Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[DaDa 1]

oh lawd, mi feelings hurt.....

Girl yuh needs ta learn how to post . U are forever taking up the whole board with your replies. I remember when I first started I always got attacked by the quotes police. Where are they when you need them???

[sus 70]

Gnight all - I am skipping outta work early to go to the ortho - Chat to you all later if I get back on!

I remember when I first started I always got attacked by the quotes police. Where are they when you need them???

Inna yaad

[DaDa 1]

nobody wants to hear it when they are in love.. u are right about that!!!!!!

they don't want to hear NOTHING negative and if u say something.. u are the know it all and think ur perfect and then if u don't say anything and it crumbles its WHY DIDNT U SAY ANYTHING..

cyaan win i tell ya..

Ugh Quana we're chatting bout Jawi not u sweetie!!! LOL

[dancehallquana 5]

who else wan break up?

who else wan divorce?

Can you divorce your kids?

Yes, it's called emancipation of a minor

Of course Sus I could count on you to know. LOL!

well, in my mamas day.. u could leave them on the doorstep of unknowing grandparents LOL she came back... eventually

[*JG* 2]

mi ago lef it too.. ca me tiyad of di wan finesse try han bully me.. mi hear she chat wid philly who try fi be all up in my face afta har chat dutty wuds bout me wid finesse and mi hear from a very reliable source dat bunzy was inna di yaad looking fa mi man when har man lef when she saw how sweet him look

wait til you hear bout what jg wid ur man yesterday when u were at work...

you really a be gone den

Finesse......

[phillyfashionista 8]

cranberry flavored water has to be the best thing since sliced bread!!

get one of these ice cold and feel like i'm in heaven

Bunz they are really good

i mean, is it really that serious? does visa journey yardie thread part 17 play such a huge role in people dem life that they are sickened and disgusted by what people post here?

this site is fun....for me, it is more entertainment than anything else. yes, i have gotten some great and valuable advice here. the site and all of you who were around when i first filed were instrumental in helping me do the paperwork and getting through it. i try to offer advice to anyone who is going through something i went through. i enjoy reading all of your posts.

but at the end of the day, vj really has no impact on my life. if anyone wan talk shyt about me, go ahead, i am big ooman, i can take it...

if this isn't the place for you, then BOUNCE already.....there is a billion trillion websites out there to pass the time

Finesse das wha mi a seh, seriously some people need fi get a life if they live to come pon VJ to find fault wid people! JUST SAD!!!!!

I'm on page 102, but finesse is KILLING ME. I'm so glad I have my own office, so people can't hear me laughing.

I also am clueless about what Jawi is talking about, about the private PMs. I only get PMs telling me 1) Steven & I look good together (Yes, thank you. ), 2) Questions about the process, and 3) well wishes from people who have been following my progress. No drama PMs here!

LOL NAT @ the PMS of u and Steve looking good

[dancehallquana 5]

nobody wants to hear it when they are in love.. u are right about that!!!!!!

they don't want to hear NOTHING negative and if u say something.. u are the know it all and think ur perfect and then if u don't say anything and it crumbles its WHY DIDNT U SAY ANYTHING..

cyaan win i tell ya..

Ugh Quana we're chatting bout Jawi not u sweetie!!! LOL

oh my bad.. im sure thats been said bout her too LOL

[finesse 3]

didn't you say you were not going to post here anymore?

When I leave VJ, it will be when I DECIDE to leave VJ. I like you Finesse, so please low ie.

What I bolded disgusts me - there is much on this site that is so petty and juvenile - the Yardie thread has pretty much always been one of the areas where people keep it real - we might not agree, but I thought we were all grownups? Why resort to the petty childish ish?

Jawi, you have been one of my rocks through my struggles - You don't pull punches, but what you say comes with love and support - which has been much appreciated.

Thank you Sus...I feel the same about you. I rarely use PM because if I have something to say...I'm going to say it. I have been trying to work on my temperment and things I say. There is a lot of phockery on this board...which is why I am deciding to leave. When I decide to leave Finesse. You can feel free to skip or block my posts until then.

i didn't even know that went on

surely jawi you're not gonna let what a couple ppl say deter you

but then again i understand your stance

Oh there is a lot of backbiting and bull posted in PMs...I know that for a fact. I can't stand cowards. If you have a problem with me...tell me and we can squash it or roll with it.

First Jawi, I'm so sorry to hear about that girl - that is so young to lose life. I'm like A ....I can't get myself into that church and if I do, I'm in the back. The sadness there will be unbearable.

My opinion re: E - A (or you) should tell him. You know how Jamaica rolls and he is going to find out almost immediately after A steps on that plane. Better to hear it from people he cares about than someone who is gossiping. Just my two cents....

I told E before I even got involved with A. We were friends...but I let him know that I wanted to pursue more than friendship with A. He went to NY...and I lost touch with him. I haven't seen him in 5 years. So, A will have to be the one to tell him. He said that it makes him look like a possy for stepping to me in the first place...but he couldn't walk away from me or the chemistry.

I am appalled I can't believe it! People nuh have nothing betta fi do then chat chat about posts????? MI cyan imagine what people must seh bout my posts dayum shame! Makes mi think!

Jawi do you!!!

You are fine. It's me...if a Jamaican woman posted the same thing I post...these punk b*tches would be eating out of their as$es...but because I'm not Jamaican...they feel free to hate on me.

Jawi, you have been one of my rocks through my struggles - You don't pull punches, but what you say comes with love and support - which has been much appreciated.

(Hand-in-the-air waving) DITTO to what Sus said!!!

and you know it.

finesse yuh noh easy

Thanks Quana, I am still a "newbie" here so Imma try not to take it personal.

Jawi, only you know what's best for you.

JaPrincess...it is not personal against you. I can recall a time when your smart little comments to me would have set me off. I like you so I shrugged them off. Again my decision has nothing to do with you singularly.

i mean, is it really that serious? does visa journey yardie thread part 17 play such a huge role in people dem life that they are sickened and disgusted by what people post here?

this site is fun....for me, it is more entertainment than anything else. yes, i have gotten some great and valuable advice here. the site and all of you who were around when i first filed were instrumental in helping me do the paperwork and getting through it. i try to offer advice to anyone who is going through something i went through. i enjoy reading all of your posts.

but at the end of the day, vj really has no impact on my life. if anyone wan talk shyt about me, go ahead, i am big ooman, i can take it...

if this isn't the place for you, then BOUNCE already.....there is a billion trillion websites out there to pass the time

When you start caring about the people behind the screen then yes...you can be sickened and disgusted by what gets posted here, and real friendships do have an impact on your life.

I'm choosing to leave not because of people talking about me...I'm a big ooman too...as big as they come. I am choosing to leave because I can't continue to bite my tongue to appease some people that want to live in a fake as$ bubble...then come back later and say why didn't anybody say something or I got used/duped for a greencard. I'm tired of watching women get played or hurt...and not being able to say something because then the majority wants to burn me at the stake.

Little girl you really don't know who you are dealing with right now. I'm really trying to restrain myself from responding to your smart as$ little comments about "bounce already and different websites to pass my time." Mi nuh start war but mi nuh run frum dem eidda!

Like I said earlier...when I decide to leave VJ I will LEAVE...you can put my posts on ignore FINESSE. However, I will continue to post until I decide I no longer want to post.

You think you can tangle with me...try me. Like I said before I like you...but don't keep trying my newfound temperment either. You are the same one that is afraid to tell the neighbors to leave so you can phock your husband in peace right?

Jawi vs KISS MY AS$ FINESSE ding ding ding.

mi like yuh too jawi....ding ding ding

[*JG* 2]

mi ago lef it too.. ca me tiyad of di wan finesse try han bully me.. mi hear she chat wid philly who try fi be all up in my face afta har chat dutty wuds bout me wid finesse and mi hear from a very reliable source dat bunzy was inna di yaad looking fa mi man when har man lef when she saw how sweet him look

wait til you hear bout what jg wid ur man yesterday when u were at work...

you really a be gone den

Dats why the police were at her house - the speeding ticket is a ruse!

OMG....if so, let me know how. At least until they are out of the teenage years.

So, I forgot to tell you guys.....Driving home last night. When I turn on the street by my house, I see a cop with lights on. Drive around him cause he's blocking the street and what do I see? My son sitting in the car he has pulled over and is giving a ticket to. I texted him and I said, see why you shouldn't speed dumbass. He texts me back, how you know. I said I know everything.

When I ask him how fast he was going, he says, I don't know, maybe 50. Depending on where he got caught at (and he's unclear on this part), it was either a 30 or a 40 mph zone.

Did you tell the cop to stand by while you murdered him?

First of all, I like FIREMEN, not cops.

And, yeah, I was ready to kill him. I rode with him Monday night and I thought I was going to die. Told him to slow down during that very stretch of road.

[finesse 3]

for the record....the neighbors usually join in...ding ding ding

[DaDa 1]

how do you know though when someone is using someone just by what they post?

i assume more intimate details are shared under the quiet

i haven't seen anyone post here who i believe in my gut is being led into a relationship for the wrong reason

Bunz, there are certain details that someone can post which may lead people to think that is the case - Although no one knows but the two people in the situation - I know there have been situations where I have been suspicious - either based on posts made, or from knowing the SO / his friends, etc... I pray to God that I am wrong - But everyone has to live their life and follow their own path - all we can do is be here to support, whether good or bad -

Ok Sus I'm guilty I talked about you in PM.. I told someone I think it was Newly that DJ is really hot ....

There I said it .....

[dancehallquana 5]

mi ago lef it too.. ca me tiyad of di wan finesse try han bully me.. mi hear she chat wid philly who try fi be all up in my face afta har chat dutty wuds bout me wid finesse and mi hear from a very reliable source dat bunzy was inna di yaad looking fa mi man when har man lef when she saw how sweet him look

wait til you hear bout what jg wid ur man yesterday when u were at work...

you really a be gone den

jg,,, u already have 2 men DYAM.. lef mine alone.. dats alright.. mi a give him a whole bunch of pickney so him luv mi more.. ah dyam, my tubes tied.. HELP.. mi muss keep mi jamaican man!!!!!

[*JG* 2]

didn't you say you were not going to post here anymore?

When I leave VJ, it will be when I DECIDE to leave VJ. I like you Finesse, so please low ie.

What I bolded disgusts me - there is much on this site that is so petty and juvenile - the Yardie thread has pretty much always been one of the areas where people keep it real - we might not agree, but I thought we were all grownups? Why resort to the petty childish ish?

Jawi, you have been one of my rocks through my struggles - You don't pull punches, but what you say comes with love and support - which has been much appreciated.

Thank you Sus...I feel the same about you. I rarely use PM because if I have something to say...I'm going to say it. I have been trying to work on my temperment and things I say. There is a lot of phockery on this board...which is why I am deciding to leave. When I decide to leave Finesse. You can feel free to skip or block my posts until then.

i didn't even know that went on

surely jawi you're not gonna let what a couple ppl say deter you

but then again i understand your stance

Oh there is a lot of backbiting and bull posted in PMs...I know that for a fact. I can't stand cowards. If you have a problem with me...tell me and we can squash it or roll with it.

First Jawi, I'm so sorry to hear about that girl - that is so young to lose life. I'm like A ....I can't get myself into that church and if I do, I'm in the back. The sadness there will be unbearable.

My opinion re: E - A (or you) should tell him. You know how Jamaica rolls and he is going to find out almost immediately after A steps on that plane. Better to hear it from people he cares about than someone who is gossiping. Just my two cents....

I told E before I even got involved with A. We were friends...but I let him know that I wanted to pursue more than friendship with A. He went to NY...and I lost touch with him. I haven't seen him in 5 years. So, A will have to be the one to tell him. He said that it makes him look like a possy for stepping to me in the first place...but he couldn't walk away from me or the chemistry.

I am appalled I can't believe it! People nuh have nothing betta fi do then chat chat about posts????? MI cyan imagine what people must seh bout my posts dayum shame! Makes mi think!

Jawi do you!!!

You are fine. It's me...if a Jamaican woman posted the same thing I post...these punk b*tches would be eating out of their as$es...but because I'm not Jamaican...they feel free to hate on me.

Jawi, you have been one of my rocks through my struggles - You don't pull punches, but what you say comes with love and support - which has been much appreciated.

(Hand-in-the-air waving) DITTO to what Sus said!!!

and you know it.

finesse yuh noh easy

Thanks Quana, I am still a "newbie" here so Imma try not to take it personal.

Jawi, only you know what's best for you.

JaPrincess...it is not personal against you. I can recall a time when your smart little comments to me would have set me off. I like you so I shrugged them off. Again my decision has nothing to do with you singularly.

i mean, is it really that serious? does visa journey yardie thread part 17 play such a huge role in people dem life that they are sickened and disgusted by what people post here?

this site is fun....for me, it is more entertainment than anything else. yes, i have gotten some great and valuable advice here. the site and all of you who were around when i first filed were instrumental in helping me do the paperwork and getting through it. i try to offer advice to anyone who is going through something i went through. i enjoy reading all of your posts.

but at the end of the day, vj really has no impact on my life. if anyone wan talk shyt about me, go ahead, i am big ooman, i can take it...

if this isn't the place for you, then BOUNCE already.....there is a billion trillion websites out there to pass the time

When you start caring about the people behind the screen then yes...you can be sickened and disgusted by what gets posted here, and real friendships do have an impact on your life.

I'm choosing to leave not because of people talking about me...I'm a big ooman too...as big as they come. I am choosing to leave because I can't continue to bite my tongue to appease some people that want to live in a fake as$ bubble...then come back later and say why didn't anybody say something or I got used/duped for a greencard. I'm tired of watching women get played or hurt...and not being able to say something because then the majority wants to burn me at the stake.

Little girl you really don't know who you are dealing with right now. I'm really trying to restrain myself from responding to your smart as$ little comments about "bounce already and different websites to pass my time." Mi nuh start war but mi nuh run frum dem eidda!

Like I said earlier...when I decide to leave VJ I will LEAVE...you can put my posts on ignore FINESSE. However, I will continue to post until I decide I no longer want to post.

You think you can tangle with me...try me. Like I said before I like you...but don't keep trying my newfound temperment either. You are the same one that is afraid to tell the neighbors to leave so you can phock your husband in peace right?

Jawi vs KISS MY AS$ FINESSE ding ding ding.

You know, that's one reason why I didn't really tell my story on here for a while. I didn't want to hear the comments about being duped for a green card. In the end, I thought it was the right thing to do no matter what people had to say. I didn't get duped for anything. We just didn't get along in the end. We had differences of opinions, morals, whatever you want to call it.

If I really thought I was duped, then I sure as hell would've wanted someone to point it out to me.

[finesse 3]

oh lawd, mi feelings hurt.....

Girl yuh needs ta learn how to post . U are forever taking up the whole board with your replies. I remember when I first started I always got attacked by the quotes police. Where are they when you need them???

teach mi

[DaDa 1]

ok, who else wan leave vj?

Me!!! I'm done with you woman that only love fine looking, funny talking, fresh food eating reggae music listenign men..