Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[*JG* 2]

why in the WORLD would someone get a tattoo right there:

That had to hurt like hell!

sus - u crazy ooman!!!

better put a warning up for Nat for that one...

I think the warning is in the title of the link

I agree with taking tattoos too far - they are definitely an art and an addiction - I have 4 of them - But none of them show unless I want them to show.

Same here. Except for the little sunflower on my ankle

[finesse 3]

ok, who ave exciting weekend plans?

who ave a hot date?

[*JG* 2]

ok, who ave exciting weekend plans?

who ave a hot date?

I'm going out tonight. Just not sure where yet. May be meeting some friends at a mexican restaurant for drinks. And, then I have a date later with a fireman.

Tomorrow and Sunday.....the pool, some shopping, and seeing Julie & Julia. Softball late Sunday night.

[sus 70]

ok, who ave exciting weekend plans?

who ave a hot date?

Sat I have to go to the wedding of a co-worker - Her soon to be husband is an unemployed, recovering addict with 5 baby Mommas - Should be interesting.........

I ave a hot date on Sunday...............

[DaDa 1]

Thank you for all the support and kindness. I will take the advice of keeping all the evidence. Similar events happened before our marriage and his excuse was he needed to experiment before getting married. In fact, I later found out whenever I went home to see my family, he looked for encounters and meetings with male and female. What pains me is he is completely satisfied in that department as he told me yet he looks for those encounters. I would not have married him if I knew that would be what he wanted to keep doing.

They would never find the body if I saw this!

What how did I miss this.. Who is cupcake?? Did Bunz find this on another board and bring it over here??

[dancehallquana 5]

speaking of baby mamas.. i looked at RHOA too buzy for the first time..

kandi man is 32 w/ FOUR baby mama's??? WOW..

i too think sheree is an instigator.. she know she was talking bout nene too..and then she gonna go put her hands on her.. she was being a bully

[DaDa 1]

ok, who ave exciting weekend plans?

who ave a hot date?

Sat I have to go to the wedding of a co-worker - Her soon to be husband is an unemployed, recovering addict with 5 baby Mommas - Should be interesting.........

I ave a hot date on Sunday...............

Wow would I love to attend this wedding. It sounds like something from Jerry Springer...

[DaDa 1]

speaking of baby mamas.. i looked at RHOA too buzy for the first time..

kandi man is 32 w/ FOUR baby mama's??? WOW..

i too think sheree is an instigator.. she know she was talking bout nene too..and then she gonna go put her hands on her.. she was being a bully

Hey Kim put her hands on her first. Plus Sheree didn't touch her she touched her wig... I like Sheree its Lisa I don't care for. She act s innoccent and she isnt.

Wow Quana you need to see what Lisa's husband did for her last week. I was like dang does he have a brother, uncle, dad or cousin?? I never knew men still did those types of things.

Dewitt is a trip. U see how he grabbed Kandi's breast and wanted to show her his feet??? He's too much.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

DaDa it was on another thread on this board

yea quanna, and she's saying he's JUST 34 like its something to brag about, that's just an indication that there are alot more babies to come

she did say though that they are on break, apparently the show started too many rumors

[finesse 3]

ok, who ave exciting weekend plans?

who ave a hot date?

Sat I have to go to the wedding of a co-worker - Her soon to be husband is an unemployed, recovering addict with 5 baby Mommas - Should be interesting.........

I ave a hot date on Sunday...............

does dj know?

[Ellsinlove 2]

Morning Yardies!

It's something about the inbred unconditional love they give that gets me every time. I've seen some of my dogs and cats do some really amazing things in my lifetime. It's not something you can put into words though. At least, I can't. When you know, you know.

I have had dogs growing up...but I never wanted the dog to sleep with me. When our last dog got sick and had to wear a diaper to stop nawing at her backside...I knew that I would never be able to stomach that stuff again.

As far as dogs go, I love them BUT, I'm really more of a 'dog lives outside' kinda person. If I had a dog, it would probably have a nice yard to run in & a very plush doghouse with bed but as far as staying inside, not so much. Just my preference. I'm a cat person though so within reason, a cat is allowed in & even at the foot of the bed (I love the purrs!). Just not on counter tops or sinks or other places designated for people. I enjoy animals & that unconditional love JG talks about but they're still animals.

Imma send all you animal haters some puppies and kittens

Do you choose to block this application or ignore all requests from this poster?

Yes, everything went good! The weather was nice in the mid-90s & the ceremony was very short but sweet at the dam. A handful of friends from the Bay Area showed up & even played drums after the ceremony for a little bit. We then went to my friend's yard where the reception was & I'm pretty sure everyone had a fun time. My aunt said that she's been to many weddings and this was the funnest ever! My parents were dancing together & I don't think I'd ever seen that before. The food was great (tri-tip, jerk chicken, rice & peas & cabbage salad), the mojitos, rum punch & champagne were flowing & we had the Jamaican music representing. It was very 'Jamerican'! I didn't know what our cake was going to be but gave ideas of what I did & didn't like....it ended up being this yummy white cake w/buttercream frosting & shredded coconut on the outside. It was all very simple but beautiful. If planning a wedding wasn't so stressful, I'd want to do it again because the party was so much fun!

Congratulations and you look very pretty and happy. I'm now in the stress out mode you were in earlier. 9/9/09 is coming up so fast. My dress should be back from alterations tomorrow. My birdcage veil and floral headpiece are absolutely beautiful...I can't wait to try everything on together...and I get to do it before A gets here. Woo-HOOOOO!!!

Thanks Jawi! Hopefully you won't go through any of the last-minute 'questioning' that I did. Of course, I think it's pretty normal for people to get the jitters before taking the big plunge. Now, I feel totally calm about being married. You'll be there soon too....the big day goes by so fast but hopefully it will be lots of fun for you as well!

Thanks JaE...I agreed to let him come to the wedding because she was more important to me than proving that I still can't stand the sight of him. As far as A...he has already made up his mind. He doesn't like him at all, or what he has done to my sister. He sid bab you know I don't deal with phockery...your sister deserves so much more than he is giving her. I could let everything go if he wasn't still doing things to tear her down...and she continues to make excuses for his behavior like a battered woman. That is the ONLY thing he hasn't put her through. It makes me sick to my stomach...and I feel so responsible.

You and me are alike it that respect. You are a little brasher than me though, I have learnt to hold back. I do get my point across, but tend to be a bit more subtle...More power to you though!

I agree...I'm trying to work on the brashness. I get so passionate about this stuff...I have to learn how to stop caring so much and just let this place be an outlet and a place to have fun.

Jawi, you have to try really hard to give yourself a break as far as feeling responsible for your sis. Of course you love her & feel fiercely protective but as adults, we are each ultimately responsible for our own decisions that we make. I don't know the back story so maybe I'll be talking out of my a$$ but if you feel bad because she knows him because of you, well, you can't take that all on yourself. Whatever the case may be, it's still her choice to stay in a relationship that doesn't honor her & sometimes people have to go through some ####### to learn a certain lesson in life & maybe this is what she needs to go through right now. Like JaEnglish says, you can only be there to help her when the $hit hits the fan.

And, yes, you have to remember this place is an outlet for fun & info & even people just venting. I think we all get to caring about these people behind the screen even if we've never met in person. (I all the time talk about my 'visa friends' & people are like 'huh'??) And you should definitely keep telling it like you see/feel it because that's what makes you special. If some of us can't take it, oh well. Just don't let it all get to you so much because as much as women like to 'save the world', we can't save everyone so sometimes, as I said above, people just have to go through it to learn what they need to at that time in their lives. I know you care & that's what I (we) love about you....just don't let it get you upset. You need to stay positive to keep that healing going!

[DaDa 1]

DaDa it was on another thread on this board

yea quanna, and she's saying he's JUST 34 like its something to brag about, that's just an indication that there are alot more babies to come

she did say though that they are on break, apparently the show started too many rumors

Figures.. C what happens when the world sees your happiness. I guess she proved her mom right.

[dancehallquana 5]

speaking of baby mamas.. i looked at RHOA too buzy for the first time..

kandi man is 32 w/ FOUR baby mama's??? WOW..

i too think sheree is an instigator.. she know she was talking bout nene too..and then she gonna go put her hands on her.. she was being a bully

Hey Kim put her hands on her first. Plus Sheree didn't touch her she touched her wig... I like Sheree its Lisa I don't care for. She act s innoccent and she isnt.

Wow Quana you need to see what Lisa's husband did for her last week. I was like dang does he have a brother, uncle, dad or cousin?? I never knew men still did those types of things.

Dewitt is a trip. U see how he grabbed Kandi's breast and wanted to show her his feet??? He's too much.

well this is just one episode i am seeing so i am not a good judge, but i don't like sheree.. she seems soo bougie and fake UGHHH.. and he friend oh my gosh.. both of them are too much

lisa rubs me good so far.. thats funny they trying to make sure they get a girl.. ppl w/ money can do ANYTHING.. i bet j lo did that too, doesn't she have boy and girl twins??? she said one whop and im thru..

dwight is just too dyam flaming.. i mean really, do u have to look up a woman's dress and say do u have on panies??? roger was laughing at him all night.. said why if a straight man did that.. it would be all kind of lawsuits..

[dancehallquana 5]

DaDa it was on another thread on this board

yea quanna, and she's saying he's JUST 34 like its something to brag about, that's just an indication that there are alot more babies to come

she did say though that they are on break, apparently the show started too many rumors

so what did he do.. i didn't really pay attention when ya'll was talking cuz i had never seen it..and still wouldn't have if my daughter hadn't been looking at kourtney and khloe.. lol.. she should have been philly's daughter, all the reality tv she watch..

i guess u can't help who u fall in love with..

what would ya'll do??

i feel so bad for her.. her mama must HATE that man..

if this is her FIRST marriage after all this time, he must have really swept her off her feet

[JAPrincess 27]

Morning Good People