open eyes and open ears and if the advice fits, then you may learn something but if someone is just being nasty or inappropriate, just disregard and move along

I had to go back and verify the submitter of that post.... I've never heard finesse sound so wise before. Great advice!